How Many Red Pills Does One Have to Swallow?

[TolzParticipant 165]

Hello, Brothers!

Was a lurker here for almost a month before finally deciding to join. First heard the term MGTOW from a PUA website. To me, I thought they were some mythical group of people who developed this monk-like willpower to keep woman out of their lives forever and thought it was something I could never do. However, as I was looking at these PUA websites, something didn’t sit right with me. I never understood why someone would devote so much time to dating and entering relationships with these women. Were there not more worthwhile endeavors to pursue? I had to reevaluate my own life and ask why I had been doing the same thing.

I’m in my mid 30’s, a divorced father of over 10 years with three teenage boys who live with their mother. I spent the last six months reflecting on how I came to be where I am today and why I felt so miserable. When I think back to how much time and money I’ve spent and wasted on trying to please my ex-wife, the hurdles I was put through, the efforts I put in trying to “win” her back, and then after moving on trying to get back into the dating scene and the number of female “friends” I made, I felt sick to my stomach. The Red Pill will do that to you. The rabbit hole is deep. It’s far deeper than I initially thought it would be.

I was raised by a single mother and an older sister. I felt like there was something wrong with me if I didn’t have the approval of women or if I was single and that I would die a lonely and miserable old man. So everything I did was devoted to trying to have a family, etc. even though I was miserable doing so. I tried going to my father for advice and he just told that this was how it is and there is nothing I could do but to suck it up. Say what? I wish I knew men like all of you here when I was a young boy. It would have saved me so much trouble and heartache.

But I am here now and I learn something new every day from this site. I strive each day to shed off more of this woman-like programming I had ingrained in me since I was young. I have a lot more to say, but I’ll post more in specific threads about what I’ve discovered and learned so far.

[MoreSkyParticipant 4865]

Welcome brother.
I’m new here myself and also felt that there may have been something wrong with me.
The MGTOW concept and community has shown me that I’m not alone, weird or wrong.
Good luck to you on your new journey.

"...reinvent your life because you must; it is your life and its history and the present belong only to you.” It is Your Life, Charles Bukowski.

[Anonymous 18]

Welcome.

Its never too late to block the noise and focus inwards. There are worlds to be discovered in a man’s mind and in his heart.

You don’t necessarily need to swallow red pills after red pills; for the very keen it can be as much as the air you breathe once you have come to realization that the lies exist for a reason.

There is nothing out there that is spun, sold and re-sold without a real purpose. Men are at losing end of relationships, women’s approval or societal definition of what a man ought to be.

To go your own way you will reach a point where you will have to discard your old self. Say your prayers and move on. Never look back what you were.

Its a journey. You never quite stop learning.

[Anonymous 54]

Welcome lone Drummer!

Womens approvale has no value.
It is a waste of time.
And we are a mythical group!

We know the key to a Mans happiness.

A good Bass player! Hahah

[Anonymous 3]

Welcome! You are here now. I just got here myself. Its a process, but you’ve taken the first step on a brand new healthier life in everyway. I am glad to b here. The door was open for me & its open for you too.

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

Wellcome Lone Drummer,

Although a monk myself, I do not believe the majority of MGTOW are monks.

There is no magic with MGTOW, it is just simply as assessment of reality and how to navigate life to avoid dangers in life.

MGTOW recognize the truth that women and government is the greatest danger to men. MGTOW recognize that the illusion of love women and society play to trap a man into a slave.

MGTOW recognize there are lottery winners, but the overwhelming majority of women cannot love a man, they can only love him as a walking ATM, emotional tampon, utility.

MGTOW recognize the law and system is design to f~~~ up a man.

So on these truth MGTOW navigate the hazards of life.

Most MGTOW want sex, but it is dangerous because the women and government can trap a man in marriage, cohabitation, sperm stealing for child support, false rape accusation, prostitution laws and whatnot.
So MGTOW navigate over it by flying to Thailand for paid sex, using sex toys, or think the effort is not worth it and gone monk.

Some MGTOW want children, but the traditional path are filled with mines of child support, alimony and false accusation.
So MGTOW adopt, or if they want children with their genes, use surrogacy for 20K (Overseas where the women and government cannot punish him).

Most MGTOW want to keep themselves and their asset safe, they recognize they are the prey of women and government. So they avoid women, keep unavoidable interaction in public, use a body cam, hoard gold / overseas assets.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. Any sane man can do it. They only need to give up their illusion of women and stop looking for society validation. Because thinking with feelings instead of logic and facts will lead to disaster.

The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. You only need to see enough truth to navigate the dangers of life.

Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[Anonymous 42]

How Many Red Pills Does One Have to Swallow?

Party till you puke!

[AutoliteParticipant]

Welcome!

There really seems to be a lot of newcomers lately. MGTOW certainly seems to be growing. Maybe it’s time we implemented our own secret handshake or something…

[Anonymous 6]

[Joey AlfioParticipant]

Tolz wrote:

But I am here now and I learn something new every day from this site. I strive each day to shed off more of this woman-like programming I had ingrained in me since I was young. I have a lot more to say, but I’ll post more in specific threads about what I’ve discovered and learned so far.

First, welcome to MGTOW. Secondly, be patient and you will see the blue pill programming undo itself over time as you reflect more on your life and the importance of being physically and mentally healthy along with the financial security from gynocentrism. I highly recommend you listen to mgtow pioneers like TFM, bar bar, spestnaz, sandman, howard dare, etc to shed more light on the matter.

