I am new. I want to live in peace

[IgnisParticipant 157]

Sorry, I posted this on MGTOW Central by mistake.
If this goes against any rules, please, accept my apologies and do whathever you need to do to keep this
great website organized.

Hello guys! I am new in MGTOW. Hope you can enlighten me.
This year was a hassle for me. A real nightmare.
I wont tell my whole story (because it all started when I was little and raised in this feminized society, so is too long to write it here) but I want you to know that I am really, really tired of women.
I am 24 years old and already fed up with them. The things that I discovered have blown me away:
Redpill
The real feminism
MGTOW
Etc.
I read and applied everything. It works and it´s real. The whole world that was created inside my head by my mother and female relatives has fallen apart completely. The proof was lying before my very eyes and I never noticed:
Abusive, manipulative wives. Relationships based solely on money.LTRs broken at some time because of the stupid woman wanting it all for them. You name it, all happened inside the family with different persons.
I was a blind white knight and I finally realise that all I did for them was because someone told me that that´s what you need to do to be happy. But after knowing all this, I really dont know. I feel like I don´t like anything about them anymore, I don´t feel anything for them except sexual arousal.

I want to spend time with my friends, my family and with myself. I have goals. I don´t want to waste time pursuing some twisted reality that doesn´t exists.
I just wanted to know:
Have you guys stepped aside completely? Because I really want to. I want to not pay any attention to women anymore. Girls of my generation are not worth the effort. Everything is a problem with them, everything is so complicated and you have to be “good and a little bad”- “Care but not too much”. I am tired of this s~~~. Tired of doing this stupid things just to get laid. I can pay a prostitute for sex and it will be cheaper than having a girlfriend that will cheat me in the end and leave me with broken ilusions of the things I never wanted.

Others told us how to live. Now I am tired of this stupid reality that someone made up. And I am gratefull that I realise this at my young age.

Hope to get some answer from you guys, because I live surrounded by bluepills who are unhappy with their desitions and are way too damaged to realize that they live in a fantasy that will never become real.

I have so much more to rant about, but I will leave it here.
Sorry for my english, is not my main language.

[Anonymous 0]

Hi Ignis,

welcome at MGTOW. Although I am 20+ years older than you I found in your introduction some things sounding familiar to me. May you read my Introduction – Best regards from Holowmile – I guess you will also find some similarities. I became a MGTOW in the late 90s, realising that I have ever been a kind of MGTOW whitout knowwing it.
If you are alone or acting alone you sometimes have the feeling that you are wrong or something is wrong with you, because all the things around you seems perfectly restrained. But inside you it is not, you are not wrong in going your way and your wish to live in peace.
If you are tired of women and fed up with them it is the only way to step inside completely and don’t pay any attention to women. It is a question of practise an practise makes perfect.
Don’t be suprised, while practising your No Attention Tasks out there, about the reaction of women. They will pay more and more attention to you.
It is like Marc Rudov’s 5th Law in the Man’s No Nonsense Guide to Women:
If you keep doing the same things, you will keep getting the same results.

Ignoring  women and their ridiculous princess behaviors, it is the best you can do to avoid oppression or paternalism  from women. They just want your best, your money. AWALT.

Once again, welcome on board best regards
Hollowmile
CHEERS !!!

[IgnisParticipant 157]

Thanks man! I really needed an advice like the one you gave me. Few men know what is really going on with relationships, so I can´t talk about this with everyone.
Thank you so much for the nice welcome.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

No apology required for where you posted it…. and CERTAINLY no apology required for your English. MGTOW are international – and your English is better than most people’s second language. (or even their first!)

I actually speak German without an accent and sound JUST like a German, but I often make simple grammatical errors when speaking. When I was in Germany last, some bitch in a line at the store laughed at me. When speaking with no accent and you make a mistake like conjugating a verb, it sounds like an idiot is talking. I understand that, but she was just rude. So I turned to her, and said – in English – “oh I’m sorry, how do you say that correctly in ENGLISH?”. She had no idea, and was so embarrassed, because now SHE looked like an idiot.

So please make yourself at home. And welcome!

Have you guys stepped aside completely? Because I really want to. I want to not pay any attention to women anymore.

It may help you to not think in such absolute terms.

After all, women are attention whores. To totally not pay attention to them (or interact with them) is unrealistic and downright impossible. 51% of people are women. That means, even if you DON”T want to interact with women, you are MORE LIKELY going to have to interact with women on some level.

It’s like alcohol. I was on a date with a women a few years ago and I ordered a glass of wine. She flatly refused to have any. I asked why. She said it’s because she can’t stop at one. So she CUTS IT OUT ALTOGETHER. She believed in COMPLETELY DENYING HERSELF the pleasure of one…. because she thought it would lead to 4 or 5. Now, a recovering alcoholic will do this, because it’s either the whole bottle … or nothing, but that is part of the reason WHY they are alcoholics.

