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I’ve been on a website called girlsaskguys.com or GAG for short but a few months ago I decided to quite for good
due to the female ass kissing on there etc. When I was a full time member I always felt I wasn’t good looking
enough and always had self esteem/body issues I would look in the mirror and think I was just to ugly for women
to date. The catch though is I was told by multiple women/girls I wasn’t ugly and it was all in my head? But when
I’m in public I get ignored. I just hate being told I’m good looking to date online but not in person? Yes I will admit
I’m shy and lack self confidence but not all the time. I just hate being 29 and a virgin. I want to lose it so badly
but refuse to sleep or having to pay a hooker. I do have morals lol. I’m just sick of going through life never dating
because of my problem please help. I apologize for mentioning any website/s.
Anonymous27I’ll firstly say, that you are not a loser. Don’t ever let a woman make you think that you are.
Two, getting ignored by western woman is standard nowadays, and you are not alone whatsoever. The key is to go your own way and ignore them back, you cannot go chasing these people that are making you feel like s~~~.
And hey man, there are some hot f~~~ing escorts out there (not hookers lol), and no strings attached, morals..man I would say you have more morals to go f~~~ whoever, than to get married, give away all your self-respect and dignity, money, and freedom, and allow some woman to control your life. This site is about going your own way in general, not dating advice..that said, once you decide that woman are no longer important to you, you will come to spend more time on working on and improving yourself, then woman will come, for what they need to be there for, a good time, and that’s it, and that’s all..this is simply my opinion though.
There are many many great guys here that have felt the same as you and will give you some excellent advice I am sure soon.
LONG LIVE MGTOW
That’s the thing, OP. That’s just the thing. You should not have to feel like a loser just because these c~~~s don’t give you the time of day. It’s a very common reason for a man to feel like a loser. But I have come to learn that it’s total bulls~~~ to think that way.
Consider yourself lucky that you have not had a woman enter your life. Sex, is just that, sex. And that is the only thing that you need from a Woman. Don’t make the mistake of thinking you need anything more from a woman besides sex. Believe me, for many years I thought that I needed a woman for love and companionship. At 40 now I realize I do not need that. I have guy friends for companionship and sharing hobbies and interests. A woman’s sole purpose for a man is to provide sex for him. That’s it. Trust me I didn’t always think this way. Believe it or not I am not bitter. I simply DON’T CARE for women for anything other than sex. Again, I didn’t always think this way. I do now though.
Why do I think this way? Because, although I do admit I would like to have a woman in my life for love and companionship (in a fantasy world, not the real world), I realize that it’s ALL BULLS~~~. It is simply not worth it. The s~~~ that you have to go through when you have a girlfriend or a wife is just NOT worth it at all. Think about it. You marry some really cute girl……….before you know it she ain’t so cute anymore. And then you spend the rest of your life with some nagging bitch who you support. This feminist s~~~, let’s not kid ourselves I know women who are feminists yet THEIR HUSBANDS are the ones who support them. Without their husbands, they would be on the street. Do you really want to come home to a fat disgusting bitch everyday for the rest of your life (they all get fat once they trap you). Even if she doesn’t become fat, by some miracle, actually all the worse. She will be a hot cougar and easily get guys while you are at work.
I have never been married so how do I know that marriage sucks? Easy, I have two parents right? I see how it is. Not only that but every guy I’ve ever known that got married is pretty much living a f~~~ing lousy life. The only way that they make their lives better is by going to prostitutes, I ain’t even kidding. That’s their only way that they know of to make their lives f~~~ing tolerable. By getting that side pussy every now and then.
Every girlfriend I have ever had has tried to CHANGE me. They were not happy with me for one reason or another. So needless to say it never lasted long, because I don’t play that s~~~.
Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.
Thanks guys I just hate having to take charge, having to be the
one who has to do the approaching and face rejection. I know
if I were female and were 350lbs I’d still get dates. How do I
know? My friends brother GF is overweight never helps him
and smells like low tide according to my friend when you get
close enough. And yet she landed a guy. Just last week my aunts
brother got married at 54 we’re not related BTW. Everyone thought
he was gay well except me. So if he landed someone at 54 I guess I
have a chance. Also for some strange reason my sister thinks his wife
is a man lol. She said she looks like a transvestite?
From the very first moment! they’re watching outta the corner of their eye to see if you look at them at all. When engaged decades ago, my now ex would get all sorts of ticked that I didn’t notice females checking me out. IT WASN’T me nor my average looks. My signal became a tap on my wrist to remind her the very same females, when I was single, if asked, “Excuse me, what time is it?” had a reaction akin to, “kiss my ass you asshole.” The only thing these creatures are trying to do is get the male to glance to prove to his partner, “see, I could have his DNA if I wanted.”
"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."
So if he landed someone at 54 I guess I have a chance.
Be careful what you wish for…
From the very first moment! they’re watching outta the corner of their eye to see if you look at them at all. When engaged decades ago, my now ex would get all sorts of ticked that I didn’t notice females checking me out. IT WASN’T me nor my average looks. My signal became a tap on my wrist to remind her the very same females, when I was single, if asked, “Excuse me, what time is it?” had a reaction akin to, “kiss my ass you asshole.” The only thing these creatures are trying to do is get the male to glance to prove to his partner, “see, I could have his DNA if I wanted.”
