How can 1 person do so much damage?

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  • #913848
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    Gerald
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    Was reflecting this morning on the meas my Beta Simp life was and how one person can do so much damage.

    Now I get it if you are a terrorist or something. Blowing s~~~ up is messy.

    But as a person in a ‘supposedly’ loving relationship? How the hell can a woman cause that much damage. It is 18 months since my ex, who I was separated from, died. And to this day I still suffer from the effects. RTSD or Relationship traumatic stress disorder is about the best way to describe it.

    For those lurking or new here, read the forums, read my posts and story… and bewate… sh0t will haunt you for a long time…

    No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

    #913853
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    Monk
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    True.

    Men are wired to deal with bad stuff, but that doesn’t mean that it doesn’t do damage. It’s okay to acknowledge that and the pain that it causes.

    #913861
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    JustAnotherGuy
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    how one person can do so much damage

    But as a person in a ‘supposedly’ loving relationship?

    Your first mistake is assuming women are capable of loving you. You are at best a sperm donor, cash source, and occasional jar-opener.

    How often do you consider the damage done to a hammer when you’re driving in a nail?

    They will say and do what they need to get what they want from you. That is the extent of female empathy and compassion.

    Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
    “Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

    #913879
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    Stealth
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    how one person can do so much damage

    But as a person in a ‘supposedly’ loving relationship?

    Your first mistake is assuming women are capable of loving you. You are at best a sperm donor, cash source, and occasional jar-opener.
    How often do you consider the damage done to a hammer when you’re driving in a nail?
    They will say and do what they need to get what they want from you. That is the extent of female empathy and compassion.

    I would say your first mistake is miscategorizing this woman and terrorists as two separate categories.

    My wife became a terrorist. Her mission was to steal, kill, and destroy everything of value around her and everyone close to her. Her response to my best wishes after divorce was to wish me death and despair. She told me the more harm she caused me, the more it boosted her self-esteem. My crime was existing. She was a domestic terrorist in the purest and most exact sense. Her transformation seemed natural and came from the inside, and was loudly applauded by nearly all religious people, friends, and family members around us— who as it turns out did not have her best interests in mind. They merely liked the drama she generated and saw her behavior as some sort of scapegoat for their own s~~~ty behavior or insecurities, and natural hatred of the world. There was no limit to her violence which they would not defend and even prop up.

    If your wife was anything like mine and everyone else’s on this site except Swimcat’s, she WAS a terrorist. A professional one, if she ended up getting paid for it.

    "Once you’ve taken care of the basics, there’s very little in this world for which your life is worth deferring." -David Hansson. "It’s not when women are mean or nasty that anything is out of the ordinary. It’s when they are NICE to you that you have to be on high alert..." -Jackinov.

    #913898
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    NerdTunneler
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    simple…keep moving forward. You Can change what is now. Decide to make coffee or decide to take a deep breath…

    I stand with feet apart and let my balls hang free...Manginas dont have balls...See how they stand and sit at the whim of their masters...

    #913916
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    Won'tGetFooledAgain
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    >Your first mistake is assuming women are capable of loving you. You are at best a sperm donor, cash source, and occasional jar-opener.
    How often do you consider the damage done to a hammer when you’re driving in a nail?
    They will say and do what they need to get what they want from you. That is the extent of female empathy and compassion.

    This, due to Hypergamy women can move to the next guy without so much as a second thought for you. They are quite happy to divorce rape you and in the process take everything you have with no empathy or compassion at all. My ex wife didn’t think it wrong that she was living in a five bedroom house while I was living at my parents, to be honest she would not have cared if I was living in the gutter as long as I kept up the payments.

    As soon as we split I started saving every penny I could, I didn’t spend a single penny I didn’t have to. Six years on I have my own little house and a years salary in the bank in cash. Now this is a direct result of my ex’s behaviour, losing everything I had due to someone else has made me realise I don’t want to be in that situation again. The house and cash are my backup, if it all goes to s~~~ I have my own house nobody can take away from me and enough cash to be able to live for a couple of years if I am careful.

    But, six years on now that all the anger has worn off I now realise something has changed in me and is not coming back. Now I don’t know if this is also a result of hitting 46, but literally nothing excites me anymore. I have no interest in going on holiday, getting the latest phone/laptop/TV or even owning a decent car. Literally all I want is as easy a life as possible with no drama and nobody expecting anything from me.

