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Okay, so first of all, this is in a classroom setting with 28 other students and 3 teachers.
So, we work in groups, and my group had five people including myself, another guy, and three females.
So I’m friendly with the male and we’re open with each other; we say what’s on our minds. He and I have contributed the most to our five-person group and to the larger class. Anyways, one day, he was talking about how unprepared he felt for an upcoming exam, and that he didn’t understand like half the stuff that would be on the test. So I jokingly said that that “means you will have a tough time with the exam.”
You will not believe the amount of screaming the three females unleashed on me for that comment. Two of them even got in my face, put their fists up, and threatened: “You want to fight?” I told them my buddy and I were kidding around as always, but they kept saying “That is not funny. You’re rude” etc etc.
Now they were being very aggressive with me and there were professors/teachers around so I knew if I retaliated I’d be the one marked down for “teamwork” and “professionalism.”
I went to my friend the next day and I asked him whether he was really offended by what I had said, and he told me he knew I was just joking around, and then proceeded to make a joke about my name- so he was cool with it.
So my question to you, brothers, is: how should I have responded to these females? Should I have been quiet/submissive? Should I have raised my voice and portrayed myself as a jerk to the people grading me?
FWIW, Later on in the class, I started being really passive-aggressive with the girl who threatened to hit me/fight me; like I mentioned previously, my male friend and I are the ones who have been carrying the group by doing all the work. She kept demanding an explanation to a type of problem from me, and when she turned on the sass, I aggressively responded “I’m trying to help you. The least you can do is act respectful.” That shut her up. She just looked at me and was like “Are you always so….” and then shut up and sat down.
After things with her cooled down, I turned to another girl who had insulted me and who depended on me for academic support and I told her that she had personally offended me and that I found her to be a very hypocritical person (she enthusiastically describes herself as a feminist). She had no response to my comment about her. She just looked to the bossy bitch who I shut down earlier and didn’t say anything. A few weeks later, she messaged me on FB asking if I was still upset with her. This girl was the type of person who jumps on the bandwagon when a guy is being skinned but has no ability to engage someone one-on-one.
I know it shouldn’t factor in, but they were black and black women scare me with their screaming.
So once again- how should I response to such groups situations where females gang up on me? My inner red pill says to stick up for myself, but I’m in a blue-pill school where sticking up for yourself loudly or aggressively earns you a poor grade.
I’d honestly chuckle and ignore them. Definitely don’t submit and, most of all, don’t apologize. These chicks are looking to bully you because they know they can get away with it. Ignoring them just angers them further from what I’ve noticed. A slight laugh while not even looking at them shows them that they’re not even worth your time, but you don’t have to say “words” to them that would get you in trouble.
To make an apt analogy, you are as a special forces operative behind enemy lines; if he wants to live, he will not draw their attention. Least of all, will he start doing highland reels in a minefield.
You are in a hostile, all-feminist environment. Do what you need to do to get your degree and get out, and avoid any behavior they can use to flunk you out. They can do lots these days, but there is not much you can do to defend yourself.
BTW, my chosen response to that FB question would be either silence or unfriending her. I would save the latter until you are no longer classmates and she no longer has any say so in your grade.
Another BTW: I am still reeling from the idea that the professors did not intervene when the shouting and threats of violence erupted. What the hell were they thinking??
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How old is everyone? Very childish thing for them to do in my view.
Some chicks need to be put in their places. Unfortunately, the time and place wasn’t right for you to be the one to do that.
For what its worth, find solace in knowing that those aggressive chicks will likely go after equally aggressive thugs and losers later in life, end up being pregnant with no baby daddy around living on welfare, getting fat, and then getting turned out by any old tom, dick, and harry that is itching to blow a load.
Just ask the professor not to be placed in their group for any future projects so you can avoid doing something that may impact your grades.
Are you graded as a group or as individuals?
If you get individual grades for your individual work then to hell with them. You have no reason to help them, especially if the class is graded on a curve.
