How he was able to keep his cool is beyond me….

[BONEParticipant 448]

Sorry if this was already posted on here but it has my blood boiling beyond belief, she’s using the damn kids as a shield, reason #1313923432959 not to get married and have kids.

[007 (Reborn)Participant 1672]

The silver lining is that other men get the opportunity to learn from his god awful mistake. I believe it is our duty as mgtow to spread videos like this.

Pursuing Happiness and Freedom.

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

Loads of comments on this in r/Men’s Rights. Yeah the guy is a hero. She’s trying to goad a confrontation and the stress on the kids is very evident.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

“HELP HELP,….. did you just hurt me?”
5:50 in video

what kind of question is that???
if you got hurt, you know you got hurt. no need to ask others.
this is what leads to false domestic violence charges.

let’s not forget about false rape accusations.
That’s a story for another day.

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[DDJParticipant 1880]

She’s clearly lost it and was using the children to weaponize her argument. A parent, especially separated ones should never use their children or argue in front of them.

These kids will hate her for it later.

Every woman is a slut, if you catch her on the right day.

[HitmanParticipant]

that C~~~ mother using the kids to block his means of egress is criminal.
her C~~~ mother joining in is just disgusting .
the poor kids mean nothing to either woman .
this is the american family today , THANKS LADY’S !!!

[Anonymous 5]

What these videos really need is the juxtaposition of a second older video taken while the wife was doing her courting or NAWALT routine and joining it to the first.
In this electronic age I’m sure they’d all have plenty while they were dating.
Every single one of these abusive wives using the kids as proxy tools to hold their Ex’s to ransom were cute, fun, sexy, horny, sweet and susceptible girlfriends.
Men wouldn’t have signed marriage contracts if they weren’t!
This is the REAL MGTOW message.

I can’t imagine a man being more softly spoken, polite and reasonable than the man in this video, so there’d be little or no contrast at all with his behavior.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Anonymous wrote:

Every single one of these abusive wives using the kids as proxy tools to hold their Ex’s to ransom were cute, fun, sexy, horny, sweet and susceptible girlfriends.
Men wouldn’t have signed marriage contracts if they weren’t!
This is the REAL MGTOW message.

this is the best post i’ve read all day!

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

[MemberParticipant 323]

I cant even watch stuff like that. It is wayyyy too familiar for me. So many times I had to choke back rage while a particular ex did something outrageous to me or to my kids. I knew that if I reacted badly I would be the one going to jail, or losing custody, or losing a job, or all of the above. People without high conflict exes don’t have a clue that stuff like this even exists. I know I didn’t….

I would love to say that I don’t have to deal with this anymore but I can’t. Still have to deal with this sometimes due to children/custody. I hate it….but can only limit my interactions to a certain extent if I want to spend time with kid.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I feel for the men who came to awareness too late and now find themselves in situations like this… so I will offer a few words of advice for making the exchange when picking up and dropping off kids. You’ve got to think tactically about this and give them as little opportunity as possible to harass you.

1) Do not allow the woman or her allies to be in the proximity of your vehicle. Park the car where they can not see it (or take a taxi, have a friend drop you or some such) and make the exchange on foot so that they can not block your exit.

2) Never be late or otherwise attempt to change, subvert or assert authority over the conditions of the handoff.

3) Be meticulous about the children’s belongings such as coats, hats, toys, school bags… leave nothing behind.

4) Get and use a wearable camera so that your hands are free and carry nothing of value with you to the handoff.

5) If at all possible, make the exchange in public in the presence of some neutral figure of authority. Fire houses and police stations are great places to make sure children are not endangered or manipulated when there is adult conflict. Get it written into the agreement by having your lawyer proffer it as protection for her and the kids if need be.

Basically, treat all interactions with your children’s’ mother as if you were making a firearm sale to someone you found on Craig’s list.

[NeutronParticipant 321]

If I said it once I’ve said it a thousand times: WOMEN ARE BORN INSANE

None are more hopelessly enslaved than those who falsely believe they are free - Johann Wolfgang von Goethe

[VarunParticipant 2981]

I’m literally scared outta my wits. Can you imagine yourself in that guy’s position? This is pure horror for me.

A bird in the hand is worth two in the bush.

[experiencedParticipant]

This, as well as the “Men of Germany” article, gives credence to the fact that the phrase, “women and children” no longer fits, anywhere. It was properly used in an earlier era when words like vows, ethics, responsibility were used, correctly.
Today however, it is clung to by LAYDEEZ who no longer give a s~~~ about kids. By Laydeez who go one step farther and put them physically in danger, who damage the kids psychologically for the laydeez benefit, who cling to the collective phrase to pull in sympathy that they themselves not only don’t deserve, but have taken to the point of mockery.
Henceforth, “women”. Henceforth, “children”. However, “women and children” and all associated pre paradigm shift emotions and motivators no longer apply. Once again laydeez – no free ride.
“Children” deserve protection. “Children” are innocent. “Women” on the other ‘hand’ – the one that belongs to snakes, spiders, bottom feeders, have forsaken the kids well being and therefore any associated privileges, in treatment and in thought.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[hellraiderParticipant 2837]

Well, i think that a guy that has a toxic ex wife like that should just completely shun her and the kids.
She is using the kids as weapons against him.

