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In this thread I ll be posting ‘HIGHLIGHTS’ from my first and so far only serious relationship I have ever had. It lasted 14 months. We met online, we were both 26 at that time. She was hot, cute and talkative. Im 28 now and we are broken up for more then half a year… We live 10 miles apart. I will show you what a blue pill beta I was and how she punished me for it. Stories are going to be long and interesting but worth it. I ll post couple more interesting stories if you show interest in reading them. Since English is not my first language its kinda hard to write everything the way I want to. All I can say is this – when woman knows she is in charge, has power over you, she will f~~~ you up. Not because you deserve it, but because she can! And in her mind it is justified because you are a weak man. Good man = weak man with no other options who treats her right and puts her first in many cases. MISTAKE! And a weak man deserves it!
lets start…
She has never been into sex (maybe only with me), made me wait for it for weeks even from the beginning – I was looking forward to weekends since we both lived at home that time, and I was home alone for weekends. After first sex I was inviting her on Fridays and Saturdays to come and spent the night since I had the whole house for myslef… she has almost always rejected even when I have invited her one day in advance… she rejected me for friends, for having drinks with them, going out partying with them, having something more important/else to do, .. she had excusses – you name it! She even said it once she wont come because she is visiting her grandparents who are living 5 min away from her home, and because she had to wash a dog… The whole time she wanted my time, attention, kissing and holding hands, inviting me on family/friends bday parties talking about what we are going to do months from now etc… everything EXCEPT SEX!
I was blue pill beta and gave her all of that thinking she needs more time and things will change.. I was blue pill. She didn’t change. I talked to her sincerely about it. Told her that is not normal behaviour for new relationship and told her directly the lack of sex is not working for me. I talked to her twice about it, to no avail… We had sex 4 times in first 5 months… After that she was making me know in advance during a week days that she had plans with gfs for a weekend… like thats allright then… i pull back a little and stopped inviting her to my place for weekends. Once we did finally had sex again after 4 or 5 weeks of dry spell she said during sex ‘ we should do this more often’ and I was like WTF!!! I was the one who was inviting her only to be rejected again and again weekend after weekend … manipulation nation was all I thought… After that I havent seen her pussy for few more weeks… same old s~~~… I got fed up, I got angry… I stopped giving a f~~~ and start looking for other gf. I cut off my attention, time… didn’t give a f~~~ about her anymore because I got so fed up and angry. I was blue pill and she was hot and cute but enough was enough. Keep in mind that all that was happening in the first 5 months of relationship. I felt like s~~~ thinking I suck in the sack since im pretty unexperienced and that im the reason/problem for being rejected… I was already writing her off, but once she has realized she doesnt ‘have’ me anymore things turned around. She was complaining how I do not appreciate her as gf, and that I often act like I do not care and that I have a defense mechanism and that she will not wait for me forever.
That night she was insisting to come home with me. I said I do not really care but you can come if you want to… She did. We were lying in my bed and I did not make a move because I didn’t want to even tho we havent had sex for a whole months and remember that was 6 months into relationship! I put on ‘django unchained’ and she said she doenst like it even tho we just started wathcing it. I said I can put on another movie and she said ‘no’. I told her she doesn’t know what she wants, and she replied ‘ I know what I want’, she rolled over so she was showing me her back and pretended she is sleeping. I grabbed her boobs from behind and made a move. Guess what? That was the night she was the most wet down there (looking back on entire time we were togerther). Me subtle rejecting her and acting I do not care about her anymore and don’t need sex – that turned her on – the fact I did not desire her and no longer inviting her to spent the night with me for the last couple of weekends was more of an aphrodisiac then me being nice and good to her the whole time… after that she was inviting herself, was asking me when she can come again etc.. a complete 180 turn! All i need to do is show her that she is expandable…
I have so much more interesting/f~~~ed up stories to share but will write them only if you show interest…
Anonymous18Your story sounds awfully familiar to most nice guys stories. Although the lack of sex initially in the relationship was a good sign that the nights she couldn’t come over were not really spent with her girlfriends or washing her dog.
