How many here over 40 & never married or bred??

[black_knightParticipant 2602]

I’m 16 months off my 40th birthday, never married, never co-habited, nor had any children. I can’t, and never have been able to imagine anything worse.

Now? Solvent, stress free, and completely sovreign.

[OldschoolParticipant 2481]

X11 wrote:

Vasectomy hurt?

Yes. Most guys I talked with beforehand said its no problem, not me it hurt during and after. I was out of commission for about 5 days. Glad I did it!

Get a vasectomy.

[Anonymous 7]

Raises Hand.
Late 40s never married no kids

[Bloody HeartlandParticipant 693]

About 14 more years and hopefully I’ll be there.

"I have the fury of my own momentum." "With this ring I thee wed. Fire walk with me."

[DirtBikeManParticipant 535]

I made it. 51, never married, never lived with one, no kids, house paid off, retirement plan fully funded, got the snip 2 years ago (did not want any chance of f~~~ing up the plan to retire at 60.) Life is very good.

The most important thing you can do is ask yourself, what do I really want out of life. Really think about it, and always be true to yourself. Then Do it.

[KevinStylesParticipant 2580]

I check two of those three boxes.

[JVBParticipant]

Me too. 44 nope and nope…….and never will.

Peace is > piece.

[WinterhandParticipant 53]

I’ll be 52 in 10 days, never married and no children.

I came close to getting snared by a woman in my 40’s with a false paternity claim but once the test came back negative I got a vasectomy to make sure it could never happened again.

[X11Spectator 4520]

So many of us.

[It’sallbsParticipant]

41 in November, nevre married

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[The Black ScorpionParticipant 2146]

42.

Never married and no kids.

Just a happy loner who doesn’t like people or society and values his freedom to spend his time and money as he sees fit.

Lovin’ life.

The greatest tragedy in life is to spend your whole life fishing only to discover that it was not fish you were after. - Henry David Thoreau

[KeymasterKeymaster]

X11 wrote:

I think we a minority group but trending upward.

Not a minority at all. Over 70% of American men under 36 are unmarried.

I COULD have married at least 5 times. Didn’t, and thank my personal god every day. Red pill early I guess.

Two women allowed themselves to get pregnant – when I was 21 and 24. Although I am unsure if one of them was lying. The other was legit (long term GF), and she aborted. A true accident on both sides. I was always careful. She was not and I found out later it was her 3rd abortion. I left tumbleweeds when I ran from her at supersonic speed. MAJOR early red pill.

As a man who has no parental rights, and no say in the matter – to be a father or not – I intentionally remain completely indifferent to the topic. So much so, when anyone asks “why don’t you have kids?” – or “don’t you want kids?” – I toy with them and answer with a question: “why are you pretending it’s up to ME at all?”.

That usually makes the point, but if it doesn’t and they continue to push, I just say “How do you know I don’t? Even I can’t be completely sure”.

An uncomfortable giggle follows and they change the subject pretty fast.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[X11Spectator 4520]

We were all mgtow before mgtow and didn’t know it, go gen X.

[EyeswideopenParticipant 2930]

Late 30s. Married 2 years, then Chad, then divorced. Never again. No children; and never will. Paid off house, maxed out retirement savings, and starting to develop hobbies.

Admittedly, I work too much – I’m hoping to be totally retired by 55 and semi-retired by 45.

I f~~~ chicks in their early 20s when the mood strikes; usually on vacation under an assumed name with documented consent. As I get older, this has less and less meaning – I am looking for new hobbies at the moment. Good problems to have.

- Marriage is described as an institution. You would have to be crazy to be commited to it. -"If you want to live a happy life, tie it to a goal. Not people or things" Albert Einstein

[MonkParticipant 17026]

Long ago, I learned to kill the children question by simply pointing that whilst I might father children, I will never actually HAVE them.

All talk of ‘having children together’ is bulls~~~.

The c~~~ will always regard them as her personal property and the courts will agree with her.

[JakeParticipant 909]

I thought I was unlucky now I dont

[OldBillParticipant]

Sorry about the delay, X11. I missed this while I was ill.

I’m closer to 60 than 50, have never been married, and am ~90% sure I’ve never fathered any children.

The marriage part is easy to explain:

First, I’ve always been just a little more aware of my surroundings than most people.

Second, choices and circumstances “removed” me from the marriage pool for most of the “danger” years; 20 to 35.

I loathed the dating scene in middle and high school. All the games, drama, histrionics, and other bulls~~~ girls created repulsed me. I dated rarely and repeated even more rarely. Graduation didn’t change that.

My family has a history of military service and just not thanks to the draft. Very few “lifers” in all of that, but most of us do our hitch. When I volunteered, the older men in may family congratulated me and warned me to think carefully about marrying while in the service.

As early as boot camp I saw married men routinely tortured by their wives, so the earlier warnings made sense. For the remainder of my time in, I saw more and more of the same. Very importantly, as I climbed the ranks, I began having to clean up the messes marriage and divorce created. That meant definitely no marriage for me while serving.

After getting out, I worked and went to college full time. Little free time, little time for dating, low chance of marriage.

After that, I began traveling for a living AND serving in the Guard. Cupcake doesn’t like it when her slave isn’t under her thumb 24/7. Business travel sounds positively c~~~ tingling until Cupcake learns she doesn’t get to go too and that most trips involve Peoria instead of Paris. Cupcake also pouts when her slave drills one weekend in four and two weeks a year. Cupcake is fine with a few months of free drinks, meals, shows, and overnights, but soon she’s going to look for a new slave who “devote” more of his time to Cupcake’s needs and whims. Therefore, Cupcake moves on.

So, that’s why I made it through the danger year having never married. There was a generally reticence reinforced with dozens of bad examples coupled with a service, work, school, and career schedule which made me unattractive to most predators.

After 35 or so, it wasn’t too late for me. It was too late for them. I knew too much and had seen too much to ever fall for their bulls~~~.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[X11Spectator 4520]

Under 40’s look & listen.

[Prefer Peace to PieceParticipant 10809]

Well, I was a confirmed bachelor most of my life and had an absolute blast.
I then decided I should meet a “nice” girl.
I ended up marrying a school teacher who taught Sunday School. She was easily a 9.
It was horrible. I had to start working 60-70 hours/week to pay for all her baubles.
I ended up doing all of the cooking, cleaning and yard work. She helped out by spending a bloody fortune on luxury SUV’s and a mansion.

Luckily she ended up running off with a preacher. She was too emotionally upset by her adultery to work for a few years. The divorce only cost 300k, so I got off lucky.

While I love kids, I never had any (thank God).
Women are far too crazy now days for kids.

I had to start over, but who cares. Once a person tastes freedom, they never will return to the plantation.

[MaddladParticipant 765]

I’ll be 45 in a couple of months, no kids, never been married, but have had long term live-in relationships etc. Thought i was going to get married and have kids but it just hasnt happened. I dont believe in being with someone for the sake of it, and the only person i wanted to get married to walked out on me with no warning..

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