How to deal with pushy people?

[WorkhardParticipant 343]

So this woman Ive been friends with for some time has taken a drastic liking to me because I kissed her one night after a fun night out. I apologized the next day and told her I just wanted to be friends….she still cannot seem to accept that. How should I politely handle this situation?

[Gravel PitParticipant]

She’ll get over it. Tread lightly for awhile. Do not give her anymore reasons to think she can begin a relationship with you.
YOu sort of invited this one bro. LOL. Get some puss.y hehehe Why not enjoy her awhile? Must be a few redflags you arent on board with.

[BubParticipant 1403]

Tell her your broke, then tell her you want to get married…

Just rolling down the road

[WorkhardParticipant 343]

I didnt really invite it. But I guess with her being so much older she cant let go of the notion that I must be in love because of a simple kiss. I guess I just have to keep making excuses/pretend to be busy?

[Handsome VicParticipant 1613]

You say she is a much older woman, probably trying out what she can get away with.

So stand firm. Like this website says… MGTOW is the manifestation of one word: NO.

Also, be tight with your money. If you have to go for “a fun night out”, make sure she she pays for herself.

She’ll lose interest fast.

I'm going my own way. Maybe I'll see you there.

[WorkhardParticipant 343]

Thanks Vic. You reminded me what exactly MGTOW stands for. Im a nice person and hate to make anyone mad or hurt anyones feelings, thats why im trying to figure out the best way to tread lightly. I tell her im busy and the next day shes asking me out all over again, I just dont know what to say.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Workhard wrote:

So this woman Ive been friends with for some time

Having a Woman as a “friend” can be tricky in many different ways.

Workhard wrote:

I kissed her one night after a fun night out.

Yeah, when ya start “hanging out” with them sometimes one thing leads to another….

Workhard wrote:

she still cannot seem to accept that

TYPICAL

Workhard wrote:

How should I politely handle this situation?

Walk Away….Completely GHOST her, and don’t get anymore girl”friends”….WHY would you want to put up with all the nonsense generated by your average Woman and NOT at least have some type of friend with benefits arrangement?

I don’t recommend Friends with Benefits, but I also don’t recommend “just friends’ either….What’s the point???

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[Gravel PitParticipant]

She must be an acquaintance he can’t totally ghost.

Id tell her, “Look, I was drunk and not thinking clear so please forget it happened”

But you kinda made this bed youre lying in.

1. by ‘hanging out’ with women. Likely alcohol was involved which is like pouring gas on fire.
2. You made the move! You kissed her.

Obviously you want to fornicate this ol lady so get drunk again and play it out. Bone her.

If you genuinely did make a mistake, you need to be upfront with her.

I realize you already did that so there is only two options:

1. Ice her out of your life. Geographic or employment change. Ghost like Awakened said.

2. Take her to BangKok POuNd TOWn and lets us know exactly what her vagina looks like. lol.

flip a coin

[bladeParticipant]

Ask her if she likes anal because you have a c~~~ the size of a coke can and expect a blow job after its been in her arse . Say it with a straight look on your face

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[WorkhardParticipant 343]

I cannot ghost her as this is a fairly small community. I didnt kiss her out of attraction, its just how I roll. Fun weekend so whats a friendly peck on the lips right? I never meant to be stalked to the end of the earth

[MonkParticipant 16975]

Workhard wrote:

… she cant let go of the notion that I must be in love because of a simple kiss.

Female ego.

The possibility that she is not the centre of the universe would never occur to her.

I guess I just have to keep making excuses/pretend to be busy?

As has already been suggested, tread lightly, ghost as much as possible, and spread it around that you are broke.

I didnt kiss her out of attraction, its just how I roll.

“It’s just how I roll”.

That’ll go down well with a judge.

Fun weekend so what’s a friendly peck on the lips right?

Assault. Sexual harassment.

I never meant to be stalked to the end of the earth

They never do. The question is now whether or not you have learned from this.

[AwakenedParticipant 35200]

Workhard wrote:

I cannot ghost her as this is a fairly small community.

OK, you can’t ghost her completely, but you don’t have to call her, return her texts, e-mails, go out with her anywhere etc. etc. These would all be CHOICES that are within your control aren’t they?

Workhard wrote:

I didnt kiss her out of attraction, its just how I roll.

You really should find a new way to “roll”.

Workhard wrote:

Fun weekend so whats a friendly peck on the lips right?

Considering that you just spent a “fun weekend” with this Ole Hag, and then you decide to cap it off with a kiss on the lips, It’s not all that hard to see how she could be looking for more.

