How do I ghost

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

So I’ve heard about ghosting, but I don’t really know how to do it, any advice?

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

I prefer not to use the term “ghosting” where “disengagement” might be more appropriate. What you speak of is “Level 4” or “Stage 4” according to this article:

Known as “going ghost” within the MGTOW community, the most extreme form of MGTOW is to reject a misandric society and drop out altogether. This level of MGTOW, at least in my observation, is the only one which strictly requires a conscious effort and decision on the part of the MGTOW – many men simply drift into stages 1 and 2, but a complete cloistering of oneself from society at large requires some level of understanding as to how the world really works.

In this level, the MGTOW interacts with society only as much as is required for him to survive. Unfamiliar people – men and women – are avoided, and contact, such as that which is required for him due to employment, is kept clean, public and strictly professional. This does not mean seclusion – MGTOWs in this level may have groups of friends whom they may share interests and activities with, but by and large they do not exist.

http://theobserverwatches.blogspot.com/2012/12/the-four-levels-of-mgtow-betas-shrug.html (Link provided without endorsing the entirety of the article’s content.)

[KeymasterKeymaster]

“Ghosting” isn’t necessarily a radical move taken literally, but generally refers to the act of *making oneself scarce* – either in spirit, attitude or actuality to any degree.

….. meaning….. a radical ‘ghosting” move would be to pack up all your s~~~, or sell it off, and go live in Costa Rica or unplugging yourself from the matrix , and building yourself a cabin in the woods where you are totally self-sufficient. It could also mean withdrawing yourself from your social circle, moving to another country, or even just removing yourself from social media – and changing nothing else.

It could also mean reassessing your current circle of friends/associates/acquaintances and determining they add no value so you “reorganize”. When you take charge of your situation you become the nucleus of your universe. You don’t call other people “because you should”…… you may decide to limit contact with people to only when you WANT to – and not out of any sense of obligation.

Just that decision can make a big difference.
( “Do I really want to speak to this person?” )

For example, the Holidays are coming up, and what do we do? We tend to “feel obligated” to spend it with family. It may not even be what you want to do (because nobody choose their family), but you fly home or spend your well-earned 4 day weekend doing that…. instead of perhaps deciding to take a road trip to somewhere you always wanted to go, with no map and no plan, and just explore s~~~ on your own – while your phone is off in the trunk. You pack no razor. 3 pairs of jeans. 5 t-shirts. A jacket and sweater. One credit card. And you just…….. go.

Cipher Highwind wrote:

I prefer not to use the term “ghosting” where “disengagement” might be more appropriate.

Exactly.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[NioZenParticipant 856]

Mr Miyagi, he say: ‘Best defense, no be there’.

We only dream this bondage. Wake up and let it go. - Vivekananda

[Cipher HighwindParticipant 1144]

“ALL CAPS” is incongruent with the concept of “disengagement”, much less “ghosting.” Yet, one who purports to be stealthy makes liberal use of them about as much as the “enter” key. Such a man is surely an imbecile.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Shutting the f~~~ up in the workplace is good advice too. Strike that. It’s essential. No matter how much they pressure to know what you did over the weekend while standing around the coffee machine, internalize everything and keep it to yourself. Even your choice of movie will be judged. Do not speak to women at work about anything other than work.

Personal questions like “do you have a girlfriend” and any irrelevant s~~~ is off the table. They aren’t just “asking”. You’re being interrogated. Just like on a date. You might let something slip like “I’m allergic to cats” and a woman will say “OMG YOU DON”T LIKE KITTY CATS!!!!” and she will use that as an excuse not to have sex with you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Anonymous 42]

Ghosting to me means to simply unplug anything or anyone and denying them that source of power. The best form of ghosting is done inside your mind, it’s the moment you decide to terminate something anything from your life that aggravates your conscience, anything that conflicts with your logic. It’s figuring what’s good for you, it’s valuing a reciprocal relationship, it’s reckoning what’s symbiotic, and what’s parasitic. It’s using your logic over emotion to establish a good direction. It’s keeping your compass clean and away from any magnetic anomaly.
It’s recognizing a wrong turn that leads to a dead end. It’s looking at a dirt road and seeing mud slumps and wet tire tracks, knowing the road may be flooded, so you turn around with your Maserati and go get your monster truck. It’s an evolved form of adapt and overcome.
Believe me, I’m a ghost! I ghosted friends, family, government, and the law! Not participating is not breaking the law, but does more damage to the opposition than anything else!
Take MGTOW and feminism for instance, we’ve collectively ghosted feminism by not participating in the monkey s~~~ they spread allover. Now they’re wondering where are all the good men? what happened? why am I alone? How come good men don’t approach me?

