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How was your life with a “compulsive hoarder” or “compulsive cleaner” woman?
I guess that this is a topic worth discussing.
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People with Obsessive Compulsory Disorders (OCD) are equally spread across both genders.But what I have observed is a prevalence of Compulsive Cleaning Disorders among women.
“They” were the mothers of my school comrades, girlfriends and wives of my friends… and these men were suffering…
And this behavior and the continuous disturbances can wreck your nerves. Someone running around in the house all day, picking up every little flake of dirt, dust or hair. Sometimes the cleanup process these “partners” carry out, is ever ongoing and more important than essential every day things.
There is not a single quiet minute in such a place. And even invited guests are looked upon as intruders, bringing in unwanted bacteria, germs or dirt.
The woman is always running after everyone with the vacuum cleaner and the kitchen towel.
And the partner gets extensive preaches and bitching for every little thing he does. Yelling and shouting when he forgets to take away something or leaves dirt anywhere, even if it is by accident.That is one of the “extremes”.
Tell me and the world your stories on this.
Have you ever lived with someone driving you crazy by cleaning 24/7?
Until you were even forbidden to enter part of the house?
.Now for the other “extreme OCD”: Compulsive Hoarding Disorder.
Again, statistically women hoard as much as men.
But I have seen a difference: Men tend to “over-collect” valuable items. Sometimes up to 7 figures in money terms. Whole apartments full of things that are dear belongings of a heartfelt collector…
But women often just hoard stuff that they just can’t stop buying.
After all, that is where the money from “bottomed out credit cards” went…The second type of hoarding that I have seen are just simple “household garbage” collectors. These people let household garbage build up in their house until it is knee deep. And the place becomes a bio-hazard, sometimes twisting your stomach… and making you sick. Been there, seen that – in customer service…
The third kind of hoarding is “animal hoarding”, that field seems to be dominated by women, making up for emotional deficits of all types. Sometimes there is only a thin line between a “crazy cat lady” and serious “animal hording”.
But we all know that women don’t have any empathy for their men, and so it doesn’t bother them that their animals are suffering.
What is you story on this?
Have you ever lived with a hoarder and how did you cope?
Or how did you get out?
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How was your life with a “compulsive hoarder” or “compulsive cleaner” woman?
And this behavior and the continuous disturbances can wreck your nerves. Someone running around in the house all day, picking up every little flake of dirt, dust or hair. Sometimes the cleanup process these “partners” carry out, is ever ongoing and more important than essential every day things.
There is not a single quiet minute in such a place. And even invited guests are looked upon as intruders, bringing in unwanted bacteria, germs or dirt.
Holy s~~~, what an apropo topic for me. I have lived with two compulsive cleaners and and one hoarder. And what you wrote above is the crux of life with a compulsive cleaner, that there “…is not a single quiet minute” in such a place. Constant fussing. Constant cleaning. It is utterly nerve-racking.
Now, I like a clean and orderly house. And yet, life with an obsessive cleaner is no life to live. On the other hand, life with an indifferent slob is equally nerve-racking. Yet again, life with a hoarder who fusses and obsesses over organizing her home disasterous office, again, for the twelfth straight month in a row, is no life either.
Anonymous542nd wife was the cleaner.It was personal. Holy s~~~!
Damn big G, f~~~ing great post. I look back and its positively bianary. Might take a bit uf time, but for me distillation yields either A or B. Great observation bro.
When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.
Oh, and for a clean pussy you don’t want the hoarder.
When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.
And what you wrote above is the crux of life with a compulsive cleaner, that there “…is not a single quiet minute” in such a place. Constant fussing. Constant cleaning. It is utterly nerve-racking.
Well, good that you have survived. I’ve seen husbands killing themselves over that. At least as it was told in our village… But I believe these stories. Many customers were like that and I always had blankets with me in my service car to cover their sofas. I always had clean black jeans on, but the looks these bitches gave me, meant: “Go and get the blanket”, because I didn’t want to pay for their sofa cleaning…
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Damn big G, f~~~ing great post. I look back and its positively bianary. Might take a bit uf time, but for me distillation yields either A or B. Great observation bro.
I have been to thousands of households with “suffering men-slaves” in them. I knew that I might start traumatic fires with some of my experiences. And the “compulsive bitch housewife” is “PREMIUM!”
I still have a whole warehouse full of story material.
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Never come across a compulsive cleaner, all the women I have ever met have been utter slobs.
For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
Anonymous42Oh, and for a clean pussy you don’t want the hoarder.
Why not chaff/flare? Do the hoarders run out of room and start stacking things up inside there? Cat toys and things like that?
Oh, and for a clean pussy you don’t want the hoarder.
Why not chaff/flare? Do the hoarders run out of room and start stacking things up inside there? Cat toys and things like that?
