Hypergamy for men. Good Idea?

[IggyThundersParticipant 246]

We all know women love to “Marry up” and that many a man has lost his proverbial shirt because of it. But what about a man marrying up? I know a couple who are about to tie the knot. They are both in their 20s. He is from an upper middle class family. He is very good looking and highly intelligent (Actually, behind the brides back many people call him her “trophy husband”). She however is plain/homely and from a very wealthy and connected family. So is he smart or dumb?

[AposematicParticipant 2671]

Not a good idea, as the family will dominate him- to protect “their” wealth. I doubt that he will get to spend “their” money.

Afinogyny.. from the Greek Afino {to abandon/ to set down/ to leave /to allow/ to let } + Gyny {Women} MGHOW’s philosophy to not engage women without “hating them”. Narcorca =Narcissistic Orca typically spouting to a bathroom mirror taking an arms length selfie ; Wallinate describes post wall females whose SMV is terminally negligible New Years resolution "To not make women happy" . Instadestitue: yet another Neologism for Men that cohabit with women that decide to pull the handle of intervention orders.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Let’s not sugarcoat this. He’s clearly not highly intelligent enough, and hasn’t thought it through. Especially when you consider what a marriage contract is intended to be:

An economic contract based on property rights.
/marriage-is-fraud/

It’s easy to think in terms of “marrying up” of “hypergamy for men” and, wow, doesn’t that sound novel and cool for him, but it’s a backwards representation of what nature intended. There is absolutely no reason for him to sign this contract. Unless he wants to collect alimony if it doesn’t work out. And it wont.

Quite naturally, a man pays for children and a wife with surplus labor. She “sells” her reproductive abilities to him in exchange for his surplus labour and provision. With this kind of arrangement, there is natural balance and push and pull, they can both negotiate, and each of them OWNS something. In theory.

But here, he has no rights, or ownership of any kind. Even in the modern version the contract man “owns” nothing and loses EVERYTHING- including what he paid for. But this is is even worse, because he has no negotiation power or legs to stand on for ANYTHING. It goes beyond the contract and screws up the social dynamics of their relationship too. She will eventually secretly resent him for this, (as all woman do) and she will punish him for being the weakling who never went out in to the world to stake his own claim…. and accuse him of being a freeloader before she turns cougar. Then we will all read about it on Huffpo and see it on Ellen.

“Trophy Husband”? What the f~~~ is that?

“Yeah I wanted a trophy husband, but just because that’s what I wanted doesn’t mean that’s what I wanted. I mean, that may be what I wanted , but it doesn’t necessarily mean I’m ready for it.”

Women actually think like that.

Although I quite like seeing the tables and roles reversed and it’s ALWAYS entertaining to see women get exactly what they “want” and asked for…. this is a perversion I would rather not witness. So glad I won’t have to.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Total LeeParticipant 1573]

Hypergamy for men is something else. “Trading up” for a man is getting a newer, hotter , younger model. Like trading up your car. This isn’t Hypergamy for men, it’s stupidity for a man. This arrangement is the rape of the natural world.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

He’s dumb for getting married. End of story.

My buddy tried this. He was going to pull a page out of the female handbook. He decided to date a girl with money. However, she had a ‘weight issue’. Very successful and rich but not anything to look at. He could only do it for a few months. He was embarrassed to be seen in public with her. Wasn’t sexually attracted to her in the least. He told me he felt like an ass for leading her on and getting free s~~~. She bought him everything. Two consoles, all the games he could want, fishing tackle, you name it. He broke it off and gave everything back.

 

Find a woman that will do that.

Fuck this planet.

[jambearParticipant 282]

You will never find a woman like that Cap. They are like unicorns. They just do not exist.

[DocParticipant 112]

$50 says she will be miserable and unfulfilled within 3-7 years.
He will be clutching his own head thinking “what have I done!!!”.

On second thought, Let’s make it $100.
Divorce probability is extremely high here.

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