In a lot of articles today we read about why men are going their own way, the author lets women know why men are checking out of marriage and fatherhood. Sometimes the articles wades through a long litany of legal, social, and anecdotal evidence about the injustices perpetrated upon men by women or the gynocentric legal system. Men that are going their own way, depending upon who you speak to, either want to see real change in the social dynamic of men and women or just don’t care either way.
If a man going his own way wants to see real social change, then I believe that he is holding himself and all that he has to offer as a hostage, albeit quietly, until the social and legal changes he requires takes place. Or perhaps he has taken refuge and saying “Let an entire generation of women go to sperm banks and raise kids on their own and they will see just what men are worth”. I hope this fits the particular mindset that I’m trying to explain. If not then I hope that I don’t offend. The real issue that I see with this, is that it will take decades for the dismantlement all of the legal and social infrastructure that supports our current national paradigm. During this time, most of us will probably agree that the rift between the sexes will widen even more. The social skill that is necessary to support long lasting relationships between the sexes will be lost, if not entirely then in at least the areas of our nations that have hosted an extreme view of social justice the favors women. Hell, we might even have to crack open the retirement homes and employ the elderly in a way that we used to for thousands of years. As elders and mentors in our community that offer wisdom based upon the success that they have demonstrated. Weird concept, right? Even with a support network teaching young people how to interact with one another, in all likelihood there will have to be a period of reconciliation. Entire generations of men will have been not just brought up to distrust women, but will have learned not to trust based upon direct experience. Entire generations of women have already been openly taught that men are evil, disposable, need to be feminized, and should readily offer up their time and money to worship at the alter of their uterus. In my opinion the strain is already starting to show with the frequent refrain that men need to “Man up”. To what they (women) never directly say, but I believe that they are using shaming tactics to goad men in to marriage and children since the lure of socially engineered, second class citizenship has lost its charm.
If a man genuinely doesn’t register more than two pico s~~~s on his Give A F~~~ Meter, then weather social or legal change takes place or not is of absolutely no consequence to him. “Have kids, don’t have kids, get married, don’t get married. Just don’t bother me with your bulls~~~. I’m busy.” With this particular mindset then social and legal change that enables healthy relationships is of no personal consequence. Also, the real damage done and that will continue to happen to other men is also of no consequence. Not that the refugee from matrimonial bliss wouldn’t be genuinely welcome here, but if he doesn’t see the light then, “Oh well”. This not to say that men that have this mindset are necessarily wrong in their viewpoint. Most of us came to MGTOW on our own bent and didn’t have anyone holding our hand or holding us down while shoving red pills down our throats. Everyone is free to be who they are and express themselves. I genuinely respect that.
I have also seen what is also a anarchist mindset of “Let the whole thing collapse under its own weight.”
I’m not sure where I’m going with this but I felt the need to put this down.
I’m also curious what implications there are from these different personal ideologies. As I said earlier, I believe that we are already starting the see the pressure but the light bulb hasn’t come on yet. Just snide, oblique attacks to our manhood.
By the way, isn’t “Manning Up” a gender specific behavior and virtue?
"I asked you a question. I didn't ask you to repeat what the voices in you head are telling you" ~ Me. ........Yes I'm still angry.
JollyMisanthrope 4 years, 9 months ago.
