How to live a happy MGTOW life?

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Those who are living a long happy MGTOW life, can you give some important tips on staying a happy MGTOW man? I some times get tempted by women but try not to make the mistakes I made in the past. Please share some of your great MGTOW knowledge, it would be a great help for me to stay on track as a MGTOW for life? I appreciate your advice.

[Modern Playboys.comParticipant 16]

The biggest thing honestly is learning not to give a f*ck.

In lighter terms, just learn not to have a care in the world. The quality of your life depends on the stresses that are going on in your world. From women, work, financials, life goals, materials, whatever. The whole purpose of this movement is for you to break out of your own shell and implement things that work for the betterment of your life.

MGTOW is all about men increasing the quality of your life by “going their own way” and taking matters into their own hands in achieving it. If that’s not enough to keep you on track towards your own goals for your own happiness then I don’t know what is.

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[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Focus.on yourself,zero f~~~ to what women’s think.or might expect from you or society just focus on you, let’s said you want to go to brazil or any other country save money focus on that ,

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Exercise and eat well to keep yourself healthy and fit. Make lots of money and invest it so you can retire super early.

I can’t think of anything better than being a fit, young looking 40 year old who is retired and financially independent and doesn’t give a f~~~ about anything and has literally no responsibility in life…and well…that’s my goal! I’ll be having the time of my life while all the women my age have gone face first into the wall and turned into crazy cat ladies…boy am I glad I never let one of those anchors drag me down!

[RayBandakuParticipant 888]

Thanks for the advice. It’s been five years since my official Divorce where I lost 80% of my wealth(house, cars, money, business..) one thing that helped me the most is to look into my past and remember never to make the mistake of getting married and losing my freedom, time and wealth and also reading great posts from here mgtow.com

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Not to.mention.in brazil or Colombia there’s plenty.of women’s.to f~~~ best.of all no attach so why bother.with theses.princesses from usa???

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

It’s not as hard as you may think.
The primary objective is to keep your mind on bettering yourself instead of t~~~ validation.

[Anonymous 24]

Though I don’t really the agree with the “no f~~~s to give” attitude in all regards, because if you lived like that you would not even be able to feed yourself. When it pertains to women, yes, I think it is a great attitude. This doesn’t mean you can’t date or have relationships, just don’t get involved to any level that would compromise your sovereignty. Same with life, do not compromise your sovereignty and you will be ok. This does not mean you cannot be into something and care about it though. Because if you lived a totally uncaring life, it would be nothing. No hobbies, nothing… I say surround yourself with good people as much as you can and do what you want in life without giving power over you to others. It is simple really.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

If you are having a hard time being happy in your life I would suggest that you don’t try.

Rather I would suggest you seek a life of fulfillment instead.

They are similar but different. I will try to write about this in the future.

Link

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[KeymasterKeymaster]

RayBandaku wrote:

can you give some important tips staying a happy MGTOW man?

“I don’t have time for a wife and an airplane”.
– Wilbur Wright

That quote spoke loudly to me. It screams “keep busy” and “keep moving”. Most of the time – even when I had a girlfreind(s) – I was too busy to NOT be a happy MGTOW man. Kept moving. Travelled alot.

Settling just wasn’t appealing. Certainly not more appealing.

I love coming home to a place that’s exactly the way I left it and dropping my shoes where I want. With no “noise”. No schedule or sense of obligation to be or go somewhere. Grocery shopping at 10PM instead of Saturday mornings in traffic. No coordinating schedules. Eating when I’m hungry. And I hate “checking in” anywhere.

When I had girlfriends, after working all day, it just felt like a second shift!

PS it’s great to see @raybandaku again!

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Jan Sobieski wrote:

Rather I would suggest you seek a life of fulfillment instead.

They are similar but different. I will try to write about this in the future.

Link

@jan.Sobieski thanks for this. I’ve been giving some thought to the difference between happiness, fulfillment & amusement lately. Do you have anything that you’ve written or researched already (aside from the one link you shared, thanks) that i could learn from?