This video shows how women really are.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

That trollop isn’t fit to raise children.

The man was smart for recording her insanity.

[RhettParticipant 637]

OMFG! He had to stay cool Or else he’ll be spending the night in jail. I just wanted to reach through the screen and save those boys from that maniacal bitch. Any man who’s experienced their own children used against them would understand that pussy isn’t worth it. Get a vasectomy, use spermicidal condoms… DO NO STICK YOUR DICK IN CRAZY!!!!

Single guys come home, look at what’s in the fridge, and go to bed. Married guys come home, look at what’s in bed, and go to the fridge.......But the best representative of MGTOW is…………… an empty chair,.

[OldBillParticipant]

Absolutely chilling. That woman and, I’m assuming, her mother are nothing but monsters. Self righteous, perpetual victim, cry racism/sexism, monsters. Can you imagine dealing with one of them in a professional setting? Can you imagine the hell they put those little children through?

It was all about haircuts too. Haircuts. That psychotic behavior was sparked by haircuts. Think about that. Yet they want us to believe the system has the best interests of the children at heart.

While the father was wise to record the entire encounter, not to mention exhibiting an almost superhuman level of patience, there are a few more steps he should be taking.

The details involving custody hand-overs can be made quite specific. Along with days and times, you can specify locations, the people involved, and even the presence of neutral third parties. I know men who successfully insisted that he and his ex-wife meet in a police station parking lot during custody changes. I know men who successfully insisted that their ex-wives turn the children over to a neutral third party who would then turn the children over to them.

If I were that poor man, I’d go into court with my lawyer and that video and petition the court for a change in custody turnovers. Not custody amounts, as a man you’ll never get a change in that unless your ex dies or goes to jail, but a change in the terms of how the two children are handed off between mother and father. At the very least, should occur at a police station where his ex will be less inclined to act up.

Also, I don’t want to be “that” guy, but I can’t help but think that a large part of the problem here has to do with the ethnicity of the people involved. As much as we gripe about women, black men have it even worse.

As a group, black women are the nastiest socio-economic class in the US. They’re the most bitter, most suspicious, most entitled, most egotistical, and, at a rate of over 67%, the most obese. In my many professional visits to various corporate clients, black women are almost always involved in whatever endemic personnel problem the company is facing. As a doubly protected group – being both a minority and women – they are basically untouchable no matter how egregious or incompetent they may be.

There’s a good reason why more and more black men in the US are feeling overseas to meet their needs for romance, companionship, and sex.

And, you can take this to the bank, the rest of us are not too far behind.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[RhettParticipant 637]

OldBill wrote:

If I were that poor man, I’d go into court with my lawyer and that video and petition the court for a change in custody turnovers.

He’ll have a hell of a time prying those two paychecks away from that bitch. His best bet would be to wait until they’re teenagers and she’s no longer able to control them. Then she’ll begrudgingly sign over the feminized boys over to him to fix over a decade’s worth of mindf~~~ing and lies.

Single guys come home, look at what’s in the fridge, and go to bed. Married guys come home, look at what’s in bed, and go to the fridge.......But the best representative of MGTOW is…………… an empty chair,.

[OldBillParticipant]

Rhett wrote:

He’ll have a hell of a time prying those two paychecks away from that bitch.

I’m not talking about child support payment, Rhett. I’m talking about the court mandated conditions in which the children are transferred between parents for visitation purposes. The two are not the same.

He could ask that all transfers occurring at a certain location; like the man I wrote about who meet his ex at a police station to pick up his children. He could ask for third party transfers in which he and his ex never see or interact with each other. He could also ask for third party monitored transfers where a neutral party is present for when the children are dropped off/picked up.

If he and his ex were legally obligated to transfer custody in a police station parking lot or while a neutral party was watching, that monstrous whore and her equally monstrous mother would be far less likely to stir up s~~~.

I know a man who, thanks to excellent legal advice, had specific custody transfer requirements written into his divorce. He would pick up is daughter at a specific time and at a specific location only. Any attempt by his ex to ignore those conditions was an attempt by her to flout a court order and he had no compunctions about reminding her.

She’d ask to come early or late and he’d text her a picture of the relevant paragraph in the court order. She’d ask him to pick up or drop off the child somewhere other than than the agreed location and he’d text her a picture of the relevant paragraph. It took a few years, but she eventually learned there was no wiggle room. She had to do what she legally agreed to do or he’d have her back in court for contempt.

You have to draw a line and defend it. Good intentions are no good at all.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[Blue SkiesParticipant 15665]

Rhett wrote:

Any man who’s experienced their own children used against them would understand that pussy isn’t worth it. Get a vasectomy, use spermicidal condoms… DO NO STICK YOUR DICK IN CRAZY!!!!

another option is buy a fleshlight…

MGTOW is not a movement, it is a way of life.

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