How did you discover mgtow.com

[RockmaninoffParticipant 1641]

Was upset about girls flaking on me, googled “why are girls flakes,” and came across “The Flaky Chick Phenomenon” essay.

". . . elle, suivant l’usage des femmes et des chats qui ne viennent pas quand on les appelle et qui viennent quand on ne les appelle pas, s’arrêta devant moi et m’adressa la parole"—Prosper Mérimée

[LivinitupParticipant 135]

I think i´ve read the acronym MGTOW in the comment section of one of the blogs i frequent, then googled it…

Only to find out that MGTOW is pretty much what i´ve been doing for 16-17 years now, i couldn´t even believe it at first how many of us are actually out there…!

give us liberty, or give us death!

[Spank The MisandristsParticipant 2308]

Sandman got me here

[VenomParticipant 310]

I’ve been a MGTOW since 2010, but never knew there was a term for it. Before I found out about MGTOW, I was still struggling with the desire to go full white knight for women, but this website helped me to avoid that s~~~ altogether and reinforce my red pill stance.

Around 2010, was around the year I found out about atheism splitting off because of feminists and the whole “male privilege” bulls~~~. A few years later, Thunderf00t started to make videos criticizing feminism. TheAmazingAtheist and Mr.Repzion was doing this also on Youtube.

Back then I was heavily involved in the atheist community but broke off from it after finding MGTOW because most of the men are manginas and most of the women are feminist f~~~wads.

After watching a lot of their videos, related videos on my Youtube channel came up recommending Sandman videos. I watched him for a while and then found Turd Flinging Monkey. I then started to look up MRA sites and eventually found this site.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

i started with girlwriteswhat…I went to AFVM. I got banned from the stupid site and I thought that was it. Later on I saw sandman’s videos and that’s where it began.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[the roadParticipant 3125]

Had major problems with my (now ex) girlfriend. Started to realize that her and I were not a good match and that she is the type that would search for revenge if things didn’t go her way. I started looking up ways that I could protect my assets from her if we were to get married. Between that and me searching out for advice regarding other failings of our relationship, I saw the MGTOW acronym pop up a few times in various places. I looked it up and thought it was kinda hokey at first. Fast forward to a few months ago, our relationship was over. I looked up MGTOW again and this site was the first result. I started reading the forums and related with so many men here and suddenly I realized I had found something more than I expected. I realized that I was already on my way to becoming MGTOW and that I had been taking the blue pill because that’s what I had been socialized to do- even though I have felt that there is something wrong with it this entire time.

I’m still figuring myself out. I feel relief knowing that I’m not alone. I feel liberated in a way that feels like a cloud or fog was lifted from my consciousness.

#MANOUT

[Cheetah84Participant 39]

After my split with my ex…I had a short fling with a CRAZY girl…She was the “I need a pet for constant validation chick”

I broke up with her, felt like a f~~~ing champ because I felt I had more control..
I started online dating, saw the HORRENDOUS double standards, got kicked off for “abuse”…I would call it honesty

I then visited brothels and met many international women, but in the end, all the SAME
Started watching youtube about female nature –> karen straughn –> sandman –> barbarossa

Realized that its a NO WIN situation for men these days so I checked out of the blue pill world

Now a member this year of this site. Enjoying the banter and support!

I must say Sandmans videos were entertaining and also kind of sleeping pill haha! I often found myself falling asleep before it finished.
He is not everyone’s taste, but he made ALOT of videos and covered MANY topics. I guess I got addicted to the variety.

[TaoTheMgtowWandererParticipant 263]

well, i discovered this forum from the completely opposite end as all of you did, it all started when my c~~~ of a mother divorced my callous uncaring dad after hurting my back moving a bathtub i wasn’t supposed to be moving.

Forgive me gents, im jumping around story wise, but it started with the arguing all through grade and middle school, continued into high school, was forced to flee the house whenever my mom left due to the browbeating i got from my dad, and it ended up where i couldn’t be alone in the house with him anymore, due to how bad it was.

Then, as i said above i hurt my back helping install a shower unit in the basement, and the sheer lack of any caring they showed when i was sent off to work when i could barely walk, basically any trust that i had for my parents was destroyed.

After the emotionally destructive divorce almost tore my life apart, and after dealing piecing myself back together, the research began, the questions of WHY!?!?!…flooded in, and after finding feminism, researching some of it, hating everything i saw, decided “f~~~ no” essentially and started looking for something better.

