Hold Yourself TO High Standards and Make People Meet Them

[Anonymous 6]

As an enlightened modern man, you are obligated to walk the road of mastery and self-fulfillment. You should have developed high standards for yourself and those who you spend time with. If so, you’ve realized that the overwhelming majority of people that you meet will not meet these standards.

It’s a simple fact that most people are inadequate. The majority are overweight, lazy, and they are physically and mentally weak. They took the wrong advice in their lives and therefore their belief system is deficient. They would rather waste their time with nonsense than listen to valuable resources such as this website.

As a man who follows the road of masculinity and reason, you must be aware that you are surrounded by your enemies. This includes the mainstream media, companies that sell you useless or harmful products, mainstream culture in its entirety, and every person who heavily buys into the system and consciously or unconsciously seeks to drag you down. These forces and these people are not your friends. Listening to their poisonous advice and drivel will only harm you on your quest to become a greater man.

It is a truly sad state of affairs that the vast majority of people have swallowed the blue pill that modern Western society feeds them. As a result, their egos are invested in what they have become. If they attack you for seemingly no reason, it is usually because your presence threatens their ego. They know that you are better than they are. That is why you should take an enemy as a compliment: you are important enough to be a target.

However, whether a person declares themselves as your enemy is not important. In today’s “polite” society, most people do not openly label you as their enemy. Most fighting is done by deception because overt fighting, whether physical or verbal, is punished in one form or another. It is certainly a point of a Cultural Marxist to deceive a person into believing their ideology is in their best interest, or else persuading them would be very difficult.

It is vital to realize all of this and inwardly declare war with those around you who do not serve your interests. You should only outwardly declare war when it is truly advantageous to you. At the same time, remember that while a masculine man in modern Western culture has many opponents, not every person is your enemy.

Identify the Forces That Conspire Against You

The side effects of the cultural war on the west: divorce-rape laws, a cultural war on women’s femininity, the emasculation of Western men, and so forth, all have a very real effect on how you live your life. Cultural Marxism tells men poisonous nonsense such as that all people and both genders (or 58, if you ask Facebook) are equal.

Remember that women are much more impressionable than men. Therefore they are much more corruptible by a perverse culture. It affects almost every aspect of their behavior. They think that they act like sluts in their 20s and marry a “good man” in their 30s. Many of them are overtly disrespectful and hostile to men. Many get fat and ugly and think that they can mimic male traits. They think that modern music is good. The list goes on and on.

You can tell a lot about a culture by looking at its women. If you go to another country and the women are sweet, feminine, and caring then you have entered a traditional culture. If they are rude, masculine, and arrogant then you are in a poisonous culture.

On the other hand, men as a whole have become emasculated and low-testosterone. Many of them still think that American women are the way women just naturally are, even if they’re internally confused and haven’t verbalized it yet. It is up to you to educate them.

All of these cultural perversions are much more apparent when you surround yourself with like-minded people. This is even more apparent when you travel to a destination far removed from Western culture and remain there for some time.

Again, you must be aware of these forces so that way they have little to no influence on you. While many men are beginning to understand what’s going on, most are not fully aware of the extent that these forces work against them. Having this awareness creates distrust in you, which is important to block the influence of a poisonous culture on your brain.

Many People Who Are Awakened Are Still Partially Blue-Pilled by Western Society

Over approximately the last decade, men have become significantly more awake to the forces against them. This has been a massive success on the part of the Manosphere and various conservatives. Despite this, there is much more work to do.

Again, even men who largely understand what is going on are still poisoned by modern society in one way or another. While a lot of men understand red pill truths, they do not understand the whole truth. Many men do not understand that you can get better women overseas, for instance. Or they make excuses about why they should not self-improve in every way possible. It is up to you to educate them.

Understand that even if someone has good intentions, they may still not see the world entirely for what it is. These people are not usually your enemies and can often – but certainly not always – be guided in the right direction. The only thing that may be holding them back is laziness and ego, but with skill, you can persuade them effectively.

As a man on the way to self-improvement, you will hear people give you all sort of advice that is not in your best interest. If anything, concern yourself with the opinions of the well-informed and not the opinions of fools.

Connect With Like-Minded Men

Forget about what you learned in grade school about never judging anybody. Be 100% unapologetic about judging people’s character. This is a vital survival and replication instinct.

Western men must draw from the wisdom of their ancestors and from great historical figures instead of listening to advice from most men alive today. However, in the age of the internet, there are still excellent resources available.

Find the men around you that matter. Develop authentic and mutually beneficial alliances. If you feel like you have met a man that is close to swallowing the red pill but is not quite there yet, educate him. Be a part of a revolutionary counter-culture of masculinity that is reviving real American culture.

Those who have like minded beliefs will naturally be your strongest allies. It is important to fish out people’s belief system if you expect to form a strong relationship with them. Ask them leading but open-ended questions about their love lives or belief system. Pay attention to how they perform under stress or when and if they become emotional.

Be Your Own Driving Force

You must be your own driving force: a force of strength that others can look to. Let people see you as a prime example of modern-day masculinity.

If you engage in American culture regularly, you absolutely need solid outlets. For instance, if you have a job surrounded by self-loathing individuals, you need to have social outlets and a membership at the gym to clear your mind. If you do not do this, proximity to these people will wear down on you eventually.

