How Do You Lose Your Libido?

[Falcon SageParticipant 92]

Lately I’ve been working on completely destroying my libido and now its at an all-time low despite that it should be going up because of my age. But I can still feel it and it still influences my decisions. I’ve tried doing research but everyone acts like its a bad thing to lose and I can’t find anything. I recently asked my father (he’s a doctor) about it and he said the only way is to be castrated. But I don’t want to do that because I will lose muscle mass (though I will admit I don’t have much to being with) as well as bone strength, loss of testosterone, gain fat and could even grow small feminine breasts. In fact, in ancient Egypt this is exactly what they did to make male servants to females: the first beta male providers. So is there any advice you guys have for eradicating my libido with little to no drawbacks?

"Woman is a misbegotten man and has a faulty and defective nature in comparison to his. Therefore she is unsure in herself. What she cannot get, she seeks to obtain through lying and diabolical deceptions. And so, to put it briefly, one must be on one's guard with every woman, as if she were a poisonous snake and the horned devil. ... Thus in evil and perverse doings woman is cleverer, that is, slyer, than man. Her feelings drive woman toward every evil, just as reason impels man toward all good." –Saint Albertus Magnus, Dominican theologian, 13th century

[Anonymous 24]

Don’t try to lose it, just direct it into a fleshlight.

It will fade with age no matter what.

[experiencedParticipant]

Just pull up pictures on-line of blue waffle disease.

Better yet, redirect your libido toward completion of hard projects.

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[RennieParticipant]

Have a monkey spanking party.

[Anonymous 54]

Land whales!

[ConstantineParticipant 4420]

Better yet, land whales in porn.

To see what is in front of one's nose requires a constant struggle. -Orwell

[ChuddoxParticipant 585]

Two words: “Raspberry Danish”…go on…you know you want ask.

“Civilized men are more discourteous than savages because they know they can be impolite without having their skulls split, as a general thing.” - Robert E. Howard

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

Get married, then divorced or Become a male feminist

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Nothing wrong with libido, man. I get where you’re coming from, but I think you might be thinking of it differently. It sounds like you’re saying this.

“I could use my legs to walk into a mine field. I need to get rid of my legs. How do you lose your legs?”

Maybe I’m off base, but the libido isn’t the problem, it’s what your libido can cause you to do(get trapped with a woman).

Anonymous wrote:

Don’t try to lose it, just direct it into a fleshlight.

It will fade with age no matter what.

I agree, just watch porn, or jerk it until you’re happy. Of course it comes back soon after, but it’s an easy solution.

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[OldBillParticipant]

Falcon Sage wrote:

Lately I’ve been working on completely destroying my libido and now its at an all-time low despite that it should be going up because of my age. (snip) I recently asked my father (he’s a doctor) about it and he said the only way is to be castrated.

I strongly suspect this to be a trolling attempt, but I’ll answer you anyway. We try to help men here, despite what our detractors think, so I’ll stay true to that intent even if there’s a good chance you’re just here to find things funny.

You can’t lose you libido anymore than you can lose your sight. You shouldn’t try to destroy your libido anymore than you should try to blind yourself. What you want to do is redirect your libido.

You want to take the energy, the effort, the thoughts, everything involved with finding women, kowtowing to women, and otherwise begging women to have sex with you and redirect all of that towards yourself and your needs. Jog, lift, read, study, work, it doesn’t matter. Every time you feel the need for a woman, channel and redirect that yearning into an activity that benefits yourself and not one that benefit women.

Basically, what you’re doing is breaking an addiction.

As for orgasms, they’re a physical necessity with proven health benefits. Women are in no way necessary for orgasms, however. Porn is freely abundant and fleshlights work. That is all you need.

You libido will lessen in time. It will never go away, it should never go away, and you should never want it to go away.

You libido is a tool you can use for your own benefit. Start doing so.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I’m with Old Bill. My first thought was it’s tuna question.

Not about libido but the ‘destroying’ part of it.

I don’t know of any guy that would say that. Maybe dial it down or reduce or ignore …. but destroy?

I could be wrong and maybe a language issue but my radar is on warm up.

[AttonParticipant]

Devloping restraint and watching porn.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[narwhalParticipant]

I agree with channeling that energy elsewhere, but I would also recommend developing reflexive thought whenever you see an attractive woman. These days for me, I’ll see an attractive woman and it will get my motor running, but I immediately start thinking of all negative consequences of dealing with that woman.

Doesn’t kill the libido, but keeps me from doing something stupid. I guess you could say I reduce her down to a ‘sex object’ in many ways. However, it keeps me from being reduced to a ‘utility object’.

Ok. Then do it.

[Anonymous 0]

I think about the truth of human nature. That murders any hope of beauty in such an ugly world.

[Mr_OptionsParticipant 298]

Being in my early 40’s I can attest that it will slow down. But, being a younger MGTOW, the best thing is just put that energy in constructive focus of yourself.

A man without a woman is like a fish without a hook.

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