If they had ONE…… they could really enjoy ONE….. and develop the will to just stop there. They could enjoy the pleasure of one…. until the next time they really want one, and enjoy the next one when they really want to. There would be no need to completely deny themselves the pleasure. Like gambling, or smoking too. Just like a smoker swears he will NEVER have a cigarette again – and he will announce “IM QUITTING!” to the world – he has now permanently denied himself a smoke forever. But if he shut the f~~~ up and just had one whenever he really wanted ONE, he could have a little deviant pleasure every now and then and nobody would give him s~~~ for going back on his word.

Women are like that to me. I will notice, talk to, and even flirt(!) with 1 out of 100.

The fatties and single moms get totally ignored, but occasionally I might meet a cute one and OK, sex if it’s free. Know what I mean? But there is no f~~~ing way ANY of them will ever get a key to my home again, set one foot in my life, or have any say or control in it. ABSOLUTELY NOT UNDER ANY CIRCUMSTANCES. And I will tell this to them flat out.

MGTOW tend to get alot of this “are you gay?” s~~~, which I find pretty funny. When it comes from a woman who hears me say “no live-ins, girlfriends or wives”, I just say “let’s find out!” and then I might suggest we go back to her place for some nookie. Occasionally it works out that way, but often they backpedal and now I get to say “why not? Are YOU gay?” – which is immensely satisfying, and I get to enjoy the expression on her face.

Otherwise, I agree (and experienced) every single one of your points to the same degree and share your attitude completely. I am equally as fed up with the blue-pills I have been expected to swallow, and now I just forcefully spit them back out in the face of anyone thinks they can just feed them to me with a funnel.

Done. My patience and limit has been reached.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[IgnisParticipant 157]

Thanks for taking the time to answer, Keymaster.
Your advice gave some insight. I’ll just have to think about women a little more like you said to fell comfortable among them.
I think I just need practice.

Thank you again

[MajorHeelsParticipant 47]

as quite a few have said.

First you will find peace in you, alone and happy about it :).

 

Then to “dabble in the sexual pleasures” is entirely up to you, or not.

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

Welcome to MGTOW!

 

I can totally relate with you on many points that you made, and yes being a MGTOW is not only reclaiming yourself and reorganizing ones self worth and importance, it’s also about taking a step back and looking at the big picture. As you already know, the dating world sucks ass, marriage is a complete joke (believe me, I know), and half the women nowadays either want either all or 2 or more things listed.

1. Your money

2. Your Sperm

3.  Your House/apartment/studio

4. Your time.

 

Take it from me, after being an ultra toxic marriage, and a few “too good to be true” relationships (which ended up being just that), they all lead down a very dark and s~~~ty place filled with shaming language, s~~~ tests, “you’re a creeper” bulls~~~ tactics women use when they can’t put a finger on you. The odds of finding “the one” is slim to none, you have a better chance of finding a leprechaun riding a Pegasus- shooting lightning bolts out of it’s own ass then finding “the one”. for some, that’s a harsh reality, but that’s what it is, a reality. I’ve been a MGTOW since 2008 and have not regretted it since. We do what we wanna do!, I’ve slept with woman who were nothing more then a good screw, I dated different types of ethnicity,  worked with snarky bitches who sucked a dick to get to the top, lied and used, dated the worst of the worst, and even was once Married Satan herself, divorced, lost it all, only to truly find myself, and get back up, prioritize, get stronger both physically and emotional. Now, I feel better then ever, was there times of loneliness?, sure but after awhile it fades away and you start to see other blue pill men in marriages or relations~~~s in which THEY are the ones that truly are alone, lonely and miserable. In recent years I’ve also detached myself from blue pill men who were friends or co-workers. And some friendships I’ve lost, just because I was deemed a “bad influence” by their wives or girlfriends, why? you might ask, because Women can’t see their “slave” hanging out with a guy that does his own thing, how he wants and when he wants. Women enjoy control!, they live and breathe that s~~~, and when someone like a MGTOW comes along, all the warning signs go off like a nuclear attack.

 

It’s good to see younger guys finally waking up, seeing not only the world for what it is but seeing women and dating for what they really are. In all honesty, women don’t know what the f~~~ they want in life, so how in the hell is she going to raise your children?, be married, and try and keep it all together?. I’ve seen too many of my friends as well as myself, lean upon every word a woman says, believing their bulls~~~ while they string good men along to alimony hell or child support purgatory.

 

Well, that’s my two cents, welcome again to the group!, look forward to future posts.

 

 

"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[IgnisParticipant 157]

Hello Deus Ex!
Awesome advice. What more can I say?
I know that sooner or later, I will feel complete again. My new vision of the world has to erase the old one, and when this is done I will find balance. I know it.

Thank you.

[snubz0988Participant 3]

Welcome brother, glad to have you. I felt every word you typed. I’m only 26, so its definitely good to see us young guys finally start to wake up. There are more of us.

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