You should lift weights and learn practical skills like survival and self-defense. Keep your testosterone levels high. Have sex with feminine and attractive girls. Become refined by learning important subjects like history, economics, psychology, and foreign languages. In short, do the exact opposite of most men.

And of course: never apologize for your place in life. As long as you are not physically hurting others, you have no reason to apologize for who you are.

Some Words of Restraint

I often advise against speaking in absolutes because strict ideology blinds people to facts. Not everyone is your enemy, and even those that you label as an enemy may still have utility to you. The world is not black-and-white.

People’s motivations and instincts are not an easily legible code. Even those who have anti-male beliefs still respond to strength and can often be persuaded when necessary. It is wise to understand this and seek to find common ground with people when it is beneficial to you.

Also, be aware that you don’t need to necessarily be outwardly aggressive towards those you label as an enemy. At other times, however, outward aggression may be a good thing. The most important point is that you inwardly declare war on people so you know who is not on your side. Outwardly declaring war is useful if you are purposely trying to create enemies for your benefit, or if you specifically know that someone will never serve your interests.

Use your judgment to be wary of those who you deem worthy of distrust. Always let a person’s trust start from zero and make them earn their way up.

Conclusion

Men absolutely must be aware of the forces that seek to emasculate and destroy them. It is vital to identify and inwardly declare war on these forces. Common ground can be found with people but not before serving your interests and those of your fellow man first.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Venom,

Interesting information brother. As a MGTOW, I will never head back to the plantation, even if the laws and women change to benefit men. The main point for me going MGTOW is to observe self-actualisation. Deciding to go MGTOW, based on external events/factors, imo, will only lead to more inner turmoil and chaos. If the laws and women’s behaviour do change, I know there will be a lot of men heading straight back to the plantation, not there is anything wrong with that.

As with standards, these standards that we have for ourselves must be standards that push us outside our comfort zone into uncharted lands. This is the only way we, as men, can push forwards. As Spetsnaz mentions, walking away from our primary goal to procreate, is a very challenging journey.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[Anonymous 6]

Now me, I’m not as hardcore MGTOW as other people. Everyone on this site is a MGTOW, but to varying degrees. If laws were changed and I was protected, and my assets were protected. I wouldn’t mind getting married. It’s the uncertainty that leads me to say HELL NO!

But in any event, we as men need to make sure we hold ourselves in high regard. Don’t be prideful in terms of being c~~~y, but know that you are everything that you say you are, and nobody can tell you different. Hell chicks see that as a challenge, and will throw themselves at you, but don’t fall for it.

Society nowadays desperately needs men to look up to. Me being in the school system, alot of these kids have never seen a man in a position of power, so to have one interact with them is invaluable. I read a statistic where in the black community, 77% of black kids are born with no fathers in the household. When you grow up hearing how your now s~~~, and how your father wasn’t s~~~, and how men aren’t s~~~. The last thing these kids are going to want to do, is grow up to be MEN. And that is what is needed in these households. I don’t care if it’s sexist, men need to be in control and women need to be right by his side, with both working together for the common good of the household.

Problem is, this is not happening. And that’s what needs to be changed. So fellas make sure you hold yourself to a high standard and make other people rise to your level. If you are looking for a woman, make her rise to your level, and if she doesn’t, kick her to the curb. Your head should be held high everyday.

[MGTOW_MikeParticipant 6253]

Anonymous wrote:

I don’t care if it’s sexist, men need to be in control and women need to be right by his side, with both working together for the common good of the household.

Exactly Venom. You can’t have two leaders in a team. Only one. Having two heads will only lead to more problems compared to a scenario where there are no leaders. It sort of reminds me of the game “Far Cry 4” where Sabal had a vision to preserve culture and Kyrat’s people, whilst Amita was all about money and power. Of course, the first time I played the game, I sided with Sabal.

If women jump into a traditional man’s role, then we will end up with two men running the family and the traditional role of the female nurturer is abandoned.

A tranquil mind is neither happy nor sad, it is uninfluenced by external conditions.

[IRuleMeParticipant]

Anonymous wrote:

Now me, I’m not as hardcore MGTOW as other people. Everyone on this site is a MGTOW, but to varying degrees. If laws were changed and I was protected, and my assets were protected. I wouldn’t mind getting married. It’s the uncertainty that leads me to say HELL NO!

Brother Venom, I understand that perspective, and everyone must make the choice they feel is best for them, but how could any rational man accept the concept of marriage when it goes against our programmed code as human beings? I’m not a believer in God, nor do I subscribe to religion, but if the bible is to be believed, God himself never intended for many to marry. That was a pegan ritual later adopted by Moses. God himself according to the texts told man “go forth and multiply”. Meaning that we are to do as all other creatures on the planet do. Sow the seed, and continue the lineage.

Marriage is a prison construct for women to maintain a sense of loyalty because they’re tied up for 9 months giving birth. It’s not in their interest to have man run off sowing his seed. But more than that, it’s a religious and royal construct to control man. King’s of old kept harems of women for themselves to sow their seed. But a king couldn’t afford for the serfs to be taking multiple partners. It would be cutting into his power and giving the serfs the leverage. So the idea of marriage was pushed onto the lower class. By making them only take one female, they were limited in their offspring. A form of population control.

[Anonymous 18]

Anonymous wrote:

hardcore MGTOW

It only comes in softcore version.

[xenonParticipant 2007]

These type of posts are very important to this site. This is vital information I wish I would have had as soon as I could read.

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