Hybristophilia / Prison Romance

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

I found an interesting article about a phenomenon that I may never understand: women who fall in love with insane/violent criminals.

https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-excess/201310/passion-victim

Although most women will do things to keep themselves safe from criminals, these women are a special breed of crazy—they will fling themselves into the lion’s pit, so to speak, with the intention of hugging a cuddly animal while knowing full well that they will likely experience a bloody mauling. I can’t understand why a woman would give her home address to one of these societal f~~~ ups when he could stalk/rape/murder her when he’s released. But if that’s the risk she wants to take for her own amusement, why bother calling 911 to rescue her?

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[bobphiloParticipant 1772]

This is sad but true and a lot more common than people realize. When Ted Bundy was on trial for having raped and murdered dozens of women by bludgeoning them with a tire iron. throughout the country, including a 12 year old girl, the courtroom was packed, PACKED, with young women wanting to give him love letters and marriage proposals. Some went as far as wearing long dark hair parted in the middle like his victims. Blondes even dyed their hair to look like his brunette victims. The warden of his prison said he got thousands of letters proposing marriage and he actually married one.
One of the Melendez brothers in jail for murdering his parents married one of his “admirers”.
Richard Ramirez the night stalker killer had one of the female jurors fall in love with him and later helped him with his appeal.
This happens too often to say that this does not represent women.
Dangerous violent thugs are like chick magnets. Of course, how can any women resist such a desirable guy (sarcasm)

[Anonymous 24]

bobphilo wrote:

This happens too often to say that this does not represent women.
Dangerous violent thugs are like chick magnets. Of course, how can any women resist such a desirable guy (sarcasm)

I think this relates to my Alpha A/B theory in Bobphilo’s what do women want thread.

What Do Women Want?

I see this as women’s ancient desire for the Alpha A. We all know about the fact that many women get sexually aroused watching fight sports and other aggressive sports men play. I think this stems from Alpha A’s fighting over them in ancient times… The winner gets the woman… Whole tribes of men have fought each-other and then taken the losers women as spoils of war. This has happened over and over throughout history. Many times this would happen even as fighting was still going on. It is like Alpha PROVING, the women are guaranteed the stronger males after such battles…

I do not find it surprising that women are attracted to some of the sickest most violent men on the planet.

Edit- What Rhinorage says below me is valid as well in my opinion.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

Reverse hypergamy with a twist. They just want to be in the limelight of a famous person and the fact that these convicted men can rape and murder others is a turn on to these women. Women will help these men commit these types of crimes and go along with rape and murder with their male partner because they have the same urges and are psychopaths like their partner. Just look up Paul Bernardo and Karla Homolka in Canada to understand the depths of depravity women will commit to appease these type of men. She helped rape and murder her own sister on top of other school girls and they tapped these events on a camcorder.

[FunInTheSunParticipant 8283]

Rhino wrote:

They just want to be in the limelight of a famous person

I’ve also considered that as one of the reasons. There may be women that are so desperate for attention that they’ll associate themselves with a famous psycho-killer. So much for solidarity among women when it comes to anti-violence rallies.

"I saw that there comes a point, in the defeat of any man of virtue, when his own consent is needed for evil to win-and that no manner of injury done to him by others can succeed if he chooses to withhold his consent. I saw that I could put an end to your outrages by pronouncing a single word in my mind. I pronounced it. The word was ‘No.’" (Atlas Shrugged)

[Anonymous 3]

It’s true.

When I was still involved in the game, nothing would get the woman wetter than the mere mention of the rap sheet. Not that I ever intentionally brought it up or anything like that, I always looked at that part of my past with regret and shame. But just whenever the conversation gets to that, you could see their eyes light up. Every single woman that I mentioned to reacted in similar ways, including (or you could say especially) the classy good kind girls.

You can be too nice to women, but it doesn’t really seem like you can be too evil.

Somebody mentioned in some other thread, I forgot who so I’m not taking credit. Women has zero compassion for those who are compassionate, but infinite for those who aren’t.

[JuehueParticipant 1316]

I knew one girl who said she is into serial killer, I thought she was joking.