    I just dream of being retired, sleeping in until late and just listening to music or tinkering with old cars all day with no drama.

    For women, everything eventually boils down to Alpha Fucks, Beta Bucks.

    #913918
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    IMickey503
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    Was reflecting this morning on the meas my Beta Simp life was and how one person can do so much damage.
    Now I get it if you are a terrorist or something. Blowing s~~~ up is messy.
    But as a person in a ‘supposedly’ loving relationship? How the hell can a woman cause that much damage. It is 18 months since my ex, who I was separated from, died. And to this day I still suffer from the effects. RTSD or Relationship traumatic stress disorder is about the best way to describe it.
    For those lurking or new here, read the forums, read my posts and story… and bewate… sh0t will haunt you for a long time…

    The damage that it does to a man is not trivial. It hurts in a way so few men I think can really relate to. Its like a drug. Your Personal Brand of Heroine made just for you. All you can think about are those few good times. All of it comes in with a Blood rush to the head of how FUkt it all was.

    Women complain about emotional abuse. They don’t give it a seconds thought about what it does to a man. The soul tearing and life sucking Carnage they do to a man’s soul and heart simply is without palatable description.

    They kill you and drain you from the core of your insides. All while cheering and laughing to the wind. Others follow suit and enjoy the peace that their destruction gives them. The betrayal. The absolute lack of care or decency.

    Women that you love, really do kill you from the inside. All the while dancing and singing their way to hell that women will never know.

    You wake up in the middle of the night sobbing. Crying. You get angry just thinking about all the things you gave up for anther person who could not of cared less. While you sit there in the cold, shivering. She is warm in her own little world. You wonder just how a person could be so cruel. How can a Being. A HUMAN BEING be so vile. So without remorse for her own actions to the man she says she loves?

    That is the cruelest trick in the world. If not the Universe. The more you love them? The more the despise you. The more you care, the more they hate you. The more you give them, the less they want you. The more you do, the less they do for you.

    Women are not what man has been searching for. His soulmate is lost within the stars of the cosmos. If have ever existed at all.

    There is no greater pain nor suffering on this earth then what men go through with women they care for and love. It is this that is the great meaning to our lives. Love of a women is an empty fruitless endeavor in insanity. If a women could feel as a man, she would die. Pain? Please. Women are connoisseur of the craft of pain and suffering, not the victims of it.

    Women BATH and dine in the delights of a man’s sadness and suffering, pain, and discomfort of others. They rejoice in their dominance of their one true craft; Destruction through their pathetic meaningless sentiments & gifts they give those around them. Their very own purpose is to grow inside of them torment to give to others. Their own ability to give life is nothing but a Trojan horse. Its only real purpose is to chain you down with Irons and make you subject to their own wiles.

    Women are a BURDEN to a man’s life. She comes with no gifts that she can give you. Her entire reason for being is to destroy and create destruction.

    We wish it were not so. But after all, it is her will. Not ours.

    I say this time and time again. Women could solve all of the worlds problems in less then 6 months. But will they? Never. The masses of women will never lift a finger to help Humanity. Her goal and her life are an exercise in the suffering she can lay upon others. Her life gauged on the torment she can bestow upon those around her.

    And when she has no power to do so? She will find a way to make it happen. Her mind is not of that of love. Nor love. Her mind is made to destroy you like a Vampire leach that kills its host. She has no qualms about the future. She only knows herself.

    Its how she was made. Perfect. Just for you.

    Your Perfect brand of Heroine. Made just for you, but never your own to take. She will destroy you. She will shun your good heart and soul. And she will eat you alive if given the chance.

    Be free my brothers. There is no good deed worth doing for her sake. She will only see you as fruit to pick, savor, and without a moments remorse, discard your parts as refuse with the score of others she see’s fit to consume.

    Falling in love with the Vampire is more humane. At least a Vampire will not suck your soul dry. A Vampire will not make you its slave. A Vampire needs your blood. But a women? She wants not just that? But your heart to destroy as well.

    No creature I know of is so putrid as a woman who fawns her love for you as a virtue. She has no love. No soul. Only en empty automaton of Natures darkest secret. A virus that lives to create to destroy you with no thought to her own destruction.

    You are all alone. If you have been falsely accused of RAPE, DV, PLEASE let all men know about the people who did this. http://register-her.net/web/guest/home

    #913925
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    JustAnotherGuy
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    Now I don’t know if this is also a result of hitting 46,

    I’m about to turn 34. I’ve been divorced for 5 years and chaste for 7 (kid is almost seven, you can guess when the sex stopped). I had nothing when she divorced me, but she got it all anyway. Thankfully my child support obligations are small and she’s never bothered to take me back to court for more.

