How do I end up with the same type of women every time?

[ddiggesParticipant 29]

This is maybe a silly question all women are the same right? I have tapped the wisdom on my father on this. He claims we learn about love and women from our mothers. All my efforts to find a different women have all backfired. He confirms every time I complain to him about my current girlfriend. He says “that sounds like the relationship I had with your mother”. He managed to find a different type of women and is well relatively happily re-married for the tax breaks only and that was the premise the first ten years neither one of them wanted to get married. I have wondered how two of my brothers have also found women that seem to be different. One theory we came up with is a women has to be intelligent enough to behave in a mature way and you have to be intelligent enough to know the difference. One bit of advice I also garnered from my father is even intelligent women have moments of un-clarity and act out. He claims a bit of patience and no reaction is the best course. Stand your ground quietly until she realizes she’s the one being unstable. Let me know what you think of this idea?

"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option" Mark Twain

[UntamedParticipant]

With western women now, good luck. Tried that for the better part of fifteen years. Don’t discount peer pressure and societal norms, plus tv and Internet constantly telling them men are mindless beast to be tamed and ridden. They all got friends, aunts, cousins, sisters or mothers who’ll relish the opportunity to f~~~ your life up should you say or do something that’ll threaten their illusion of control over you. All it even takes is an imagined slight, those are ever present as women and men don’t speak the same language.
So you’ll live your life playing cat and mouse with an unpredictable whirlwind in the house who wants to blame everyone else for her missteps but herself. How long should you support that? 15, 20 years… 40? If she doesn’t leave you herself, taking everything under the sun if not your b~~~~.
Maybe some guys like to be treated like dirt, I see it all the time, but that not my kind of fun.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
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[UntamedParticipant]

Or… We can look at it through this angle.
The guy’s seduced, makes a baby with a woman, is ordered to give dawn near all his paycheck to CP and go nuts.
I fear what this new generation can dish out on itself.

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Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
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[ddiggesParticipant 29]

All valid points I agree with you. I’m playing devils advocate. I think the difference with my father and step mother is they are both divorced with children from the previous marriage. My step mother has all the money and my father practically works for her and cleans the house and cooks while she goes to work as he is semi disabled. He has expressed his desire to be free of it at times and finally have time to write more books. Frankly I would not be able to deal with her if I was him. I’m not him I have no patience for the cat mouse game with women. It’s like settling for a hamburger when all you want is a steak.

"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option" Mark Twain

[RoyDalParticipant]

ddigges wrote:

All my efforts to find a different women have all backfired.

You have habit patterns. You need to replace them with new habits, habits of which you are fully aware.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[UntamedParticipant]

ddigges wrote:

All valid points I agree with you. I’m playing devils advocate. I think the difference with my father and step mother is they are both divorced with children from the previous marriage. My step mother has all the money and my father practically works for her and cleans the house and cooks while she goes to work as he is semi disabled. He has expressed his desire to be free of it at times and finally have time to write more books. Frankly I would not be able to deal with her if I was him. I’m not him I have no patience for the cat mouse game with women. It’s like settling for a hamburger when all you want is a steak.

I can’t imagine being in his shoes, no way. I’d have to be missing both my legs and an arm before I have any of that kind of company. Thank you Lord for my health!

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[ddiggesParticipant 29]

I think he is envious of me that I never married or had children and maintained my freedom mostly. I am very lucky I dodged the bullet so many times. It was my love of freedom that always caused me to give the middle finger to a women who tried to control me like my mother tried and failed to do with me. Now I see everything in a different light I no longer need women sexualy like I did before my forties.

"Never allow someone to be your priority while allowing yourself to be their option" Mark Twain

[PhantomParticipant 3328]

How I kept ending up with the same type of women?

AWALT = all women are like that…

With the exception of, some are even worse about the deception, manipulation, shaming & power trips, and on it goes…..

[heads-upParticipant 320]

Trying to find a good woman is like trying to find a sweet smelling dingleberry while picking at your bum crack.

[FreeGhostSpectator 318]

Because most women fall into the statistical majority category of being “s~~~. nuff said.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

Phantom wrote:

How I kept ending up with the same type of women?

AWALT = all women are like that…

Pretty much this.

You always end up with the same type of woman because deep down there is really only one type.

Any exceptions are so rare as to be proofs.

[DrexelScottParticipant 30]

RoyDal wrote:

Disillusioned wrote:

All my efforts to find a different women have all backfired.

You have habit patterns. You need to replace them with new habits, habits of which you are fully aware.

This. Any time someone asks “why do I keep getting the exact same results in life?” it is because they are doing the exact same thing.

If you want different outcomes, engage in different behavior and most importantly, different THINKING and different MINDSETS.

"No price is too high to pay for the privilege of owning yourself."--Nietzche

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[Anonymous 11]

One reason as mentioned prior more than once is that modern Western women are shall we say insatiable selfish, manipulative and materialistic almost to a tee. Hence, the Unicorn has been born.

Another part is what we ourselves choose to do. I would also examine myself for White Knighting (My sin) and other common mistakes we make.. Perform a pattern analysis on the women you have chosen. You will learn a lot about yourself.

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