I AM SO P~~~ED! I AM F*CKING DONE WITH THESE F*CKED UP WOMEN

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Sorry I was missing in action here for two months building my new SEO & Social Media Marketing business.  I am so F*cking P~~~ED of right now I have to get it out of my system to feel normal again.

Here it goes.

I was friends with couple of women for a few months, Let’s call them KissOfDeath and DianaTheDevil.  Every thing was ok, we talk on the phone and so on, they share all their drama with me, so they started to take over all my free time, take me for granted.  Being a nice guy I let it happen.  They started doing the usual needy girls type of stuff.  It got too much at one point so I decided to completely cut both of the off suddenly.  So I blocked their numbers on the same day.  They teamed up against me.

What did I get in return, continues abuse through all sort’s of ways(facebook, emails, constant calls which I can see on my blocked log list), mean words like “YOU CAN NOT GET RID OF ME, I WILL MAKE YOUR LIFE HELL”.  I am like we were just friends, I did not even F*ck either on of you.  I did not get it.  I ignored it stayed focused on building my new business.  I had way too much work to deal with them.

So I blocked them both of all social media site and so I thought.

This was three months ago.  Here is what p~~~ed me off the most today, it just found out.

These crazy lunatics figured out a way though my personal facebook account to reach my father and mother who live all they way in Indian.  I just found this out from a phone call from my mother five minutes ago.

My mom was very upset for past few days after she read their nasty evil facebook massage(on December 18).  By the way they also sent it to my brother, all my cousins and extended family.

I did not read the message yet, but my mother said.  These women wrote that “I said he refuse to ever get married(my mom really wants me get arranged married.) He is sleeping with black girls, he is out of control with his life, I won’t listen to any one.. on an on.  Some negative stuff……”

I am so p~~~ed of that these two crazy women don’t have any thing better then spend their time hurting my image and hurting my mothers/family members feelings.  This is a new low for any women(I expect it now), I am absolutely shocked at their actions.  I would think my own enemy would go say things to my mother(we were friends), they should have have been able to deal directly with me.

I am  paying a price for rejecting women.  Women hate rejections that I am very sure of now.  Big LESSON LEARNED.

I can ruin their reputation if I  want to but they are not even worth an single second of my time.  I told my mom they are crazy women like this every where, don’t pay attention.  She calmed down after a while.  She trusted my character, she know I am a good guy.

I had to share this to get it out of my system and hope some new comers here can learn from my crazy story.  Please do share what you think of all this crazy stuff, that I thought I would only see in movies.

I am so f~~~ing done with women, it will be a long time(sorry never) will I trust in a women.  There may be good once out there but I am not willing take that risk after this craziness.  I don’t even know what my whole extended family thinks of this and about me now, they are all super connect to each other, that’s Indian family system.  My mom worries what other people think of me now.  I told her people who love me will never believe them any way.

Thanks for letting me share my anger about these crazy F*ckedup H*s.  I feel a little better sharing.  I am so glad to have MGTOW.com for crating a place to share.  I appreciate you KeyMaster for all the hard work you do to keep this site alive.  I am forever hard core MGTOW.  I AM DONE WITH WOMEN FOREVER.  THIS IS IT FOR ME.

I am so happy alone without these female drama and stinking trash in my life.  I am throwing out this stinking trash from my life forever.  There are million other ways to have pleasure in life then dealing with crazy women.  I AM PROUDLY A MGTOW TILL DEATH.  HAVE A FANTASTIC MGTOW DAY BROTHERS.  RayBandaku

[…Spectator 1165]

Hey man, holy f~~~ing s~~~. Mutherf~~~ing c~~~s. Goddamit man that f~~~ing sucks!

I’m not sure of your age, but regardless of what country you are in let me give you some help MGTOW brother. Find a good attorney. Start fighting these c~~~s however he advises you to do it. DO NOT hire a female lawyer, ever, in no country or county, state or union, municipality or principality. She will take your money and kill you like a black widow spider.

