How many people know that you are a MGTOW?

[bob__Participant 946]

Both my parents know, but that’s basically it. Actually all I really told them was that I’m never having kids. But I’ve also never had a gf and plan on never having one. So they must figure I’m something like that, but they just don’t know what it’s called. LOL my father “expects” me to make him a grandfather, but I’m afraid I can’t do that. Well ok I probably can, but I’d rather not. Actually I don’t know, I’ve never even tried and never will.

[WhackerGuy2030Participant 999]

I told one friend in full. I’ve made vague mention of my certainty of lifestyle to a few more. The rest are likely too dumb to be able to even consider a lifestyle off of the Disney plan. And from there, I don’t care enough to explain it.
.
The only reason I told one friend is because I’ve been trying to save him from plowing full a bored out used up teen mom of two who’s trying to suck and blow her way onto his paystub and home title.
.
It may take them a lifetime to figure out why I live the way I do, but that isn’t my problem. The moment you begin to argue with a stupid person, you become the stupid person.

[Oz-BlokeParticipant 3233]

I don’t use the term MGTOW in public or with my friends, but my good mates know my red-pill philosophy and views well so I don’t really have to put a label on it for them to know what’s in the bottle.

My married and cohabiting-with-women mates know what a s~~~ty deal they now have in mid-life and I know most will discover MGTOW in their own time or from their own internet searching. They are actually envious of my post-divorce life and covet my new-found freedom and finances, but feel too trapped in their loveless and sexless relationships because of the kids and marital assets. I discreetly suggest they would be better off ripping the band-aid off now rather than down the road, but they are like deer stuck in the headlights of the gynocracy.

In time I know more and more of my friends will be MGTOW and fully understand my reluctance to date and flat out refusal to re-marry.

#ManOut

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Have one good friend who knew before the site opened. We talk about it frequently and he’s not a member. He visits, reads, watches and knows all the MGTOWs and is TOTALLY fluent in MGTOW speak… but he is actually the sort of guy who has remote girlfriends in other cities for “flings”. Some time he goes there, some time they come here. He is also not a “MGTOW” – although he kinda is in reality – but he is the type to become VERY easily distracted by attractive women in the room.

It’s common for him to say “lets go talk to those girls” or ask them to join. Where I wouldn’t even notice them because we’re in a conversation. He will even change tables in a restaurant to sit closer to them.

My Mom knows, but nobody else. She actually gets a kick out of it, and has checked out the site, but only a surface scan. She happens to agree with much of it. If I told her I was getting married , she would drop dead on the spot. She knows I’m not the type – at all.

Years ago, we were talking over Chinese food about something, and she said I would make a terrible husband. I sincerely thanked her for the compliment.

To everyone else, I internalize it.
But I will reach into my MGTOW arsenal when necessary.

“A jedi uses the force for knowledge and defense. Never for attack. “
– Yoda

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RennieParticipant]

Just one. First rule of MGTOW – never talk about MGTOW – except to those believed to be searching for it. I only told that guy because he’s a life long friend and although he wasn’t sympathetic to it initially, I think he has become more accepting of it since.

As for my apathy to women. It’s noticed, but people in the family are sympathetic, because they draw a parallel between me and a beloved family member who was a bachelor his entire life.

I am thankful for that guy, every single day, not only as a role model, but because it virtually absolves me of any obligation to participate in the stupid system that exists today.

[Anonymous 12]

None at all. But then not many people know much about me at all. MGTOW is like telling people you eat veal or want to vote for Trump it just brings out all the anger and hate in them.

[Nice Guy EddieParticipant 527]

I’ve introduced a couple of friends to it. One of them has gone Ghost.

Adopting the MGTOW philosophy has radically changed my workplace interactions for the better. I no longer tolerate women’s “poor widdle me” BS that I used to take on as an additional burden.

I’ve managed to hook up with a recently divorced little hottie, who doesn’t give a f~~~ about feminism, MGTOW or any other philosophy; she just wants me to drink with her and pile into her afterwards. No fuss, no muss.

NGE

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Franky wrote:

No one.
The funny thing is everyone assumes i’m just a young man horny out of his mind chasing women all the time.
I never get bugged on the subject love it!

My 12 yo son, he knows even the word MGTOW and he knows it’s a secret.
My partner knows I don’t want marry again nor starting a cohabitation.
All others just think I’m more or less like Franky, even if I’m 43 yo.

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[Ricardo (Shadow)Participant 12]

None no one and they will never know.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

Maximum gross take off weight?

Are you saying I’m fat?

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

I never use the term MGTOW while talking with people, but I think most of my friends, family, and coworkers know I don’t date much, don’t plan on ever marrying, and am not really interested in their offers to hook me up with anyone. I think a lot of them actually think I just haven’t found the right one yet…but the concept that I’m not looking for the “right one” probably has never crossed their mind.

I’m sure we’ve all met a flamboyant, over the top homosexual. Before you know anything about the guy, you just know, he is gay. It doesn’t matter if he is on your basketball team, fun to go for a beer with, great coworker, etc…the dominant trait people associate him with is his gayness. On the flip side, I know some gay guys that I’ve known for quite some time before finding out they were gay as they aren’t flamboyant about it, and when you find out they are gay its just like oh, whatever…it doesn’t change how you think or feel about them at all. Its a part of who they are, its not who they are. I don’t want MGTOW to be who I am…when people think of me I don’t want them to all thing “disgruntled woman hater,” which is what most people would probably think of MGTOW anyhow. I’d rather be that guy they know for all kinds of other things and my choice to never marry(or not even really date much anymore) is just one aspect of who I am, so I don’t go around preaching MGTOW everywhere I go.

