How-anal-sex-ruined-her-relationship

[Chucks_RevengeParticipant 216]

http://www.alternet.org/sex-amp-relationships/how-anal-sex-ruined-my-relationship

There is much to be learned from this story. Even more so if she writes a part two down the road. I would just love to read that. Because I think I know how its going to end.  Be sure to read the comments section as well. They’re pretty educational too. And a million laughs.

[Anonymous 1]

Moral of the story:

For women:

F~~~ as much as you can. After you made all the poor decisions you could, you will eventually find a sucker to take care of you, and you can even stop having sex after that!

For men:

Its a trap!

[DOOGLERParticipant 17]

absolutely ridiculous how she said that several times she lies to him and fools him and plays mindgames on the phone and pretends tobe attractive while calling her actually attractive sister anorexic because shes not some obese whore

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Chucks_Revenge wrote:

There is much to be learned from this story.

Yeah. What’s to be learned is that women are repeat disasters in their own personal lives because they listen to their own s~~~ty advice.

Dear Dummy author of that piece.

Lets look at this s~~~:

But after we’d have sex, I’d feel like a slut and become that needy girl every man is afraid of. I’d call too often. I’d need too much reassurance. He’d start spending lots of time with his friends at Paddy O’s, the perfect place to complain about your crazy girlfriend over a pint of Guinness. And before long, he’d stop calling and break up with me.

NO. HE broke up with you >>>> because he doesn’t LIKE you. Not wanting to marry you after “over a year” is totally reasonable. Telling yourself having (anal) sex is the reason is wildly dishonest hamsterbation.

It’s got nothing to do with you putting out. When guys LIKE you and you put out… he WILL call you again. LYING to yourself and telling yourself that withholding it is the best way to get a man to marry you is a bunch of horses~~~.

Wanting to f~~~ you – the criteria and desire for sex – is based on one thing and ONE THING ONLY:
The instant natural concept of attraction.

Wanting to MARRY YOU – for life until death – is based on a mile long list of s~~~ that is worked on and earn over time BY YOU. And it’s alot more than just one year. Propose marriage after a year? Are you out of your f~~~ing mind? He shouldn’t even be in a “relationship” with you until he has known you and had PLENTY of great sex and good times with you for at least 9-12 months. I have known women that long and they never even asked me my middle name.. but they wanted “get married” until death and expected me to toss away a year of labour and 18 months of after tax savings on a ring mined by a child and mounted on a platinum band… just to “pop the question”??

F~~~ off. That’s why your personal life is a disaster. But don’t take MY word for it:

This video was previously called “feminism ruined my dating life”. (before she changed it)
It sure as s~~~ was not called “anal sex ruined my dating life”.

And neither is true.

FACT: YOU ruined your own dating life. Stop blaming everyone and everything else for YOUR f~~~ ups.
“I didn’t want to be thought of as a slut or needy!! I should have withhold it to get him to marry me after a year”.

Jesus Christ.

That article above (and this video) just demonstrates how women listen to their own s~~~ty advice. Women can’t even manage careers and relationships at the same time! that’s why there are so many single “career women” over 30 who are single against their own will. And they still listen (and give other women) advice on relationships?

At least this one admits it. “we are always told men don’t like women who are needy”. Yeah you are told that by other women and you listen to it. Why don’t you ask the man you’re actually in a relationship with FIRST what he likes. Because what you dummies are doing – talking endlessly with each other about it – is not working for you.

We’ve been together for over a year, and this is the moment I’ve been waiting for my whole life: He’s going to propose.

Thats the opening line to her article.

Bitch, when you tell yourself that s~~~ – and he doesn’t do it – you’re going to be disappointed.

STOP LYING TO YOURSELF and projecting that s~~~ on to Men. HE – and only he – will decide when and if he’s going to propose. You NEVER get to decide this. NEVER. Just like you are the gatekeeper of sex and can decide to keep your legs (or asshole) closed and off limits to him…. he is the gatekeeper of commitment, and can keep his future, fortune and freedom off limits to you. So if you’re going to play whore and withhold it…. then EXPECT a man to do the same.

“That was awesome,” I lie. I think, Now that I’ve done this, I’ll get my ring.

And BANG! She’s no more than a prostitute who f~~~s on credit and is now p~~~ed off because she didn’t get paid.