    I have about a year of living expenses in the bank and a house in the middle of farm country. All my food is fresh and locally sourced, and since I’m not wasting time pleasing her I get to train and take care of myself.

    She got some short term windfall out of it, but time is my ally.

    My only neighbor I basically never see and for the most part, I’m content to be left alone.

    Cupcakes are Cold. MGTOW is Absolute Zero.
    “Let us wait a little; when your enemy is executing a false movement, never interrupt him” –Napoleon Bonaparte, 1805

    #914198
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    CPT Obvious
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    That is the cruelest trick in the world. If not the Universe. The more you love them? The more the despise you. The more you care, the more they hate you. The more you give them, the less they want you. The more you do, the less they do for you.

    I gave her everything she wanted…. It wasn’t what she wanted.

    (Great post iMickey)

    "You don't know a woman till you have met her in divorce court."
    #920339
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    Sky-O
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    Regarding damage. . .

    Part of my evolutionary growth in the aftermath of my blue pill years and three specific pumpkins that it would be easy to blame for what was damage and destruction to my life:

    Has required me to be philosophically and emotionally honest with myself regarding the “damage”

    Cold, hard introspection into my own core psychological foundation PRIOR to ever becoming enmeshed with any one of those women.

    And I have been unable to deny the fact that before any damage was done by them – I was in fact already damaged.

    Had I not been, then I would have NEVER wound up in relationships with them.

    That is a fact.

    The damage that they caused was the end result of my own fractured and wounded inner self.

    And I allowed it to happen.

    At those points in time, the situations that I was in were EXACTLY what I wanted.

    In reconciling everything, I have come to the conclusion that those experiences as well as the damage were necessary in the sense that they forced me to address my pre-existing wounds that I made being with them possible. Salt on an open wound is painful. But that does not mean that salt has the ability to cut someone open.

    I was already bleeding prior. And in every way imaginable. The salt just brought my attention to the wounds that I had ignored for so long.

    If I had to do it all over again, I would not changed a thing. My journey is one that I was destined to endure and eventually recover from and survive.

    The narcissistic women that I was with are irrelevant. They were merely tools that were used to force me to come to terms with a wide range of issues that preceded them being in my life.

    And through the pain they caused and the darkness that they led me into, I was able to identify what was really going on, within myself. And that had nothing to do with them at all.

    It was only in the depths of hell that I found out with realizing it prior that all of the strength I needed actually came from within. Eternally grateful for that and the related damage they inflicted.

    In the aftermath, I was born again. It was an awakening and an evolution that would have not occurred if it was not for the damage those women caused. It was the catalyst for my evolution.

    It was Sky-0’s Dark Genesis

    #920852
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    DanceMyOwnWay
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    Well said. I will miss this site. The honesty of what other men have shared has often helped me and is oddly comforting to know the bs I’ve gone through is the same for MANY other men out there.

    If you fall down 7 times, get up 8

    #920859
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    Autolite
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    Women do what they do because unlike a man they are not encumbered by a soul or a conscience…

    #920869
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    Gerald
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    Well said. I will miss this site. The honesty of what other men have shared has often helped me and is oddly comforting to know the bs I’ve gone through is the same for MANY other men out there.

    Hang in there, we will either prevail here or find another location. And remember what you’ve learned here

    No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

    #920870
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    Gerald
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    I gave her everything she wanted…. It wasn’t what she wanted.
    (Great post iMickey)

    For all of the lurkers out there… this is f’ing gold.

    No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

    #920871
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    Gerald
    Gerald
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    Was reflecting this morning on the meas my Beta Simp life was and how one person can do so much damage.Now I get it if you are a terrorist or something. Blowing s~~~ up is messy.But as a person in a ‘supposedly’ loving relationship? How the hell can a woman cause that much damage. It is 18 months since my ex, who I was separated from, died. And to this day I still suffer from the effects. RTSD or Relationship traumatic stress disorder is about the best way to describe it.For those lurking or new here, read the forums, read my posts and story… and bewate… sh0t will haunt you for a long time…

