How to handle being horny all the time…

[swisscheesParticipant 77]

Hi guys,

Im new here and not sure if this post is in the right section so my apology if its wrong.

My “problem” is, im most of the time horny. Specialy now summer time arriving with the hotpants and the fresh young women half naked i see in my train rides, even if im not, after 10min i will at some point in my day. Since i quit online dating of reason u guys here in MGTOW (which i think is awesome) already know, that its a waste of time for a average looking men to find someone to f~~~. Maybe im doing it wrong, maybe im not who cares i left and i feel waaay better. Still i like to f~~~. Since im not turning gay in this life and im young, i need at least once per month sex. I did some weeks ago with a hooker but its not the same. Ofc if u pay for high end hookers it would be quit nice but i cant and will not do that.

I write too much. My real question here is, how do you find a way not running after women and be a bitch f~~~ing slave, cause u need sex? Because at least in my country, average to even good looking men HAVE TO run and baybsitt (i call babysitt if u have to always have an eye on a women in a nightclub if u talk with her, even if u maked out! Cause she can go away anytime and find another men, happended to me a lot).

Im tired of running and chasing women. Got 2 phone numbers from last weekend from a pub crawl. Ofc i could write one of them and do the “entertaining” game and maybe get a date and f~~~. But im tired of it. Im tired of doing most of the work. Im done with it. Im a men. Not a f~~~ing slave.

So what u guys doing? Jerking off? Hookers? Being a monk? Or u more lucky with women outside dating sites then me? Honest answers here pls 🙂

Have a nice day everyone.

[experiencedParticipant]

If I am too horny, I close my eyes and “envision” feminists.
Feminists like those found where they are all screaming rape, rape, you’re a potential rapist, he’s a potential rapist, those guys over there are potential rapists, here’s a list of potential rapists, etc.

WHAT I SEE:

Anyway, I envision these women in my mind, the type of women who ……..
And…I’m just not so horny any more.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Anonymous 3]

If you think you need to have sex with women, then you are already a bitch slave. It’s all in your head.

Don’t get me wrong, if a guy enjoys sexual encounters with women, go ahead and indulge. But the last thing an alcohol addict, or somebody who cannot control his urges needs, is more alcohol.

That’s how guys get burnt in the ass, is when their mind isn’t all clear, and end up doing silly things because of their sex drive, things that they wouldn’t have even considered doing in the first place, things that they in their right mind think are completely stupid and dumb.

Look at you. You said you got 2 phone numbers from hanging out last weekend. God knows how long you spent in that stupid club. Would you have done that if you weren’t thinking with your penis? Probably not dare I say. You would probably have done something else, wouldn’t you? So there, you have already gone down the bitch slave road and you didn’t even realize it.

If you really want to have sex with women, you’re going to have to compromise. Think about to what degree of a bitch slave you want to be, and work with that. Think about how much you’re willing to play their game, because that’s exactly what it is, their game.

Hookers are the most honest way here because you are guaranteed to get sex and most importantly, you’re paying her to leave.

[Truthseeker82Participant 6406]

It’s ok Dude. You’re human. As men, the sight of a young, hot chick is alluring – very much so – and for good reason. The sex drive is enormous – second to survival. You can “trick” the instinct by wanking, but many find that unfulfilling. Sex toys may be an option, but if you’re like me and like a nice rack and ass to play with – those fall
short too. Hookers – if legal and you’re careful can relieve the urge. Finally – if you choose to hook up – be super careful. Condom in your possession at all times. Make sure she is not drunk or otherwise impaired. And use your instincts.

[HitmanParticipant]

Part of being a man is being horny all the time.
What you choose to do with the energy is what makes the difference.
Take 5 minutes and whack off every day if you must.
Channel that energy into work, school, a project that you can be proud of!
It’s okay to be horny and not act on it, self discipline is a necessary part of life.
Learn to enjoy being horny, without having to act on it.
Finally, a friend with benefits is a great idea in my book. .
Good luck brother and don’t sweat it too much! !!!