Ho. Lee. Fuk.

In the end, I got my ring under the pillow. And I didn’t have to take it up the butt to get it.

That’s right. And you know what that finally taught you?

Men will never propose to you because you took it up the ass. Taking it up the ass is NOT how you get a man to want to be with you for life. So stop f~~~ing blaming men, because your’re a f~~~ing idiot who things letting him f~~~ your ass should earn you a goddam diamond ring and a life contract.

The s~~~ women tell themselves.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AFTParticipant 2722]

Some quotes I found interesting:

“I stick my hand under the pillow, because I always imagined that when a man proposed, he’d hide the velvet box there, like an adult version of the tooth fairy.”
-Women = children verified.

“I was a virgin until I was 20, when I finally had sex with my college boyfriend. I cried the entire time and asked him if he was going to marry me because I couldn’t live with myself if he didn’t.”
-Manipulative / Solipsistic

“After he promised he would, I made him cuddle me for hours.”
-Manipulative / Solipsistic

“Liam was 29, and he was already an executive at a top engineering firm. I’d found my prince.”
– Hypergamy 101

” my sister Rochelle….. She married a handsome surgeon who lived in a mansion on the North Shore of Chicago.”
– Hypergamy runs in the family.

“I swing dance in every city along the way. I have fun. I focus on fulfilling my own needs.”
– Solipsistic carousel rider.

“I see a tall, broad-shouldered guy with Buddy Holly glasses on.”
– Hypergamy – Alpha F~~~s

The only thing I found enlightening is Liam’s great line “Tonight, I want to do it up the butt.” What a great pick up line, not to mention “S~~~ TEST” sorry that’s probably going too far.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@aft

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“That was awesome,” I lie. I think, Now that I’ve done this, I’ll get my ring.”

– Whore

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

buttsex ruins everything. No wonder

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[KeymasterKeymaster]

Russky wrote:

buttsex ruins everything.

Actually, on the plus side…. buttsex is the only 100% woman-interference-proof method of birth control there is.

Even abstinence failed once.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

@Key Masters video posted,

Wow. Just wow. The language this woman uses in describing the dynamics in a relationship: it is all a POWER struggle in her mind. She cant simply understand that she is a woman, we are men, and as such we bring different qualities to the table. No. She speaks of “winning”. So that means in a relationship there has to be a “loser”? What kind of relationship is that?

Women are MUCH more competitive than men, but in an unhealthy way. A man can be competitive against HIMSELF: I want to bench more weight next month than this, etc. Women are competitive in the most superficial and caddy ways.

 

Why would I want a relationship with a woman who views one of us as winning and the other losing? Reciprocity. That is a word women NEVER actualize, and that is precisely what made me realize they are unaccountable and irational children.

Resident cynic.

[AFTParticipant 2722]

Keymaster wrote:

@aft

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“That was awesome,” I lie. I think, Now that I’ve done this, I’ll get my ring.”

– Whore

Well spotted, how did I miss that? Probably I’ve become so accustomed to it that I don’t notice, great attention to detail.
Note to self: pay attention to and note whore behavior.
A f~~~en “RING” for anal sex, what does she charge for a blowjob?

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Just read the original article…

“I found my PRINCE”. When, if ever, do women grow up? Its insane.

Fantasising about finding a ring under her pillow akin to the “tooth ferry”? Your insane. And her sisters advice is how to manipulate and deceive a man to get her precious ring. F~~~ing insane. God.

Resident cynic.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

AFT wrote:

A f~~~en “RING” for anal sex, what does she charge for a blowjob?

That’s cheaper. You can get that for just telling her exactly what she wants to hear.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[Chucks_RevengeParticipant 216]

Like I said in the OP I’m waiting for part two where she concludes that the guy she married was “just settling” after she let herself go. Then she’ll dump him. And she’ll take half of his s~~~. Of course by then she’ll have squirted out a couple of kids and he’ll be on the hook for 18-21 years of support payments.

Should somebody tell her that the anal sex thing was a set up because he was p~~~ed at her playing her manipulative games?

Should somebody tell her new hubby that somebody else got her at her gussied up best and that she will always pine for him and wish she had landed him instead of Mr. Accepts Me At My Worst?

