i dont know how to write this

[Anonymous 43]

I hurt a friend, I was thoughtless, irresponsible and reckless this weekend. Clearly I need to change my behavior, and reevaluate my situation.

I don’t know how to fix the damage I have caused, and if this costs me the closest friendship I have had in a very long time, then I fully deserve what I get.

I definitely do not deserve to be in the company of good men like you.

I made my friend feel ashamed and I can’t believe I did this to him. I beg your forgiveness, but if not granted, I understand. I am unworthy. One thing I admire about the men here is their sense of honor. I am not honorable. perhaps after some deep reflection and sufficient time has passed I will return.

A central tenet of this site is trust. I failed to uphold this, and I regret my poor judgment and lack of discretion. I can not undo what I have done, but I can work on not doing this again. I am sorry Oldschool. I have made a grievous error. I am sorry to all here. Betraying one means betraying all.

[Anonymous 42]

You can start by getting me a Lamborghini! F~~~ Old School! I’ll do all the feelz good for him!

VROOM VROOM VROOM!!!

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

Don’t tell me you got him pregnant??? Then you would be persona non-grata around here.

We forgive you, now answer me something important like, why can’t women be friends with men?

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[ghostParticipant]

This is not very helpful. If you don’t care to state what you actually did, then why even write this?

[Chaff/FlareParticipant 3235]

Did you f~~~ his best friend, take his kids and leave him penny less?

When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.

[WallyParticipant]

Buy him a steak, steak solves a lot of problems. Seriously you apologized dude, we know you, I’m sure he will forgive you.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[NerdTunnelerParticipant]

Get over it. Dont be too serious guys. We got enough s~~~ from our ex. We got our bad days, and we got our crazy days while we are detoxing from the plantation… Dont make it too weird…

I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

[Anonymous 6]

Mr. OldSchool may not want this aired out in a public way. Remember that gentlemen. His permission is absolutely necessary for this to proceed with any specificity. Respect is a big part of Honor. Respect still needs to be maintained after dishonorable behavior has been displayed. You go to your friend in PRIVATE and deal with it that way. Once he has AGREED that you can talk about it publicly then and only then do you do this.

[foghornleghornParticipant 3449]

Did you take his mother out to a moderate seafood dinner, take her home and never call her again?

[Maraudrz1Participant 2250]

You should have stated just what it was you did to him that caused you such shame. Feeling that shame shows that you are,indeed, an honorable man. An honorable man that made a mistake. Since whatever it was you did to a man might be talked out. Try to contact him and apologize. Be sincere with your apology, don’t try to beat around the bush as it were. Be direct and succinct. Tell him you have learned from your mistake and will endeavor to never repeat it. If he really is a good friend he will forgive you depending on the severity of the offense. If he at first refuses he may be more receptive to an apology after some time. Besides, he may not think it was as bad as you do. Until you contact him you will never know. There is no use beating yourself up about it. Attempt the contact and begin. You will know nothing until you try. Good luck.

Women's brains and vagina have one thing in common. There is nothing in there until a man puts something in there.

[WestcoasttrendkillParticipant 234]

So you did something wrong and now feel guilty about it?

Just be honest and admit what you did. If you honestly feel remorseful, it’s the only thing that will help.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Women are problematic? Get rid of them.

Friends are problem? Get rid of them.

Get rid of everything, once you have nothing and care about nothing, you become free and a really dangerous person.

NFG

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 12]

May.
what happened between you and the Old Schoolbus

has nothing to do with you and me.
or you and KM
or you and OldBill
or You and Tower
or you and blade
or You and any of these modderf~~~ers on this website.

I understand you feel shocked at your own behavior. We do when we screw up.

If this is about Oldschool providing valuable feedback that steered you clear of a landmine, BUT you should not have said it here without his consent, then that is an issue between you and Him.

You know what to do. Get that case of beer and the pack of ribeyes you got from your local butcher, stand on his Porch and knock on his door. Fess up, have a debriefing and he will shake Your hand.
If he does not, then you know he is still fuming.
Try again 2 weeks later.
If he still does not, well, then…

But is that a reason to disappear?
I am not saying “confess your sins” but this seems like you are running away, retreating, ashamed.
It has everything to do with you and Oldschool, and nothing with Mgtow.com.
Except that your paths might cross here.

Summa Summum:
Stand Tall.
Stand for yourself.
You might have f~~~ed up,
but nobody here looks down on you
– most of us have no clue what happened.

Nobody here wants you gone, not until the fateful date has passed.

Come, sit with us.

[bstoffParticipant 4872]

Am I on Facebook?

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

Relax May. I don’t know what the hell you are talking about. Everything seemed cool last weekend. Lets just move on. Men know how to be friends and everything will be fine.

bstoff wrote:

Am I on Facebook?

Ha! No.

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Apologize and let it go. If he can’t accept your apology then that’s on him. Most of time I thought I did something s~~~ty to a friend I would apologize and they couldn’t even remember what I did.
Point is – it is worse in our heads than it is in real life.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[Anonymous 42]

Women, marriage, kids, and divorce will shred any mans heart and scramble any man’s brains! F~~~ THAT!

Maybe he’s having a relapse from all the shock, trauma, and awe he’s gone through?

No man beat by a modern vindictive women is ever the same! They have no mercy!

Hope you can snap out of it bro! Pick yourself up! Stop beating yourself up! I know! We’re men, we’re good at it!

[MarketWatcherParticipant]

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[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

No worries May 7, its all good, I’ll call you later today.

Get a vasectomy.

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

Don’t know what happened (nor do I want to) but allow me to say:

The mark of an honourable man is taking accountability for his actions and making recompense to those he has injured. I think your guilt is sufficient proof you are this sort of man.

Allow your shame to wash away your sins and do not dwell long on your mistakes.

Take care.

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