How to remain sane while playing the game?

[onmywayParticipant 502]

Hi guys.
It’s been a while since I swallowed the red pill, and things are finally starting to internalize. Meaning, my actions and thoughts are now based on my new understanding of the world, especially in regards to females.
However, I have a job where interaction with women is a big part of it. I also have mangina friends and family and live in Norway, where stating a conservative thought in regards to gender or politics instantly makes me an evil person. I so desperately want to ignore / tell women off at work, but this will get me fired. I feel like a trapped lion, not able to move.
Thus, my life is currently a game – at work and with family I play it – I smile, I’m positive, I try not to spill too much truth (I did once at work, when I started to sing “Cry my a river” by Justin Timberlake while laughing, when a single mom complained about her “desperate situation”, as she couldn’t afford some luxury s~~~ for her kid with my tax money. This turned into hell. Couldn’t help myself though.) At home I do my thing – I’m a minimalist, I work on my hobbies and skills, I save for a rainy day and I hang out with people I like. However, I’m struggling with the whole “stealth” thing. I love the idea of not giving a s~~~. But I’m really struggling.
I just can’t seem to not give a f~~~ yet. I see so much stupidity and entitled bitches in my everyday life, and it gets to me. Due to this, I’m dead set on starting a business and going the self-employed route down the road, but as I’m just starting out at 26 this won’t happen anytime soon.

Will this whole don’t-give-a-f~~~ / stealth thing get easier with time?
I’m worrying about my mental health in the long run – how the f~~~ can I remain sane when I’m surrounded by stupid not-all-muslims-are-like-that lefty c~~~s?

[RoyDalParticipant]

When at work, leave your predilections at home. Talk work topics but nothing else.

Politics, religion, some single mom’s plight: Answer questions about these with an evasion that redirects the topic back to your work.

Your work is what you are getting paid for, not all those side issues.

Having said all the above, I must confess my sense of humor runs in the same gutter. I’ve (foolishly and unnecessarily) goaded some fem or mangaina merely for the sport of it. I recommend against it, although I have emerged relatively unscathed.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[AnthonyParticipant 241]

onmyway wrote:

Hi guys.
It’s been a while since I swallowed the red pill, and things are finally starting to internalize. Meaning, my actions and thoughts are now based on my new understanding of the world, especially in regards to females.
However, I have a job where interaction with women is a big part of it. I also have mangina friends and family and live in Norway, where stating a conservative thought in regards to gender or politics instantly makes me an evil person. I so desperately want to ignore / tell women off at work, but this will get me fired. I feel like a trapped lion, not able to move.
Thus, my life is currently a game – at work and with family I play it – I smile, I’m positive, I try not to spill too much truth (I did once at work, when I started to sing “Cry my a river” by Justin Timberlake while laughing, when a single mom complained about her “desperate situation”, as she couldn’t afford some luxury s~~~ for her kid with my tax money. This turned into hell. Couldn’t help myself though.) At home I do my thing – I’m a minimalist, I work on my hobbies and skills, I save for a rainy day and I hang out with people I like. However, I’m struggling with the whole “stealth” thing. I love the idea of not giving a s~~~. But I’m really struggling.
I just can’t seem to not give a f~~~ yet. I see so much stupidity and entitled bitches in my everyday life, and it gets to me. Due to this, I’m dead set on starting a business and going the self-employed route down the road, but as I’m just starting out at 26 this won’t happen anytime soon.

Will this whole don’t-give-a-f~~~ / stealth thing get easier with time?
I’m worrying about my mental health in the long run – how the f~~~ can I remain sane when I’m surrounded by stupid not-all-muslims-are-like-that lefty c~~~s?

Get used to stating sarcastic ass comments in your mind while stupid people are talking. (That’s mainly how I deal with my anger and it actually turns a moment of rage into a moment of laughter, just try not to laugh out loud)

Save up, go back to a trade school (which I plan on doing) and get a job such as a welder, anything to do with construction, or learn to program apps independently for iOS and Android.

You can also go get IT certifications and become an independent ethical hacker/IT consultant. They still pay huge amounts of money, and most of it’s being your own boss, and you’re still working for a company for a few months setting up the security on their networks. Plus, you barely have to interact with people.

Either that, or learn a new language and move to a South American country (preferably in the tropics) or a South Asian country (such as Thailand)

If all else fails, start your own farm (preferably aquaponics and sell your products at a farmers market. Or, start your homestead if you can deal with living off the grid.

[Klaus WindamierParticipant 543]

I’m worrying about my mental health in the long run – how the f~~~ can I remain sane when I’m surrounded by stupid not-all-muslims-are-like-that lefty c~~~s?

If i’m in your position, this is what i do.

1. Be stealthy.
2. Preparation.
Prepare your savings (as i do), in case things go south. Savings : USD / Euro / Yuan or any global valued money, and gold. (start with the 100 grams, as i do).
Prepare some water (bottled) and food (canned), in case things go south, so at least, you have your chance to get out of there.
3. Filter your friends, get rid of friends who want to turn you into mangina / white knight, and people who suggest you to married like jehovah witness.
4. Do your hobby (for mine : waching movie (which is much tainted by feminist global propaganda s~~~), doing sports, reading, or tasting new kind of food, etc).
5. Always appreciate little things you have. Appreciation is important. It is the key to stabilized your mind and emotion.
6. Control your lizard brain, do not consumed by it. Brain is part of your body, it is you who have to control that.

