How does a father tell his son?

[pZ1$Participant 110]

How is a father supposed to tell his teenage son he’s divorcing his mother because she’s not having a sexual relationship with him when everything else seems fine? I mean, since everything else would seem fine what excuse should I use? I don’t want to mess the kid’s mind up.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

pZ1$ wrote:

what excuse should I use?

Sex is the entire biological POINT between men and women. It’s not even debatable. They are designed to fit that way – first. Sex can even happen when they don’t fit in every other way(!)… so if one woman isn’t putting out and getting the job done, nobody can blame you for finding one who WILL – and getting it elsewhere.

Wouldn’t you teach HIM the same thing?

More importantly, contrary to popular & womanly opinion, it’s not actually *A* singular relationship. There are always TWO relationships going on:

1. Her relationship with/to you.
2. And your relationship with/to HER.

Women talk like it’s a (one) relationship and “everything is fine” when SHE is happy™.
i.e “Happy wife = happy life” and all of that nonsense.

… while his needs and wants are a total non-consideration. A man doesn’t have to be OK with that, because there are always TWO relationships going on.

It’s not an “excuse”. It’s a fact.

Sex is the entire biological point between men and women. All that other relationship horses~~~ is not. By mansplaining it to him in this way, you wouldn’t be messing his mind up at all. You’re CLARIFYING it for him and making sense out of it all.

It would be “messing his mind up” if he swallowed all that womanly “relationship” monkey s~~~ which is pounded into his head since his first Disney cartoon. That will mess his mind up more than anything. Disney teaches little boys to fall over their words and be nervous about talking to (or kissing) a pretty girl.

( ie. The Little Mermaid and Aladdin. )

Even the Disney movie “Enchanted” has a 6 year-old girl saying “Men only want one thing”. When the Princess leans forward and asks the little girl “what’s that?” ….. she says “I don’t know. nobody will tell me”.

That s~~~ is toxic and deliberately brainwashes little kids to puke out stupid lines they don’t even understand – and they have no idea what they are even saying. Jesus Christ, talk about messing up a kid’s mind even before her 7th birthday!

Women continually behave like wanting sex is some kind of a PROBLEM, but that “one thing” is biological destiny and no man can ever be expected to apologize for it. It’s as stupid as saying salmon only want one thing. But salmon are DESIGNED to swim upstream to mate.

What the f~~~ else should man want?
A MILLION f~~~ing things? Or nothing at all.

Those are the other options.

It’s worth repeating: Sex is the entire biological point between men and women. A man is supposed to want that, or your son wouldn’t even exist. If a woman wants to be wanted for anything ELSE….. that’s not up to HIM. That’s up to HER.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[pZ1$Participant 110]

KeyMaster you make some good points. I just don’t want to have to get into “you’re mother won’t have sex with me and that’s why I’m divorcing her” routine with him. It would gross him out. It would have grossed me out if my father said that to me about my mother. Yuk!

But you speak the truth when you says “sex is the entire biological point between men and women.” And I refuse to feel bad about that any longer!!

You also speak the truth when you say how Disney brain washes children into being a certain way. S~~~, I was brainwashed into being needy and pathetic with all the rock loves songs I grew up with. I can’t believe how that music shaped me! Well no more!!

[Greg HondaParticipant 6406]

It’s not a coversation I would wish to have for the following reason.

I would would worry the boy would view me as a failiure for not maintaing the attraction of the mother.

To mitigate this perception of me being at fault, I would give him a long talk about AWALT in terms of the sexual dynamics of mariage over the long term. He would have to know that (nearly), all mariages end up this way. There was nothing I could do about it and the inevitable time had come.

I would advise him against mariage lest this fate befall him too and stress that every man has a right to personal fulfillment and freedom. I would also stress that I would always be there for him when he needed me.

