How do you handle the filthy f*cking double-standard???

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

So I found myself in general conversation with a woman. She was/is by all means attractive. And yet, I think even though the physical attraction was there, she wanted to ‘test’ her limits.

She showed me a picture, which I will not post here simply out of good taste. But the story behind it was that some woman caught her husband in bed with another woman, and she presumably relieved him of his male anatomy, cooked in a dish, and took a picture for all the world to see. Another picture reflected the man laying in bed, in complete agony. The woman I was talking to thought it was wise to make it a laughing matter. The proceeding VERBAL spot check I placed upon her was something that was… of some magnitude.

I know the depths of my anger, and I’ve done well to come to terms with it, and ultimately keep it in check. But she opened that gate so immediately, so unexpectedly, that I ended up responding in a manner that even scared me a bit. As what I thought I had long since enchained and buried, took to surface so immediately.

In trying to understand what exactly happened. Again, I think this person was so used to simply saying whatever the want, to whomever they want. She thought that like most men, I would just laugh and nod, for the sake of being aggree-able, hoping that this would somehow when me favors and ultimately the chance of bedding her. This I am certain of. Suffice to say, my reaction wasn’t something she or I counted on.

For one. It’s in my best interest to flee from someone that finds that humor in something like that. For reasons I’m all sure we can agree on even if we don’t speak them out loud. Second, is until this kind of reaction, albeit a bit less intense becomes the standard, we are still going to have to deal with people, women in particular, that think this type of stuff is okay. They rally in the streets of India as women have their faces disfigured by acid attacks. They rally in the streets as women in war torn countries have their breast removed from them so they cannot feed their children. And yet, a man looses his anatomy because a woman was upset, and it’s supposed to be funny?

My question to you all then, is how would you have handled such a vulgar display or immoral values?

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[Freeman_KParticipant 3524]

She goes to the s~~~ list obviously.

I often wonder though how come stuff like this happens, i have a very special look in the eyes if i want to and generally there is no f~~~ing way any woman would think that showing me pictures like this is a healthy idea.

The choices we make, not the chances we take, determine our destiny

[Anonymous 43]

wowsers! that is incredible. Why would she show that s~~~ to you…is this what she wants to do to you?

Stay the f~~~ away from that c~~~.

[Anonymous 42]

How do you handle the filthy f*cking double-standard???

Go to Vermont Teddy Bear and get that “someone special” a 50 shades of grey Vermont teddy bear!

^^^At least that’s what they’ve been telling me to do for the last two f~~~ing weeks! That and Sherries f~~~ing Berries!

Binary Logic wrote:

My question to you all then, is how would you have handled such a vulgar display or immoral values?

Honestly? I would rotate the table, I would have ask her; if a man caught his woman bedding down with another man would it be so funny if he cut her t~~~ off and cooked them on a stove, would she still think it was funny?

I would ask the question with a cold emotionless face (not only put her f~~~ery on the spot, but to burn her alive on the spot). I’m blessed with the ability to shut women the f~~~ up FOREVER!

Thanks for sharing that B-logic, good post!

[UntamedParticipant]

That’s what you get for finding yourself in general conversation with a woman. They DON’T have general conversations! Everything they do, say or represent has a point to it and it’s Male Castration. She proved it by showing you the picture, short of f~~~ing drawing it for you.
I don’t know where you meet these women but you need to seriously unC~~~ your life. Or get a C~~~ radar.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[WallyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Honestly? I would rotate the table, I would have ask her; if a man caught his woman bedding down with another man would it be so funny if he cut her t~~~ off and cooked them on a stove, would she still think it was funny?

Showing the other side would be the only way to attempt to explain to her how wrong it is, she probably still won’t see it.

There is an evil in a woman that shows a picture like this and thinks it’s funny or just. I would avoid all contact with this woman if you can.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Untamed, Wally..
Here’s the thing. I get that, and yes, my response was something to that effect, turning the tables so to speak. But more importantly, I don’t think this was a case of one-off stark humor. I think it’s more akin to AWALT. And in being realistic, you can’t avoid EVERY single woman you come across. And while ditching each one that shows that sliver of craziness is an ideal method of approaching and reproaching the issue, it’s not an end-all be-all solution.

Looking at the situation, perhaps the issue is deeper than it appears. Firstly, being approachable enough to where someone feels comfortable joking about that kind of thing suggest that I’m not giving off the proper vibe. Secondly, if AWALT (and I truly believe they are), then something with the socially expected/expected norm needs to change. However, the second problem has it’s own subset of issues in that it would require trying to change the way society thinks as a whole, and that just simply goes against the concept of a man going his own way.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[Anonymous 0]

How do I handle the double standard?
I don’t I walk away and never speak to her again!
Most of the time, she tries to apologise some time later.
But by that time she has already shown her colors and any benefit of the doubt is gone.
Too little, too late. No forgiveness.

