I cant do it anymore

[Batyote23Participant 67]

first post and it may be a bit long sorry in advance

i am currently at university in my first year. i live with 6 random people. over this past school year, i have been getting close to one of the girls. I wasnt planning to make any moves on her because we live together and i need my space. But people i live told me i should because it seems like she likes me to.

so a few weeks ago I got the courage to ask her out on a date. she said yes and it seemed like everything was going good. A week after i asked her if she was free on Saturday to go on a date. She said yes. (someone was in the kitchen when we was having this conversation, so they heard what we was talking about)

the day before we planned to go out, she was a mood with me because i had my music on to loud. So that night i ordered a takeaway for both of us to make it up to her and so we could talk. I told her the real reason why i wanted to take her out on a date. I was completely open with her and honest. I asked her how she felt, and i got was such a mixed message about it.

The next day came and i booked a table, and message her the time. a hour late i got this lovely message

please understand i don’t want to go on a date. i’ve tried so many times to say no but you don’t seem to understand. i can’t be any clearer than i have already been without being mean. i don’t want there to be a bad vibe because obviously we do live together but it can’t carry on like this because it’s making me miserable

If all women are two faces liars and like to play the victim card, i am done with them until the end of my degree. I really don’t like to be made out as a fool and stupid because i put myself out there emotionally.

[Anonymous 42]

Do yourself a favor,,, ISOLATE yourself at least until you finish your education. Chances are that dating and mingling with women, things won’t turn out so great! It could easily cost you your education or worse, a lifetime of only dreaming of freedom…

[Anonymous 54]

Sorry man. Its a bit risky getting involved with someone you live with. One date could mean alimony!!Heers something that most guys dont get. There is no use in persuing women. A women will let you know if shes inyerested in you.Other wise you are wasting your time.Smile at a women. Her return smile will tell you if shes interested in you. How many seconds she will look you in the eye also will tell you. But your really better off with out them. They are incapable of really loving us. Find what you enjoy in life and have at it. My happiest times in life had nothing to do with women.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Batyote23 wrote:

i am done with them until the end of my degree

thats a good start. here’s what else u need to do…..NEVER get married….don’t let your hormones control you…at your age, that’s not easy to do.

don’t get a girl pregnant, be very careful of false rape accusations.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Anonymous wrote:

My happiest times in life had nothing to do with women.

great advice!!

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

What on gods good earth are you doing … not only dating at uni …. but your fking room mate?

Are you mad?

Go do a search on this site and see all the posts about it.

LISTEN TO TOWER

What you are doing is insane, dangerous and may see you … at best being kicked out of uni and at worst … doing time in a cell.

My advice is see if you can swap for another place to stay.

Get out of there asap.

Nothing good will come from this.

OUT NOW.

[Batyote23Participant 67]

the last few after this incident, i have just concentrated on myself, which involves going to work
coming back
thinking about starting my essay work
instead pour my self a few glasses of JD and coke
and playing some league until late.

I am going back to keeping women and a arms length away, which how i used to be. its a lot more fun being able to call out all the crap that women say and do

[Anonymous 54]

Batyote23 wrote:

the last few after this incident, i have just concentrated on myself, which involves going to work
coming back
thinking about starting my essay work
instead pour my self a few glasses of JD and coke
and playing some league until late.

I am going back to keeping women and a arms length away, which how i used to be. its a lot more fun being able to call out all the crap that women say and do

There ya go !! Mgtow to the rescue!!

[UntamedParticipant]

Batyote23 wrote:

I am going back to keeping women and a arms length away, which how i used to be. its a lot more fun being able to call out all the crap that women say and do

Do not waste your time with T~~~s. You have better things to do! Like studying, working, hang out with other young men, visiting the nice places in your country, stay out of trouble and playing video games, THAT’s what young men should spend their time doing, not flattering some bitch who’ll take you for a fool!
Want pussy? Pay for it in advance, go see a Lady or call an escort service and have safe fun. I promise you that doing that once a month is enough to calm your hormones because those Ladies actually know how to please you.
And move out to another roommate house, preferably one with no bitches in it. Don’t waste your university years on some t~~~. None of ’em deserve you, not a one!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

my young grasshopper, buy a fleshlight and 90 percent of your problems with women are solved.

Dating in college?

Ever heard of the fake rape claims in college?

Put up the wall of silence ans shun women completely, at least in college.

[Batyote23Participant 67]

i felt it would be different because i go to university in England but women in most first world countries are the same. Shallow, materialistic and if you are not really thin, have a beard and tattoos don’t bother talking to them because they won’t give you the time of day.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Let’s rewind for a second and take a look at only this:

Batyote23 wrote:

I wasnt planning to make any moves on her because we live together and i need my space. But people i live told me i should because it seems like she likes me to.

There it is.

Stick to your own manstincts. You were sensible at first, and arrived at your own choice and conclusion.

“Because it seems like she likes you too” is not reason enough to proceed. Neither is “you should”. Your only care is whether or not you are interested in pursing. And you were not.

Until you decide to pursue, don’t fall for women who like you – just because they like you. Mosquitos “like” you too.

Batyote23 wrote:

I told her the real reason why i wanted to take her out on a date. I was completely open with her and honest.

Why?

