How a MGHOW Gets "Dumped"

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

So there’s this chick I’ve been casually seeing for the past few months. She’s a barista at a local coffee shop, I picked her up by telling her I’ve got a lot of free time to spend doing cool s~~~ but she was probably too busy to hang out with me.

When she heard that she practically shoved her number at me.

I was never all that into her which is ideal for me. She was fun in the sack and very dedicated to spending whatever free time she could make to spend with me but I’d only agree to meet her once a week, other than being a regular at her shop.

On Friday she texted me to tell me that she’s sorry if I’m angry but she f~~~ed her ex. I told her it was fine, she’s an adult, I don’t expect her to do anything other than whatever she wants and if she wants to keep seeing me or both of us, either way I’m cool with it.

On Saturday she texted to say she couldn’t see me any more because I didn’t get mad at her f~~~ing around on me. I told her I accepted her decision and that I understand if she wants more than I am offering she wouldn’t want to hang around. I told her we can be friendly but there’s no point in us hanging around any more, but I’ll still see her around the shop whenever I happen to go there.

Obviously she was looking to make me jealous but that backfired because I expected she’d f~~~ him or someone else and I really don’t care what she does when I’m not around. Truth is I was over it anyway and just waiting for the sex to go bad before ending it but she doesn’t need to know that.

So yeah, dumping me was doing me a favor. Just imagine if all guys acted like this… women around the world would be in a shocked panic, jumping off buildings like the world had come to an end… which for them, a world full of men who don’t chase pussy pretty much would be at an end.

[RoyDalParticipant]

He acted like an adult.
She threw a tantrum.

It figures.

Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

[experiencedParticipant]

In the movie “Ex Machina”

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the older entrepreneur kept developing female robots, more attractive to him, until arriving at one who could possibly destroy him.
She hated him.
He had that robot under control so that she wouldn’t destroy him.
Maybe the writer was telling what’s probably obvious to all, that a significant portion of the sex drive comes from this threat.
Men seek a woman that can do this.
Point is: both guys in the film end up dead and the robot goes out to discover herself in the world, powered by what the guy gave her, into the outer world that men built.

Women and their willingness to shove things to the dumping stage are trying to artificially do the same thing.
They s~~~ test to raise their perceived ‘price tag’ “am I perceived as being able to destroy him?” ,but forget that they’ve already burned the whole store to the ground via their unbridled greed.
IMO they are just not worth the possibility of getting destroyed.
The original “flight of the phoenix” film was an inspirational work, but obviously there was no, “and then it happened again, with THAT aircraft.”
Yeah, they land at the oasis and a laydee comes running up and says fly it again..

"It seems like there's times a body gets struck down so low, there ain't a power on earth that can ever bring him up again. Seems like something inside dies so he don't even want to get up again. But he does."

[Mr. SpockParticipant 10911]

I get the feeling she may be coming back around in a few months.

Feminism isn't about equality with men, it's about leverage over men.

[MGTOWmonkey aka No More Fucks To GiveParticipant 6635]

Mr. Spock wrote:

I get the feeling she may be coming back around in a few months.

That’s the exact thought I had, you diminished her sexual value to you so she will be looking to raise that as well as her ego.

Never lose sight of what brought you here.

[narwhalParticipant]

Agreed, this is all a game. Here’s the scenario’s she was hoping for:

– You get mad, but release you have feelings for her. Since you never committed, you have to stop being mad and claim her and she get’s the commitment.
– You don’t get mad, but decide you want to claim her.
– You get mad, and don’t want anything to do with her. She can tell all her friends how big of a jerk you were for being mad when you never gave her a commitment.

You didn’t play and were indifferent. She had no answer for this scenario, so had to regroup and come up with a backup plan…go away and see if you’ll miss her and be willing to commit to a relationship.

When this doesn’t work, she’ll come back and give you an ultimatum (as if you didn’t already make your decision). When that doesn’t work, she’ll either go away and try again later, decide to concede and be your FB for a while and try again later…or just walk away. I doubt she’ll pick the last option.

Ok. Then do it.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

So you did a pump and dump, good job, She wasn’t worth your time anyway, and she proved it. Pl

Eh, I wouldn’t call it pump and dump. We saw each other for like four months… although I avoided any holiday entanglements, refused to do anything “romantic” for Valentine’s Day and basically never developed feelings for her, I did treat her with kindness and respect and shared my time, energy and space with her when I felt like doing so.

It was more like a “friends with benefits” situation. I have nothing to gain by treating a woman like a mere receptacle… I treated her like a human being and an equal (although she clearly was not my equal) but did not wish to adopt her as a pet or reshape my life to fulfill her wants and needs and that wasn’t good enough for her so she moved on, which is as it should be.

As for what happens next, she can plot and scheme if she likes but I’m done. She may as well be living on another planet for all the impact it will have on me. Like I said, I chose to spend my time with her rather than someone I might get attached to precisely because she had no power over me.

[Jan SobieskiParticipant 28791]

She dumped you because you didn’t get mad she f~~~ed someone else?

I think she was testing you.

Love is just alimony waiting to happen. Visit mgtow.com.

[Robert HallamParticipant 696]

It’s the indifference that will kill her. In a very, very, overt way you told her in no uncertain terms that the pussy value she figured she had was worth absolutely s~~~ to you. In other words, she now realizes she was worthless to you. Now there’s a come down.

[WallyParticipant]

I had a women do something similar to me back in my blue pill days, tried to make me jealous by telling me she had her ex at her house and I showed indifference and it p~~~ed her off, didn’t remember or realize what happened till reading your post Doc. It’s almost like they read from a script and it’s become predictable.

"what a waste of a life, to marry, give up your freedom, just for the hope of not dying alone. Don't get married Son."

[HitmanParticipant]

Good stuff doc! Always nice to have a good time with a hot chick..she’s nuts as you realize. I look at it like another notch in the gun belt..then, NEXT! One chance per woman, per lifetime. She f~~~ed up and you aced it !

[MaleficsParticipant 53]

Mr. Spock wrote:

I get the feeling she may be coming back around in a few months.

This…I have a feeling she won’t be able to shake him off her mind for a while.

Hey Doc, when she does come back to you, keep us updated.

AWALT. Never forget.

[StargazerParticipant 12505]

Robert Hallam wrote:

In a very, very, overt way you told her in no uncertain terms that the pussy value she figured she had was worth absolutely s~~~ to you. In other words, she now realizes she was worthless to you.

Now here’s the irony… she wasn’t worthless to me, she was worthless to herself. Here she found a man who treated her with dignity and respect and was willing to share his time, energy and resources with her and all she thought she had to offer was pussy.

Rather than recognizing that her time, attention, loyalty and support were valuable to me and offering more of her strengths to make herself even more valuable in my life, she tried to inflate her value by threatening to withhold her pussy.

This is the number one reason I am not able to take a relationship with a woman seriously. Inevitably she will throw herself under the bus by assuming the only thing she has to offer of value is between her legs.

I like women and I like sex but I will not be lead around by the dick.

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