I found the sandman vids, then I found Terrence pop, then i found Tl;DR, found spetsnaz, found thinking ape!! Finally, found mgtow.com

For the record gents, when i found this f~~~ing GOLDMINE, that this site is, i cried out YES!! THIS IS EXACTLY WHAT I HAVE BEEN LOOKING FOR! From then on, i was positively ravenous for more info, and have been loving it here ever since!

My peace of mind is worth more then your vagina...cunt.

[AscendedParticipant 698]

A little backstory:
My childhood was spent in depressing poverty basically. I kept hearing from various people “You will become a father. You will have a wife and children, your own family. They will depend on you and love you for it. This will be your fortune and you will like it.” bulls~~~. How could I even waste my neurons on that if I was in poverty at that time? I didn’t. I was only thinking “Nein!” and that’s it.

That’s where I swallowed the biggest red pill on record. From nothing to world domination expectations. In this world? From poverty? Without money? Am I a magician? Nein, f~~~ that.

I’m not going to explain what kind of poverty that was… but I once slipped out of consciousness because of that. And then expect to man up from that.

I was seeking answers on the internet back in 2014. Because nobody was on my side, I was on my own and I still am. I first found the community called GirlsAskGuys. It was good at first to find some other guys having the same view of marriage as in total surrendering and money waste.

Near beginning 2015 I read about a take “Men going their own way”. That was the moment I discovered, that there are men, who go their own way too! I kept reading and reading. The more I read about this take, the more and more I got interested and couldn’t look away from my screen. These words “Boycotting marriage”, “Deny having wife and kids”, “Self ownership and divinity” were exactly matching to me. I appreciated it a lot and found out about this MGTOW thing.

Months later I googled “MGTOW” and found these forums. I didn’t rush to register here yet and observed what this is all about. I wanted to make sure at first, that I will not participate in the extreme sort of thing (OMFG ALL WOMYN R EVIL C~~~S butthurt bitterness…). I kept reading topics here for months before judging it incorrectly and so I did. I found, that this is my place.

I was born to be a MGHOW. If fate wanted me to be so, so be it. But I do not believe in fates. I believe, that husbands are at greatest losses and marriage is like gambling: You (husband) lose. Someone else (wife) profits.

Männer, die ihren eigenen Weg gehen. JAWOHL!

No more pressure on that. Freedom.

Oneforfreedom wrote:

A few months later, when they saw how I was ignoring attractive women/not chasing anyone, they started saying things like “You’ll find a gorgeous bride one day, and she’ll be amazing,” Basically trying to reprogram me Disney-Style. Well, TBH, my dad is staying out of it. My mom is the main one pushing this.

So my reaction? I’ve written her off completely. No contact. Ice cold.

That’s what I do brother! It works wonders. It is also a weapon showing great effects on female’s weaknesses.

"We are free to follow our own path. There are those who will take that freedom from us, and too many of you gladly give it. But it is our ability to choose – whatever you think is true – that makes us human. There is no book or teacher to give you the answers, to show you the path. Choose your own way! Do not follow me, or anyone else."

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

I’d been viewing videos and reading websites about the problems with marriage as I had been engaged a few years ago and was trying to sharpen my edge so as to not find myself in the same situation again,

I’d found this site as a result of a woman in a video calling a guy a “red pill kind of guy” which led me down the path of trying to figure out what that meant.

I lurked here for a while until a buddy of mine met a chick on tinder and she moved in on him in a major way… talking about that was my first post here.

When it came to work and my personal life (family, faith, friends, etc), I was already a MGHOW… but I had yet to let go of that childhood hope that I could find a woman to love who would love me back. My engagement was a last ditch effort to make that happen but within a month of proposing, I knew I wasn’t really wanting to be married.

Learning about MGTOW from this site and other sources helped me to accept the truth that I already knew in my heart… that what is true at church, in the office and in the home town is also true in my own home and in my bedroom… that the only way I can truly be happy is to not follow others but to go my own way.

[Anonymous 2]

I was searching ” Feminist extremism in Australia”. Heaps of things popped up,and I seen somewhere in the zillion articles ” MGTOW” . I was curious about what is ” MGTOW”,so I searched and after reading many MGTOW pages I realized that finally I find a place where I am belong to.

[MonkeyMindParticipant 5340]

I joined another forum a while back but they banned me because i didn’t give a satisfactory in deph introduction that dished the dirt on my s~~~ty past relationship experiences.