@raybandaku – i don’t consider MGTOW an end in and of itself. MGTOW is the means by which i remove timesinks & other obstacles (women, marriage, kids, etc.) from my life, so that i have much more time & energy & money to pursue things i *do* want – like time to hit the gym regularly, pursue other career opportunities, travel, volunteer, dance, etc etc.

An analogy i thought of while going through my divorce a couple years back: it’s like a revolution.

I was overthrowing the old government (my marriage) because it was so bad that i couldn’t live like that another day.

Building a new government (a life just for me) – you have to focus on things you love & are passionate about, the principles you value the most.

It’s worth noting that overthrowing the old government has a finish line. Building up your new life is something you (ideally) will be doing until you die. You’re in control to pursue your passions in whichever direction you choose.

In the event you don’t know what your passions might be, i’d suggest hitting meetup.com for 10 events over the span of a month or two. Some things that might pique your interest:
– Salsa dancing class
– Painting/drawing
– Volunteer at a soup kitchen or animal shelter
– Learn to weld metals

Remember: You’re in the driver’s seat. As a MGTOW, you have no wife or girlfriend or kids holding you back. How you spend each & every day is up to you. What would most make you happy or fulfilled right now?

[NotMyProblemParticipant 965]

Turn down the volume on life. Lose the distractions and focus on your own thoughts. That’s all you have. Thoughts create your reality.

Forget about happiness. Just be content. Once you purge the pussy stress, life gets a lot easier. Within a year you’ll have filled all that free time with new interests and hobbies.

After a while you may even discover your purpose. I suggest finding something you want to fix or change in the world and get to it. Think Big. It’s feels good to have an epic project to work on.

Find your project…

Not my property... Not my problem

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

Joe bau dude what what are you talking about???does society give a s~~~ about you?noo let me tell you why because society is all about women’s you get it now???that’s why i said to him to focus.on himself,because society don’t give a crap about men unless you present yourself as a good mangina

[Wolf redpillmanSpectator 1658]

I’m.not saying to him to not give a f~~~ about.life and be a bum,im saying to him to focus.on himself and thing he might like, why should i give a f~~~ about society？ or any mgtow ??we are mgtow and we know wwhat society expect from us as men so tell me this why should we give a f~~~?????

[HitmanParticipant]

Balls; be brave and try new things.challenge your belief system.
Attitude; happiness is a feeling, positive minded thinking can yield much more.
Direction; focus on your goals,strive for excellence in all you do .

[Tim PattenParticipant 658]

Thanks for the advice. It’s been five years since my official Divorce where I lost 80% of my wealth(house, cars, money, business..) one thing that helped me the most is to look into my past and remember never to make the mistake of getting married and losing my freedom, time and wealth and also reading great posts from here mgtow.com

Ray: can I use this as an anonymous example of how MGTOW is saving men( my next article)?

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

I have a friend who said something very profound, I thought, to the extent that to expect, or try to get, happiness in your life is unrealistic. What is realistic, and better, even, is to adopt an attitude of contentment: contentment with who you are, what you have, your position, etc.

Look at what you have, and realize that, as long as you’re living in a civilized nation, you actually have it pretty good. I may bitch a lot here about how upset I have, but if I actually step back, I realize that I have it pretty good: I live comfortably in the greatest nation on the planet, I’m never hungry, I have a place of my own, quite a bit of money in the bank, I’m about to graduate with a degree in computer engineering from a prestigious university with absolutely no debt, my novel is almost done, my piano playing is getting nothing but better, I have my health, energy, a functioning body, and a functioning mind.

I have it pretty good, if not great. And I’m certain that, if you think about your position from an objective point of view, balancing all the positives and the negatives, you’ll find you have it if not great than at least something to be content with.

Contentedness is what you want to pursue, not happiness. It’s easier, for one thing; and, also if you achieve contentedness, if then happiness, by a fluke of nature, does come to you, great; if not, you have that contentment to fall back on.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

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