I Admit It, I Sometimes Think About How Life Should Be/ Could Be

[DoinMyOwnThing40Participant 1000]

I can’t help it. Sometimes I fall off the wagon and think about “what if”. Right now it’s not a big deal because my parents are alive and I do a lot of things with them. They are like friends to me, besides being parents. But they are getting older now and they will not be here forever, as much as I would like them to be.

So when they are gone I will not really have anyone in my life. This is where a woman comes in. Most people, when their parents are no longer alive, they kinda get over it. That is because they have a wife and kids. But me, no, I never had a wife or kids. So my parents are the people closest to me, as sad as that may sound.

I think about what it would be like to have a female as a companion and lover in my life. I really do not have any interest in having kids, but I even sometimes think about how cool it would be to have a boy to teach how to fight, fish, shoot, camp, etc. A family to do things with. Or at the very least, a woman to experience new things with. Like going on road trips.

I don’t know. I mean, I know there is no unicorn. Just when I think I have met a unicorn, it turns out she is either married or has a serious relationship with a guy. But that never stops them from wanting to see some really good selfies of me (if you know what I mean). So how could they be a unicorn? If I were married to them what is to stop them from getting some sexy pics from other guys? I mean, I could always say that they are going home to their man……they are NOT going home to me. So it’s harmless that they see some very sexy pics of me and probably many other guys. Then again, if I were the husband I would NOT think it is so harmless! I would be quite angry and hurt.

So I guess it’s silly to think about any of this stuff.

Women are parasites. Each and every last one of them.

[FreeGhostSpectator 318]

You have to accept reality for as harsh as it may be. The truth is, that in the western world there is about a 1-2% chance of meeting a decent woman in this country. I suggest maybe joining a fishing/hunting/mma/ club if you are that lonely or maybe getting a dog if you don’t have one already. I feel your pain DMOT and respect your posts that I have read, you are a genuine person. Anyways, best of luck to you my friend and hope all is well.

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

It happens to the best of us man.  I know for me it is just a reflection of the painful awakening from The Great Deception.  As FreeGhost said…we have to accept reality.  I am still trying to figure out what “making the best of the situation” looks like and I’m 2 1/2 years down the road from the 2nd marriage.  That one f~~~ed me up real good!  However, I have learned my lesson.  I will never marry again unless it’s a 102 year old billionaire broad with one foot in the grave and the other on a banana peel!  🙂

If nothing else, hit the gym and start eating better.  It’s a start.

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[SnakeSpectator 2080]

There is no relationship for me to a creature that has almost nothing in common with me, does not compliment me, and attempts to control and manipulate me. That is the truth I cannot escape.

[FreeGhostSpectator 318]

I agree, now if it was 1945/1946 you would stand a much better chance, nowadays you are up s~~~s creek without a paddle.

[MyselfParticipant 353]

So much of what you wrote applies to me too.  I love my parents.  They were “teenage sweethearts” and have lived the vast majority of their lives together.  Way too late for me to have the same thing I’m afraid.

I had worries and doubts about not finding “The One”. Also most of my long term friends have, one by one, moved a great distance away.  My parents have been a constant in my life and, like you, they have only so many years left. It really did pain me to think about the time after my parents passing, about the time without having anyone equally important in my life.

I planted two trees in my backyard a few days ago.  A Spruce for my Dad and a Magnolia for my Mom.  Really small right now, but they will outlast me.  As silly as it seems, down the road I know I will be able to grab a coffee and look out my window and be at peace.

I don’t think it is silly that you think about having someone special in your life.  I’ll probably always wonder myself if “The One” is out there, but I have no regret anymore.  If I meet someone special, I have a lot to share, but the desire to meet such a person no longer defines or drives me.

 

 

[hmskl’dParticipant 6422]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

So I guess it’s silly to think about any of this stuff.

Not silly at all. I am dealing with almost same exact issues. My dad is getting older and he’s all I have left since only other family member recently died. I’m also thinking, how will I act when he is no longer here to talk with? Will I start feeling more of a pull for some female companionship when I have no family left in this world? How difficult will that issue be to resolve? ..since I’m GMOW and won’t change. I have my work and I chat with other people around globe on Ham Radio, but still preparing for the fact that not too far ahead I’ll have no close relatives left on the planet.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Pussy is an addiction it’s like any other drug you will feel withdrawal symptoms. In time you will get over it. Personally I workout and it works fine. I suggest you go to a gym and lift some weights.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Helen be DamnedParticipant 480]

If you’re still worried about the whole “Sharing your life” thing, dogs are better companions and sex robots are on the horizon. If you’re worried about sentience though we may have a problem.

"You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

[Soul ManParticipant 1856]

Helen be Damned wrote:

If you’re worried about sentience though we may have a problem.

Hell, I don’t think “sentience” belongs in the same sentence as wimmenz.  They seem to all be evil automatons.

HISTORY...learn from it, memorize it, DON'T repeat it...

[BDParticipant 1146]

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

So my parents are the people closest to me, as sad as that may sound.

There is nothing sad about that at all brother. I live the same way. It’s a great way to honour your parents, and to me they are one of only a handful of true friendships that I have. My parents are great people, but this is just a matter of circumstance that I was lucky in. Not everyone gets dealt the same cards so we all must be thankful for what we did receive.

I would pick time with my parents any day over time with a woman, because parents are there until the end, and hoes come and go just like cash.

Cheers and thanks for the share.

 

Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

BD wrote:

DoinMyOwnThing40 wrote:

So my parents are the people closest to me, as sad as that may sound.