[EinherjarParticipant 608]

Welcome to the forums mate! You have already been given great advice from the other MGTOWS here, advices that most of us never got while growing up. Personally, I am very fond of the though of channeling your sexuality outwards to other parts of life. Channel it, like a force of nature, towards things in life that will only be a benefit to you! A woman will only give you a temporary satisfaction, and you might sometimes spend too much energy in achieving it. Energy better spent at your own life goals.

The sexual drive within a man are never stronger than in his late teens and early twenties. And I get you, now when summer is on the verge it is often a bit of torture for a man to walk outside. Since women tend to dress themselves in clothes that does not work… clothes that does not cover their private parts. It is never fun to have your sexuality unwillingly awakened when you just want to mind your own business. By the time a man has arrived at his work or school, he has already seen 72 pairs of halfnaked boobs and 132 different asses only covered in thigh fitted hot-pants. How are a man supposed to focus on his work if he is already (unwillingly) sexually aroused? Not so easy to turn around.

Best thing a young man can do is to watch porn. And the more you watch it, the less you will be put of by scantly dressed women. Of course you might want the real thing, but the dangers attached to it are often far worse than the benefits: pregnancy, STDs, false rape allegations etc.

Porn is the best way to keep your sexuality in check, and luckily, as you get older, you will stop paying so much attention to it as you do now:)

Cheers mate!

The worst form of inequality is to try to make unequal things equal - Aristotle (384 - 322 BC)

[hmskl’dParticipant 6406]

swisschees wrote:

Specialy now summer time arriving with the hotpants and the fresh young women half naked i see in my train rides..

quick glance at that fresh young woman’s mother is good indication what she will also end up looking like in a few years
.. might be a little scary

[swisscheesParticipant 77]

Anonymous wrote:

Look at you. You said you got 2 phone numbers from hanging out last weekend. God knows how long you spent in that stupid club. Would you have done that if you weren’t thinking with your penis? Probably not dare I say. You would probably have done something else, wouldn’t you? So there, you have already gone down the bitch slave road and you didn’t even realize it.

U so f~~~ing right. I would went home way earlier if i wasnt thinking with my penis that night. Thats right!

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

You see all that sexual energy you have … and can’t get to f~~~ it out of yourself …

Well take that energy and focus it on your own self improvement.

Work out, rage at work, design, invent …. USE IT TO BETTER YOURSELF.

Then the pussy will throw itself at you. No more chasing it.

That’s what I did …. but I threw their pussy right back at them …. then went wash my hands.

[swisscheesParticipant 77]

Einherjar wrote:

The sexual drive within a man are never stronger than in his late teens and early twenties. And I get you, now when summer is on the verge it is often a bit of torture for a man to walk outside. Since women tend to dress themselves in clothes that does not work… clothes that does not cover their private parts. It is never fun to have your sexuality unwillingly awakened when you just want to mind your own business. By the time a man has arrived at his work or school, he has already seen 72 pairs of halfnaked boobs and 132 different asses only covered in thigh fitted hot-pants. How are a man supposed to focus on his work if he is already (unwillingly) sexually aroused? Not so easy to turn around.

Yeah my best friend and myself say that every summer. How can u f~~~ing focus if u have seen 72 pairs of halfnaked boobs nearly in ur face? Porn is a solution but its not the same. To focus this sexual energy into other things isnt easy. I do sometimes and go to the GYM without jerking off and yeah, i feel more aggressive and can lift more but still…then u see this half naked women in the GYM: “bammm boner”. Its not funny to have an erection while working out in a full GYM.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Then your little head will rule and they then have you EXACTLY where they want you.

Go on a 2 week fk holiday and get it out of your system ….

Or be forever doomed by your dick.

[Ash NrahkParticipant 199]

ILiveAgain wrote:

Then your little head will rule and they then have you EXACTLY where they want you.

Go on a 2 week fk holiday and get it out of your system ….

Or be forever doomed by your dick.

Sooo um got any examples of a f~~~ holiday? I ask because I too am really needing to do something about this.

At my most unhealthy my sex drive was mostly manageable but having lost 15 kg since last Nov my body has rewarded me with a significant boost and its not such a blessing.

I have to wank 2 times a day now and I’m not young either 🙁 but at least Its sustainable. Well I say sustainable but this many years relying on porn I sometimes wonder how this is effecting me.