[ConstantineParticipant 4417]

In one of my old retail jobs, I knew a woman who was a regular customer. She would come in almost every day until we were on a first-name basis, and frequently chat to me about her outside goings-on. Turned out that she was having a relationship, via correspondence, with an inmate at the local penitentiary, and wanted to marry him once he got out. I felt sorry for her because she was in her fifties and very unattractive, so probably didn’t find it easy to catch a man through any normal means. She was polite enough, but the wall certainly hadn’t been kind to her. And as I haven’t seen her since then, I don’t know if it ever worked out.

And didn’t Charles Manson get a new girlfriend – a much younger one, too – a few years ago, with whom he somehow managed to get serious despite the whole, you know, cell barrier?

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[experiencedParticipant]

Violence is often associated with high testosterone.
Higher social standing increases testosterone levels.
Frequent sexual activity increases testosterone levels.
Perhaps not a causative threesome, yet associative – in the ‘mines’ of female crania.
Violence = power and a good banging. (the banging death)

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

It’s much older than you think.
The women who made up ancient Rome’s leisure class would often go behind their husband’s back and f~~~ the most vicious gladiators they could find.

[Anonymous 42]

I got some personal experience on this one!

After c~~~ rated me out for operating after revocation, my female relative started visiting regularly with this chick that was married with kids, by the end of my 4 mo skid bid, she was openly talking about getting together when I got out, I was like, NO WAY!

I got out and she showed up at a club my friends (the male strippers) frequented, somewhere along the line she felt I owed it to her by being all friendly and touchy feely, still wasn’t happening mostly because I knew she had kids.

Crazy twist, I went on a blind date the next weekend with a divorcee I found out “LATER” had 3 kids! And the chick that felt entitled? My visitor princess? Had and affair the same f~~~ing night!

Run motherf~~~er run, and don’t look back!

[TuneoutParticipant]

When I was younger my buddies and I would go to this strip joint in the town we lived in.

It was always packed and a known Hell’s Angels hang out
(some say they even owned it)
Anyway there was this one section that was always reserved for them and you didn’t go near it,
unless you were a hot chick of course.

These hard core looking bikers always had the hottest
women in the bar around them,probably even had the dancers too at the end of the night.

I think it comes down to women going for assertive,aggressive types because that absolves them of responsibility again,women don’t want to make the first move(usually) out of fear of rejection,they also like a controlling man who makes the decisions (even though they say the opposite).

Have you ever noticed how well this plays out for women in court?
She was under his control and too afraid to run away,her defence lawyer will argue and again the pussy pass wins.

Most of the time

Lifes a bitch,but you don't have to marry one!

[Anonymous 11]

The most effective Chad would be a sociopathic individual who has served prison time for violent felonies and has a trust fund.

I’ve seen women take in total losers and remain undying loyal to them to the end.

[experiencedParticipant]

Tuneout wrote:

When I was younger my buddies and I would go to this strip joint in the town we lived in.
It was always packed and a known Hell’s Angels hang out
(some say they even owned it)
Anyway there was this one section that was always reserved for them and you didn’t go near it,
unless you were a hot chick of course.
These hard core looking bikers always had the hottest
women in the bar around them,probably even had the dancers too at the end of the night.
I think it comes down to women going for assertive,aggressive types because that absolves them of responsibility again,women don’t want to make the first move(usually) out of fear of rejection,they also like a controlling man who makes the decisions (even though they say the opposite).
Have you ever noticed how well this plays out for women in court?
She was under his control and too afraid to run away,her defence lawyer will argue and again the pussy pass wins.
Most of the time

Coke whores. I had a friend who used to bounce at this type of establishment. He said those girls would also ultimately attempt to persuade you to try a line in the bedroom. Good for business.

Anonymous wrote:

The most effective Chad would be a sociopathic individual who has served prison time for violent felonies and has a trust fund.

Still laughing, so effing true. Sounds like a great startup profile.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[ShinyParticipant 2307]

They call this a disease to try to make the extreme types look different to other women. But they are just the extremes of normal female behaviour. AWALT.

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