There is nothing sad about that at all brother. I live the same way. It’s a great way to honour your parents, and to me they are one of only a handful of true friendships that I have. My parents are great people, but this is just a matter of circumstance that I was lucky in. Not everyone gets dealt the same cards so we all must be thankful for what we did receive. I would pick time with my parents any day over time with a woman, because parents are there until the end, and hoes come and go just like cash. Cheers and thanks for the share.

My parents have always had my back and never forced the ideas of marriage or having kids upon me. I know it disappoints my mom that I’ve written it off but she has never judged me or tried to talk me out of it.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

Crazy Canuck wrote:

Pussy is an addiction it’s like any other drug you will feel withdrawal symptoms. In time you will get over it. Personally I workout and it works fine. I suggest you go to a gym and lift some weights.

For me it has never been about the pussy factor, at least first and foremost. It’s more about the companionship and emotional fulfillment from that. I’ve never been focused on chasing pussy to any real extent, at least not to the extent that it is the only motivating factor for wanting a relationship. Of course there are plenty of women out there that I have seen and wanted to bang, but I sure as hell don’t want to put the time and energy into pursuing them, especially for a mere sexual fix.

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[FitzBonesParticipant 304]

Sure, I get caught in these thoughts occasionally as well; I think how nice it might be to come home from work to a woman glad to see me, someone to go to movies with and other idyllic opportunities but for me its a matter of not seeing the forest for the trees.
Sure, its great fun having a partner sometimes but is it WORTH it? I’ll get a pet thats glad to see me when I come home, I have some mates I can go and do things with and it’ll be more fun too.
Those thoughts are idyllic, but theyre just thoughts. Just dreams of perhaps the way life should be if society and feminism hadnt f~~~ed everything up. Back when women knew their place, men knew theirs and it worked for thousands of years.

"If you can fill the unforgiving minute with sixty seconds' worth of distance run,"

[Puffin StuffParticipant 25019]

It is possible to have close friends that aren’t f~~~able. Just good fiends you can talk to. Luckily I have a brother who is around my age. There is my sister who I was very close to growing up but, as I have nothing to offer her and do represent a freed house slave so my ideas are very dangerous, we have nothing to do with one another. Another male/female relationship killed by feminism.

Doing things like lifting, taking up golf, build something will fill you with a better diet than hot and cold running bitches. If you keep feeling this way for over 2 months consider going to see someone about it. Could be depression.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

If one is unhappy alone, odds are one will also be unhappy latching on to a female.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I used to beat myself up about the ‘what ifs’ and ‘if only …. unicorn’

I spent a lot of time doing it ….. a lot of time. Even gave me clinical depression.

In the end it came down to survival. I do what soldiers do …. remove all feelings for the enemy. Don’t think of them or myself. Don’t think they won’t shoot you … they will.

And just as with soldiers, I have my comrades who have my back and I theirs. That’s how we survive.

I now know I can’t leave this service as I’ll be in the matrix … that will trying plugging me in.

So I’m a warrior for life. Don’t think about the enemy or how they feel for you. It’s war … one they started.

When your parent’s are gone, your fellow men will be there …. got your back …. but don’t go thinking you can get a truce or peace from the other side.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

When I said pussy I mean women. Also most men can’t live without sex for a long time. Even a nonsexual relationship you are still addicted to her. In reality you’re not you’re chemically addicted to her based on certain factors. This goes with family and friends who you have emotional feelings for. This is why some Buddhist monks leave their family and friends because it can make it difficult to let go of attachments to reduce suffering.

Men tend to be more addicted to women that anyone else in a chemical sense.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[foolsgoldParticipant 5696]

I think about my parents all the time. Mainly because they have passed on. My father died 3 years ago in his sleep. He was 68. I found him on the couch when I came to visit his home for our weekly coffee get-together. He was pronounced dead by the coroner. No foul play. His heart just quit. My mother died 10 years before(cancer of the ovaries) she was 58. After my father died, I decided to do whatever I want. Within the law, that is. I do things that p~~~ people off quite often because I don’t know how long I will be here. They are usually mad out of jealousy. At 48, I’m in very good physical condition and still play sports. Mainly, because I still can. My father’s death is one of the main reasons why women got completely removed from my life. Along with many other reasons mentioned in these forums. Do what you want when you can. You never know when it might be over.

[experiencedParticipant]

life . alone . lonely .

kehchunk(short interval w female),         alone . lonely . poorer .

kehchunk, alone even poorer.

It’s a totally s~~~ty deal thanks to the puppetmasters of no fault divorce and the plethora of other crimes of that genre against men.

But, this is your ‘loneliness’:________and this is your ‘loneliness’  on 1/2…1/4…1/8…1/16 the capital:____________________________________________________________.

EZ for me, pleasant conversation with laydeez, bam, I’m gone, why? it’s ez to not let them get any chance at effing with my ability to provide for my kid. When thinking of him I’m in left side of the brain focused overdrive.

But what about him? when he goes through it and when I die. I wrestle with this every day and if I only could give you an answer. Know that you are not alone in this and thank you for bringing it up.

This site/weightlifting/movies/books/new friends at gym/get a pet known for great personality from a breeder, man to man, that you want the one out of the litter with the best personality. Take your time. Ferrets/golden retriever/maine coon cat[“dog like” but uses litter box]].   This is important, don’t fall for the oh they seemed so great at the dog pound, didn’t really need my right hand anyway etc – WTF a pound dog is ok just be really selective, animals are less apt to temporarilly rollplay than c~~~roaches called women. Not all women are c~~~roaches, some are scorpions, some are yellowjackets, boa constrictors, heyenas…..

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

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