How do young guys do without sex.?

[MattNYCParticipant 2329]

Swimcat wrote:

entertainment without a women to take places and spend the night?

Traditional dating (dinner & a movie) isn’t worth it.

I don’t want a woman’s company, conversation or opinions on international exchange rates. I want her to follow my lead in the bedroom, then she can leave. Escorts are a much better for this, and far more time-efficient.

The only other time i want to interact with women is dancing tango. Fortunately talking while dancing is a rarity.

[FullMetalExoParticipant 2383]

Im 28, In no particular order:
Tea’s, Cognac, Dinner, Reading DUNE, Reading medical books, Study, Movies and popcorn on my nice TV, Video games, Internet, Porn, Hanging out with friends, MTB, Music and relaxing, Counting my money, Getting some sleep on my King size bed all for myself etc.

just the usual evening. I chill out with music and tea most of the time, It’s like never ending tea party, serenity.

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[Anonymous 3]

Hmm . . . a little late, but once I decided my oneitis wasn’t worth it and I would never get any affection in return, I’ve noticed how I’ve accumulated all the things I’ve ever wanted. I’ve learned new skills, bought new things, and has been stress free for the past six months. I’m only going to get better and stronger, and that drive is helping me prioritize myself first.

[Anonymous 3]

Your sex drive ain’t got s~~~ on the power of your mind.

I’m still a young dude (mid 20s) with a high sex drive, and I can’t help but laugh at the brain dead zombie weaklings around me being like, oh I gotta get laid, gotta get a lay dee. Like, you can’t even jerk off, you have to get a girl?

At this point I’ve gotten to the point where I don’t even masturbate anymore. Might do it here and there, maybe like once a couple of weeks or a month, and even then, it has nothing to do with sex drive either.

I don’t know why so many find sex so difficult to not have.

[Foxtrot November GolfParticipant 28]

20 and in college. It’s tough as f~~~. My school has a s~~~ ton of hot girls and there’s at least a party a week going on in my building, so the temptation to trash my V-card is always there. However, we also have to do an online course every semester that reminds us that to the school, “Man + Women + Sex + Alcohol = That man raped her if she says so”, so I’m always reminded of the risk that going to these parties or banging a girl here exposes myself to. My friends are usually busy or at the parties, so socializing is tough. I try to focus on schoolwork (18 credit hours in one semester was a mistake, but somehow my lowest grade is a B), reading (just got 1984 and Animal Farm by George Orwell), going shooting, playing video games, watching videos, choking the chicken, and hanging out with friends when they aren’t busy/partying, working out a lot. I’ve also started trying to come up with and write down 10 ideas, as suggested by Truth Over Everything. It’s really interesting to do.

[Nathan R. JessepParticipant 1102]

Foxtrot November Golf wrote:

20 and in college. It’s tough as f~~~. My school has a s~~~ ton of hot girls and there’s at least a party a week going on in my building, so the temptation to trash my V-card is always there. However, we also have to do an online course every semester that reminds us that to the school, “Man + Women + Sex + Alcohol = That man raped her if she says so”, so I’m always reminded of the risk that going to these parties or banging a girl here exposes myself to. My friends are usually busy or at the parties, so socializing is tough. I try to focus on schoolwork (18 credit hours in one semester was a mistake, but somehow my lowest grade is a B), reading (just got 1984 and Animal Farm by George Orwell), going shooting, playing video games, watching videos, choking the chicken, and hanging out with friends when they aren’t busy/partying, working out a lot. I’ve also started trying to come up with and write down 10 ideas, as suggested by Truth Over Everything. It’s really interesting to do.

I don’t have regrets but if I did it would be how much time/money I spent on women trying to get laid in college (and that was before the ‘rape culture’ era).

My advice – focus on school, bettering yourself, and having fun with friends. That’s it. Stay away from women.

[AttonParticipant]

So what do younger guys to for entertainment without a women to take places and spend the night?

Video games and software writing.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[jmorrow04Participant 19]

Have unlimited spank material on the internet/fleshlights. Its managable.

It's so much easier to see the world in black and white…. Gray? I don't know what to do with gray…

[Y_Participant 4591]

In those days things were different.
Sex did not get you thrown in jail and ruin your life.
It’s a question of understanding priorities and men are good at that.
If you go after the bitch be prepared for the s~~~.
Most men with brains that I know of just jack off or do other things. Some pay for the sex – this is now ok. Next phase will be sex bots (and looking forward to my own sex bot).
Nothing kills a man’s sex drive more than knowing he could lose his future completely for one silly f~~~.

There will be a separation of men who can’t and men who will walk away. Usually this is how nature weeds out the idiots.

[Arrow76Participant 66]

I quite frankly can’t be bothered, I can do equally as entertaining things with less effort and more payout. Minus having to deal with some whiney contemptuous whore bitching in my ear about how important she is and talking about her day

'Others have seen what is and asked why. I have seen what could be and asked why not' Pablo Picasso

[MancloudParticipant 61]

Well, after reading all this, the red pill is one huge thing to swallow. As an 18 years old, I hardly see the point of chasing after girls, I might be a 7/10 as everyone tell me but the time and effort it would cost me is way too high for the reward.
Can’t say if a good looking one falls on my lap tho, might try my luck while being extra careful. Sex sure feels better than a quick wank but I’m not desperate enough to consider investing some times in the other sex.

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