Was she completely open and honest with YOU?

You don’t have to tell a woman WHY you asked her out – ever. Your time and attention is enough, and asking her out IS the grand gesture. If she can’t figure it out, don’t spell it out for her.

Let her WONDER and do all the work.

“Why did he ask me out? Does he like me? Does he think Im pretty? What should I wear? Where are we going?”

Thats the position you want to be in. The first kiss answers those questions. You won’t need to say a word.

Batyote23 wrote:

I asked her how she felt, and i got was such a mixed message about it.

100% predictable. And that’s why you shouldn’t be open and honest with her, because she will not return the favor.

You’re taking her out to find IF YOU LIKE HER and not the other way around.

please understand i don’t want to go on a date. i’ve tried so many to say no but you don’t seem to understand. i can’t be any clearer than i have already been without being mean. i don’t want there to be a bad vibe because obviously we do live together but it can’t carry on like this because it’s making me miserable

“You’re funny”.

….. and pay no more time or attention to her again. Show no more interest again. In your daily dealings, talk to her like a guy. You can’t be interested in a girl like that anyway.

Next time she talks to you about anything other than the weather, you tell her “Sorry, I wouldn’t want to make you miserable”.

Just rub her nose in it a little – like an inside joke.

Did she say “NO THANK YOU?” because “trying to say no” is a bulls~~~ & childish excuse. Treat her like her little attempt at drama is funny. Like a child you can’t take seriously.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

Batyote23, Your SMV (sexual market value) is the lowest it’s going to be, you’re not established with success and wealth like you will be in 10 years. Your “potential value” is the highest it’s ever going to be!
Time is on your side!
The attention you give to yourself by focusing on yourself and only yourself will advance you in life greatly!
So in 10 years from now when you see all the accumulated bulls~~~ women have pulled on everyone around you, you’ll be in a much better position to make a much better decision about the road in front of you, trust me, YOU’LL look back and say; Tower was right!

Life’s a playground, stay off the broken monkey bars, but watch how many die on those monkey bars, and think to yourself every time; that could have been me! ….

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

The best advice i can give is to chalk it down to experience and never s~~~ where you eat.

Even more so when you get out into the workplace.

[Anonymous 12]

Do you know why she likes you? If so start behaving in a way that is the opposite, also if you haven’t already done so, DO NOT F~~~ HER!

The other way to make her less interested is to be less useful to her, once she realizes you don’t offer her anything at all she will find someone else.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Batyote23 wrote:

please understand i don’t want to go on a date. i’ve tried so many times to say no but you don’t seem to understand. i can’t be any clearer than i have already been without being mean. i don’t want there to be a bad vibe because obviously we do live together but it can’t carry on like this because it’s making me miserable

I hope you realize you’re dealing with a drama queen.

A simple “no thank you” would have sufficed, but a woman doesn’t have THE F~~~ING B~~~~, and she’s no different. She would rather text a paragraph of emotional bulls~~~ and dump it all on you.

Throw her in the trash. That’s what she is. “No thank you” is not being mean. It would be polite and it saves everyone having to deal with her crap. She should’ve started with that and ended her own misery.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

I would concur with my brothers above by saying avoid dating while you are at college – focus on the studies and don’t let a throw your focus. At college I had a hot, horny mindf~~~ me with an on-off-on-off again relationship, constantly playing the ‘jealousy-card’ by mentioning other blokes by name and the attention they gave her. Due to her mind-f~~~ing I had to defer some exams until after the summer break and somehow managed to pass some difficult subjects, narrowly avoiding a financial penalty and having to spend another six-months at college re-taking a full semester’s subjects. Normally a focused cat, I was amazed how much this hot vag mind-f~~~er threw me off my academic game.

The big catch is that it sounds like you are young and at your sexual-peak with your hormones screaming at your brain telling you to f~~~, f~~~, f~~~ and spread your seed far and wide. You are fighting biology and body chemistry by not trying to bed women in your peak sexual years. So my advice would be to welcome all casual-encounters initiated by your college mates, but be sure to rubber-up and learn from your older MGTOW brothers about the mindgames that play.

Oh, I also had a few ‘plain-Jane’ classmates that were keen on me and I contemplated entering into a serious relations~~~ with some of them, figuring it would be financially cheaper and the sex would be more regular (and STD safer?) than a series of college-bar one-night-stands (being a c~~~ on the carousel, if you will). I’d lay the groundwork with them, flirting in class and then later at the college bar I’d bail at the last minute. My inner-monologue would kick in –

“What the f~~~ are you doing you dumb prick? You are less that a year off getting your degree and can travel anywhere in the world with your qualifications to experience the rich marrow of life. Do you really want to throw that freedom and opportunity away with a relations~~~ and have a anchor severely limit your dreams, hopes and ambitions!”

It was like I was channeling the middle-age, post-divorce MGTOW me. Just glad I listened to that monologue.

#ManOut

[OldBillParticipant]

You made a lot of mistakes there, Batyote, but you’ve already identified them all and begun to make corrections.

Remember, next school year do whatever it takes NOT live with any women. You’ll find that nearly all your problems will disappear. Cultivate indifference, concentrate on yourself and your studies, and you will succeed.

Good luck and we’re here for support when or if you need it.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

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