    The damage that it does to a man is not trivial. It hurts in a way so few men I think can really relate to. Its like a drug. Your Personal Brand of Heroine made just for you. All you can think about are those few good times. All of it comes in with a Blood rush to the head of how FUkt it all was.
    Women complain about emotional abuse. They don’t give it a seconds thought about what it does to a man. The soul tearing and life sucking Carnage they do to a man’s soul and heart simply is without palatable description.
    They kill you and drain you from the core of your insides. All while cheering and laughing to the wind. Others follow suit and enjoy the peace that their destruction gives them. The betrayal. The absolute lack of care or decency.
    Women that you love, really do kill you from the inside. All the while dancing and singing their way to hell that women will never know.
    You wake up in the middle of the night sobbing. Crying. You get angry just thinking about all the things you gave up for anther person who could not of cared less. While you sit there in the cold, shivering. She is warm in her own little world. You wonder just how a person could be so cruel. How can a Being. A HUMAN BEING be so vile. So without remorse for her own actions to the man she says she loves?
    That is the cruelest trick in the world. If not the Universe. The more you love them? The more the despise you. The more you care, the more they hate you. The more you give them, the less they want you. The more you do, the less they do for you.
    Women are not what man has been searching for. His soulmate is lost within the stars of the cosmos. If have ever existed at all.
    There is no greater pain nor suffering on this earth then what men go through with women they care for and love. It is this that is the great meaning to our lives. Love of a women is an empty fruitless endeavor in insanity. If a women could feel as a man, she would die. Pain? Please. Women are connoisseur of the craft of pain and suffering, not the victims of it.
    Women BATH and dine in the delights of a man’s sadness and suffering, pain, and discomfort of others. They rejoice in their dominance of their one true craft; Destruction through their pathetic meaningless sentiments & gifts they give those around them. Their very own purpose is to grow inside of them torment to give to others. Their own ability to give life is nothing but a Trojan horse. Its only real purpose is to chain you down with Irons and make you subject to their own wiles.
    Women are a BURDEN to a man’s life. She comes with no gifts that she can give you. Her entire reason for being is to destroy and create destruction.
    We wish it were not so. But after all, it is her will. Not ours.
    I say this time and time again. Women could solve all of the worlds problems in less then 6 months. But will they? Never. The masses of women will never lift a finger to help Humanity. Her goal and her life are an exercise in the suffering she can lay upon others. Her life gauged on the torment she can bestow upon those around her.
    And when she has no power to do so? She will find a way to make it happen. Her mind is not of that of love. Nor love. Her mind is made to destroy you like a Vampire leach that kills its host. She has no qualms about the future. She only knows herself.
    Its how she was made. Perfect. Just for you.
    Your Perfect brand of Heroine. Made just for you, but never your own to take. She will destroy you. She will shun your good heart and soul. And she will eat you alive if given the chance.
    Be free my brothers. There is no good deed worth doing for her sake. She will only see you as fruit to pick, savor, and without a moments remorse, discard your parts as refuse with the score of others she see’s fit to consume.
    Falling in love with the Vampire is more humane. At least a Vampire will not suck your soul dry. A Vampire will not make you its slave. A Vampire needs your blood. But a women? She wants not just that? But your heart to destroy as well.
    No creature I know of is so putrid as a woman who fawns her love for you as a virtue. She has no love. No soul. Only en empty automaton of Natures darkest secret. A virus that lives to create to destroy you with no thought to her own destruction.

    Every visitor to this site needs to read this. Well done iMickey

    No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

    #920873
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    Gerald
    Gerald
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    3620

    I allowed it to happen.

    All of us did. We put ourselves into this… the only thing we can do is stop allowing it to happen. Start by saying NO

    No longer can we walk away, we must run. Remove the motive power.

    #920894
    Grumpy
    Grumpy
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    And I allowed it to happen.

    There it is in a nut shell.

    Personally, for me, alone, all mine. (I’m a selfish sumbiotch 🙂 )
    Regardless of everything said and done in my life, regardless of circumstance, outcome, or any other “factor”.
    This one small statement of fact encompasses two huge aspects of my life.
    Responsibility and Accountability.
    I bloody well accept both voluntarily.
    Why you may ask?
    1. Because I am a man, and
    2. Because sure as night turns to day, I will be blamed for all negatives and never a positive by women, and their panty waisted, dildo sucking, weak willed, sexually confused, mentally unstable, supposedly male or whatever gender it is, fruit bat supporters. Without fail.
    3. Because I chose to.

    There was a time in my life when I gave a fuck. Now you have to pay ME for it

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