I live in muslim majority country, so i got an understanding about : I’m surrounded by stupid not-all-muslims-are-like-that.

Well, that’s what i do if i’m in your position.

Everything will be fine and you will find your own way.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Heed Klaus and Anthony. I’m already out of the game, as far as the tax collectors will allow. By this I mean, you too can get out in the long run.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[onmywayParticipant 502]

Great advice, brothers! Thank you guys so much!

[Anonymous 5]

Just imagine all the funny sick burns you want to say, but keep them in your head. Continue smiling while working. It is easy to smile when you are thinking of calling them a dumb smelly c~~~. It works for me.

[RoyDalParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Just imagine all the funny sick burns you want to say, but keep them in your head. Continue smiling while working. It is easy to smile when you are thinking of calling them a dumb smelly c~~~. It works for me.

Ah yes, had I been a lot smarter, I’d have done the same.

BTW, my way out was building up a passive income from investments. I did this by living so far inside my income that squeezing two coins together made true the maxim about “getting blood from a turnip.” Those hard-won savings got invested wisely (more or less) and are supporting me these days.

Keep on truckin’, brother. There is a way out. However much hard work and suffering are needed, you too can get out.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[Puffin StuffParticipant 24979]

I agree with what was said above. I just laughed in my own head and kept it to myself. Even a little mistake can get you fired and these land whales have permanent memory. They will come after you years later for something you say today.

You have to be very circumspect as to what you say.

Since you can only “say” something if your mouth moves you are in total control of the situation and don’t have to look for other work just keep your mouth shut.

#icethemout; Remember Thomas Ball. He died for your children.

[WallyParticipant]

I have a similar situation where I am the only male on my job with almost 30 women. Luckily, I am not there most of the time as my job has me out and about. I recommend you buy some nice headphones so you don’t hear most of what they say and eliminates the temptation of speaking out. If they find out what you are and believe they will try to ruin you.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[onmywayParticipant 502]

This is such great stuff! I can’t express how grateful I am for finding this place! I definitely need more positive reading and influences in my life.
Will continue on full stealth mode and keep on learning!

[Anonymous 5]

onmyway wrote:

Hi guys.
It’s been a while since I swallowed the red pill, and things are finally starting to internalize. Meaning, my actions and thoughts are now based on my new understanding of the world, especially in regards to females.
However, I have a job where interaction with women is a big part of it. I also have mangina friends and family and live in Norway, where stating a conservative thought in regards to gender or politics instantly makes me an evil person. I so desperately want to ignore / tell women off at work, but this will get me fired. I feel like a trapped lion, not able to move.
Thus, my life is currently a game – at work and with family I play it – I smile, I’m positive, I try not to spill too much truth (I did once at work, when I started to sing “Cry my a river” by Justin Timberlake while laughing, when a single mom complained about her “desperate situation”, as she couldn’t afford some luxury s~~~ for her kid with my tax money. This turned into hell. Couldn’t help myself though.) At home I do my thing – I’m a minimalist, I work on my hobbies and skills, I save for a rainy day and I hang out with people I like. However, I’m struggling with the whole “stealth” thing. I love the idea of not giving a s~~~. But I’m really struggling.
I just can’t seem to not give a f~~~ yet. I see so much stupidity and entitled bitches in my everyday life, and it gets to me. Due to this, I’m dead set on starting a business and going the self-employed route down the road, but as I’m just starting out at 26 this won’t happen anytime soon.

Will this whole don’t-give-a-f~~~ / stealth thing get easier with time?
I’m worrying about my mental health in the long run – how the f~~~ can I remain sane when I’m surrounded by stupid not-all-muslims-are-like-that lefty c~~~s?

Don’t feel alone. But as reality is the ratio to mgtow to mangina is bad. Were talking for every one mgtow or as I would say “rational thinking man” there are 100000 retarded bats~~~ “the news tells the truth” – “how dare you?!”, “of course you should get married” individuals. Thats not to say maybe 1 quarter of those “lost people” (wrongly said) have the basic principles to act fairly without being educated in such a hard manner. You will never win in a argument against a group of pussies that can’t see the greater picture & it makes you wonder if anyone is home.

[narwhalParticipant]

It’s been said the women are like children. So then, how do you speak to children? You don’t throw out sarcastic or insulting statements. And if you explain something, you do it in simple terms that aren’t over their heads.

In other words, don’t talk about adult topics unless you have to. And if you pushed into, it then make sure you do it in plan and simple terms. And if you have to play along with white lies like “Santa Claus does exist”, then do it, knowing that they aren’t ready to hear the truth. If they seem ready, then still give to them in small does that are easy to understand and hard to deny. Any like children, let them come to their own conclusions based on the facts…don’t give them the answer, just the facts.

So for example, if a woman starts talking about how men are paid more for the same work…and pushes you to comment on it….and you don’t want to just keep your mouth shut, then you can state the facts about where the statistics come from. But, keeping your mouth shut is best. Next best is keeping with the basic facts, like talking to a child.

Ok. Then do it.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

onmyway wrote:

I just can’t seem to not give a f~~~ yet. I see so much stupidity and entitled bitches in my everyday life, and it gets to me.

Same thing.
I found speaking it out/sharing/discussing with friends/like minded people to be the best thing, instead of holding it.

Even writing it down in a word document, then deleting it can work haha. The point is, to not hold all the negativity in yourself, let that s~~~ trough.

And think more about positive things/memories. Let that be a motivational thing to go forward or when you relax.

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