How do you interact with women?

[Anonymous 4]

Anonymous wrote:

Normally, I’d be an asshole, but I do not want to trigger any White Knights

@chauvinistpig Wise as an Ancient Sage! I avoid the White Knight more than Woman, they are a terrible example to the young men. I’m incredibly grateful I grew up around the Savage.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

I only talk to women when I need to deal with them. Cashier and bank tellers most of time. Sometimes I educated them even the bank teller. She was shocked what I knew lol
I don’t flirt though. I’m not angry at women or hate women.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[AttonParticipant]

The exceedingly few women I talk with are either family or 20 years older than me. That policy works well for me.

A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

[ChuddoxParticipant 585]

At work. Professional mask, always. I’m not interested in more there anyway.
At home, with family. What is necessary to make the family run appropriately.
In leisure. Very, very rarely. I will speak when spoken to, but If I’m approached by a woman (or anyone for that matter) I’m already on guard because I don’t like social situations I don’t initiate (I dunno, its a thing with me).

“Civilized men are more discourteous than savages because they know they can be impolite without having their skulls split, as a general thing.” - Robert E. Howard

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

I generally don’t interact with women these days. When I do, I try to be myself—my best, fun self, the way I am around my intimates. If I’d say it to my friends, I’d say it to her.

The way I act around women is such that, if they choose to act in a way I find offensive, it doesn’t affect me. For example, I find flakey women offensive. Therefore, if I want to go somewhere with a woman—a “date,” if you will—I invite her (not ask) to come with me, tell her where I’m going to be and at what time. If she doesn’t show up, I didn’t lose anything; I was planning on going there anyway by myself.

My grandmother gave me some good advice (read the following in an old Slavic woman’s voice): “Sergei, it is very easy to get girl to like you. All you have to do is let you know you’re interested—and then ignore her.”

So that’s what I do. Let her know I’m interested in doing something with her, and if she doesn’t jump on it, she’s already weeded herself out; I want to hang out only with women who are thrilled at the opportunity to hang out with me.

The_Young wrote:

she probably thinks I asked her out, when I didnt. Now I feel like an ass for giving her that satisfaction.

Don’t beat yourself up over that. Remember that no matter what you do, no matte how you conduct yourself, a woman is always going to interpret what you say as your asking her out. ALWAYS. Talk to her with no question marks, and somehow she’ll inevitably hear one.

They hear what they want to hear. Don’t worry too much about what they think; you’ll drive yourself mad, believe me.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[DarkThunder30Participant 201]

Just ignore them why give them respect when they don’t deserve it. They have nothing interesting to talk about anyway it’s always about lame pop culture music or talking about their boyfriends what a joke.

[RealityBitesParticipant 2198]

I tend to lead them on, flirting, giving them a hard time, and turning them down.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

There are no women or ladies to talk with anymore … only females.

When involved with these creatures I use the minimum of words.

It can be great fun just giving ‘yes’ or ‘no’ answers. Drives them nuts.

I just find the majority empty and vacuous. They try and eat into my ‘me’ time and that p~~~es me off.

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

Three words.

Wall Of Silence

[Anonymous 22]

Rockmaninoff wrote:

So that’s what I do. Let her know I’m interested in doing something with her, and if she doesn’t jump on it, she’s already weeded herself out; I want to hang out only with women who are thrilled at the opportunity to hang out with me.

Agreed. Anything less than that and she doesn’t deserve any attention.

[Cap285Participant 6007]

Do you still flirt?

Depends. If I’m approached by a flirtatious woman my response is usually: “Does this involve us getting horizontal in the next few hours?”

Does that count?

That being said. No.

Keep it short and professional if you must interact with them at all. Give a 3-4 foot buffer in line so you don’t get accused of anything.

Fuck this planet.

[OldBillParticipant]

Three words to live by: Polite, Terse, and Dismissive.