It's Time to get Wise

[HitmanParticipant]

pZ1$…
sit him down and tell him that he is loved and nothing can change that fact.
explain how people grow apart and that a divorce will happen.
re-assure him it has nothing to do with him,
and don’t give the kid actual reasons.
he doesn’t need to know, not at his age..
and really it’s not his business at any age,
unless you want him to know.
i wouldn’t tell him it’s sexual.
just that sometimes people start a family and decide not to remain a couple..
but his place in your heart is unchangeable.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

pZ1$ wrote:

I just don’t want to have to get into “you’re mother won’t have sex with me and that’s why I’m divorcing her” routine with him. It would gross him out.

I put it that ^^ way, because it’s crazy the way most peoples’ entire outlooks are ass backwards from the way things really are. You see women online posting “no sex” or “friends first” in their dating profiles which is utter lunacy.

She doesn’t have to f~~~ the guy, but she also doesn’t have to make a point of saying “NO F~~~ING” before a first meeting. How insane would you have to be introduce yourself to someone like that?

“HI!! MY NAME IS JANE!! NO SEX. FRIENDS FIRST”.

Then get a f~~~ing girlfriend.
Jesus Christ, that’s so gay.

What the f~~~ is she looking for a man for when she can get a GIRLFRIEND or a GAY FRIEND for a “no sex” relationship? It’s perfectly justifiable to want no part of a sexless marriage any longer.

What is less respectable?
Divorce over this? Or having an affair on the sly?

Hugh Grant had supermodel Elizabeth Hurley at home and still felt the need to go get a decent blowjob from Marvin Hagler in a wig – because Liz wasn’t getting the job done. Isn’t that more gross?

If a woman can use the excuse “I’m not haaaaaaaaaapy”™ , then so can YOU. You don’t even need to explain any more than that to anyone – including your son.

If you don’t want to tell him the truth, tell him “you’re not happy”.
He doesn’t need to know more than that.

I would teach my son the same thing because the same applies to him. He’s gonna spend the next half of his life being called “creepy” for looking and smiling at a girl he likes. He’s about to face a world that will call it “sexual harassment” when he wants to ask a girl out. He’s about to experience asking a girl to dance, or going in for a kiss, or copping a feel, and her saying “men are such pigs”….. when we all know women are hornier than men and have more sexual partners!

The current state of things is truly enough to gross anyone out.

Leaving your wife over not enough nookie at home will be your decision and you may even decide “the other things” are more important. You wouldn’t be the first, because sexless marriages are hardly uncommon. But even if you practice discretion about your decision, your son will really appreciate being taught EARLY never to apologize for what nature intended him to be.

Just — >> a man.

A man who has a pulse, needs and wants like anyone else, and he will never apologize for having them. Perhaps then he will NOT enter “a relationship” at all…. unless he’s getting EXACTLY what he wants out of it.

A man should never need to explain these basics to anyone.
Least of all, his own son.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Keymaster wrote:

Women talk like it’s a (one) relationship and “everything is fine” when SHE is happy™.
i.e “Happy wife = happy life” and all of that nonsense.

Right on point. If she’s happy then the relationship is good, doesn’t matter how the man’s doing. Although, if the dad quit his job and quit making the mom happy then she’d divorce his ass in a heartbeat. We’re expected to fulfill our roles while women can just stop their obligations.

Tell your son that the ONE thing that women bring to the table is a vagina. They bring nothing else, and when they stop bringing that to the table then they’re no longer worth your time. Every other trait you want in a woman is irrelevant because women don’t have it. They’ve become such entitled little brats that their only “saving grace” if you can even call it that is a pussy, the baseline bare minimum for a relationship. And when they withdraw the bare minimum then they’re no longer putting in anything so dump their ass. Sound fatherly advice.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[experiencedParticipant]

Nothing says you can’t tell him the truth further down the road, but hopefully before he gets swallowed up.

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"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[AttonParticipant]

Tell him that marriage is a total lie and leave it at that.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[pZ1$Participant 110]

Atton wrote:

Tell him that marriage is a total lie and leave it at that.

Well said!

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