hey fellas, how is everybody doing this evening? I have been lurking for a few days now and decided to introduce myself.
Hi,….this is me.
After looking over a few threads the past few days I am still not entirely certain that I belong here,lol. But the MGTOW philosophy is one I have been following for quite a long time now. Please don’t misunderstand,…I love women, really do…and I am a huge fan of pussy,…just not huge pussy… but I stopped playing the game. I am not here to enable some broads fancy ideas of what her glorious life is supposed to be like. Been there, done that, got the T-shirt…and now it is the only damned T-Shirt I got because after two divorces, both with child support…the world works really hard to keep me broke. The system is designed against us…at one point I was living with my teenage son in a crappy gang infested neighborhood trying to decide every payday rather to pay rent or buy food for the kid….I was still paying support to his mother,…she just dumped him off on me one night and split…I was fine with having my son,…but for f~~~s sake at least give me back the money….tried to go to the courts and get help…but their idea of assistance for men,…is we will let you talk with a lawyer for ONLY 40 bucks an hour….fanf~~~ingtastic!! But since both child support payments were being directly drawn from my check,…I was only bringing home about 800 bucks a month….had I been in biological possession of a vagina the legal assistance would have been free….FREE!! My quarterly bonus checks were going completely towards getting all my bills caught up from the past three months…no way possible I was going to be able to pay 40 an hour just for advice………it was even worse than that ten years prior when that particular exe wife abducted that son for 8 years…want to talk about helpless?? Not even a f~~~ing private dick would help me find her…they were all afraid I was some psycho stalker,….cops would not help because we were still legally married… if you have a penis,.. you have ZERO rights in a family court situation….unless maybe you are loaded with cash,…I never tried it that way.
I am a different kind of dude…I have high functioning autism and unfortunately it is in my nature to trust people……since I cannot seem to stay away from that rather annoying and self defeating habit…I just stay away from people in general. I will never get married again,…some folks say the third time is a charm,…but I figure three strikes and you are out…..and I aint lookin’ to check out just yet. I do have an ol’lady that I co-habitate with…she is an okay chick most times. I made it clear to her in the beginning,…the mortgage, her truck payment, electric bill,…all that s~~~….she had that all before I got here and I am not here to provide for her financial needs. So,…I fixed the A/C unit and lowered the electric bill…fixed a couple toilets and a leaky faucet and lowered the water bill….I am just handy and cost beneficial to have around I guess….I pay my share like that…I’m the help,lol. But I keep my cash…what there is of it anyway…I do not work a lot these days. The area I live in does not have many well paying opportunities for someone with my skill sets….so I work a little but mostly I do a little horse trading and the ol’lady gives me an allowance. Honestly,…due to a lifetime of programming my living situation often hits me right in the pride. I used to joke with my friends about how sweet it would be to have a sugar momma,lol…and now I kinda have one and it can be hard to swallow at times. There is still that inner voice telling me that as a man it is my responsibility to be the bread winner,… to provide… but I am just not going to do that any longer… no matter who makes the money the woman always feels that she is supposed to be in charge,…fine,…be in charge…I don’t care….I handle my s~~~, do my thing, live my life….it really p~~~es her off sometimes and that can actually be amusing.
I lived most of my life with what a friend calls “white knight syndrome”…I always had to rescue the damsel in distress…these days I would just rather talk her out of a blow job and send her on to handle her s~~~. I am 47 years old,….and I just was not put here to pay your bills, beat up your abusive exe, or run off your tweekin’ ass brother. Put some effort into avoiding assholes sugar and ya won’t be in these situations…
I am a writer…working on a few books…been doing so for several years (said I was a writer…not an author, lol ) My current relationship while hard at times…allows me to finally get down to it and finish some books….so I can change my title to author. My momma will like that I am sure. Reading up on this forum has me considering writing a book on MGTOW and the various situations that allow a man to make this decision,…or that make it no decision at all. Maybe an evolution?
Can other social issues cause a guy to go his own way? I am a light skinned fella… over six foot, over 300 pounds, bald, tattooed, and goateed….and I have noticed that apparently I am every body’s enemy… rather one is black, latin, Asian, gay, trans, whatever…the big bad heterosexual white male is the enemy. I am really tired of that the most. I have never hated anybody in my life…for any reason. My first wife was black(the one who abducted my son) but yet I get accused of being a racist several times a week…based on how I look,lol… my ol’lady has lots of gay friends, I have a few as well, who have stayed at our place on vacation and such. But gays who are not in my circle are continually calling me a homophobe….ya know, I just don’t want your lifestyle shoved down my throat…I aint gay, I don’t want ANYTHING shoved down my throat..ya know? All these different groups in our society,..each trying to get what they want for themselves…and there is no middle ground with these people….if you aint for us, then you must be against us… which is pure bulls~~~. I have one philosophy, a single position on all those issues…I am Pro, Mind your own f~~~ing business…. want an abortion? I personally don’t believe in it, but if the chick down the street wants one that is her business…..gays want to get married? fine, dumbasses don’t know what they are getting themselves in to….y’all live your life and leave me to live mine,…as long as your thing does not interfere with my life we have no problems.
I am rambling. That happens when I am tired. Sorry about that, lol…if you have any questions feel free to ask as I really have nothing to hide. But like I said…I don’t hate women….it is very possible they are victims to the same bulls~~~ programming that we are….taught from the beginning to make a man pay for everything,…make the man do the heavy lifting,…expect your man to step up when running your mouth has gotten you in a fight at the bar,…all that crap. I have been telling my oldest son he needs to get rid of his girl if she will not get a job as it is not his responsibility to pay for her life….s~~~,…rambling,…sorry fellas……
good night.
Oak
Smitty the Great One 4 years, 7 months ago.