At work, I am all work. I don’t want or need to know anything personal about anyone, especially women. If they try to make small talk, I’ll put the conservation back on topic. If they try to share personal details with me, I’ll flatly inform them that I am uncomfortable hearing such things. Putting women on notice for “wrong” speech is a great way to keep them off balance and away from you.

Among family, I’m more open and warm. However, I do not and will not play the role of father confessor or emotional tampon. If asked, I will offer an opinion or give advice once. I will not allow my time to be wasted by someone – relative or not – who “just needs to vent”.

Socially, I interact behave according to the situation. I attend different kinds of events weekly and receive more dinner party invitations than I can accept. I do not flirt and shut down any flirting attempts with alacrity. I do not put up with teases, coquettes, or any of the other childish affectations women love to present.

Speak your mind, act like an adult, and I’ll respond in kind.

Act like a child, believe “vagina” means you’re owed, and I’m a ghost.

Women get from me what they’ve given me: Next to nothing.

Do not date. Do not impregnate. Do not co-habitate. Above all, do not marry. Reclaim and never again surrender your personal sovereignty.

[SkeptiskParticipant 3679]

How do you handle a live grenade? Answer: Carefully.

I usually never initiate any contact with women, and for the most part they keep away. I keep things short and to the point.

"Expecting to find a decent woman on a dating site is like dumpster diving and expecting to come out with a gourmet meal." Won'tGetFooledAgain

[NerevarParticipant 8040]

Zuberi Tau wrote:

Three words.

Wall Of Silence

Give them nothing, eh brother?

"One of the best things internet exposed is just how insane women are." - Freeman_K

[BoarParticipant]

At work, in a professional manner with a lot of wit and warmth when I am selling them products.

Socially, I am more aloof. I try to be interesting enough that they are frustrated when I refuse to be put in the friend zone. Sorry gurls, I don’t orbit.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[narwhalParticipant]

I wouldn’t say I treat them like men, because I will never start up a conversation about tech, sports, or other things I’m interested in with a woman. Other then that, sure, pretty much the same as men.

I am not very social at all these days, so most interaction occurs at work. Most of the women are married, so absolutely no flirting. Since I am office type guy, and there a lot of country blue collar chad types at my company too, I am not high on the list of potential targets….which is great.

The few times of have flirted with women lately, it feels like I’ve lost whatever skills I used to have. I don’t dress to impress in any way, or do anything that would make me more appealing to women.

I guess in summary, I’d say my particular situation and personality allows me to do nothing and avoid conflict for the most part. I don’t really need to actively or consciously avoid women.

Ok. Then do it.

[TaxGuyParticipant]

The thing you have to remember about most women is that they are lazy. What I mean is that if you don’t make a move, they almost never will. I work with a lot of women and get along great with them. But anyone at work either knows or will figure out that TaxGuy doesn’t date at work. I’ll joke that I’m an environmentalist when it comes to dating, meaning I’m a “catch and release” guy. And you don’t do that at work. Once everyone knows you would never date from the work pool, then you take anything sexual off the table.

I also made a promise to my daughters, no soccer moms and no dance moms. That’s the same policy as my work. That’s their place and I won’t cause drama for them. The moms eventually figure it out. I had a few dance moms with the 1,000 yard stare at my wallet when they found out I was single, but when you don’t put a move on them they will move on. Time is not on their friend, so they won’t stay interested for long.

After taking those social circles off the table, I feel pretty free to do whatever the hell I want to do. Be nice to the clerk, sure why not? Smile at the girl that cuts your hair? Sure. But if you never ask them out, they will never ask you out. Because women are lazy. They are a hockey goalie protecting that ultra-valuable golden vagina. They suck at defense but they are even worse at offense.

Order the good wine

[BrujahParticipant 579]

I work with women so I don’t really have a choice. So interaction is the same like I would any other man. I used to be very shy but it’s so much easier to speak “on their level” after going your way. I’ve got a pretty short fuse and pretty brash at work but would usually quip up around women. Not these days.

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