I feel your pain bro, and once you have a lawyer in place, you should feel normal again after this complete assault on your whole being as a man. F~~~ them!!!!

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Thank you ListenUp for feeling my pain.  I live in Miami, these girls live in Miami.  I not going to waste a single second on this matter.  Karma is a bitch and they will get there bad karma in due time when they fall in love with a bad ass bad dude that will kick their asses.  They are very very lucky they pulls this on a nice guy like me, if another bad guy in my place who have done some crazy things to seek revenge on these crazy women.

I am moving on free and clear forever from women.  It’s not worth my time, energy, money to deal with these crazy women.  My ex already took 80% every thing I ever earned, read my dramatic introduction on this form to see how bad my divorce was, it was hell.  Final Lessons learned.  No more new lesson about women in my life.  This was my final lesson for the rest of my life.  I am happy to be a MGTOW man.

[…Spectator 1165]

Hey RayB…lessons learned in life can be hard. Glad you learned all this now because now in your future, you can have any woman you want and none of them will ever take anything from you ever again. Happy New Year man!

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Wow, ListenUp thanks for the positive advice, you make sense.  I am glad it happened early in my life.  You are right, hard lessons make us much stronger from greater success.  I am not sure in I want any woman, I prefer staying away from them.  It’s possible I will pay for sex if it’s safe and at the right place at the right time, I am not sure about that either.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Ray, what these two females did to you sucks and is inexcusable, that much is for sure. I believe, however, that it is not what happens to us in life that defines us but rather what we do about it.

Having said that, I think your initial idea of not wasting any of your time on them is the right move. Sure, you could seek revenge by smearing their reputations, attempt to get justice by filing a civil suit or even just work your way back into their confidence and then abandon them again. But I would say the best move is to cut them off, do your damage control with your family and move on.

I’d also suggest you avoid all social media. Females have the home court advantage there and by being online in such a fashion, you’re exposing yourself to further abuses.

As they say, the best revenge is living well… so blow these females off, patch things up with the family as best you can and move on to find someone else to offer your time and attention to. Any time, effort or attention you give to them from this point forward will only serve to underscore the power they are trying to exercise over you. Rise above it and move on.

[tsParticipant 109]

If your family believes stuff told by random female strangers and get upset about it, your family has a clear loyalty issue. That is not your fault.

Personally I wouldn’t even talk with family members about such gossip. I would just say: “Your choice, whom you believe, I’m not apologizing for gossip.” And it’s better to stay honest and tell them right now, that you are never going to marry. It needs some time to settle in. An arranged marriage is literally the complete opposite of going your own way.

And BTW quit Facebook, delete all data, kill it with fire! MGTOW are not part of the social advertising network hive.

[John DoeParticipant 743]

I was friends with couple of women for a few months

Once I read this I knew you were f~~~ed.  I didn’t have to read the rest.

All the women I know I view as acquaintances.   In the end I think they end up destroying themselves, after they destroy each other first.

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

Damn…There you are!  Miss You RayDawg!  Glad to see you back!

Dude…That’s some Crazy Muthaf~~~in’ Shiet.  But don’t let it stop you. No sweat.

Take it on the Chin and keep it movin’ to Great Success!

F~~~ ‘Dem Hoes.

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Thank you very much to my fellow MGTOW brothers for your advice and support, I needed it today.  Thank you to @I’m Ninja James Bitch! @john Doe @ts @docfenderson @ListenUp! for taking your valuable time to give me your wisdom on this matter.  Have a fantastic day.

[pZ1$Participant 110]

Hi RayBandaku forgive me for getting off the topic. But is there a way I can contact you privately concerning your line of work? I was in it too one time and am looking to get back in. 🙂

Thanks

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Sure @pz1$ you can contact me, I glad to help out my fellow MGTOW brother.  I am not sure how direct messages work.  Can some one help be figure out how to send direct private message to a fellow member.  Thanks.

[pZ1$Participant 110]

Thank you Ray.

