How should i deal with this?

[Max PowerParticipant 2721]

Did I read correctly that you let her into your car more than once, the second time being after she stole your keys for 5 days?

[bstoffParticipant 4863]

There’s a lot of things wrong with this.
First, as others have said, change ALL of your locks.

Second, she has caused you to have her fingerprints in your car, and probably your house.
More importantly, since she coaxed you into her house, your fingerprints are now in her home.

You have opened yourself up to a lot of vulnerability.

Change your locks. ALL of them.

If she works at that bar, simply tell employer, and maybe some customers you trust, that she is acting strangely and you want others to be aware of the current background story before her’s gets disseminated by either her or the police.

If it comes down to he said/she said, you will be in trouble.

Politely avoid her, at first, then ghost her.
try to never see her again.

My methods may seem paranoid, but by what you’ve said, you are justified in it.

[Anonymous 12]

Jesus!
she is not a shark – she is a dozen sharks, and you are in open waters miles away from land.

RUN.

[The CaptainParticipant 133]

Max Power wrote:

Did I read correctly that you let her into your car more than once, the second time being after she stole your keys for 5 days?

Yeah, that was a big mistake. But i didn’t see her as a threat at that moment, not even paid attention to her, in fact she looks like she had interest in nothing more than chat a bit. Later when she closed the door of her house i connected all the dots in seconds, like a revelation. That’s when i thought: “Oh, s~~~. I gotta get out of here”

bstoff wrote:

There’s a lot of things wrong with this.First, as others have said, change ALL of your locks.
Second, she has caused you to have her fingerprints in your car, and probably your house.More importantly, since she coaxed you into her house, your fingerprints are now in her home.
You have opened yourself up to a lot of vulnerability.

Good point.

Now i’m avoiding to go to the same places, and ghosting a bit. I know that she goes out with her friends every other day, and i didn’t have any contact with her for two weeks, so i think that the most critical moment has passed.

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

Zero contact. She’s obviously going out of her way to insert herself into your life. Just pretend she doesn’t exist, actively ignore her unless you are required by your job to interact with her.

And for god’s sake, never let her in your car again. You wanna get false rape charges? Because that’s how you get false rape charges.

If she doesn’t get the hint and leave you alone / pick a new victim, file harassment charges with your local police.

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

[MonkParticipant 16979]

The Captain wrote:

Now, i need your opinions on that matter, and more importantly, what would you do if you where in my shoes?

RED ALERT.

This one is a full-on psycho.

She is THE ONE PHONE CALL just waiting to happen.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

She is playing the cute card. Bro. If that does not tell you she had DADDY ISSUES?

She is one hell of a good f~~~. And a great STD carrier.

might want to run bro.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[JustAnotherGuyParticipant]

iMickey503 wrote:

might want to run bro.

Hyperspeed isn’t fast enough. Prepare ship for…..LUDICROUS SPEED

Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
“Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

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