[UntamedParticipant]

Binary Logic wrote:

And in being realistic, you can’t avoid EVERY single woman you come across

No you can’t. But that doesn’t mean you’re gonna go have drinks with them so they can show you pictures on how they mean to do you in.

Binary Logic wrote:

And while ditching each one that shows that sliver of craziness is an ideal method of approaching and reproaching the issue, it’s not an end-all be-all solution.

And what do you propose we do? Buy them flowers and tell them how f~~~ing crazy they are while they throw kitchen knives at you? Tried that, didn’t work.

Binary Logic wrote:

However, the second problem has it’s own subset of issues in that it would require trying to change the way society thinks as a whole, and that just simply goes against the concept of a man going his own way.

You can’t change the way “society thinks” in a short amount of time, it takes decades under the right conditions. That’s why I don’t give a f~~~ and go my own way.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[BoarParticipant]

Untamed wrote:

That’s what you get for finding yourself in general conversation with a woman. They DON’T have general conversations!

If they are talking, they are manipulating. Unc~~~ and leave.

Untamed wrote: Quit complaining and Go Your Own Way in whatever manner suits you best.

[WallyParticipant]

Just don’t want to see you in the frying pan. Yes, you can’t avoid women, I have worked mostly with women for the last 20 years, so I fully understand that however, none of them every showed me a picture like that or even made a comment about it. There are varying degrees of AWALT, this one is of the bat s~~~ crazy variety.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[It’sallbsParticipant]

You handle it like this…

http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

[Artboy99Participant 369]

Being shown such a horrible picture and then hearing her laugh about it would have infuriated me.
I would have thrown it back in her face and asked her if a cheating woman having her entire vagina cut out and fried and served to her would be funny?

I would have called her a f~~~ing psycho to her face as I left and no I don’t think I would ever speak to her again.

[JimboParticipant 162]

Yeah, those double standards are going to exist and they suck. Society refuses to get rid of them because there are way too many people out there that not only accept them but demand them. Hell, a few days ago I was standing in the grocery check out after a 50 hour workweek waiting on this damn single mom who obviously doesn’t have anywhere she needs to be. She had two sets of groceries, one she paid with with one card. (I don’t know if it was a SNAP or her personal credit card.) I do know the second set she paid with a WIC card though. Again, there are too many people that put you in the asshole category just because you may be tired of working 50-60 hours of manual labor a week just to be told you are an asshole for having some reservations about having to pay for someone else’s p~~~-poor choices in life. My consolidation in this is that there will come a day to where I have saved up enough money to live exactly how I want to. This is something those welfare collecting single mothers will never do. Moreover, they’ll always be miserable anyway, nothing will change that.

[experiencedParticipant]

Artboy99 wrote:

Being shown such a horrible picture and then hearing her laugh about it would have infuriated me.
I would have thrown it back in her face and asked her if a cheating woman having her entire vagina cut out and fried and served to her would be funny?

I would have called her a f~~~ing psycho to her face as I left and no I don’t think I would ever speak to her again.

Dang it Artboy99, you stole my thoughts: Here’s some burnt roast beef, AKA female genitalia, cut out and cooked for that woman and her ilk to see.
https://sarahmeyerwalsh.files.wordpress.com/2008/10/badly_burned_pot.jpg?w=500

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Thanks for all the feedback gents. Both the hard words and the insightful wisdom is greatly appreciated. While I do come here to get my occasional fill and laughs, at the end of the day I really come for the collective knowledge and insight.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

[GnosticParticipant 2491]

If it don’t affect my work or health, I don’t give a f~~~.

If it does I find ways to work above it, like finding another job / doctor / live frugally / cook myself etc etc.

There is no magic in MGTOW, just recognition of the truth and logical decision how to avoid dangers. The red pill is but the truth, it is no magical potion. Do not think in this modern world men have no longer have natural enemies, men are prey to women and government.

[iMickey503Participant 12465]

Man, if you showed her the same pic, it would have been sexual harassment. <PARDON_ YourAssment/ END JOB
30> GOTO Unemployment.

You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

[Binary LogicParticipant 2351]

Not sure where the presumption of this taking place at work came from.. but that is incorrect gents. Anyhow, again.. thanks for the insight.

Funny, isn't it? How women thrive on a mans time, attention and resources, while simultaneously telling him he isn't enough...

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