If you are graded as a group WHY THE F~~~ ARE YOU EVEN IN THAT CLASS IN THE FIRST PLACE? If you really are doing all the work with the other man, the very next group assignment you turn in should have something like this at the top:
“Female A, Female B, and Female C contributed nothing to this project despite our constant efforts to get them engaged and involved. They preferred to ride on our efforts. The proof of this is this very paragraph. The couldn’t even be bothered to proofread this report and remove this paragraph.”
Seriously, don’t put up with that s~~~.
I’d honestly chuckle and ignore them. Definitely don’t submit and, most of all, don’t apologize. These chicks are looking to bully you because they know they can get away with it. Ignoring them just angers them further from what I’ve noticed. A slight laugh while not even looking at them shows them that they’re not even worth your time, but you don’t have to say “words” to them that would get you in trouble.
Haha I love it. Thank you. This is going to become my go-to approach from now. Man that’ll really tick them off.
To make an apt analogy, you are as a special forces operative behind enemy lines; if he wants to live, he will not draw their attention. Least of all, will he start doing highland reels in a minefield. You are in a hostile, all-feminist environment. Do what you need to do to get your degree and get out, and avoid any behavior they can use to flunk you out. They can do lots these days, but there is not much you can do to defend yourself. BTW, my chosen response to that FB question would be either silence or unfriending her. I would save the latter until you are no longer classmates and she no longer has any say so in your grade. Another BTW: I am still reeling from the idea that the professors did not intervene when the shouting and threats of violence erupted. What the hell were they thinking??
I think even the professors were scared of interfering :P. It was the LEAD INSTRUCTOR’S FIRST TIME teaching this (or any class) at our level. I’m sure he was trying to keep the boat as steady as possible lol. Yeah I’m just getting in and out from now on. This class has already ended, but it’s something that has been bothering me so I shared it here. Love that covert ops analogy :D.
How old is everyone? Very childish thing for them to do in my view. Some chicks need to be put in their places. Unfortunately, the time and place wasn’t right for you to be the one to do that. For what its worth, find solace in knowing that those aggressive chicks will likely go after equally aggressive thugs and losers later in life, end up being pregnant with no baby daddy around living on welfare, getting fat, and then getting turned out by any old tom, dick, and harry that is itching to blow a load. Just ask the professor not to be placed in their group for any future projects so you can avoid doing something that may impact your grades.
I love your response. Actually, two of them are already quite fat. 5’6 and 220 pounds at least. We’re all early to mid-20s. One of the three is a confirmed feminist. On our first day in class, our professor asked us to turn to our neighbors and learn a “fun fact” about them. She introduced herself proudly as a feminist. I remember thinking at that moment “here we go….” Thankfully I won’t be in their group anymore since the class has ended.
Are you graded as a group or as individuals? If you get individual grades for your individual work then to hell with them. You have no reason to help them, especially if the class is graded on a curve. If you are graded as a group WHY THE F~~~ ARE YOU EVEN IN THAT CLASS IN THE FIRST PLACE? If you really are doing all the work with the other man, the very next group assignment you turn in should have something like this at the top: “Female A, Female B, and Female C contributed nothing to this project despite our constant efforts to get them engaged and involved. They preferred to ride on our efforts. The proof of this is this very paragraph. The couldn’t even be bothered to proofread this report and remove this paragraph.” Seriously, don’t put up with that s~~~.
So the way it works is- everyone submits their own reports and papers. But that’s just a fraction of your total grade. Another large percentage (like 25%) is based on “teamwork” and “professionalism.” That is where interactions with them matter. I did pretty well on my individual papers- I ended up with a 98% (A+) in that category. The feminist ended up with a 78% and was asking to see my report and to have me edit/proofread her next one. Yeah, real chance of that happening.
I had something similar happen. Tho’ it was a friend of mine who was part of the group who I hit with a good “ball bust”. All the women jumped in to his defense ruining his reciprocal ball bust. Two of us were “jeazus.. where did these harpies come from” looks on our faces. I calmed them down and said: “Ladies! No harm no foul! I am going to tell you a secret of men.” That got their attention. “Secret is we ball bust one another constantly. Its male bonding” They didn’t get it.