I’m not responding.. crap
When you find yourself in the majority, it's time to reflect.
Most of the women in my life were not dirty, but very sloppy and disorganized. .
Piles of clothes and stuff mixed up. ..
Made no sense at all. .
Messy..
Drawers filled with all sorts of things. .
I would offer the advice that things that are alike go together. .not much success. .
Anonymous43I married an obsessive collector of cake decorating crap. God help me we used to live near the Wilton cake decorating company. Every year they would have a tent sale in the parking lot. Every year she would buy $1000s of cookware, cake pans, frosting colors, every seasonal item tools, gadgets frying pans, spoons all manner of cookware. She bought everyone she knew a garlic press, a lemon juicer and some other useless piece of s~~~. Its all great Christmas gifts she claimed. Bulls~~~…everyone regifts that s~~~ as soon as our taillights are out of sight.
She was obsessed with buying every little cake decorating tip, tool and geegaw possible.
LOL when she p~~~ed me off, which was often, I would throw some of this s~~~ away.
Even bigger lol when her sister p~~~ed me off, I would leave this cake decorating s~~~ at her house every time we would visit. I also buried some if it in the back yard.ex c~~~ also participated in a multilevel marketing scam for cooking tools and utensils. Some chick would host a party, get her friends to buy this s~~~, then the hostess would get free s~~~. Guess who had to clean up the stuff. yeah. WTF. She would fill the closets with “inventory” This chick was insane, she would leave her car filled with stuff incase she had to sell some s~~~ where ever she was. Ever drive a car full of pots, pans and other rattly garbage? yeah, car rides in her car sucked.
Again, collecting every tool possible plus inventor, $1000s of cookware, cake making s~~~, then it was on to scrapbook bulls~~~. Every possible tool and paper packet. F~~~ me, then it was we need a better camera so she could take better scrap book pictures…F~~~ me twice she wanted a $3000 camera set up, custom filters, the best camera bag, Huge ass lenses and a huge ass printer…she wanted all her pictures to be epic sized posters.
IT was buy a whole bunch of s~~~, all the best, buy the entire catalog, then 8 months later, abandon it all and move on. Plastic flowers, mikasa crystal, precious moments, beany babies, cake s~~~, cookware s~~~, baskets, candles, black wrought iron scrap metal s~~~, then it was on to birdhouses and Christmas villages then it was Halloween villages. It was just endless s~~~. She paid full retail then blew it all out at her everything is $5 charity garage sale. F~~~ a duck she sold my $3000 racing bicycle for $5.
She blew out everything then collected more s~~~…ready for this…tea pots and tea cups. We had one of North America’s finest collection of ugly ass tea pots and cups. She bought a $400 tea pot. and she doesn’t drink f~~~ing tea! GAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAAA A titanium tea pot? really?
Fing bird houses, birdfeeders god dam all this stuff was outside, and attracting every bird in the area code, and they all wanted to s~~~ and drink from our pool. I’d pull 3 dead birds a week out of the pool, then the ducks showed up, ducks in the swimming pool. I used to throw ice cubes at the dam ducks, shoulda thrown tea pots.
Fing pool, she had to have all the cool pool toys, floating islands, floating ice coolers, floating vinyl whatever because we had a 27foot wide pool! pool volleyball, noodles, floaty s~~~ for the 39 nieces and nephews her sisters s~~~ out of their meatholes. $1500 pool heater, so she could go swimming in October…we lived near Chicago…End of September gets too cold to swim, she held a Halloween pool party every year. One time it snowed, but the steam coming off the pool looked so cool and creepy she said. Pool was heated until first week of November to 90 degrees. F~~~. Stupid bitch, we had membership in a gym that had an indoor pool, waterslide hot tub and a sauna. But I have a pool toy sanctuary to maintain in my own back yard.
Insane…Thank you Jeebus for the divorce from this insanity. Some other dumb f~~~ is putting up with this now…lol
Anonymous43I hear you laughing. Yeah you. You could live comfortably on the money she spent on useless s~~~.
Insane…Thank you Jeebus for the divorce from this insanity. Some other f~~~ is putting up with this now…lol
It was exactly 3 years today that I found out my ex-wife was cheating on me. I was looking after the children that day, but as soon as she got home from “visiting her mum” I moved out. I lost everything I ever worked for while she kept the house and after 6 months on the carousel she moved her new wallet into the marital home.
But 3 years on I smile to myself when I thing exactly the same thing you do, “Some other f~~~ is putting up with this now”
She is just as lazy as she ever was, her new beta wallet does everything for her, cooking, cleaning and brings her a Gin and Tonic while she just sits on the Sofa. I actually look at him and think I was that pathetic once, thank god I managed to get out of this insanity and get my b~~~~ back.
