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How do I get rid of a clingy chick who bawls at the prospect of breaking up and I’m fed up with her?
"Shot through the heart, and you're to blame, You give love a bad name, I play my part and you play your game, You give love a bad name."--Bon Jovi
Steel yourself.
Say. “I’m sick of putting up with your s~~~. Don’t call me anymore. It is over.”
When she cries, leave. Also, set your phone to record the entire encounter, in case she decides to make some s~~~ up. Then block her, and ignore her. DO NOT ENGAGE HER, or she will just resort to manipulative tactics.
Crying is manipulation. Angrily confronting you is manipulation. All interaction with you after you state you are done is an attempt at manipulation by her to either get you to stay, or insult you. Don’t do the first, and give 0 f~~~s about the second. Don’t let her bait you.
“Civilized men are more discourteous than savages because they know they can be impolite without having their skulls split, as a general thing.” - Robert E. Howard
Ghost. Anyway you can. At one point she’ll move on to someone else-they all do because with women it’s NEVER about you – it’s about them. When she finds what she wants in another man – she’ll forget you.
Anonymous42How do I get rid of a clingy chick who bawls at the prospect of breaking up and I’m fed up with her?
Start sucking her ass and telling her that you’re in love and that you lost your job and that you need her!
First available bus and she’ll be on it for sure!
The more of a “real man” you are, the higher your Island’s ridge line protrudes from the ocean of mananas swimming in her sea.
The same woman and her “clingyness” would walk all over another man that showed her the slightest bit of interest, she’d have him walking in circles licking up all her s~~~, then use him as an ass wipe, when she runs into a man like you.
Figuring out female nature in a promiscuous society of extreme hypergamy, is the only way a man in modern times can survive.
I’d dump her ass like a bag of s~~~, because in certain situations (mangina) that’s exactly what they would do.
You can’t treat them nice without being treated like s~~~.
If you don’t want to be treated like s~~~, or treat them like s~~~, there’s always monk mode.Putting a ring on a modern woman is a death sentence to a man! It’s a narcissistic band of gold, the ultimate pedestal and platform to feed their sick and demented nature. Women should be purchased and owned like automobiles and considered as a man’s personal property and not as persons, otherwise you get what we have today.
Just rip the band aid off. You don’t have to be a jerk, but just tell her it’s over and you’re done. She cries now, so you’ve already seen that.
And then move on. Ignoring her is actually good for her because then she will move on faster. Let the next poor bastard have her.
Order the good wine
telling her that you’re in love and that you lost your job and that you need her!
that would probably do it !
if not ,
bring her to a public place and break the news to her…
BEFORE there’s any food or drinks on the table..
tell the waiter/waitress you need a few more minutes to order…
tell her and LEAVE HER THERE !Bite the bullet and rip the band aid off.
Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.
Assuming you don’t live with this chick, just tell her “I don’t want to see you anymore. Don’t ever contact me again.”
As other have said, she’ll flip her s~~~, cry, she may grab on to you & not let go, or she may throw s~~~ at you, etc. This is all her attempt at getting emotional engagement from you. Don’t bother, trying to comfort her, trying to respond to her – she’ll say anything at all to get an emotional reaction & emotional engagement from you. There’s no upside for you.
This gets more complicated if you’re living together – issues like breaking a joint lease, liability for rent/other bills, etc. But if you can extricate yourself financially, just wait til she’s at work one day, call over a few bros, and evac all your s~~~. … and then don’t ***EVER*** live with another woman again!
who bawls at the prospect of breaking up
First realize the “bawling” is all for show. I’ve been there and had “that conversation”.
I fell for the tears and shouldn’t have.
and I’m fed up with her?
You didn’t specify a reason, but always just tell her directly. “I’m fed up”.
When women initiate a break up it’s for all kinds of bulls~~~ reasons and silly excuses.
• “It’s not you it’s me”
• “I’m at a place where I really need to focus on my career”
• “I just don’t feel I have anything to give at the moment”
• “Some other woman will be lucky to have you”These pathetic lines are so cliché, ^^ these are right out of a SexAndTheCity episode. I s~~~ you not. And women said the same lines to a guy over and over again. They made a montage out of it, because women don’t have the sack to be direct. So have the sack to be direct.