My buddy said: “Exactly. He is 100% right although he now has a super max tampon shoved in it since he needs the ladies to come to his defense.” Me: “Touche granny gobbler, lets go get some wings.” Fist bump flyaway and we were off to get some buffalo wings.
The women were looking at us all bug eyed like they couldn’t believe their ears.
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-SidecarI would’ve have ignore them and pretended they didn’t exist.
They hate that!
Make sure they fail, if you two are pulling up the group make sure you two get all the credit. Note down, and bullet everything you two do. When the presentation is almost done, you two explain to your professor that they didn’t do anything nor cooperated therefore no marks for them should be awarded. Show the professor the proof.
Anonymous11Not that this has any relevance to women but is in reply to Sidecar’s group versus individual grading question.
In college, we had to do an experiment in physics lab. My lab partners partied like animals while I spent hours analyzing spectra like a slave. The wanted the results of my hard work and calculations. This was before the era of spreadsheets being commonly available so everything was done by hand. I refused to give anything to them. They failed the lab course and had to repeat it. They were angry. I did not give a f~~~ as it took me 5 times longer to finish due to not being able to delegate. Group anything always has some bulls~~~ factor. Luckily, we were graded as individuals. The professor knew what had happened and cut me slack on the deadline as it required a fully functional team to even make deadline.
Do not give them an inch.
Ignoring them in every possible way except to do the work.
And if they ask why you are so stand-off-ish, tell them you prefer not to invest energy in negative and/or aggressive people and they now qualify for that category thanks to their outburst. After that walk away, because nothing is gained from staying to argue.
Keep your communication as short as possible in all forms with them.
You have better things to do with your time and energy.
Because in order to be able to think, you have to risk being offensive.
I would’ve have ignore them and pretended they didn’t exist. They hate that!
Yep that’s going to be the strategy from now on. I’ve always tried to be the guy who extends courtesies to everyone and is fair, but f~~~ this. From now on, if you disrespect me, you don’t exist in my eyes anymore.
Make sure they fail, if you two are pulling up the group make sure you two get all the credit. Note down, and bullet everything you two do. When the presentation is almost done, you two explain to your professor that they didn’t do anything nor cooperated therefore no marks for them should be awarded. Show the professor the proof.
Aye aye; although I am fortunate in the sense that the projects we did were done together and designed together, but the write-up (which is the report and is worth like 75% of the grade) was done individually. And since I had designed the project, I knew why we did each thing and exactly what the results meant, whereas they had just been going along passively with the project. So it all evened out in the end.
refused to give anything to them. They failed the lab course and had to repeat it. They were angry. I did not give a f~~~ as it took me 5 times longer to finish due to not being able to delegate.
Nice job sticking up for yourself. You’re a good role model; going to do that same thing in the future.
Do not give them an inch. Ignoring them in every possible way except to do the work. And if they ask why you are so stand-off-ish, tell them you prefer not to invest energy in negative and/or aggressive people and they now qualify for that category thanks to their outburst. After that walk away, because nothing is gained from staying to argue. Keep your communication as short as possible in all forms with them. You have better things to do with your time and energy.
I love it- just wondering…where would I walk away to though? We all had to sit at the same table :P. So I would eventually have to return and hear their whining.
Those fat cows probably like you and are mad they can’t have you. Those are the same fat cows that are gonna be drooling over you in a few years, but your not gonna want those fat cows, you’ll go for the young nice not fat cow land whale women?
ROFL they LIKE me? You know I’ve always wondered what was their motive for snapping out on me like so. I mean, all I did was take a jab at my male friend with the “you’ll have a tough time with the exam then!” comment. Maybe they were having problems with the concepts too? Maybe they had bad grades already and didn’t like hearing that worse was coming?
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Now I’ve seen everything. That scene on the subway is hilarious 😛
Seriously, “education” is a big joke.
Going to college or “higher” education should be a last resort. Only go if you can’t do anything else.
