I CAN'T TAKE IT ANYONE!!!!

[pZ1$Participant 110]

I’m so p~~~ed! I hate being out of work year after year in a sexless marriage as my wife is in a successful career!!! I hate how I end up at the same brick wall every time I try to find work with a positive new attitude. Is wish I would just drop dead. This is bulls~~~!!!

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

@pz1$  I have been there where you are now.  I can understand your feelings.  Here are my suggestions, hope it helps.

1.  This is hard to do but, try to look at the positive side of things first.  Like, your heart is still beating.  You hand and legs are still working.  You are living in American compare to other poorer countries.  You can get any job for now until you find the job you want.  Try to think of things that you are still thankful for.(friends, family, home, car….)  The idea is to think positive in negative conditions around.  Thinking negative is the worst think you can do for yourself.  Positive thinking is a must or things won’t improve.

2.  Try to engage in things that are fun for you.  I like walking on the beach when I am down, or watch a great movie, ride my scooter.  Do some thing that lift’s your spirit up won’t cost you any money.  Do positive things that make you feel better.

3.  Worry never cures any thing.  Worry is a waste of time.  Hope is the best cure.  Do some thing that brings you hope.  It’s different for each one of us.  I try to read great books that make me feel hopeful again.  Read or watch motivational youtube video’s they helped me a lot.

4.  Five thing that help you get out of depression and make you feel better:  1. Plenty of sunlight, Exercise, plenty of sleep, Healthy food, Happy face to face social conversations.

5.  Keep trying new things until you get out of your current conditions.  Never stop trying, don’t give up.  Keep going, stay positive and be thankful for what you already have.  Focus of the good, not the bad.  It’s all in the attitude we have about life.  I almost ended my live because of a very bad divorce.  Hang on thing will change.  Have hope, relax a little, think positive.  It’s hard but keep trying.  I hope this helps.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Man. We all have our scars. But when s~~~ sucks so bad, remind yourself, you can’t fall off the floor. When life is s~~~, you have nothing to lose anymore. Remember Kevin Spacey in American Beauty?…. once he was stripped of all power and was about to get fired, he became the most powerful person and nobody could touch him.

I can’t relate to your personal situation but I can relate to Kevin Spacey in that scene. There was this one day when I threw all the “rules” others expected me to follow out… and started writing them myself. People are never prepared for this.

Finding work? Maybe CREATE A BUSINESS and then it won’t be up to anyone else.
You won’t have to wait or let it depend on them anymore. YOU will make the rules.

It can be done.

It CAN be done.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Rock St.EddieParticipant 129]

I would throw down this is not what you wanted to hear right now so I won’t agree with the others. This place exists so guys can get heard, understood and empathized with. Not too many will reply, but many more will hear you. MGTOW is the only place they can turn without somebody f~~~ing p~~~ing on them. So I won’t offer you a solution but we will listen. Sometimes when I see a guy lose it on the news, everybody’s wondering what set him off. They wonder what would you tell him? I wouldn’t tell him anything, I would just listen, which is what nobody did. pZ1$ Unleash your fury.

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