I also don’t have to constantly worry about the latest shiny s~~~ she wants to buy (she didn’t work), or holiday she wants to go on to the point where I am living paycheque to paycheque.
The first year of divorce was a blur, but today I would say I have not been this happy since my early 20’s when I was single with no worries.
For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.
OMG, may 7 2020, your post cracked me right the f~~~ up. Especially this gem “…39 nieces and nephews her sisters s~~~ out of their meatholes.” Christ, that’s MGTOW gold right there.
I’ve had friends who’s wives succumbed to the multi-level marketing shenanigans of various companies, but I never experienced it myself. My heart goes out to you!
Now that I think of it, the compulsive cleaners were the worst in bed. F~~~ing starfish. At least the slobs could leave a wet spot without having to sanitize the whole f~~~ing room.
Can anyone else corroborate this aspect of women slobs?
Anonymous43Dude we used to have camp outs at my place because we had a huge backyard, the pool, 2 swingsets and a fenced in yard. I would park the lawn tractor and trailer in the front yard and wait for her family to roll up in their Canyoneros to disgorge tents, sleeping bags, toys blankets, clothes, food, and other bullls~~~, every weekend from the beginning of May to Mid August.
Sister 1 had 5 kids, and husband/Chad Thunderc~~~, 3 tents 2 dogs
Sister 2 had 5 kids and husband and homeless out of work brother 5 tents 3 dogs
Sister 3 had 5 kids husband had husband’s brother and wife with 4 kids 2 dogs
Sister 4 had 2 kids, constantly working on #3, 2 tents 2 dogs
Step Brother had 5 kids, 4 tents 1 dog
C~~~’s best friend had 3 kids, 4 tents 1 big ass 400 pound st bernard
C~~~’s cousin had 5 kids 5 tents. 2 dogs
her parents and step parents 3 tents. 5 dogs
Anyone else who showed up…??????Then there was the BIG tent that I rented…think tent revival at the local Baptist church…yellow and white stripes, drive spikes in with a sledge, yeah. and tables, chairs, linens and plates. hundreds of solo cups, plastic forks, napkins and paper towels.
This cavalcade of humanity would typically consume $2500 of food, beer and fruit snacks every weekend. Tent, tables and chairs and bouncy house was about $900. I was constantly grilling brats and burgers dogs, chicken and some mystery meat. Huge buckets of cole slaw, mac salad, baked beans and freezy pops. She would make 2 or 3 cakes and decorate them. Constant noise from dogs kids, music, squeaky swings, cell phones, pool play, pulling kids in the trailer, powerwheels racing and her asshole family yammering. Then there was the extra big screen tv set up on the deck…play station, baseball games, vacation vids, God damit all y’alll go the f~~~ away! I was most at peace on beer runs to another town. I was constantly unclogging toilets, vacuuming up grass, dirt and spilled food, dog food, dog s~~~, going to the grocery store to get more food. Some kid would puke in the bouncy castle…honey could you clean that up? Thanks!
F~~~ me raw every year 10 weekends a year for 10 years. Not one dime was given in payment, nor did anyone do dishes, clean the pool, or patch the lawn after these assholes left. But it was a great party, they all said as they left on Sunday afternoon. I wouldn’t know.
Between the house renovation, the neverending pool parties and s~~~ she collected, we never had any savings. She made $100K a year, no savings. f~~~ my stupid younger self.
Anonymous43seeing all her family with the children always made my exc~~~ very horny. I want moar kids, make more kids with me, wouldn’t it be nice do have more kids, look at all these kids having a good time together. and she’d be working me over all weekend. nope nope nope. more kids, bigger house, more bills more parties
A strong woman at the end of her hoard…
House uninhabitable, credit card debt overdue, man and family gone….
“Snowflake” is looking for treatment:
No.
replacemant “hamster wheel unit” discontinued, out of stock, no longer made…
Bearing damage, no spare parts available, “unit is out of service”.
EOL, waiting for the post-wall clearance bin…
Hamster disabled.
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A while ago, I started this thread on animal hoarding.
I have been working in such houses and places…
Most of then not as bad as it would take to call “animal services”, but the STINK stays on my mind for life…
In 2003 I worked inside a house in which the ground floor was used as a private dog breeding operation. And the stink in the staircase was so extreme, it turned my stomach upside down.
That is why I always had enough mineral water on me. To flush down bad smells and make it easier for my body to reject awful things it was exposed to.
Because if you sweat, things like that will be flushed out of your body. Or they will not enter, because the body is in “give off” mode, when you drink more than you need.
Animal smells are nothing but a mixture of air, chemicals, bacteria and germs riding on evaporated drops of water…
Don’t puke, this is real. And somebody is paying for her s~~~.
I know how much it costs to feed so many animals at the same time… These women are not likely doing that from a scarce welfare allowance, but rather from the alimony of some man she screwed over:
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