Hitting women – How and when

[Elgos_GrimParticipant 254]

I just want to mention that, should you be in a situation where a woman is attacking you, I would advise the following: isolate a joint and apply pressure. It gives you control, allows you to regulate how much pain you put out and adapt it to the situation and makes it easy to disarm them should it be neccesary. It also has the added advantage of leaving no marks, so they can’t turn it around on you. If they are unarmed and just trying to hit, a firm grip on the back of the neck works in a similar way. From either one of these positions, utilising an increase of pressure you can slowly move them to the floor, then disengage and make a rapid retreat.

I would like to finish this up by saying that violence should not be used unless neccesary, and if it becomes neccesary it should be used with restraint, unless your intent is to cause injury or death.

[Anonymous 5]

Just hit her with words. Call her fat and ugly. That does more damage than any punch could.

But if you have to punch, aim for the stomach. Less chance of bruising.

[IGMOW (I Go My Own Way)Participant 2572]

My take is if you are in ANY situation where thinking of hitting a woman is a good option, is a sign that situation is a place you shouldn’t of been in to begin with.  And I would say not just a woman, anyone else.  And I am assuming that this context is speaking to someone who is MGTOW here.  If you are MGTOW, unless you are coerced against your will to be somewhere and threatened violence, for whatever reason, I don’t see why any man would be in a place where there is even a need to go and hit a woman.  I personally avoid bars and any other place where such garbage can break out.  I don’t need human contact that much, to be in a place where I have to put through it.  There is the, if I am at work situation, but then hitting anyone at work will get you fired, so that doesn’t count.

So my take is that, if this question is being pondered, then the situation is a bad one to be in.  And I am personally in one. I  live in an environment where my father issues death threats to my mother still, in order to make points.  In this situation, engaging in any way, makes things worse.  Sometimes you don’t have a choice but to be somewhere, but I think the goal is to get out of it.

Just my 2 cents…

"I am my own thang. Any questions?" - Davis S Pumpkins.

[SteveParticipant 462]

99% of the time you don’t need to hit a woman. Words or lack of them is how to defeat them.

If she’s gone for a knife and is threatening you with it then hitting is the way to go. Don’t run away from that or she’ll chase and likely stick it in your back.

Had this happen to me twice now. First time used my right hand to block and a left open hand across the top of her head. Fell to the ground shocked and immediately dropped the knife.

Second time (different vagina) it was again right hand to block and a left open hand slap across the ear. Totally shell shocked her and she fell to the floor immediately.

We shouldn’t have to be faced with this kind of violence but it is appropriate for us to discuss it and know how best to react.

The slap across the ear was so quick to shell shock her that I wouldn’t hesitate in using that technique to any future attack male or female. I hope I don’t have to.

 

 

[Helen be DamnedParticipant 480]

It’s okay to hit them when you don’t care that they think they won.

"You can keep your soul, I don't want a cell-mate." - Them Crooked Vultures

[AFTParticipant 2725]

It’s only OK to hit a woman when you can get away with it, which is seldom, so be careful. I’ve only ever hit women when they initiated physical violence, maybe 3 times in my life, if we were allowed to hit them when they deserved it, our arms would be worn out.
If I walked up to a guy twice my size and pulled 1/2 the s~~~ women do, I could expect to get my ass handed to me, I’m still coming to terms with the injustice, it’s a long process, maybe I never will.
As richardhutnik said, why are you in that position at all? Ever since becoming MGTOW, I don’t have these issues at all, apart from work, and whenever it happens at work, I realize it’s my fault for engaging with them, reinforces me to GMOW.
Even thinking about hitting a woman, is a clear sign you’re on the wrong path, DISENGAGE, preserve your sanity. Unless it’s some random stranger, then the chances of getting away with it are greatly increased.
Note we need to “get away with” hitting an abusive aggressor, basically get away with “natural justice”. What a world.

When the war cemeteries are half full of the corpses of dead conscripted women, only then will women have earned the right to speak of equality. Sidecar “A man is a success if he gets up in the morning and goes to bed at night and in between does what he wants to do.” - Bob Dylan

[peterfaParticipant 833]

Even in my blue pill days I struggled with this. I was a late bloomer (my voice didn’t change until I was a sophomore). I was short, skinny, and in 9th grade, I was a whopping 95 lb. I was scrawny. I looked like I belonged in 6th grade. It’s basically why I couldn’t get girls.

A larger man won’t attack you unless you give him a reason. A woman will just attack you. Larger girls who felt they could did attack me. I have been slammed against plane glass trophy cases (which didn’t break, miraculously), kick (in a kick fight I started, reasonable though), attacked, affronted, assaulted, all by women. The problem is, they’re bigger. They’re dangerous. Why don’t men hit women? Because it’s easy to beat the crap out of a woman. They’re easy to defeat. However, when you’re behind your peers, skinny, and small, they’re more powerful. They’re bodies have grown and muscle mass increased. They’re dangerous and I need to protect myself.