If you want to really be educated, just read a book. You can learn more from a couple of books from a library than you can from 4 years at indoctrination camp.
How to deal with this situation? Don’t ignore them. If you ignore them they will escalate, from my personal experience. Don’t confront them either.
Avoid them instead. Don’t work with them if that is possible. Pretend to be busy. If they confront you, go somewhere else.
I turned to another girl who had insulted me and who depended on me for academic support
Seriously, you are a blue pill mangina if you are letting them leech off you. They ruin education and if you are helping them through it you deserve all the abuse you get and some. If they can’t do it they shouldn’t be there.
Another large percentage (like 25%) is based on “teamwork” and “professionalism.”
In the future I strongly recommend asking the instructors their grading structures in advance before choosing classes and NEVER TAKING ANOTHER CLASS LIKE THIS EVER AGAIN.
Seriously, how do you quantify s~~~ like “teamwork” and “professionalism”? That’s just an open excuse for the instructor to grade down anyone they don’t like. Why would you pay overpriced tuition and waste valuable time on something as capricious as that?
And people wonder why men are abandoning education?
A couple of points guys:
1. I’m a med student; these classes are required, and the groups are made at professor’s discretion. Although with my experience with them now, in the future I will avoid them. But I can’t exactly boycott education or stop taking such classes; I want my MD. I’ve slogged over the years to get to this position and dammit I’m going to become a doctor.
2. For those of you thinking I’m a mangina/blue-piller, you’re exactly right. I WAS one at the time this class happened. In fact, I’m grateful this incident happened, because it p~~~ed me off so much that I began to develop the ideas that led me to MGTOW. Without this incident, I’d still be blue-pill.
1. I’m a med student; these classes are required, and the groups are made at professor’s discretion. Although with my experience with them now, in the future I will avoid them. But I can’t exactly boycott education or stop taking such classes; I want my MD. I’ve slogged over the years to get to this position and dammit I’m going to become a doctor.
So find different instructors or find a different school. Probably 90% of getting the most out of your education is working out which instructors and which classes to avoid. After that the material itself is easy.
Still, I’m disappointed as f~~~ to see s~~~ like this in a med school. It doesn’t bode well for the quality of health care going forward.
Seriously, “education” is a big joke. Going to college or “higher” education should be a last resort. Only go if you can’t do anything else. If you want to really be educated, just read a book. You can learn more from a couple of books from a library than you can from 4 years at indoctrination camp. How to deal with this situation? Don’t ignore them. If you ignore them they will escalate, from my personal experience. Don’t confront them either. Avoid them instead. Don’t work with them if that is possible. Pretend to be busy. If they confront you, go somewhere else.
I turned to another girl who had insulted me and who depended on me for academic support
Seriously, you are a blue pill mangina if you are letting them leech off you. They ruin education and if you are helping them through it you deserve all the abuse you get and some. If they can’t do it they shouldn’t be there.
1. I’m in Medical School; American Medical schools don’t do online degrees. They don’t give you credits to become a doctor by “reading library books.” And yes, I am training to become a physician no matter what. That’s my passion.
2. Like I mentioned a few posts back, this class is over already; it occurred before I even found MGTOW. In fact, that girl who had insulted me and introduced herself as a feminist, she’s the reason I began to develop ideas that led to MGTOW..because I was angry at how I had been treated. Every red-pill was a blue-pill once before. Doesn’t mean I “deserve abuse.”
Another large percentage (like 25%) is based on “teamwork” and “professionalism.”
In the future I strongly recommend asking the instructors their grading structures in advance before choosing classes and NEVER TAKING ANOTHER CLASS LIKE THIS EVER AGAIN. Seriously, how do you quantify s~~~ like “teamwork” and “professionalism”? That’s just an open excuse for the instructor to grade down anyone they don’t like. Why would you pay overpriced tuition and waste valuable time on something as capricious as that? And people wonder why men are abandoning education?
I hear you- thank you :D. The fact of the matter is that this was a required class for the degree.
I pay tuition and spend my time because this is needed in order to become a doctor.
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