[Just a ManParticipant 934]

ALL of the Rights and NONE of the responsibilities. Gee what a wonderful life. It seems to be like kindergarten for females and prison for males. Unicorns and rainbows and sledgehammers and rocks. Check please!

Philosophy, the female repellent

[RusskyParticipant 13503]

anal sex definitely ruined my relationship…
…with corporate America.

after being f~~~ed in the ass I decided to go my own way

proud carrier of the 'why?' chromosome

[AncientwisdomParticipant 6089]

Just a Man wrote:

ALL of the Rights and NONE of the responsibilities. Gee what a wonderful life.  

 

This. I so much can relate to this sentiment. Its f~~~ing disgusting. Ive never had to deal with marriage or child payments, thank God, but this notion even as a single male is enough of a caution anyone needs.

 

I have even seen Gold Diggers who have criteria for mens looks. It used to be tradition that the woman provided sex (and as such should be attractive) cook, clean, and raise children. Now in this metrosexual era, men must not only provide money and chivalry, but ALSO be a pretty boy.

“He has money, but hes not sexy enough”. What are YOU bringing to the table?

I recall one time I was in a parking lot leaving a bar. Drunk. Talking to a chick who was being flirty. She asked me for a ride home. Her friend showed up, who clearly could have given her a ride home. The girl I was talking to looked at her friend and said:

“Im going to get a ride with him and give him a blow job”.

Her friend replied: “CHARGE him”.

I was SHOCKED, and walked away alone. Its repulsing enough to know the girl was going to blow me in the car like a filthy slut, but her friend had the audacity to say that I should PAY for it, when it was her own idea, she initiated it, and wanted it?

F~~~ing pigs.

So glad I walked away from them, and this was in my 20’s.

Sick.

Resident cynic.

[sidecarParticipant 35837]

In the end, I got my ring under the pillow. And I didn’t have to take it up the butt to get it.

Ten bucks says she’s divorced and living off alimony and child support in five years.

[ILiveAgainParticipant]

Bum sex 😈

[StandUpGuyParticipant 334]

Confessions from a whore. Move along nothing to see here.

[Mango IngawayParticipant 2264]

AFT wrote:

Some quotes I found interesting: “I stick my hand under the pillow, because I always imagined that when a man proposed, he’d hide the velvet box there, like an adult version of the tooth fairy.” -Women = children verified. “I was a virgin until I was 20, when I finally had sex with my college boyfriend. I cried the entire time and asked him if he was going to marry me because I couldn’t live with myself if he didn’t.” -Manipulative / Solipsistic “After he promised he would, I made him cuddle me for hours.” -Manipulative / Solipsistic “Liam was 29, and he was already an executive at a top engineering firm. I’d found my prince.” – Hypergamy 101 ” my sister Rochelle….. She married a handsome surgeon who lived in a mansion on the North Shore of Chicago.” – Hypergamy runs in the family. “I swing dance in every city along the way. I have fun. I focus on fulfilling my own needs.” – Solipsistic carousel rider. “I see a tall, broad-shouldered guy with Buddy Holly glasses on.” – Hypergamy – Alpha F~~~s The only thing I found enlightening is Liam’s great line “Tonight, I want to do it up the butt.” What a great pick up line, not to mention “S~~~ TEST” sorry that’s probably going too far.

Nailed it man. +1

Ancientwisdom wrote:

Women are MUCH more competitive than men, but in an unhealthy way. A man can be competitive against HIMSELF: I want to bench more weight next month than this, etc. Women are competitive in the most superficial and caddy ways.

It seems like women can’t ever stop tearing others down. They’d rather shame other down to their level rather than improve themselves. The “if you don’t accept me being a fat lazy slob, you’re not a real man” way of thinking comes to mind.

Just a Man wrote:

ALL of the Rights and NONE of the responsibilities. Gee what a wonderful life. It seems to be like kindergarten for females and prison for males. Unicorns and rainbows and sledgehammers and rocks. Check please!

Gynocentrism in a nutshell.

sidecar wrote:

Ten bucks says she’s divorced and living off alimony and child support in five years.

I’d bet, but I know you’re right, and I ain’t that rich. Another day maybe 😀

It is a common failing of childhood to think that if one makes a hero out of a demon the demon will be satisfied.

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