I am not scoring any girls and losing confidence. Help?

[Razor92Participant 41]

No need of her anymore frankly. But I occasionally recall her as a lesson for me which in turn give me motivation that she left me because I dont have any ambition or passion in my life. She made me realize that I have to focus on myself, have a goal in my life and let go of any idea about relationships. Decided to have short term flings but that back fired on me and doesnt suit me. I guess its better for me to stay focused to my goals for the next 3-4 years.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Razor92 wrote:

I guess its better for me to stay focused to my goals for the next 3-4 years.

You’re right about that.

Pursue things that REWARD you – and PAY.
A woman COSTS.

Especially during these key formative years.
All you need is an “OOPS! I’m pregnant” and your life is over, pal.

Razor92 wrote:

have a goal in my life and let go of any idea about relationships.

Something to think about: A “relationship” is a woman’s idea (and is far more appealing to HER), where she expects an unmarried man to behave like a husband, not bang other chicks and PAY for everything.

Ask yourself… what idiot would ever sign up for that?

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[PistolPeteParticipant 27143]

I propose the following MGTOW rules of dating:

Rule #1 Don’t bother

Rule #2 MMMmmmm there doesn’t seem to be a rule #2 as rule number 1 covers it adequately.

[Masculine_ManParticipant 2735]

Seems like you’re not ready to be MGTOW. Men here have outgrown chasing women much like you have outgrown certain habits. All of the advice we’re giving you is correct. I should warn you chasing women gets you no where. My only advice to you is chase money and not women. I’ve seen plenty of dudes lose money chasing women but I’ve never seen a man lose women chasing money.

If it costs you your peace of mind, then it is too expensive.

[AgitoMParticipant 99]

Kind of recognize your story bro. Spent a lot of time in my early 20’s chasing pussy as well. Went badly most of the time. Most girls wouldn’t give me the time of day.
Am in my 30’s now, and work with guys in their late teens or early 20’s. I occasionally get some guys who come and talk to me upset about rejection and not being able to get a girlfriend. My (MGTOW inspired) advice to them is the same as I’m giving to you.

Don’t give a f~~~ about girls not wanting you right now, stop desperately chasing them, focus on yourself.

I realized something nice and ironic over the past decade:
Girls in their 20s are picky, and emotionally unstable. They want the grand price when it comes to guys, if they even know what they want. Guys in their early 20’s, unless super handsome are not good enough for them.

But time has a tenancy of correcting this:
What happens to guys in the long run? They get more educated, get better jobs, get more money and status. Looks of guys don’t really get worse either. What happens to girl? The looks they have start to fade and they hit the wall. Having been picky for men for a decade they suddenly get scared and are willing to grab any guy of reasonable status.

So now my friend, I’m in my 30’s and I get women tossing themselves at me from all sides. Occasionally even get girls in their 20’s expressing interest in me. I’m not interested in most of them. Most of them are not up to my standards, and I’ve really become more interested in my own personal development and achievements then pussy.

So don’t worry, focus on yourself, and even if you in the future still wish to have a relationship, it will be much easier after you have improved yourself. Moreover you can be picky for a change, or just decide, like many men here, that women are not worth your time.

[Dashing Young DissidentSpectator]

Psl47 wrote:

I had broken up with a grill 2 years ago

LOL.

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