[Anonymous 54]

I will never understand why it upsets people so much.It absolutely baffels me.Yes theres all the societal and ecenomic reasons,but on a personal level i just dont get it.They just cant grasp that i see my self as a single entity.I am absolutly happy thay way.Why the hell does it bother them so much.

[OldBillParticipant]

I keep my own counsel in all things, MGTOW related or not.

My opinions are there for the asking and thus are not unknown. I don’t belabor any of the issues however. I speak my piece and let it go.

I’ve never used the term “MGTOW” in a conversation with another human being and I’ve never had another human being use it in a conversation with me.

I know men who are most assuredly MGTOWs. They – like me – don’t see any need to advertise that fact.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

At least two friends know. Even more people know I don’t date and think relations~~~s are a waste of time and test of my patience. Overall, I don’t hide what I think on the issue of marriage or dating.

If I get asked point blank – I snark that I don’t want to waste my resources and time on it.

-----------

[Mr. ManParticipant 2916]

I never use the term “MGTOW” because it requires too much explanation. When people ask if I date, my first response is to say that I’m a happy, peaceful bachelor. If they press for why I don’t date anymore, I tell them how many times I’ve been married. But if that’s not enough for them and they press for even more detail, I tell them that “I don’t domesticate well.”

That last line seems to be my best defense. It usually gets people to drop it right there. I have a very public job where casual conversation with regular and repeat visitors is expected. That is why I’ve had to develop a way to shut that conversation down in a polite, yet firm way.

[RhinoParticipant 3477]

My brother knows and he thinks something is wrong with me and refuses to see the bigger picture. You can’t show someone the light when they want to wear a blindfold and walk around a room in the dark.

I told my parents without giving it a label so they would stop bothering me and asking me to get married. I just said I was never going to get married, never going to give them grandchildren, and to live with it. Surprisingly they still talk to me without bringing it up anymore and I feel great about it. As for the rest I never will bring it up if I am asked why I am single I just direct the question into another topic. It is great to be a red pill man but sad to watch all the blue pill men still try to make things work with women.

[EtrangereParticipant 706]

At first I wanted to open my big mouth about it , but Stealthy is right and I keep my mouth shut now. Brain pilot that is one great parallel you drew

[Eric LauderParticipant 12043]

Keymaster wrote:

“A jedi uses the force for knowledge and defense. Never for attack. “
– Yoda

I have my own quote from Star Wars that I use against feminists everytime they try their rhetoric tricks with me.
Firstly I destroy their argument, then I end with

“You think you’re some kind of Jedi, waving your hand around like that? I’m a Toydarian. Mind tricks don’t work on me!”

SUPREME LEADER KIM JONG-UN'S FASHION STYLIST - if you want a new look or if you're a very beautiful trans you can call me, phone number +85079255312 / mobile 01921421211. The worth of a man isn't the usefulness that women get from him. Avoiding living with a woman, a man isn't rejecting a lot of sex: he's rejecting sexual starvation. MGTOW IS TACKLING DOMESTIC VIOLENCE IN COMPLIANCE WITH CONVENTION OF ISTANBUL: http://www.coe.int/en/web/conventions/full-list/-/conventions/rms/090000168008482e --- Article 4, Section 4 "Special measures that are necessary to prevent and protect women from gender-based violence shall not be considered discrimination under the terms of this Convention". WHAT I LEARNT FROM A GENDER STUDIES CLASS IN LUND, SWEDEN: every time feminists accuses men of doing something, odds are likely either them or persons associated with them are doing the exact same thing but a lot worse. WHO I'M RIGHT NOW https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=J1okpAj7Fhw Basically my former life have been a conflict between this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=yz_RQVkvke4 and this https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=dFIMeyTK-sU That's, more or less, all about me.

[BeeParticipant 700]

I know a few. One has gone full monk. He’s a party bus driver, works two nights a week to support himself, lives alone hasn’t dated in 20 years. Another is a US government employee. He’s got his s~~~ together. I think he’s gs 12. Got his own house and a sweet truck, told me he’d never marry so yep, mgtow. I know a few divorced men. Some try to go right back to the plantation. A few of my friends are undesirable to women and mgtow by default. So, yes, I know a few and it is not strange at all.

[BeerParticipant 11832]

Mr. Man wrote:

That last line seems to be my best defense. It usually gets people to drop it right there. I have a very public job where casual conversation with regular and repeat visitors is expected. That is why I’ve had to develop a way to shut that conversation down in a polite, yet firm way.

I find it shuts most people down relatively quickly when you tell them you’ll never marry because you know way too many people who got destroyed in divorce court. The trick is, I don’t make it a man vs woman argument if I’m talking to a woman. I simply phrase it like I have my s~~~ together and if I keep going like I have been I can be retired 20-25 years before the average retirement age, where as a potential divorce in my 40s, loss of assets from the divorce, and potential child support/alimony into my 50s means I’ll be working well into my 60s before I can comfortably retire.

If you tried to turn it into a man vs woman thing you might get some push back from feminists who want to act like divorce is worse for a woman than a man, or who want to bring up some divorce where the breadwinner female had to pay out to the husband which is a tiny minority of divorces(probably only a few Hollywood divorces) and wouldn’t apply to me anyhow unless I actually found a woman better off than I willing to marry down financially. The simple fact is my net worth and income are higher than most women my age, so there is no f~~~ing way a divorce would be anything but a savage butt raping for me if I were to marry a woman making half as much bringing debt into the relationship who would walk out with 50%+ if things didn’t work. I don’t bash on women at all when I say this…I just phrase it strictly from the view of it being a bad financial risk…if they want to think I’m greedy or whatever because of that, that is a lot less hassle than someone running to HR or making a fuss out of me bashing on women.

[Author]

Posts