[RoyDalParticipant]

@raybandaku, I agree completely with the advice to take down your facebook page and all other social media. That said, it does seem that every new movie and most businesses have facebook pages. Thus, it makes sense to start over with new pages for them.

So, how is the movie coming along? I hope it will be completed soon and on VOD or something for us to watch.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[…Spectator 1165]

Roydal, thanks for the link to meet the mayor. Cool man. Can’t wait until we have PM feature on this website.

[RoyDalParticipant]

@raybandaku, your situation rang some distant bells in my memory.

First the bad: The ex-GFs I broke up with had a tendency to come back to haunt me (like Banquo’s ghost showing up at Macbeth’s dinner party, or more like the stray dog that keeps knocking over the trash cans), a pronounced tendency.

Now the good: The exes who broke up with me never came back, and the same goes for those who I induced to break up with me by treating them as another “dude” and being indifferent to their drama.

When it was her idea, the separation was final. When it was my idea, the separation was only a temporary lull in an ongoing war.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[…Spectator 1165]

Wish I knew where my “her idea” tut was posted right now. Good to c u man.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Women hate rejection

 

You Hit the Nail right on it’s goddamn head Ray!. I’ve said it before, I’ll say it again. If you really want to see the REAL SIDE to a Woman?. Reject Her…And sit back and watch the Tsunami of ugliness rear it’s monstrous head. I swear I just talked about this on someone else post, but can’t remember who. Anyways, sometimes even the most sweetest girls (you might think) will put their best foot forward, however once they’re rejected?.

 

Watch out!, the REAL PERSON comes out.

 

You have to remember, Females are so used to getting what they want their entire life, they’ll sleep, suck, and f~~~ their way to achieve their desires, whatever it may be. The first most powerful word I’ve used with Females in recent years (wish I did years before that) is the word “NO”, ooooooh that word summons the DEMON within them.

 

Recently a girl that I knew asked if I wanted to go hang out, so we did, We went to this pretty chill Cafe’ that has a mellow crowd of people, and they serve some pretty good alcoholic drinks after 6pm.

 

She would not shut up about her Ex husband and her previous relationships, then throwing in some Misandric comments about Men and the “Modern Male”. after listening over a solid 45 mins of this verbal diarrhea ,  I got up and left, she texted me with a barrage of texts saying:

“WHERE THE F~~~ ARE YOU ASSHOLE????”,

“OH WHAT?, PUSSY BOY CAN’T HANDLE A REAL WOMAN?????”(never been called Pussy-Boy before)….

I seriously had over 52 drunk texts, not only degrading my manhood, but calling me a “Homosexual that sleeps with Horses”….Like, WTF?…Blocked her number, told my mutual friends, showed them the texts and they since haven’t spoken to Her either.

 

You did the right thing Ray, stay strong Bud!. Don’t let these bitches get to ya.

 

 

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[BrainPilotParticipant 7640]

Saying no to, or otherwise refusing to give a woman what she wants is like a wrecking ball hitting a building. I’ve had similar experiences and been amazed at the change. They can be civil, even nice when they are getting why they want (your time, attention, money, status etc). They assume there’s nothing you have that they can’t get by dangling the hope of sex in front of you. And to be fair, there are enough blue pillers and nice guys out there who treat them this way that it’s predictable that they would think this. The value of sex is apparently infinite and it is enormously reassuring to them that they will always be able to get anything they want by dangling the promise of it. When you say ‘no’, you smash that belief, and all the security that it provided for them. The intensity of the response you are getting is in direct proportion to the intensity of their sense of entitlement to whatever you had. The more successful they have been at getting what they want this way, the less well prepared they are for it when this doesn’t work.

I have one of these little princesses for an ex wife. She was a really attractive trophy wife when I married her (kind of a life sized barbie), but she priced herself too high. I said no more after about 2 years and rescued myself. I think I’m the first man that ever said no to her in her life. The divorce was final more than 10 years go. I thought I would try to be friends with her after it was over. We had been fiends early on in the beginning when we’d first met, and on principle, it seemed more civil to try to at least be on speaking terms. She used the contact with me to try to convince me to get back together with her, but when I continued to say no, she got more an more angry.