Its got to the point where I have made the decision to save up and get a higher class escort maybe every 3 months or so. I have never paid for it before but thanks to being able to hang around and talk with other MGTOW’s I no longer see it as an immoral transaction in fact its seems to me the only honest way.

I also find the whole channelling sexual energy fascinating. I mean to get to this stage in life and having never consciously channelled is almost laughable so yea I’m going to give that a go.

Your not alone OP t~~~ n ass are a mixed blessing for sure.

[MoonlightParticipant 223]

I’ve had the same problem. My libido is still too high but I’ve always managed to remain celibate. Here’s some tips I have from personal experience:

Porn really helps desensitize the rush of seeing a woman’s skin or form in public. It helps you become more picky with what you see.

Masturbation as much as needed can help a little bit, especially when you get good at it from practice. Experiment to find what you like.

Learning to just look ahead and pay no attention to women is a trained skill that’s helped me a lot. I’ve heard it infuriates them too.

Learning more about women’s behavior and how they exploit men is useful knowledge. Knowing more about the science behind sex is like learning how a magic trick works, removing the illusion.

Meditation can help develop self discipline. I recommend about 20 minutes a day to start and learning how to do it properly. You’ll know you’re doing it right when you find it’s really hard to accomplish early on.

I hope my tips help!

[goadsaidParticipant 100]

I handle it like a recovering alcoholic with secretly distorted perceptions. i.e. I think.. keep working, do whatever I can to make huge amounts of money and hopefully some day I can afford to f~~~ whoever I want. For now, however, most of the “normal” girls aren’t f~~~able anyway, the ones who are I can’t afford (for soo many different reasons – not just financial but time-consumption as well) and I will just set myself back by trying. If I get rich, I will get top notch hookers and drink champagne every day. For now, I can afford neither.
When we get older and these bitches get desperate – we will have the option of banging them if we still want to, the option of actual pretty girls if we get rich and, of course, mgtow monk status if we find that life is going well without women despite the fact that we didn’t consciously always want it like that. Whichever way you slice it, the bitches lose.

[xlrsnbrgParticipant 1786]

Truthseeker82 wrote:

Hookers – if legal and you’re careful can relieve the urge.

Unless I’m mixing things up I think they are legal in his country (Switzerland) but the risk of disease (even minor, like herpes) is really not worth it. On top of the disgusting factor.

Actually that one is a good way of staying away from women: just think for a minute and try to guess how many men she has slept with. 5, 10, 20? That disgusts me instantly, removing any sense of excitement.

A man shouldn't make his life's objective to be on the side of the majority, but to avoid finding himself in the ranks of the insane. (Marcus Aurelius)

[Anonymous 11]

I pushing 50 and still have to wank regularly.

I’m with Bunker and the others on this. Get a Fleshlight. There is no way your hand can ever compete with it.

It makes you realize just how over valued pussy really is.

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

@experienced
Please don’t put anymore images with references to swedish feminists: it makes me shudder…really… (see bottom).

@swisschees
I jerk off every morning when I wake up.
Then I jerk off before going out during free time.
It works fine.
Also, this

It’s named “Sqweel XT” – it has 10 artificial tongues performing a blowjob: it’s not good as a real blowjob but it works quite well.
I don’t use fleshlights, both for ideological reasons and because I have a partner – I meet her 7-8 days per month, no more.
Blowjobs are a different thing: it’s far easier to get a vagina than a good blowjob – a blowjob is a service to the man, an intercourse is supposed to be pleasurable for both (that’s why I’ll never pay for f~~~ing an escort).

@experienced: I was with my partner in a elevator. A couple entered in the elevator. They were swedish. She was ranting against him. I was far stronger than such unknown swedish woman, but, still, I shuddered and I moved away from her, instinctively – my partner was so shocked by my instinctive reaction that she hugged me and then she even cried.
The good thing is that my partner, after that, had convinced herself that the fact I don’t want to start a cohabitation with her it’s all my former Swedish partner’s fault and not really a decision of mine 😀 It’s not true, but let’s keep her illusion 😀

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