Husband as a Priority

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Read a thread recently and got to thinking about whereabouts I felt on the tree of priorities to my wife before I awakened. Each “awakened while married” man may have a different slot he fits into, but here is mine:

Good reality show
>Bad reality show
>Any show, really
>Her job
>Taking naps
>Facebook browsing
>Toxic family drama
>Friend drama
>Office drama
>Any drama (seeking other’s drama if there is none of her own)
>Shopping
>Undermining me with kids to “feel” like a better parent
>How she looks outside the house (fakeup, hair dye, and spanks)
>What others think about her
>Parenting kids
>Downing couple beers a night
>Before bed bowl of cereal
>What I spend money on
>Liberal politics
>Newfound mangina church
>Pruning my friends
>Vanilla or Caramel latte
>Too much light in the house
>Husband

I probably forgot a few higher priorities, but I think you get the picture.

[Anonymous 13]

The priority is to get a husband, but the husband is not a priority.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

This became very obvious to me when I realized they will shamelessly discuss the most intimate details of the “relations~~~t” with everyone except the man she is in the relations~~~t with. Including where it is headed. “He just needs a little push!” and all of that.

Sometimes, they will even talk about you – in front of you – like you’re not even in the same room.

This ^ is immediate grounds for dismissal as far as I am concerned.
No further discussion. She gets ONE warning at the most. In front of her friends if necessary.

So if you (or any man reading this) gets a 0.01% vibe that is going on, you get her out, or get yourself out, unless you believe your self-esteem belongs in the toilet.

NOT negotiable.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

For many, but not all, You are only the priority if there are no other options. And even then, only if you are keeping up your end of the unspoken deal. Sorry to say it, but it’s sadly true.

Been there. Love is Blind Deaf and Dumb.

Reality bites

Hard.

It's Time to get Wise

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

That sounds really bad,

with very rare exceptions married or not, men in relationships are all somewhere below the “take the selfie of my duck face and post it to instagram” anyway.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[Anonymous 0]

Anonymous wrote:

The priority is to get a husband, but the husband is not a priority.

Sad but true +1

[NeroParticipant 1466]

Freeman_K wrote:

That sounds really bad,

with very rare exceptions married or not, men in relationships are all somewhere below the “take the selfie of my duck face and post it to instagram” anyway.

Funny how the photo uploads stopped when she no longer had a slave to flaunt. But, the duck-lipped selfies are probably next. I unfriended her, so I have no clue now.

[GrumpyParticipant]

After all things are considered….

Well… No need to finish that statement or thought.

There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

They want to get married not be married.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

It’s really just an extension of every argument they make. They want a status, title, or compensation without putting in the required effort.

CEO pay without the hours, “equality” without responsibility, wife without recognition of duty to spouse.

Once you understand the nature of the creature you understand their motivations and the utter futility of bothering to maintain a relationship with one.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Clint EastwoodParticipant 323]

As far as my woman is concerned, this has always been the pecking order and I’ve told her so on many occasions. She of course denies it (especially when she wants something) though her actions tell me otherwise: –

Youngest Horse
Eldest Horse
Eldest Dog
Youngest Dog
Herself
Her Cat
My Cat (dead now & during the dark times, I would think what a lucky sod he was)
Her Horse’s S~~~ (yes really)
The crud under her nails
Me, I think (though possibly lower)

Stay vigilant. They're everywhere.

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