That Forum imploded a couple of months later. I avoided MGTOW forums for a while after that. I was aware of this forum because a link was posted on AVFM before Elam decided to throw us under the bus after a failed attempt to co-opt MGTOW for himself. I still think it was a s~~~ty move on his part to try and alter MGTOW to fit in with marriage so i no longer visit or support AVFM and haven’t done so for a while.

[OgreParticipant 5863]

I did a google search late at night, very unhappy with my marriage.

This /comments-from-married-men/ popped up. I read the entire thing and viewed everything in the archive over a three day period.

I signed up for the forum a couple of days later, and I read for three months solid before I submitted my first post. My intro got a lot of negative attention, but I’m a pretty resilient guy so I’m still here.

I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

[Silverstone the SecondParticipant]

Blue Skies wrote:

It would be interesting to find out how you ended up here.

For me, I clicked on sandman videos because it was recommended on my youtube side bar. All of his videos have MGTOW in the title. I googled MGTOW, having no idea what it is, and clicked on the first link.

here i am.

Same boat, buddy. Although sandman is the one of the most prolific, I also looked through many other videos. Eventually I just hung around MGTOW.com, and eventually made an account because I’m like: “holy s~~~, I thought I was the only guy that thought this way.”

Feminism is a movement where opinions are presented as facts and emotions are presented as evidence.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

I kept having dreams … a voice saying “you must find the key master”

The voice was coming from a bright light at the end of a tunnel.

I kept asking “where do I find him?” and the voice from the light said

“Google women are c~~~s my son”

And here I am ?

[OneforfreedomParticipant 930]

Anonymous wrote:

ust remember, it is ok to date and have relationships, it is on the other hand HIGHLY unadvisable to marry, or even have kids unless it is really what YOU want.

TBH I’m incredibly alert and fear an “oops” pregnancy if I date. So I’m staying as far away from relationships as possible.

Plus I don’t like sharing my space, and I enjoy my peace and quiet. Am I social? Yes. I do like to go biking and eat out with friends.

But do I want a relationship where she wakes up and lives under my roof and I have to compromise personal sovereignty? Never.

[Anonymous 42]

Discovering MGTOW.com is one thing, but my road to GMW was initiated by life’s bites and endless stabs in the back.
I thank each person, the law, and my corrupted government for all the misdirection and deceit withing the time frame of my life. Thank-you, Now f~~~ off and die!
[font=times new roman]Today is January 10, 2016. Do you know where your government is? I haven’t seen my local government for 42 years.
On January 10th, 1974, (42 years ago) the 280 acre residential subdivision of Brookhaven Association, Inc., had entered into obtuse and destructive law, thereby endangering the lives, properties, and fortunes, of these misguided, mislabeled, and molested investors.
The entire subdivision suffers from dyer consequences due to Worcester Superior Court Equity #5811, enforced by Zoning “CEASE AND DESIST ORDER”, issued on July 18th 1997.
https://malegislature.gov/Laws/GeneralLaws/PartI/TitleXX/Chapter140/Section32A
As it stands, the powers that be are steadily engaged in the criminal operation of Brookhaven Association, Inc., a Massachusetts corporation established September 1968.
These perpetrators of this criminal activity with criminal reckless endangerment of human life, do so unabated and unrestricted by the letter of the law “MGL Chapter 140 sec. 32a. (necessity of a license to operate)
The conspirators include, Brookhaven Association, Inc., The Town of West Brookfied, Inc., and The United States Of America.

Let it be known that MG-Tower has indited the above mentioned entities. This “republic” is “dead”.[/font]

[Anonymous 0]

Last August I decided on a period of introspection and cut off all relationships except the most superficial. My one question was “what do I want now?” After surfing the net for awhile, I discovered MRA and Sandman, and read books like The Manipulated Man, Rational Male One and Two, and No More Mr Nice Guy” Even though these were interesting ideas they seemed to lack something and then I discovered MGTOW and it felt like coming home after the war. The comraderie here was overwhelming. That doesn’t mean I agree with everyone and there is the ocassional bitch fight but nobody is trying “fix” me.
Anyway, enuff said.

[RennieParticipant]

MonkeyMind wrote:

That Forum imploded a couple of months later. I avoided MGTOW forums for a while after that.

That place had a lot of problems didn’t it?

[Anonymous 0]

Hey I live again,
That last post was hilarious!

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