For now on live your life for yourself and you’ll see how more at ease you’ll be. MGTOW is not just about swallowing the red pill, it’s also therapeutic.

Δεν υπάρχει τίποτε αδύνατο γι’ αυτόν που θα προσπαθήσει. - Μέγας Αλέξανδρος

[Back in BlackParticipant 1732]

I felt like there was something wrong with me if I didn’t have the approval of women or if I was single and that I would die a lonely and miserable old man. So everything I did was devoted to trying to have a family, etc.

I was raised to believe this same bulls~~~. I, just today, was talking to a single buddy of mine. He’s in his 50’s and never married. He was complaining about how he’ll probably die alone. I nearly lost my s~~~ and told him that it is waaayyy better to be single than co-habitating with a female. (I’ve been married/divorced three times). That once you are co-habitating with a female it becomes her house and you are a guest. F~~~ THAT.

Welcome.

I love love love being single and alone. The house is super quiet all the time (unless I decide to listen to some music – my choice of what kind). There is nothing better. The flip side is to CONSTANTLY have to listen to another person jabber endlessly about whatever the f~~~ happens to be rattling around in her noggin at the moment t. F~~~ THAT. I do what I want, when I want, how I want ALL THE TIME. It’s beyond awesome after living the train wreck that marriages tend to be.

"Women are directly adapted to act as the nurses and educators of our early childhood, for the simple reason that they themselves are childish, foolish, and short-sighted—in a word, are big children all their lives, something intermediate between the child and the man, who is a man in the strict sense of the word. Consider how a young girl will toy day after day with a child, dance with it and sing to it; and then consider what a man, with the very best intentions in the world, could do in her place.” Quote from Arthur Shopenhauer, 17th century philosopher

[AttonParticipant]

Welcome to the site

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[Anonymous 43]

the answer to your question: how many red pills do you have to swallow?

All of them, but none so important as the one you take tomorrow.

embrace its metallic bitter taste as you feel it’s effects through out the day.

Its addictive, to watch people and how they interact with each other. lol

you will discover that dating and red pill are not compatible. once you see the bulls~~~ scam women constantly run on men, you will walk away from women. You will admire from a distance, and not approach. Do not put the rattle snake in your pocket and it won’t bite you in the ass.

Nothing mythical about going monk. Women are toxic in so many avoidable ways. Avoid women, and you avoid their swirling s~~~ vortex of problems, insecurities, issues and failings. Avoid women and you save money you would ordinarily spend on women. Save and buy appreciating assets. Save and buy depreciating assets, do what you want with your own money.

I can’t wait until I can acquire some property to rent out to single moms…and live well off of them. What a great day it will be when I can do that.

[Can’t Stump TrumpParticipant]

Tolz wrote:

To me, I thought they were some mythical group of people who developed this monk-like willpower to keep woman out of their lives forever

Ha! For me, willpower had nothing to do with it. I just don’t want to lose everything I own or end up in jail.

Women are better at multitasking? Fucking up several things at once is not multitasking.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Welcome. And no, nothing místical nor magical here.
We got monks, pumpers and dumpers, two sugar daddy’s I think, a few married while gyow, single fathers, organic MGTOW, divorce made MGTOW, every men is his own island in here.
So grab a chair, and enjoy the decaí.
PÚA don’t like MGTOW couse they get no money out of it, and we make them look like sub evolved monkeys.
😂

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Ahhhh red pills.
Took the worst from my ex.
But after that:
“We don’t like men, but we need them” and old high school partner, now single mother and about to hit the wall.

“There is a lot of men, if you grow tired of one change it, if it not convenient to you take another one, there better and worst, but there are many” my own sister.

“Women don’t really care if a men is a bit let ugly than a monkey, if he can provide is ok” a Russian girl I dated.

“Husbands are boring, they don’t turn you on” another high school girl from way back.

“It’s ok to use men, thets what they are made for ” a coworker.

I like women like I like snakes. Coral snake is beautiful, but deadly and I wold never touch one.
Climbing the Everest? Easy
Wrestling sharks? Piece of cake.
Mma, boxing etc? Bring it on.

Dating those monsters? Men that’s the limits of stupidity.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[AstroParticipant 2045]

When I was in my mid-30’s, my testimony would have been almost identical to yours except that I have one son and my dad. My dad tried to warn me, he went Monk for 35 years till he died but of course, I didn’t listen. I have now been married twice, some of us take time to learn and many never do. My parents divorced when I was 10 and I know about living with a single mom and older sister. My stepdad (who my mom was seeing while still married to my dad) was a textbook definition of a White Knight, Beta Simp. They met in church, of all places.

How many red pills does one have to swallow? It’s hard to say but since I mistook blue pills for cereal every morning for half a century… Welcome to MGTOW.

[GregB0Participant]

Welcome

MoreSky wrote:

I felt like there was something wrong with me if I didn’t have the approval of women or if I was single and that I would die a lonely and miserable old man

That’s the way current society is structured, the man of the house is out of the picture working or divorced. So the influence in the household is female dominated. You are living your life now for yourself and only yourself.

Gnostic wrote:

There is no magic with MGTOW, it is just simply as assessment of reality and how to navigate life to avoid dangers in life.

Set your own goals and the paths available for achieving them.

Joey Alfio wrote:

For now on live your life for yourself and you’ll see how more at ease you’ll be.

No f~~~s given, just be true to yourself.

​"​My father didn't tell me how to live; he lived, and let me watch him do it.​" - Clarence Buddinton Kelland

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