How to keep them at arm's length

[SilverstoneParticipant 133]

I’ve found the best way to keep women at arm’s length is to either ignore them or treat them like s~~~. I was raised to always treat women with respect and all that jazz, but it became apparent that women don’t like nice guys, and after being friend zoned so many times, and being walked on by women, I decided to change it up. One of the most gratifying feelings is when a woman is trying to get you attention and you simply won’t give it to them. When they try to strut and catch your eye and you totally ignore them. There’s something liberating about it. And it only seems to happen when you’re not paying attention to them. If you’re drooling like the million saps fiending after her, she won’t give you the time of day, but if you ignore her women seem to go nuts.

They need that attention, they crave it, it totally validates them both in society and among their friends, not to mention it provides an ego boost or them. Just ignore her. I’ve got to admit, during right after high school this was a fun twist on things.

 

The second strategy is to treat them like s~~~, and here’s what I mean by that. Whenever she thinks she’s got a hold on you, you have to break loose. Whenever there’s a date set aside for you to go out and do something, just don’t show, whenever she tries to manipulate you by demanding commitment, or if she tries to pick your brain, just strong arm her. Give her vague answers, or don’t answer at all. Modern women want to know they have their talons in a man, so the more you tease her with that, and don’t give her control, ever. And remember, you can always walk away from her, and there are a million fish in the sea.

[FermatParticipant 3478]

I’m on a hi bye basis with women in the workplace. I only talk to discuss business then I leave. I eat lunch alone. If there’s a group of 3 or more girls within a space conversing or whatever I simply find another route to go. I just don’t like socializing with women and I apply this to my everyday interactions with them. It has only brought me peace.

I have discovered a truly remarkable list of reasons why women are not necessary for a happy life, but alas this margin is too small to contain it.

[SilverstoneParticipant 133]

I’m largely the same way, however, I like to get my jollies just by screwing with women the way they’ve screwed with me. I haven’t been on a date in nearly 2 years, but it’s still somewhat gratifying to unnerve them, especially when they try to flaunt themselves. It’s one of the great many things that have brought me peace 😀

 

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I bought extra long arms ?

[SilverstoneParticipant 133]

I totally agree. I don’t need or want female validation, they however need mine or men’s in general I should say. It’s something I do from time to time just for laughs. I’m truly free, and I have made it a point to be flaky and aloof when it comes to women if I even choose to acknowledge them at all. Most of the time I don’t.

[Bl4ckSh33pParticipant 274]

Bro I get a kick out of ignoring attractive women. I make it my mission to give them the least amount of attention possible. At school it’s always the girls who put in a lot of work into their appearance who always try the hardest to get me to notice them, it’s so pathetic because they really can’t take my hint that I really don’t give two s~~~s about them. Nor do I want anything to do with them. It drives them nuts too, so sometimes they’ll take it as a challenge and try harder, and I just sit there and laugh in my head because I sure as hell ain’t talking to them unless I have absolutely have to hahaha. I swear to god women are so small minded, they think everything has to revolve around them, and then they meet a guy like me and end up feeling dumbstruck.

I hate to break it to you, but what people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard Morty then it slowly fades leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. I did it. Your parents are going to do it. Break the cycle Morty, rise above, focus on science. -Rick Sanchez

[RoyDalParticipant]

Fermat wrote:

I’m on a hi bye basis with women in the workplace. I only talk to discuss business then I leave. I eat lunch alone. If there’s a group of 3 or more girls within a space conversing or whatever I simply find another route to go. I just don’t like socializing with women and I apply this to my everyday interactions with them. It has only brought me peace.

Same here. That is what I did in my office drone days. That is what I do now, with modifications to fit my changed circumstances.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[BritGHOWParticipant 2566]

Rather than wasting time and effort keeping them at arms length, instead make it so they are the ones “pushing” you away.

As was discussed on another thread, be discreet with your success and money/wealth and many women thinking you’re not worthy of them will happily push you aside in blissful ignorance, job done.

[SilverstoneParticipant 133]

Yeah, you know what I’m talking about 😀

I’ve also found that the prettiest girls are also the most insecure, so that’s always fun to play around with too.