Damn that was harsh. Its reading things like that,that make me afraid to say hello to a women. Knowing feminazi’s even saying or giving a women a complement is now considered a form of sexual harassment. I kid you not there’s a youtube video.
They’ve made their bed. Now they can sleep in it, with their cats.
It’s generally not a good idea to throw out phrases like, “I feel
"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."
When I was a full time member I always felt I wasn’t good looking enough and always had self esteem/body issues I would look in the mirror and think I was just to ugly for women to date.
Man, I wish I could find a way to make you see how it’s not your problem. ITS NOT YOUR FAULT OR YOUR PROBLEM. The idea of “online dating” is bulls~~~. It’s just online EMAILING. dating happens in the real world – where there is hair to smell and boobs to fondle. The first thing I would recommend is a simple change in your outlook – because you are of the opinion that you need to be good enough for them. You are much too interested in their opinion and approval.
Here’s how to get over it FAST:’
Remind yourself . You don’t know her yet.
Therefore she doesn’t MEAN anything to you yet.
And since she doesn’t mean anything to you ……
Her “rejection” can;’t possibly mean anything to you either.You follow? It’s just a simple switch in perception and all that anxiety about not being “good looking” / rich / or good enough for them vanishes on the spot. Until you have determined that a girl is good enough for YOU, don’t give a S~~~ about what women like, don’t like, want, or don’t want. Until she means something to you, she means nothing to you.
And that’s not up to YOU. That’s up to HER.
You should not even CARE about her disqualifiers.
Your qualifiers are all that matters.Its really not as gloomy for you as you are led to believe.
If you want to meet and date women, get off line. You don’t want to interact with women online. They are not there to meet men or develop any kind of meaningful bond. They are S~~~ at that. They are there for disposable attention, validation and to go window shopping and to throw emails into the garbage thinking they are so fabulous. Online women don’t exist.
Try a simple adjustment in your perception and only care if you like HER – and determine if she is good enough for YOU.
Forget trying to be good enough for her. Forget it.I watched a video at youtube once, and there was a line underneath it from a commenter I will never forget:
“I used to feel really bad about not being good looking or enough of a chick magnet for women to date or marry….
But now I am inclined to CELEBRATE it.”He thought exactly like you did. But now he’s GLAD.
Because every woman who is not interested in you is actually doing you a FAVOR.That’s not bulls~~~.
Welcome to the forums.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.Try doing other things with your life rather than obsessing over getting laid. Its nice but nothing compared blasting a coke tin with high voltage electricity or flying a plane.
A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!
I’m having an epiphany as iIget older: all that LOVE AND ACCEPT YOURSELF stuff is TRUE (iIknow its sounds cheezy), but im actually getting to the point where I have weaned myself off of female validation(well not totally, but significantly). If they smell that you need their validation and love, then they treat you like you are a lower class human.
I’ve gotten to the point where now all I truly “need” from a woman is sex, I don’t need her love or validation to boost my esteem.
What worked for me? Is seriously consoling myself, listening to myself, being the shoulder to lean on and not being ashamed of my insecurities , fears etc… basically being a mother/father to my own inner hurt and pain and insecurity. YOU HAVE TO BE THE CARING PERSON TO YOURSELF INSTEAD OF EXPECTING WOMEN TO BE THERE FOR YOU, otherwise your setting yourself up. Also learn to distance yourself from your emotions and thoughts so they don’t overwhelm you (meditation).
Get deep into a hobby, find out what you like to FEEL and then do things that create that feeling .Note: approval does not make you feel real love, its just a temporary ego stroke…that leaves you dependent on even more external validation which is like an addictive cycle.
If you want to get laid sooner:
#1 have your own apt and car
#2 You’ll probably have to get a girl that’s like a 5.3 or 6 in looks
#3 Invite her over to watch a movie i…turn out the lights, move closer but leave time gaps in between and conversate to warm her up.
switch between sweetness and playful assholery back and forth
#4 Cuddle, then start grabbbin’…keep going!
I’m having an epiphany as iIget older: all that LOVE AND ACCEPT YOURSELF stuff is TRUE
Yep.
Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
And remember that old truth. The f~~~in you get ain’t worth the f~~~in you get.
Anonymous421st ya get laid, then ya get f~~~ed!
GAG sounds like the perfect name for that place.
There is no shame in being a virgin. As far as morals go, why not pay a hooker? There are two differences between a hooker and girl you wold date.
1. The hooker is up front and honest about her price.
2. She’ll do the job right.
Women have no morals, code, ethics or honor. Improvise, adapt and overcome my friend.
Fuck this planet.
Anonymous42Women have no morals, code, ethics or honor. Improvise, adapt and overcome my friend.
May I elaborate…. Women “are” no morals, code, ethics, or honor!
Why do you think things are all f~~~ed up? We keep saying “big brother”, but that’s not the case, not any more, we have “BIG SISTER”.