This was a slow process over about 5 years. I think she convinced herself (probably with the help of some of her female friends) that I could never get a woman as attractive as her again and so I’d eventually take her back. I never did take her back and as her looks start to fade, panic slowly started to set in. She slowly got angrier and nastier when we’d speak on phone and finally I stopped taking or responding to calls or text messages. I figured if I just ignored her long enough, she would eventually just get tired or bored and go away. I was wrong.

When they get to that point where they are considering just going away, they realize that this really is the end. They have to acknowledge that they aren’t as valuable as they think, and that they’ve been rejected. It’s destabilizing to them because they don’t have a back up plan for getting what they want. At that point, it becomes about revenge. Simply by withdrawing your offers of time, money, attention etc and anything else they planned to take from you, you have somehow personally insulted them. This is how their thinking works. It’s so unreasonable to us that it’s a shock the first time we see it. The lesson from the experience is that from now on, when you are going to abandon them, you either have to make it seem like their idea, or you have to be already out of reach (new address and phone number, deleted Facebook access etc) before they realize it’s happened…

If they can’t get from you what they felt entitled to, and they are going to have to accept the reality of being rejected, it’s an enormous shock to them. If it’s the first time they’ve been told no and they are in their 30s when their looks are starting to fade, they realize they’re over that hill. I’ve seen this and they sometimes react by throwing themselves at the next available man they come across (panic). But if they are younger, or firm in the belief that they still look good, then they feel entitled to hurt you to get even. And it so enrages them that there’s almost nothing they won’t do or say.

Five years after I stopped responding to my ex, I still got wild crazy ass messages on my voice mail. She finally crossed the line in one of them and threatened to call the state agency that regulates my career field and ‘tell them whatever story I have to for you to lose your license, or at least lose your house for the legal fees to defend it…’. Making false claims in my state, if you say it, it’s slander and if you write it, it’s libel and both are civil offenses here. Making the threat is harassment and is a criminal offense. I saved every message she ever left, and played them back for my attorney.

The attorney called her and explained that we would be presenting this evidence to a judge, asking for a restraining order and filing a criminal harassment charge. Although we knew nothing much in the way of legal consequences would come of that, we also knew that a charge of criminal offense of any kind other than traffic ticket shows up on back ground check of her forever, and becomes a major issue for her in her career. When that was explained to her, it brought some reality to the situation. It’s gotten quiet lately, but I suspect that when the statute of limitations for filing the harassment charge runs out, she may be back…

I would say it’s likely that what these women have done is a criminal offense in your state as well. It might be worth an attorney communicating this to them. The divorce courts favor women in every state, but the criminal courts are not such a safe bet for them, especially when there’s a digital written record of what they’ve done. I hope you impose some consequences on these brats, and keep us updated here if you do. Whatever you decide to do, your experience is valuable and all the mgotw community can benefit from learning from it. There are women like the ones you describe in every state and it’s worthwhile for new mgtows who haven’t experienced it yet to know that they are out there…

Look, it's not my fault that tornado dropped a house on your sister. Now get back on your broom and get your ass out of here... and take your monkeys with you

[TheNinjaUWannaH8Participant 386]

Rejection will set a Muthaf~~~in’ Bitch off!  Ray and Deus’ experience proves that to be True to a Muthaf~~~in’ T.

…Oh…I’ve heard “Pussy Boy”, “You punk Bitch Ass Motherf~~~er”, “That’s why you can’t f~~~”, “I’m f~~~in’ your Cousin”, “You dick ain’t as big as you think it is, with your BitchAss, “F~~~~~ Boy” “Go bite a Pillow you punk ass Motherf~~~er”.

The antidote to it all this “Bitchery” is to simply Ignore and Ghost Dog.

 

 

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