Our silence becomes deafening! Their fight turns to worry, then to panic! And still here we are ghosting them as they reap the rewards of female narcissism.
Prince charming (MGTOW version) Cinderella sleeps eternally while the prince rides his motorcycle to his cabin in the woods and goes hunting and fishing with his other princely friends. They laugh and have a good time cooking the days catch over an open fire. The prince thinks of Cinderella time to time but knows he’s much happier with her sleeping.
What the story doesn’t tell you is that Cinderella was drugged with feminism and that’s why she’s sleeping. And the MGTOW lives happily ever after….

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

Ghosting to me means not drawing attention.
Most of the time i act like a blue-pill man around people.I’ve gotten really good at it,
so good a guy tried to give me a red pill subtly, thinking i’m blue-pill.

[HitmanParticipant]

Cipher Highwind wrote:

“ALL CAPS” is incongruent with the concept of “disengagement”, much less “ghosting.” Yet, one who purports to be stealthy makes liberal use of them about as much as the “enter” key. Such a man is surely an imbecile.

is bunker-mode stealthy mgtow ? wtf ? spock , explain ! …

[Dr PhibesParticipant 155]

I do not recommend getting into mgt.

Getting into management was the biggest career mistake I made. I found the old saying that “80 percent of your personnel problems are caused by 20 percent of your personnel” to be totally true. Guess which gender made up that 20 percent?

"The wisest follow their own direction." -- Euripides

[Anonymous 11]

Dr Phibes wrote:

Guess which gender made up that 20 percent?

The ones who are members of the “protected class” per chance.

Ghosting is unique to ourselves. I need people around me, but this past weekend I never left the house to recharge myself from a rough past few weeks. I would not even pick up the phone unless it was a client. I will ghost from any person, entity, or situation that is not beneficial to me.

I don’t openly speak about red pill either. Most men will treat it like publicly discussing the reality of UFOs.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

I don’t openly speak about red pill either. Most men will treat it like publicly discussing the reality of UFOs.

@C-Pig, the reason you’re treated like an alien stepping off your spaceship, may be from the fact that your on the bible belt’s buckle, I’m up here in the liberal North, on one of the edge of the cultural “devils triangle”. The men up here lap it up like fresh cold water, delivered to the depths of hell!

[Anonymous 11]

You know Tower, a Massachusetts woman set me on this path. You’re onto something here. I feel badly for you all up there. The Southern belles are dangerous too. They are more stealthy. They’re like sweet tea until you crack a tooth on a piece of ice then they pour straight whiskey on it.

WARNING: Do not ever pour whiskey/vodka/rum etc… on a cracked tooth. You will regret it.

[Anonymous 42]

@ Pig, you don’t have to feel sorry for me, the ambient femnutrons in the air alone (10 cu ft.) are enough to create more than one gram of pure weapons grade mantronium, I’m pushing more than 10 gigawatts on any given day, bolts of MGTOW lightning come of my head and strike feminists as far away as Amherst!
P.S. try chewing on tinfoil with lemon juice!

[Anonymous 11]

Amherst is a damn breeder reactor for feminists. We’re talking Plutonium or Polonium grade feminist toxicity here.

[Anonymous 42]

Yea, Amherst, home of the tree funeral!
Dearly beloved, we are gathered around this stump, in anger and revenge we swear to avenge, we will file suite against Husqvarna as co-conspirators in the murder of our beloved tree……
There’s something real manly about free falling a 110 ft white pine with a 4 ft. dia. trunk, especially when you fall it to strike a dead widow maker tree, exploding it into pieces! Whenever the power lines are dead in a power outage, that’s when I go to work near the road.
I’ve said it before and I’ll say it again, treehuggers around me better be wearing allot of Kevlar!

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