How MGTOW's changed my outlook on life.

[Chris1234Participant 353]

Hi all, I discovered this site a few months ago and it’s honestly changed my outlook on life.
I’m in my mid 30’s and I have spent the last 18 months taking care of my mum after losing Dad. Mum’s not far off going into fulltime care in the next few months so I’ll get my life back.

I felt like my life has been put on hold whilst taking care of her (still working full time). My older brother is married with kids and has an amazing home with the so called dream life. For some reason I’ve never really wanted a relationship however I felt I would eventually settle down with someone and follow in my brother’s footsteps. I was almost depressed as I felt like I could be leaving it too late.

A few months ago I went drinking with my brother and his friends. Once the alcohol kicked in I received a lecture about how crap their married lives are, I knew they weren’t perfect but I had no idea how miserable they actually were. Basically my brother can’t leave his wife as he will lose the house and won’t be able to afford a place to live. I began to question where to go with my life and that’s how I found MGTOW.

After reading a lot of posts and the advice received I’ve almost gone from a feeling of depression to a feeling of excitement in regards to the direction my life. It’s made me appreciate the fact that in the time I haven’t dated I’ve paid a fair chunk of my home off whilst it’s been rented out and I hope to pay it off in the next couple of years.

I’ve purchased and built up a respectable share portfolio and saved a fair bit of money for my dream car and also a bit for travel. I’m also the fittest I’ve been in years and have a clearer direction of where I’m heading which will be to work my ass off for the next 10 years and semi retire before I’m 50 with NO relationships (maybe the odd hooker).

Just want to say thanks to everyone who contributes to the site, as it’s been cheaper than going to a psychologist:)

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

Welcome. You are lucky to escape the bullet.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[bladeParticipant]

Welcome aboard the life raft.

THE PLANTATION HAS NOW TURNED INTO THE KILLING FIELDS . WOMAN ARE NOW ROLLING CAMBODIAN STYLE .

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Chris1234 wrote:

Just want to say thanks to everyone who contributes to the site, as it’s been cheaper than going to a psychologist:)

As it turns out, the site was recently recommended by a psychologist which a long time member (doctor) brought to our attention.

Chris1234 wrote:

Just want to say thanks to everyone who contributes to the site

Chris1234 wrote:

… to excitement in regards to the direction my life

They will certainly appreciate hearing that from you.

Pleasure to welcome you to the forums and thank you for your kind words.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

I’m telling you man this site does wonders.

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[Anonymous 0]

Jump in, Chris1234
You’re home now.

[Anonymous 54]

Welcome Chris 1234!

All married Men are misrable.They just dont want to admit it.

[WallyParticipant]

Welcome to peace, if you see a dude that looks happy, I guarantee 99% chance he wishes he was in your position. I was in a class with 30 guys, all married, I was the only single guy. It was the most depressing descussion I have ever been apart of, no one was happy, and the class leader tried to spin it that marriage isn’t about being happy and sex wasn’t important. A lot of those dudes rarely had sex anymore. You have found MGTOW, the world is yours to make it as you want.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[JVBParticipant]

Welcome Chris1234. Not one of my married friends are happy. No sex, separate bedrooms etc. They’re stuck as they know the courts will devistate them in divorce. Worst part is SHE knows he knows and holds it as a trump card against him. Keep going your own way bro and keep bitches at arms length. Much respect for taking care of mom and pops. Look forward to hearing from you.

Peace is > piece.

[BadgerParticipant 2277]

Welcome! You are at the age and are building wealth so be careful about displaying it, because younger women will now target you. Those 20-25 year old women see you and think “instant family” because of your financial stability. Fortunately the guys here will warn you of the pitfalls.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

Chris1234 wrote:

I’ve purchased and built up a respectable share portfolio and saved a fair bit of money for my dream car and also a bit for travel. I’m also the fittest I’ve been in years and have a clearer direction of where I’m heading which will be to work my ass off for the next 10 years and semi retire before I’m 50 with NO relationships (maybe the odd hooker).

And only the blue pill can make you feel like a failure with all of that going for you. Amazing what social programming can do to you isn’t it? You had all that going for you and felt depressed.

Welcome and congratulations on the new outlook on life.

Order the good wine

[pabsawakeParticipant 1761]

welcome chri1234, your brother is not unique most married men are in a loveless, sexless, marriage where they get absolutely no respect.

count your blessings that you are not one of them.

"You can either love women or understand them, you can't do both". Truth over everything

[FrostByteParticipant 19005]

Chris1234 wrote:

My older brother is married with kids and has an amazing home with the so called dream life.

Chris1234 wrote:

A few months ago I went drinking with my brother and his friends. Once the alcohol kicked in I received a lecture about how crap their married lives are, I knew they weren’t perfect but I had no idea how miserable they actually were.

Welcome
Part of the whole smoke show is pretending how great it is when it’s not. Society programs the men to lie about their marriages so they don’t discourage other men from getting married. That’s why it seemed so great from the outside. MGTOW is like poison to woman and society.

If you rescue a damsel in distress, all you will get is a distressed damsel.

[High RollerParticipant 157]

Welcome, Chris1234!

You have dodged a slave bullet. You were able to accept how devastating it is to be married in this day and age, there is literally zero freedom for the man. You have officially started your Red Pill journey now that you know how reality is, yours and ours. It’s truly so devastating for both men who have been destroyed by the system or have realized what trap they have fallen into far too late.

I am in my early twenty’s. I have never been in a relationship and do not plan on being in one. It’s the way to go to be free. Enjoy!

[Anonymous 18]

Chris1234 wrote:

After reading a lot of posts and the advice received I’ve almost gone from a feeling of depression to a feeling of excitement in regards to the direction my life.

Exactly how I felt when I first signed up. Think of this as a detox. In an ideal world, men shouldn’t have been poisoned by the gynocentric forces to buy in to the idea of romanticism, or put women on pedestal.

Kill TV. Avoid anything trending on Youtube. Invest that time working out and reading the forums.

Watch your happiness and contentment soar like an eagle with a sharp eye to femme-tactics.

[Chris1234Participant 353]

Thanks Guys, I definitely feel I’m on the right track. Reading some of the stories from the older members on the forum has been the biggest eye opener.
Guys who are in the 60’s and cant get out of their marriage because they feel its too late has had the biggest impact on me.

I do try to go under the radar, my close friends hang a bit on me for being cheap but its all in jest.
The funny thing is they do occasionally make comments about how much I make and how much I must have saved, I just smile and try not to give too much away.
My friends wife has made a couple of comments before (regarding what I have) and the funny thing is she is the one whose tried to set me up with her friends.
The first two she tried to set me up with about 5 years ago are now married and have subsequently doubled in size, haha.

My next step is trying to ditch social media, I don’t really post much but I go on there a bit, I’m trying to break the habit and getting better.
The funny thing about facebook is during the day it just seems to be my friends wives posting garbage whilst my friends (their husbands) are working their asses off.
The ones who post the most garbage are the ones who seem to carry on about how much work being a stay at home mother is!

Thanks

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