How Did You Cope?

[Anonymous 6]

When the poop hit the fan in your life how did you cope? When you were getting divorced and the court system was steamrolling you, how did you maintain you sanity? How did you work through the emotional toll of the betrayal?

Please do share.

[Anonymous 43]

Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand. If Louis Zamperini can survive, I can survive. I refuse to lose. I know being alive p~~~es off my ex and it gives my kids hope.

I read the law, I understood how to turn my weaknesses into strengths. I watched other men getting wrecked in the divorce court, and I did not want to end up that way.

[Anonymous 42]

Anonymous wrote:

how did you maintain you sanity?

Who said I maintained or retained my sanity?

Once a fruit basket, always a fruit basket. I don’t mind, I made the adjustment…

[Remove me!Participant]

I laid very low. I hunkered down until the storm passed me by. I turned to The Lord, and I took it minute by minute.

The best thing I did was NOT try to make sense of what was happening, because none of it did! It still doesn’t, but I keep rolling along.

Like a bird on the wire, like a drunk midnight choir, I have tried in my way to be free.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

I didn’t.

I went crazy, broke, out of control, suicidal, I hitted rock bottom and when I couldn’t go down anymore, well I started going up, had no choice did I?

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[Anonymous 5]

Carnage wrote:

I didn’t.

I went crazy, broke, out of control, suicidal, I hitted rock bottom and when I couldn’t go down anymore, well I started going up, had no choice did I?

No wonder you don’t give a f~~~.

Ain’t you from Spain?

[CthulhuParticipant 698]

She got a restraining order, I asked for it to be mutual and reciprocal. I planned. I executed my plan. She broke the order and I reported it to the police with my witnesses. I held that s~~~ over her head. Yes, I still had asshole judges, but she knew that if they tried too hard to squeeze me, she’d be in jail. Support judge was the worse, he said you can get 2k a month out of him! Ex said,’I don’t need it!’ Meanwhile, I’m over there laughing at her. Judge smacks the gavel down in disgust and just shook his head.

So, the question is…Are you smarter than her? Do you have the ability to set the traps and know the laws and keep your mouth shut. I did. I knew I was going to be estranged anyway I went. A no win scenario, so, i planned, I executed those plans and I feel pretty good about myself these days. She hit the wall, can barely fend for herself, Chad Thunderc~~~ is long gone and I’m hitting the gym, programming and trading currencies. Long story short….I won. I almost lost my s~~~ with my last ex girlfriend, but I found this site…it saved my ass. Nothing less. Plucked me right out of the fire.
Thanks guys.

Why vote for a lesser evil? #ICETHEMOUT

[UntamedParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

When the poop hit the fan in your life how did you cope?

I didn’t cope well at all. I fell into a deep depression, got into fights and f~~~ed as much as I could with as many different bitches as I could get my hands on.

Anonymous wrote:

When you were getting divorced and the court system was steamrolling you, how did you maintain you sanity?

I didn’t.
I already wasn’t entirely mentally stable but it got much worse when I understood that I wasn’t going to see my kids every day and that I going to lose everything in that coming year.
And then my mother died that same year and my father the following year.
“When troubles come, they don’t come in single spies but in battalions.”

Anonymous wrote:

How did you work through the emotional toll of the betrayal?

I’ll never work it through and I don’t think I want to.
That kind of betrayal, though forgiveable, cannot be erased from memory. It stays there as a good lesson and as proof that justifies a healthy paranoia.
I’ll never get over it, ever.

Don't let them Blame, Shame or Tame you!
Give 'em NOTHING, not even an answer!
#GenderSegragationNow!

[WallyParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Unbroken by Laura Hillenbrand. If Louis Zamperini can survive, I can survive. I refuse to lose. I know being alive p~~~es off my ex and it gives my kids hope.

I read the law, I understood how to turn my weaknesses into strengths. I watched other men getting wrecked in the divorce court, and I did not want to end up that way.

I second that book, read it at the lowest point in my life and it helped pull me through. Reading what Zamperini went through brought me to tears.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

Anonymous wrote:

Carnage wrote:

I didn’t.

I went crazy, broke, out of control, suicidal, I hitted rock bottom and when I couldn’t go down anymore, well I started going up, had no choice did I?

No wonder you don’t give a f~~~.

Ain’t you from Spain?

Yup.

Trying to get my ass out of this s~~~ hole, but is not easy, need to get a job in Ireland.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[MACHOParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

When the poop hit the fan in your life how did you cope?

One day, one hour and sometimes one minute at a time!

