I am new. I want to live in peace

[IgnisParticipant 157]

Hello guys! I am new in MGTOW. Hope you can enlighten me.
This year was a hassle for me. A real nightmare.
I wont tell my whole story (because it all started when I was little and raised in this feminized society, so is too long to write it here) but I want you to know that I am really, really tired of women.
I am 24 years old and already fed up with them. The things that I discovered have blown me away:
Redpill
The real feminism
MGTOW
Etc.
I read and applied everything. It works and it´s real. The whole world that was created inside my head by my mother and female relatives has fallen apart completely. The proof was lying before my very eyes and I never noticed:
Abusive, manipulative wives. Relationships based solely on money.LTRs broken at some time because of the stupid woman wanting it all for them. You name it, all happened inside the family with different persons.
I was a blind white knight and I finally realise that all I did for them was because someone told me that that´s what you need to do to be happy. But after knowing all this, I really dont know. I feel like I don´t like anything about them anymore, I don´t feel anything for them except sexual arousal.

I want to spend time with my friends, my family and with myself. I have goals. I don´t want to waste time pursuing some twisted reality that doesn´t exists.
I just wanted to know:
Have you guys stepped aside completely? Because I really want to. I want to not pay any attention to women anymore. Girls of my generation are not worth the effort. Everything is a problem with them, everything is so complicated and you have to be “good and a little bad”- “Care but not too much”. I am tired of this s~~~. Tired of doing this stupid things just to get laid. I can pay a prostitute for sex and it will be cheaper than having a girlfriend that will cheat me in the end and leave me with broken ilusions of the things I never wanted.

Others told us how to live. Now I am tired of this stupid reality that someone made up. And I am gratefull that I realise this at my young age.

Hope to get some answer from you guys, because I live surrounded by bluepills who are unhappy with their desitions and are way too damaged to realize that they live in a fantasy that will never become real.

I have so much more to rant about, but I will leave it here.
Sorry for my english, is not my main language.

[ChromestarParticipant 101]

Hi I’m 29 years old now and it took me about 3 years to sus this one out. It can really be disappointing when you finally find out the true nature of women, most are materialistic and shallow. To be honest I think women are more ‘Shallow’ than men in general. Its just that Most of us men (Excuse my language) don’t give a s~~~ about what women think about our preferences are. So it just SEEMS like we’re the more shallow of the gender

Women are usually the INSTIGATORS of relationships.

Example, who’s more shallow?

Man: Shes hot and has some nice legs and great t~~~.

This tells me that we know what we want, end of.

Woman: Wow nice car, hes rich and has a nice house I want to Marry and have kids with him.

Now think of  the consequences of both parties. To her is more of “what you can do for THEM’

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I respect prostitutes more than fake bitches, because they get to the point.

[MajorHeelsParticipant 47]

I truly feel sorry for the younger guys here !

However, we ALL grew up under the FEMINISM. Born to feminist mothers and programmed from day ONE into the matrix that is the modern day world.

Thank whatever you believe came from the sky that you found out NOW and are rapidly learning !!

As with ALL things in Life, Until you face the darkness, you will never find the light :).

For me at least, Chromesta final comment contains more WISDOM that he likely understands right now.

There are ONLY TWO types of women.

Honest Prostitutes and Liars.

You can fall for the CON of FREE SEX, LOVE, MARRIAGE etc to pay the price later.

Or you can “pay as you go” and enjoy the rides of your life.

[jambearParticipant 282]

It always hits you like a sack of bricks made of hate and sadness when you finally wake up. You feel so defeated that you just want to slip off into a hole and sleep till everything goes away or you realize that you were mistaken. But you are not mistaken. You have finally seen the true face of woman and it is ugly.

Now your life belongs to you and no one else. Live if the way you see fit.

As for the lingering attraction to females I see a few choices:

1. You can can STR’s with woman, but know that this carries with it personal risk such as accidental or not so accidental pregnancies.
2. Go full on level 3 MGTOW and become celebate.
3. My personal path. Use escorts. Find yourself 3-4 different ones that you enjoy and indulge as you have an urge. Just remember to still protect yourself from not only the escorts but law enforcement. If you are in Nevada such as myself then you do not have to worry since it is legal here. Also it will be just about the most honest relationship with a woman as you will ever have.  You want a drama free lay, they want money. Could not be more simple or honest.