I don’t know about any of you guys, but I never had to deal with sisters(sheeewie) let alone BIG SISTER! f~~~ that! Every guy I ever met that was surrounded by modern feminist girls, was all f~~~ed up in the head! It’s like they were in shell-shock, and didn’t even know it. That’s the real cost of feminism, it destroys a man’s spirit, makes him docile, easy to manipulate.
Now with men being evicted from the household, ordered to cover the expenses, pay for any children, and find a new place to live, and not have any assistance; it’s raw f~~~ing deal!
I encourage each and every man to examine the facts, explore the manisphere, do the homework, then prepare for the most brutal awakening; BIG SISTER’S now in charge! she’s a communist by nature, she can’t help it, it’s HER NATURE! That’s why men have suffered like never before! Our Grandfathers, Great grandfathers, and Great Great Grandfathers would “NEVER” have tolerated this madness!
We’re MGTOW, the spirit of our grandfathers, doing exactly what they would have done! Driving this civilization straight into the ground! We’re on a mission to drive BIG SISTER down on her knees, begging for the assistance of a man, not mandating the f~~~ing law to force the man to serve her f~~~ed up desires!On a personal note; I took it a step farther, “level 5”, I own my own judicially seized property, I am living proof of executive and judicial corruption, a government of criminal reckless endangerment on human life. I’m securing my future by allowing my “legally f~~~ed to no end property” to fall into tax title, and become forever worthless to this corrupted society. I will not be able to negotiate any loans on this property, therefore never a mortgage agreement, therefore impossible to foreclose, therefore not another dime of interest to any bank, EVER! The most anyone can do is attach a lean on the sale, including the municipalities “responsible for this destruction”.
The Government bailouts were for everyone accept the common man, he gets the bill; new fire-stations, all kinds of municipal expansions, including education; while where I live, and many, many other places, continue on an endless decline, a state of absolute destruction, including moral, ethical, and legal deterioration. A legal black hole hell!
The “day” these “deteriorated ruins of Brookhaven Association, Inc.” A Massachusetts Corporation, claims human life, I hereby accuse, and charge this established government, of collective premeditated murder. Committed on and after a long train of reckless abuse, criminal activity, all culminating in a conspiracy to criminally and recklessly endanger human life. Throw that one in BIG SISTER’S LAP!Someone had to pull the pin on this governmental grenade! May a well be me! Level f~~~ing 5!
Anonymous11I just hate having to take charge, having to be the one who has to do the approaching and face rejection
AfraidOfDyingAlone: From your handle I am inferring that you are fearful of being alone. This is a dangerous fear for you as it makes you very vulnerable to predatory women.
As the other brothers have stated, one must never allow a woman’s words or actions to define one’s self image.
They are notoriously deceitful manipulators for the most part so one should never give any credence to anything one does or says. Accept that you are never in charge of this process. A woman simply picks her fancy of the moment from her universe of orbiters. Even the vaunted alphas are not in charge, they only know the game. A land whale has more SMV than your average man. The cold hard fact is that you are playing a game with loaded dice. You as a man are a mark. The only thing you can control is yourself and your reactions to situations. This is how you gain control. You will never control a woman no matter what some PUA says his method can do.
You are not a loser. I’ll tell who would be a loser. It’s some random 29 year old who married his NAWALT at age 20. He’s a winner, supposedly. Anyway, our poor sap ticked off his now 40 lbs overweight NAWALT who has summoned forth from the social media cloud of orbiters her beta blue piller second high school boy friend, and he has been banging her brains out for a year. She’s now knocked up by another man, and her husband has not a clue. This was a hypothetical tale drawn from real events, of course. However, you are not that man so be thankful. Women are a bucket load of problems and complications. I used to want one for myself when I was your age very badly. In fact, it even looked like she and I would be getting married. In the blink of an eye, I was out on my ass in the cold.
As for approaching, I’ve found that if I ever have to work for pussy I won’t ever get it. I only get pussy when I do nothing and let them come to me. Learn how to read whenever one is attracted to you. There’s now a target with much higher chances of getting you fleeced later on down the road should you choose not to hit and get. A woman WILL let you know if she is interested. Again, do not waste your precious time on women who do not reciprocate. As for rejection, hey, they just missed out on a good opportunity to have a great guy. No f~~~s to give. No skin off your back.
Of course, I am obligated to warn you of the risks inherent in associating with women. Please peruse the site for information.
Be thankful for your freedom and not ashamed of your virtue.
I know this topic is a week old but I hope you’re gonna see it. Mate, you ARE NOT A LOSER. Hookers? What’s the problem? Don’t get a junkie one. Find one and do the business. This myth of waiting for the right person or the first time has to be amazing is utter nonsense. Many men from all walks of life and looking like whatever are going to and do visit hookers. Just be careful is all I’d say. Sometimes getting it out of the way relaxes you and there can’t be any harm in that. As for the dating stuff…don’t join any of them. You’re getting judged on words and pictures. It’s even tougher than approaching a woman in the club. I tired it, got ignored, left it, met someone anyway (who turned out to be a c~~~) but hey, it only took me seven years to find out. Anyway, you aren’t a loser. You’re here, with US, and we’re all in it together.
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