[SilverstoneParticipant 133]

If there’s one thing I’m happy for, in addition to all the negatives of being a man in today’s society, it’s that women don’t often approach men, unless they are being flashy and what not and displaying their wealth. It’s really easy to be discrete about wealth, and the difference in how women treat you once they find out vs before when they thought you had nothing is like night and day.

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

Silverstone wrote:

It’s really easy to be discrete about wealth, and the difference in how women treat you once they find out vs before when they thought you had nothing is like night and day.

This. Is when I started awakening from my slumber as it were. I used to experiment with this, before I deep 6’d them.

Many times, almost all the time now, when I go out in public, I wear clothes that almost look like I have 1 foot damn near in the streets and being homeless.

Since I once was, it comes natural to pull that look off for me. It has actually made going to the store, etc., much more bearable.

Ignoring and being ignored, just poetic for me.

As a side note, it is also brings a smile to my face when I spend some kinda “serious” cash for a new TV, whatever, and the looks I get….

Just f~~~ing priceless.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

BritGHOW wrote:

Rather than wasting time and effort keeping them at arms length, instead make it so they are the ones “pushing” you away. As was discussed on another thread, be discreet with your success and money/wealth and many women thinking you’re not worthy of them will happily push you aside in blissful ignorance, job done.

I finally got a “real” job this year, and am making 2-3x what I’ve gotten accustomed to living off, plus I’m done paying for college and the condo I’ve been living in is nearly paid off.  For a while I was thinking about all the awesome s~~~ I could buy now…but then I realized how much more epic it would be to just continue living like I’m making 30-40k a year for a few more years while being in a position to bank 50-75% of my pay.

I always thought of a “retirement number” as having a certain amount in the bank…but recently have come to the realization that number can be drastically reduced by lowering your living expenses.  It has since become my goal to lower my expenses and hit that financial independence number as early as possible.  I can’t think of nothing more awesome than by 35 having no debt at all and enough investment income coming in to pay all my living expenses.  Past that point any time I spend working is entirely for fun money and luxury money…no more working to survive.  If living well below my means also means that a lot of women will overlook me because they think I’m broke or cheap, that is just an added benefit of my plan!

[Jon the Ex-SquidParticipant 298]

“I’m very allergic to cats,” usually works for me.

[ApplejackSpectator 235]

This is something I’ve had to deal with for quite some time.  Women would chase me and just would NOT take a hint that I was NOT interested.  It never crosses their minds that a man would ever not want them.  P~~~es me off.  The only way they’re going to get me anywhere near them is by force, because I would NEVER willingly sleep with a woman, go out with a woman, or even give a woman the time of day.  It’s just not worth the risk of STD’s and pregnancy, and their attitudes are terrible.

I own a business that I’m very much a part of.  Whenever I’d mention that I was the owner, their total demeanor would change.  You could tell that they were thinking “Well, this guy makes bank.  Let me see if I can sleep with him, sucker him into marrying me, and take all his money.”

So I made damned sure I NEVER mentioned that I was the owner to a woman or even a man if another woman was in earshot.  I also stopped dressing nice when I went out.  I dress in a worn t-shirt that looks like I pulled it from the gutter as well as baggy pants and a worn baseball cap.  I don’t dress this way when I’m working, but when I go out, why not?  Women don’t even glance at me anymore.  It’s wonderful.

This one bitch that worked at the grocery store would constantly try to flirt with me.  Make small talk, whatever.  I finally just said “Look, I’m here to get some food, not talk.  So will you kindly just p~~~ off?  I’m NOT interested.”  She got all f~~~ing p~~~ed and started screaming at me and s~~~.  The cops were called and she got fired on the spot.

Like really, why the F~~~ would I be interested in some dumb ass bitch that could only get a job stocking shelves at the grocery store?  She sure showed her true colors once I rejected her.  F~~~ing crazy ass bitch.

Technically speaking I suppose she could be considered “hot.”  I don’t know because I’m not attracted to women anymore.  But seriously, I wouldn’t care if she were the hottest woman on earth.  Working at a f~~~ing grocery store.  Give me a break!

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