Sorry brother you were likely meant to be an emotional tampon for her. She was getting the raw deal elsewhere. But hey at least she let you f~~~ her a few times 🙂
Almost all of those nights she invited me to come along with her and her friends to party/drinks but i never did. It felt stupid to go wherever and whenever she wants but doesnt give a damn about me and my needs/wishes.
keep em coming!
You dump her, and she will hound you to the ends of the earth.
She dumps you, and peace and quiet prevail. Solitude can be bliss.Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?
Anonymous11OP, I was in a similar situation at your age though I did get the snatch a little more often. In my case, mine was hung up on an ex and would drop me like a hot rock whenever he’d want to cheat on his replacement for her. Being the blue pill moron, I’d let her back into my life only to get run through the wringer 4 to 10 months later.
I’ll share a little story from my private collection of blue pill stupidity about this particular one of mine. One night after we got back to her place, we were in her bed completely naked and had begun to mess around. I was pretty damn sure I was going to get laid that night as I’d been banging her for 5 months. She all of the sudden made some lame excuse and sent me out to her kitchen to wait.
I was pacing around the room buck naked with blue b~~~~ when my head entered a volume where I could hear her whispering on her phone to her ex. It was like I was wearing headphones. The proverbial fly on the wall I was. I’d move a half meter in any direction and lose the sound. I had entered a zone where constructive interference of the sound waves reflecting off the walls from her whispering allowed me to hear her clear as day. The refrigerator began to cycle and washed out the sound, but I had heard more than enough. Shortly thereafter, she came out with my clothes and forced me to get dressed. She sent me packing like she had a fire to go to. I forget what her excuse was, but I was so shocked by the brutality of how I learned the information and her coldness that I could say nothing. I dumped her, and she snared me again 3 months later only to do me even worse 10 months into the future.
I guarantee you that yours was out riding some c~~~ carousel while “washing the dog”. Women are some cold ass scheming mother f~~~ers.
Interesting story Pig.
I am posting some more….
When we were together for like a year, we were out partying because that’s her biggest joy in this world. Socializing, smoking and drinking. She much rather spent weekends out partying then spent time with me alone, having a nice dinner, movie night, sex etc. So on one of those nights she got a little drunk and I was talking about my ex- best friend of 20 years who cut everybody from his life since he got a gf, got her pregnant and move in with her. She basically made him do that! She made him drop everything he had before they met. He is her slave! Sad… really. I was really hurt – he was like a brother to me and all of sudden he was not around, not even for a drink, not even a call, nothing. He didn’t even come to my bday party because his gf decided they will simply not go. So I was talking about this topic with my other friend on a party and my gf was beside me the whole time. She said, ‘when I got pregnant, leave me alone if I get that bitchy’. Then she continuous how she is going to have a baby in a year or two because she is 28 now, and she announced that child will be mine or someone else’s.. really??? What kind of statement is this. We have never discussed this topic before and now when she is drunk she dropped the bomb. Needles to say she got a very bad job at the time and was paid poorly and she lived at home with her mum. When I brought up the concern about stuff like this and pointed out that I want it to be the right time to have a child so you are able to give a child everything necessary and that he shouldnt be a burden for mine or her parents, she said – my mother brought me and my sister up herself. I ll brought him up alone if needed. Made me think how much she is with me for me and not only because she sees me as a sperm donor…
Anonymous11she announced that child will be mine or someone else’s
Whoa!!! I think that little nugget says it all. These contradictory insane statements from women’s mouths are very often the truth. That one can be interpreted a couple of ways none of which say you are her #1 priority.
Totally agree with Roydal
Once a Female knows she’s being ignored or “expendable” she automatically switches modes and starts to pursue harder. She is no longer the priority, therefor she needs that feeling of CONTROL.
And they are all about control, in all aspects. After swallowing the Red pill i started to speak my mind, I started to ignore, not call, not text, or even acknowledge them half the time, if I knew they were not worth it. Let me tell you, it drove them insane!. Back in My blue pill days, I put the pussy so high on a pedestal I could’ve started my own “Pussy worship cult”. However not giving a s~~~, and kicking them off the pedestals is a step in the right direction.
Great story by the way, keep em coming.
"If You have the Tooth of a Whale, You must have the Whale's Jaw to hold it". (i.e. One Must have the right qualifications for leadership) -Hawaiian Proverb
Another one…. Im still raging when i thought about it…
When we had our 1st year anniversary…..