“You’re not FUN. When I’m with you I’m not having any FUN.”
That’s a perfectly legit and direct EXCELLENT reason to call it off. All their talk about a “serious relationship”….. NO. The only kind of relationship worth having is a FUN relationship and being around her is a f~~~ing DOWNER. Just tell her directly. Forget all the other stuff. If you make it policy that you have to be “having FUN” or there really is no point in being with her at all….. you’ll have all the reason you need to call it off – and directly.
Women need to make an EFFORT to want a relationship with her, and when they don’t make that effort, they are OUT.
Be direct.
I once broke up by saying “I don’t love you”. Plain and simple.
I also told another “never contact me again under any circumstances”.I’m a MAN. I sure as s~~~ will never say “It’s not you it’s me”.
I’m breaking up with you because it’s DEFINITELY you. And tell her why.“I’m fed up”.
Done.
It’s not an art form. There is no “how”.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.AND PS…. I should add, I wasn’t taking into account that women can get dangerous, hostile, and set fire to your s~~~. So I should append, there IS an art form to breaking up after all.
If you haven’t known her for long, just don’t call her anymore.
Calling is a sign of interest. Not calling is a sign of disinterest.
You can be direct about that too: “I didn’t call because I don’t want to call you”.(NOTE: No man should step into a relationship for AT LEAST 9-12 months of knowing her already and having plenty of good times with her, then there is no breakup bulls~~~ to deal with because there is no “relationship” anyway)
But if you’re in a “relationship” already, and you think there is a 1% chance she is the type to play nasty and throw vegetable oil all over your floors and key your car…… sometimes, it’s best to “feign beta”.
Meaning, become the weak, sniveling, groveling, beta women hate. Tell her how beautiful she is, how much you love her, and how she’s “the reason you breathe”. Just take it WAY over the top. Try and muster up a tear when you say it too.
“Feigning beta” is an art form.
You can also pretend you lost your job and you have no money. Then go to work the next but make it LOOK like you’re looking for work. Feign beta and she will already be planning her departure by the end of the week…. and she will feel sorry for you. WORK THAT S~~~.
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Once, I actually wanted out and was away (out of town) for 4 months, and I could already sense she was swinging from another dick. When I met up with her again, she gives me the lame and predictable “We need to talk” – which is woman speak for “I need to talk, and you need to listen”.
She says: “I don’t know where this relationship is going” (totally indirect bulls~~~), and I tried not to laugh, because I already knew she made up her mind to throw it in the trash. So acted all devasted and heartbroken for 30 minutes, and when the show was over, I took a shower to wipe the beta slime off me and everything was right in the universe again.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.God, I WISH I had your problems, OP.
". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée
I personally take full ownership.
Why do you want to break up with me?
It’s not me, its you.
WHAT??
I told you I wasn’t relationship material since day 1
WTF you asshole !!!
Like I said… It’s not me, its you.Be up front, but protect yourself. It’s for your well being not hers.
There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it
I agree with everything KM and the other fellas have said in this thread but would like to add the following:
If you are going to break up with her using the direct route, meet her and do it in public so that you can simply walk away when you’re done and there would be dozens of witnesses in the event she got violent or tried to pull some bulls~~~ on you.
NEVER break up with a woman while she is in your house or has access to your house. If she’s got stuff there, box it up and bring it with you. If she has keys, change the locks.
Don’t do it at her house either because she’ll cry and try to coerce you into not leaving then come on to you and offer you some new sexual treat so that she can get the upper hand on you in order to dump you later or claim rape or some such.
Best case, if there are no keys and none of her stuff involved, just stop calling.
^^^^ That’s more than just sensible. Mark it down. Because it can’t be stressed enough ^^^
You’re facing a society (and mentality) of women who actually believe it is their “right” to be destructive.
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Check the comments under that s~~~ too. “Ha ha that’s so awesome”.. and “revenge for a cheating boyfriend”. But that’s how f~~~ing crazy they really are. There is no such thing as a “cheating boyfriend”. He’s not her husband and that’s WHY he”s not her husband. So he can bang whoever the f~~~ he wants – any time he wants.
Unmarried women are not OWED a faithful man, and they sure as f~~~ will not get away with the destruction of property. MAKE SURE she doesn’t get away with it.
