How would you respond?

[legendarydrewParticipant 30]

There are only two females I have remained in contact with to this day, both of whom I talk to over WhatsApp.
One of them I’ve known for a few years, having met face to face a total of four times. TL;DR: she claimed she saw me as a “friend” after our third encounter, but the reality showed I was nothing more to her than a human Alexa.

Recently she’s started talking again, first mentioning she was reeling from the latest “bad boy du jour”. Just a few moments ago she said “I love you” – the second time in a week – and wanted me to say it back to her.

I haven’t reciprocated or said anything. I know full well she said it out of desperation, or at best it was an empty sentiment.

How would you have responded?

[AwakenedParticipant 35201]

A Women that you never see tells you that she “loves you” after using you as an emotional tampon to get over her latest bad boy fling.

Personally, I would just use the delete button, and empty the trash.

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Thank you…………

Seriously, hard to say. Don’t really know enough about the relationship.

You could tell her the truth. That it was either out of desperation or an empty sentiment. What could go wrong? She may not like hearing the truth. It will either p~~~ her off, give her the ‘gina tingles over you, or both.

Order the good wine

[ZarathustraParticipant 2246]

You are going to get the same response again and again on this site: I would not have responded at all.

[DDJParticipant 1880]

Ghost her and do not respond. This is a s~~~ test.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[HermitParticipant]

What’s the difference? Tell her you love her. They’re just meaningless words in a fictional fantasy world.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

How many times must I say the same thing?

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http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Secret Agent MGTOWParticipant 22510]

I wouldn’t say it back, for damn sure.

“And you are a good friend.”

Women want everything, but want responsibility and accountability for nothing.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Secret Agent MGTOW wrote:

I wouldn’t say it back, for damn sure.

Unless you want to get rid of her.

I love you
Oh THANK GOD!! I’ve been waiting to hear that from you. I dream about you every night. You’re my reason for getting out of bed with a smile every morning and my motivation to be a better man every day. Let’s go pick out rings right now!!

that will get rid of her….

Order the good wine

[UntamedParticipant]

Ask her why she loves you and wait to be entertained.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Why are you bothering with these wimmin on WhatsApp again? What’s the purpose? What are you getting out of it?

[Anonymous 13]

She’s “reeling” from her break up with Chad.

YET She’s telling you she loves you despite shunning you for years.

She’s a WHACK JOB.

RUN.

[AutoliteParticipant]

legendarydrew wrote:

How would you have responded?

Get off of ‘WhatsApp’. Feign your own death. Move to Venezuela. (At least get off of ‘WhatsApp’)

[Anonymous 13]

This girl will take you through trouble, strife and DRAMA. Eventually cheating on you when the next Chad comes along.

You’re a stop gap as her ego needs strokes since Chad dumped her crazy bitch ass.

A world of pain and precious wasted time lies ahead for you.

[legendarydrewParticipant 30]

Some of you have understood the post…

TaxGuy wrote:

Thank you…………

Seriously, hard to say. Don’t really know enough about the relationship.

You could tell her the truth. That it was either out of desperation or an empty sentiment. What could go wrong? She may not like hearing the truth. It will either p~~~ her off, give her the ‘gina tingles over you, or both.

I was deliberately vague about the relationship: on my side she’s more of a “little brat”, and a female I occasionally talk to, as I generally don’t interact with females at all. Since reality kicked in I reveal very little about what I’m doing, other than travelling.
I’m a big believer in telling/hearing the truth, and my immediate thought was to say “you’re only saying that because you’re not with someone” or “until the next bad boy” or something along those lines.

DDJ wrote:

Ghost her and do not respond. This is a s~~~ test./quote]
I hadn’t thought of that, and it makes a lot of sense. I had to consider where the sentiment same from (out of nowhere), and whether there’s been anything to suggest it was sincere.

I’m not convinced.

[quote quote=604266] Ask her why she loves you and wait to be entertained.

I’d go with this if I was going to address it directly. Much better than clarifying (i.e. “in what way”), which automatically assumes she’s telling the truth.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

I’d say “I love you, too. You’re like the sister I never had”.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[CoolbreezeParticipant 442]

Talk is cheap

I could tell you I loved you too
You wouldn’t be asking us if she was backing it up with action

[XSDBSParticipant 3598]

You do realize that she is using you as an “orbiter”, right?
Why respond at all?

[DocParticipant]

Why over think it. Where is it all leading. Ghost. Check out. Live free.

The object of life is not to be on the side of the majority, but to escape, finding oneself in the ranks of the insane. Marcus Aurelius

[GregB0Participant]

“I’m not sure and don’t plan on giving it any thought, but if I come to a decision, I may let you know if I can remember.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

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