Why do you feel the need to kiss a woman that is only a “friend” ??

I’m guessing that you wouldn’t have kissed a man that you just had a “fun weekend” with?

Do what ya want, these are only my suggestions…….

In a World of Justin Beibers Be a Johnny Cash

[TaxGuyParticipant]

1. Be honest with her.
2. When that doesn’t work, be honest with her.
3. See #2.
4. Repeat.

Eventually she’ll get the message. Don’t compromise your principles to save her feelings. You don’t have to be a jerk about it, but just keep repeating the same story over and over again until it sinks in.

The great thing about telling her the truth is that you don’t have to try to remember what story you did tell her last time.

Pretty simple.

Order the good wine

[SandalsParticipant 4253]

She’s not your friend. Men and women aren’t friends.

Workhard wrote:

Im a nice person and hate to make anyone mad or hurt anyones feelings, thats why im trying to figure out the best way to tread lightly.

You’re taking a heavy responsibility on your shoulders if you think you are responsible for how a women feels. That was fine before women’s lib, when women scrubbed floors, but now that they took all our jobs and ruined our lives, women are responsible for the OWN feelings. If she’s mad, that’s her problem, not yours.

If it’s really a small community, ghost her. Or, pump and dump when she does the slightest fishy thing. Or if she’s loaded, bite the bullet, take the money, and live the good life on her dime.

[Ranger OneParticipant 16836]

A woman who doesn’t accept “NO” may be a woman who will go #MeToo on you with a false accusation.

They had a Star Trek episode where some creature attached itself to the hull because it was an infant of its species and it was draining energy from the ship that it thought was its mother. They weren’t able to discourage it by dislodging it forcefully, so they made themselves a less attractive target and it detached on its own.

You must make yourself a less attractive target, to decrease the odds of a #MeToo. Make her decide you are a poor choice to pursue… it’ll let her save face. Basically “Its not you, its me”. That’s what I did when I broke up with one of my 2 gf’s in 2017. Woman are prideful creatures; she probably needs to safe face. You need her to think it is her idea to not want you.

All my life I've had doubts about who I am, where I belonged. Now I'm like the arrow that springs from the bow. No hesitation, no doubts. The path is clear. And what are you? Alive. Everything else is negotiable. Women have rights; men have responsibilities; MGTOW have freedom. Marriage is for chumps. If someone stands in the way of true justice, you simply walk up behind them and stab them in the heart-R'as al Ghul.

[uchibenkeiParticipant 7965]

Just ghost her

I bathe in the tears of single moms.

[HermitParticipant]

Workhard wrote:

So this woman Ive been friends with for some time has taken a drastic liking to me because I kissed her one night after a fun night out. I apologized the next day and told her I just wanted to be friends….she still cannot seem to accept that. How should I politely handle this situation?

Tell her you’ve met someone else who you plan on being serious with…..an old friend from way back maybe.

I know you would like to handle it by being nice, but sometimes being nice just doesn’t work. Whether you’re nice or not, this is not going to end well. It’s too late. I was friends with a female for a really long time, but neither of us had any interest in anything more than being friends. However, it got to the point that it felt like I did have a girlfriend, but wasn’t getting any sex. All I was getting were phone calls where she’d complain about other women she had to work with. Finally I just stopped answering the phone and stopped responding to her e-mails and she quickly got the hint and hasn’t bothered me since.

She was a nice enough gal and would help me out when I needed help, but she was a woman and as such, was a pain in the ass. Ya’ can’t marry them, can’t live with them, can’t be friends with them, can’t talk to them, can’t look at them………… In these times, the best thing to do is stay as far away from women as you can.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

[HermitParticipant]

Ranger One wrote:

A woman who doesn’t accept “NO” may be a woman who will go #MeToo on you with a false accusation.
They had a Star Trek episode where some creature attached itself to the hull because it was an infant of its species and it was draining energy from the ship that it thought was its mother. They weren’t able to discourage it by dislodging it forcefully, so they made themselves a less attractive target and it detached on its own.
You must make yourself a less attractive target, to decrease the odds of a #MeToo. Make her decide you are a poor choice to pursue… it’ll let her save face. Basically “Its not you, its me”. That’s what I did when I broke up with one of my 2 gf’s in 2017. Woman are prideful creatures; she probably needs to safe face. You need her to think it is her idea to not want you.

Yes, keep asking to borrow money from her and never pay her back.

The evil in women’s hearts leaves them no moral bounds as to inhibit them from descending to the lowest levels of darkness to acquire their self entitled desires.

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