MAKE. SURE.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.God, I WISH I had your problems, OP.
No you don’t. It’s a goddam guarantee.
…. but you will. Just wait 10 years.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.(NOTE: No man should step into a relationship for AT LEAST 9-12 months of knowing her already and having plenty of good times with her, then there is no breakup bulls~~~ to deal with because there is no “relationship” anyway)
The problem with that is you don’t have to decide to have a relationship with a woman for her to decide all on her own that you are, and freak the f~~~ our accordingly when you correct her mistaken belief. If you have the right income or the right car or the right height or the right clothes (or the wrong ones depending on perspective), most women will think your are “in a relationship” with them just for looking in their direction.
This is why its important to constantly correct them from the get go. “This is not a date.” “What relationship?”
No you don’t. It’s a goddam guarantee.
Ceteris paribus, a man is always better off when he has options. OP has options; I don’t have the same options.
Just wait 10 years.
I used to hold onto the “when you’re older, things get better” and look forward to getting older. I don’t any more.
I like to go to my city’s symphony orchestra at least once a week (if you’re under 35, you get dirt cheap tickets). During intermission, I smoke a joint, and come back to watch the second half blasted out of my mind.
I looked around as the show was about to start, and I realized how old everyone is. And I thought: how wonderful it is to be young, to have energy, to be able to get up and walk; your body lets you do anything you want, you’re in charge of the world, and there’s so much open and available to you!
You’re only young once, and then that’s it. And I have a healthy, functioning, awesome young body. My hangovers from alcohol go away quickly, my illnesses go away quickly, I have so much goddamned energy, so much drive to work, learn, create—I would not want that to change for the world.
It’s good to be young!
". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée
most women will think your are “in a relationship” with them just for looking in their direction.
I’m nodding. A girl I saw maybe 5 times in 4 weeks (2008) says “so i guess we’re in a relationship now” after the first couple of bangs. I just about choked on my French toast.
I askled her my middle name, she didn’t know it. She also didn’t know how many sibs I had, where I was born, where I went to school, who my friends are, how I like to spend my spare time, or if I play any instruments. She knew NOTHING about me and didn’t even bother to ask.
So I say “what’s my middle name?”
Stunned.
“Slow down. Don’t be so quick to jump into a relationship with someone who’s middle name you don’t even know.”.. Then I remembered that bitch who asked me “how do I know you’re not a serial killer?” on a first date, so I used it to my advantage and pointed out there could be body parts in my freezer for all she knows.
Weirdest thing is… she f~~~ing LAUGHED.
But I was “dead” serious.This is the kind of bunny boiler who’s looking to call it a “relationship” AQAP just so she can change her facebook status.
This is why its important to constantly correct them from the get go. “This is not a date.” “What relationship?”
I took a girl to an event I had two tickets for. I packed a picnic and a little of wine and when I whipped it out as a surprise, the 2 older women sitting on her right said “don’t let this guy go”. I said “Oh, we’re not dating. We just worked together about 2 years ago”. and I shot it down so she wouldn’t romanticize it. Her expression was priceless.
Ceteris paribus, a man is always better off when he has options
Not when it comes to women.
Perhaps the BEST option when it comes to women is NO WOMAN AT ALL.
Made that choice myself. How’s that for an option.I used to hold onto the “when you’re older, things get better” and look forward to getting older. I don’t any more.
Made me smile loudly. 32 is not “older”. Not even 42 is older. Oh it is when you’re 22. 2 guys I know killed themselves in their 30s when their athletic careers came to a halt. They mistakenly thought there was no life beyond that, and 35 was “old” to them.
No I can’t skateboard like I used to, but I don’t really want to. However, I did get honors in a fitness/certification exam at 35 – which I wasn’t ready for when I was 18. It was a required certificate to coach kids. You can take it when you’re post grad, but I couldn’t physically do it then.
I was a stringy f~~~er and a late bloomer… so I did it later.
It’s good that you enjoy being young, though. So many men hit 45 and wonder where the vitality and the last 20 years went. Hang on to it.
If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.do it publicly, pick an insanely busy place with tons of people around in close proximity and use some of the lines given in this thread and break up with dumb c~~~.
My peace of mind is worth more then your vagina...cunt.
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