 

 

 

[IgnisParticipant 157]

Thank you guys! Your advice is really important to me. This is a path only a few men know,( hopefuly there are more coming this way) and without support one will feel alone and defetead. As I told earlier, I´m surrounded by bluepill guys so I tend to fell alone sometimes. This is why this site is so important.
Hope you all are doing great.

[MajorHeelsParticipant 47]

Hang in there brother !! 🙂

I have sure known the dark sadness of a new loveless reality where everything I had “thought” was in fact wrong.  However, the more questions you ask, the more answers you find.

Who “said” you find the love of a woman to be happy ?

Again, another elite level marketing game !!…disney for one.

Rumi changed me.

Your path is NOT to seek love.

But to find the barriers inside of your that stop you from loving.

Break those barriers and find your love for you first. Then the things you love, the world you love and yes, you can still love women. I do greatly. I just now finally KNOW their nature and can avoid being a foolish idiot again 🙂 and have the fun, pleasure on MY terms !! 🙂

Which, once you get on it, is actually damn fine

[IgnisParticipant 157]

Thank you, MajorHeels.
A lot of MGTOW are telling me the exact same thing, just with another words. Too many to be  a coincidence. I will follow this advice.

Thank you very much.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Spend money on yourself and your hobbies. Without the parasite that is the female, you’ll have lots of spare cash. I have all the video games and fine beer I could wish for. I recently purchased new hockey equipment.

 

You can’t put a price on freedom. You can stop for a burger and beer without your phone exploding.

 

You’re 24 so I’m guessing your sex drive is still at warp 8. Use  women for sex and sex only if you must. They use us for money and favors. Treat them in a similar fashion. If you want to break contact completely, porn is free. If that’s the case, limit your contact. At work if you have to deal with superiors who are women keep it professional and short. Female co-workers? Pretend they don’t exist. Out in public, don’t even look at them as they’re not worth it. I have no use for them or their perma-scowls. Women thrive attention, don’t give it to them.  Let them have their smart phones with 24/7/365 validation and connection to the hive mind. They can put them on vibrate if you know what I mean.

 

Good luck in whatever you choose to do.

 

 

 

 

 

 

Fuck this planet.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Use women for sex and sex only if you must. They use us for money and favors.

@Cap Where the f~~~ were you when I was 19.

@ignis You’re new to MGTOW, but you should know….. Cap has found a way to condense paragraphs (and years of experience) into one sentence. That paragraph he left for you above is the step-by-step every man’s guide to contentment. You have no idea what wealth it will create and stress it will relieve you of.

When I started reading other MGTOW, I would read something like that (including Cap) and I would think he was barking orders. Or oversimplifying. But he’s not oversimplifying. He is here in your best interest. You want to live in peace? Read it again.

I wish you every success as well.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[IgnisParticipant 157]

@Cap
@keymaster

It is like that. What Cap said is crystal clear.

Yesterday I was on a party and I only went to spend some time with my male friends. I saw how a girl wanted my attention, standing next to me, asking me questions, comparing me with her boyfriend, etc (annoying). That same girl pushed me away some years ago, and now she has a baby. “Go f~~~ yourself” I thought. I treated her the way I wanted for a while until I got bored and went to talk with my friends. She left the party afterwards.

 

It´s amazing how free you feel when you don´t give a f~~~ about what they want. I don´t even give attention to them unless I feel like it.

I can see now that pretty much everything a girl does is to have male attention .
The majority of girls at the party was with their boyfriends. It´s so annoying how they bring them along to show them to everyone. Sitting on their laps while the music plays and no one is dancing. I don´t get it. What is the point of doing that? They get dressed hot just to go there and sit on their boyfriends lap? Just stupid.

[DybbukParticipant 182]

I’ve lived in peace and freedom for years now. Unfortunately it’s a bit overrated. But definitely preferable to the other extreme.

Ideally we should live in the messy middle and use our wisdom and skills to make it the best of both worlds. The problem is that so many guys lack the wisdom and skills that it ends up being the worst of both worlds.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

@Cap Where the f~~~ were you when I was 19?

 

@keymaster

Hell, where was old Cap when young Cap was 19? I couldn’t take my own advice.

 

 

Appreciate the kind words KeyMaster.

Fuck this planet.

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