Anonymous wrote:

how did you maintain you sanity?

VERY GOOD QUESTION! It’s a Miracle I’m still sane!

Anonymous wrote:

Who said I maintained or retained my sanity?

Remove me! wrote:

The Lord, and I took it minute by minute.

Untamed wrote:

That kind of betrayal, though forgiveable, cannot be erased from memory.

You must own a better Crystal ball than I

[LosPukeParticipant 514]

Unfortunately, lots of drugs, a Suzuki GSXR1000, and an armadillo. The drugs helped me escape reality. The bike was a nice way to run away from my problems at 180 mph. That is until I met the armadillo one night at over a hundred. Thank God I had a little sense left and was fully protected in riding gear. Walked away without a scratch, but it did make me realize that if I could survive that, I would survive the divorce. Miss the bike, but not the bitch.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

Revenge sex. When I think about it now amazed I never got an std or one of the no cure diseases. Would apologize to any guy who ended up divorced because of my actions, but each and every woman was more then willing.
Wasted all kinds of money in the wine, dine and making the pipe shine.

Do you still call it revenge sex after the divorce?

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

[joetechParticipant]

I went to counseling and stayed busy as hell working and going to school. The rest of the world gave me more s~~~ than either one of my exes ever did. Then I met my ex GF, and it all went downhill from there. She was the worst experience of my life. It’s hard to eclipse a woman that caused the crippling of your only daughter because she didn’t believe in car seats, but the ex GF managed to. How did I cope? I ran away to another coast, never to return.

"Don't follow in my footsteps...I stepped in something."

[Zuberi TauParticipant 10606]

I didn’t have to because I never gave the trollop the chance!

[Branched offParticipant 11014]

I knew I had to accept the injustice. This was a bad fall. It was going to hurt, the best I could do was to accept the landing and roll as well as possible. You can’t fight gravity and sadly you can’t fight the gynocentric system either so just accept the landing.

This is not entirely logical but it can help you raise a smile. If you know she will say she has no money and must have more than half of your house and bank account, and the court has not yet decided how much you have, then for once you can indulge yourself a little knowing its all half price. Perhaps you buy some things that she never wanted you to or even you go down the local whorehouse. She’s paying at least half.

I know it makes no sense and you just spent something when you are about to be robbed (which is not good financial planning) but the fact that she just paid more than half for something that you know she would hate makes you smile a bit when there is not all that much else to smile about.

A woman is like fire -fun to play with, can warm you through and cook your food, needs constant feeding, can burn you and consume all you own

[NoMoreParticipant 1233]

I cope by knowing I was fair. I offered her half of everything. She paid for none of my debt and will not be held liable for any of it. I can only hope the judge sees it my way. I offered her half of everything and she turned it down.

A co-worker recently told me, "If you want to see who someone really is, divorce them." I have found out how true this is. When your wife drops the façade of being the caring partner, you will witness all of the greed, hate, and spite that she has masked. It is truly breathtaking!

[Anonymous 54]

I just do.

Thats what needs to be done, so I do it.

Put my head down and plod.

And wait my turn for life to get good again.

And when its good again..

I f~~~ing savor it.

[CarnageParticipant 22113]

LosPuke wrote:

Unfortunately, lots of drugs, a Suzuki GSXR1000, and an armadillo. The drugs helped me escape reality. The bike was a nice way to run away from my problems at 180 mph. That is until I met the armadillo one night at over a hundred. Thank God I had a little sense left and was fully protected in riding gear. Walked away without a scratch, but it did make me realize that if I could survive that, I would survive the divorce. Miss the bike, but not the bitch.

What happened to the armadillo?

Is still alive?

Did you adopted him.

Is armadillo edible?

Im hungry.

To those following me, be careful, I just farted. Men those beans are killers.

[743 roadmasterParticipant]

Carnage wrote:

LosPuke wrote:

Unfortunately, lots of drugs, a Suzuki GSXR1000, and an armadillo. The drugs helped me escape reality. The bike was a nice way to run away from my problems at 180 mph. That is until I met the armadillo one night at over a hundred. Thank God I had a little sense left and was fully protected in riding gear. Walked away without a scratch, but it did make me realize that if I could survive that, I would survive the divorce. Miss the bike, but not the bitch.

What happened to the armadillo?

Is still alive?

Did you adopted him.

Is armadillo edible?

Im hungry.

Armadillo’s can give you leprosy. Don’t mess wit them.

mgtow is its own worst enemy- https://www.campusreform.org/

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