Of course I grew and now I can beat most women. I’m not proud of course. It’s just the way it is.

I also pondered what happens when a woman is doing something to someone else. I decided that if a woman dares harm a child (double for my own), she’s going to get her ass f~~~ed up. There’s going to be some good ol’ fashioned white trash stuff going on. The reason is protection. I’ll do anything to protect a child, especially my children. A woman dares think she’s above the rules, she’s going to have something coming.

My stance on domestic violence is simple:

1. Hit me once, go to anger management
2. Hit me twice, you’d better go get your things that I have placed outside before someone steals them. When you do step outside, the door is locked. Have a nice life.

[BlackEagleParticipant 54]

Steve wrote:

99% of the time you don’t need to hit a woman. Words or lack of them is how to defeat them. If she’s gone for a knife and is threatening you with it then hitting is the way to go. Don’t run away from that or she’ll chase and likely stick it in your back. Had this happen to me twice now. First time used my right hand to block and a left open hand across the top of her head. Fell to the ground shocked and immediately dropped the knife. Second time (different vagina) it was again right hand to block and a left open hand slap across the ear. Totally shell shocked her and she fell to the floor immediately. We shouldn’t have to be faced with this kind of violence but it is appropriate for us to discuss it and know how best to react. The slap across the ear was so quick to shell shock her that I wouldn’t hesitate in using that technique to any future attack male or female. I hope I don’t have to.

hahahahahah.. this s~~~ got me going i call this grenade to the ear.. baang! ringing ears for the next hour!!

[Deus Ex MachinaParticipant 1068]

If she had a weapon or hit you with enough force to do damage, yeah by all means smack a bitch, or subdue her.

 

I’ve had one knife and two scissors pulled on me by my ex Wife, and each time i had to subdue her or tackle her to the ground. Looking back on it, i should’ve just punched her goddamn lights out.

 

My opinion has changed over the years from “Men should never hit a woman” to “Equal rights, as well as lefts”.

 

Some c~~~ feels she wants to punch, kick,  or do any kind of bodily harm towards me?.

 

all bets are off.
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"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb

[Klaus WindamierParticipant 543]

Qcummer wrote:

only if you HAVE to like when they have knife or gun. any other time, you must restrain her, pin her to the ground, get out your phone and dial 911. This is the only way you have a chance to press charges. Never leave the scene. (another option is to grab your phone, run into bathroom and call 911). Only cops are allowed to hit people. Here’s what cops tell me where we rank: 1. Children 2. Women 3. Dogs 4. Men We’re #4! We’re #4! woohoo!

 

Err…

1. Women

2. Childrens

3. Animals

4. Properties

5. Money

6. Men

[EscapedMentalPatientParticipant 1489]

I dealt with this once, rather accidentally, and only because she was swinging at me.

I blocked her shot with an outward knife hand to her wrist, and it was instinctual, as I was training rather heavily at the time.  The force of her hand, and the force of my outward block broke her wrist.  It was witnessed, and no one could pretty much say anything about it (this was at a party), as it was smooth and I was simply avoiding a blow.

I’ve kept that in mind, and will certainly allow for my own defense again, should the opportunity present itself.

I would never initiate violence.

But in those instances; I like to think they had a bit longer of a reminder, and had to do a little thinking while staring at that clumsy white cast for a while:

Keep your f~~~ing hands to yourself, wench.

[Oaken1Participant 67]

Like many of us(most?) I was raised that a man NEVER hits a woman…not under any circumstances. That is still considered the PC and socially polite thing to do as well.

 

However…as a man who has been beaten on by several women,…a couple of times even while I was driving,lol…. my opinions have changed.

The moment a female puts herself in a mans position and initiates physical violence upon me is the moment I will knock that bitch clean the f~~~ out.

I have told every woman I have dated over the past ten years the same thing. You will only ever hit me one time. When you wake up I will be gone.

[QcummerParticipant 652]

again, I must stress from expert legal and law enforcement advisors:

BE THE ONE who calls 911 if you are backed into a corner. If SHE calls 911 first, YOU are the one the cops are coming after. If YOU call first, they know going in that YOU are the one who is in need of assistance against an aggressor.

If you are ever in this unfortunate situation, if you do nothing, or run away…you are giving her the chance to call the cops and get them to come after you. ALSO, WHEN YOU LEAVE THE SCENE, you are looked upon as someone who has done something wrong (guilty). It’s a judgement call you have to make. Do you want it to be you (the real victim) vs. woman OR the chance of woman (THE STATE) vs. you? The first option is infinitely better than the second, in which the woman is irrelevant, THE STATE is against you. Men must understand this Woman accusation = STATE government prosecution. That’s F~~~ED UP. It’s like that, and that’s the reality of the way it is.

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