I am single, happy, and free

[cnmcdeeParticipant 125]

I am single, happy, and free.

I used to date but that’s not me.

The secret is understanding the single only shortage in this universe – your time.

You could be homeless or worth a $100 million dollars – but if you do not have control of your time, you have nothing.

If you do not have control of your time you have control of nothing, and you have no freedom – it does not matter how much money is in your bank account, or the size of the house you are living in.

Time is, and will be the only thing that is in shortage in this universe.

If you are working endlessly at a job you hate to buy a house you can ill afford because you, and or your significant other decided this is what you need to have to be happy because both of you fell for the cultural bulls~~~ – you are not free – you have contracted with a bank to make a mortgage payment come hell or high water for the next 15-20-25 years, and that means you contracted your *time*.

When the significant other demands you constantly call, that you attend functions and events that you do not have interest in – she has made a commodity of your time, and force you to surrender it (and your subsequent freedom) in exchange for her companionship.  Don’t think so try ignoring her to go do what you want for a couple weeks and see where the relationship ends up.

It took me sadly a very long time to learn I did not need or want a women in my life, I do not judge them in any fashion, and they are not even a consideration.  I used to miss their company tremendously, but I found as long as I stay a good distance away from them (especially when they are ovulating and releasing pheromones) those feelings would not return.

My time is far far too precious to waste on what some self-centered vain female is looking to abuse and waste because she has put herself on a pedestal. But they are so far out of my spectrum they are now not even a factor.  I care not what they think.

Know yourself – know what gives you joy and stick with it, do not surrender your time, if you surrender it you surrender your freedom!

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

You are so right. It is insane to think that by getting married, having kids, having a very stressful job, having a huge mortgage, 2 SUV payments every month, etc. etc. etc. and not to mention saving for college for the kids………while you barely have any time to actually ENJOY life………it’s insane to say that is what we are SUPPOSED to do.

I am glad I never bought into that bulls~~~. I always thought that I was the odd one or the loser because I was never a traditional guy (never a traditional get married/ go into debt/ huge mortgage/ work a job that makes you feel like you are doing time for a crime you never committed)…….but now I realize I may not be the loser after all.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I feel the same about time as I did about money when I gave up smoking. All of a sudden I had pockets full of money I couldnt spend fast enough. Now Im mgtow, I have sheds load of time …… oh and money 🙂  I will never give both away again ….. unless its to help a brother.

[Sam RavenParticipant 181]

Debt/loans/mortgage – modern day slave’s chains. Go figure.

Got a big cookie jar of Red pills with me. Side effects include shattering of illusions and depression.

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

cnmcdee wrote:

The secret is understanding the single only shortage in this universe – your time.

+1000

NOTHING is more important/valuable than time.

[perrrobParticipant 4]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

I am glad I never bought into that bulls~~~. I always thought that I was the odd one or the loser because I was never a traditional guy (never a traditional get married/ go into debt/ huge mortgage/ work a job that makes you feel like you are doing time for a crime you never committed)…….but now I realize I may not be the loser after all.

Man, you just described my own personal life story.

I knew early on as a teenager that the married life was not for me, I saw the kind of life my father had and I wanted no part of that lifestyle.
My 3 other siblings (1 boy/2 girls) all went the traditional route (marriage/kids/mortgage, etc) and for a long time they were looking at me and asking questions as to why I refused to get married or have a woman move in with me. I kept responding that I was not made for marriage, they probably thought that I couldn’t get pussy (if only they knew).

I’ve had snide remarks (all in fun obviously … yeah sure) directed at me from their spouses and everyone found it very funny. They were probably laughing in my back but I didn’t care because I knew deep down that what I was doing was right for me.

Fast forward 30 years, I decided to retire at 52 (own my own home/no debts/great pension/nice savings) because I was tired of the rat race (traffic/work schedule, etc) and I not longer enjoyed my work (IT industry).

You should have seen the look on their face when I announced my retirement to them, they couldn’t believe that I could afford it as they will probably have to work for the next 10/15 years and they’ll probably never have the lifestyle I’m currently enjoying. I’ve never said it out loud to them but my internal reaction was “Who laughing now?”.  Actions speak louder than words.

Today, every time I mention that I’m going on a trip (I love photography) in Europe/Asia, I can see them dying a little inside just by looking at their faces. I’m careful not to talk about money with them but from the subtle questions that they ask, I’m sure they would love to know how much financial resources I have.

Curiously, the snide remarks have stopped … I can practically see the envy drooling from their mouths (especially my brother).  LOL

In summary, I was a MGTOW before the term even existed … it’s YOUR life, only you can decide what you want to do with it as long as you avoid the traps along the way. Live life on your own terms and don’t let others interfere with your plans.

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Live Free or Die Hard

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

@ perrrob

I agree completely. The only difference for me is that I had to married twice and have a child that was turned against me because of my ex. In other words, I had to learn the hard way. I went to an additional 12 years of school after high school and took student loans. After 25 of working I still had not made a dent in these student loans. If it weren’t for the housing bubble I would still have them at 500.00 a month.

All this to get pussy.

Well I discovered the MRM and soon after MGHOW. My second marriage was not like my first. I slept with one eye open. And when she snuck away while I was at work, my contingency plan worked like a charm and I retained the house and my son’s custody.

Did this help? No.

Was I better off on my own. Definitely. I have a son who only wants to know me for money. I have an ex-wife that, 17 years later, still hates me. Concentration camp inmates have come to grips with their ordeal in less time. Great to have the mother of your child hate you. Works just great in raising a child.

So don’t fall in “love”, a temporary hormonal imbalance, don’t live together as nice as steady sex sounds, and don’t marry. Never ever. If you want a child, go to big brother or volenteer to care for the spawn of a single mother…that’ll cure you.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Debt/loans/mortgage – modern day slave’s chains. Go figure…

Guess who is producing the tax monies for all those single mothers on the dole? I’ll give you three tries. The first two don’t count.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

To a large degree, more than anytime in history, women are paying for single mothers on the dole.

The employment rate for women is up 800% since the turn of the last century. Average working female: 7% of population in 1900. Today, 67% of women are working. Where does their tax money go…single mothers on the dole.

The contribution of men to single mothers on the dole, as a percentage, is way way down.

Thanks feminism!

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Puffin Stuff wrote:

To a large degree, more than anytime in history, women are paying for single mothers on the dole.

Good point. I’m glad they’re yoking themselves to the plow, and I hope they all get high paying jobs. Somebody has to pay those taxes, and men living minimalist lives aren’t. The same goes for men and women stuck in low wage jobs through no wish of their own.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Anonymous 5]

If Kipling were alive today I’m sure he’d agree
“If you can meet with Love and Hate
and treat those two imposters just the same”

[experiencedParticipant]

@H.R.Pufinstuf:  “I have an ex-wife that, 17 years later, still hates me.”

Her “hating” is the equivalent of the wicked witch throwing water on ..  herself:

 

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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