At that time we havent had sex for like 6 weeks. Couple of days before she reminded me how im gonna ‘have’ her for a whole year now, so i would not forget about anniversary? I bought her a gift, she had nothing for me (which surprised me since she always brings me small gifts when she is abroad, on vacation with family, etc… she said she wanted to create something for me but didnt like it, and that she didnt want to buy me just something). I made her a painting and bought a coupon for 40 € in her favourite hobby-art shop. The next day we went for an anniversary dinner – when the bill was coming I went to the toilet on purpose because I dont know how i would handle the fact if she would expect me to pay. She payed for it without a word. After the dinner i suggested – invited her to come to my place for a weekend and she said she will not come because her best girl friend is coming back from vacation (she was gone for 14 days). She said they will have a drink in her (my gfs) house. So I suggested to come to sleep over at hers. She said ‘fine’ but wasnt enthusiastic about it by the sound of her voice. The next day i called her to make it sure and she said ‘ You know I’d put you in my bed but my sister brought her dog to watch it over and dog can only sleep in my room otherwise it barks around the house.’ REALLY!? So I asked ‘Did you just rejected me for the dog??’ She said ‘no, come on…’I did not like the dog because it wasnt civilized – it was always barking and jumping when people come and i just hate it. She knew it. She threated that dog like a person – like a human being.. and it was more important then me. But thats normal if you asked her. Dog is like a baby to her, and its not even hers. When I called her out on her BS later, she said she did not want to stand between ME and her sister’s dog. Really? so me and the dog are about the same level?? No, the dog was actually more important. And mind you, that was after 6 weeks of ZERO sex and after I just made some effort for anniversary! I was so angry at her that i was punching the door after phone call ended. She rejected me twice after 6 weeks without sex and for what? To have a drink with a friend and for the dog. To feel like an even bigger fool, she ended conversation with the question if im gonna drop by to se her anyway. I said i ll see. After couple of hours i texted her – im going to have a beer with my friends, when you realize that you rather have a bf in your bed then a dog let me know… Beta mangina in me called her the next day… im still ashamed. Should have ended it right there.
All I can say is this – when woman knows she is in charge, has power over you, she will f~~~ you up. Not because you deserve it, but because she can! And in her mind it is justified because you are a weak man. Good man = weak man with no other options who treats her right and puts her first in many cases. MISTAKE! And a weak man deserves it!
Spoken the truth there
Enlightenment starts with awareness and now your aware what they’re true and vicious nature is, you can prevent yourself from further blunders.
Only you can give away your power, remember that
Don't let defeat, defeat you; Let defeat be your greatest teacher.
You dump her, and she will hound you to the ends of the earth.
She dumps you, and peace and quiet prevail. Solitude can be bliss.That there is some biblical wisdom, my friend. I always tried to make them think they broke up with me. If I had broken up with them (or if they had figured out that I did) they would still be telling the world what an asshole I am.
She: (In the middle of an emotion geyser) “If you’re not ready to take this relationship seriously, maybe we should just stop seeing each other!”
Me: (She said the magic words!) “I guess you’re right. I realize now that you need to get on with your life, and it wouldn’t be fair for me to hold you back. It’ll be tough, but I hope we can still be friends. I’ll drop off the clothes and s~~~ you’ve been secretly stashing in my place on my way to the drag races tomorrow.
Heck, some of them would even look me up much later for some no-pressure fooling around."I am is reportedly the shortest sentence in the English language. Could it be that I do is the longest sentence?" - George Carlin
More more more more Pleaserino More!!!!
Society live's as if we have reached the pinnacle of human potential. Technological Advancement and Innovation, intellectualism, critical thinking is substituted for useless innovations, nasty narcissistic games, tyrannical laws that destroy the very foundation of family, and the world as we know it.
Been there done that. A lot of women like to weigh their emotions on Men. Lover or not.
What people call "love" is just a chemical reaction that compels animals to breed. It hits hard, then it slowly fades, leaving you stranded in a failing marriage. Your parents are gonna do it. Break the cycle. Rise above. Focus on science.
Get a couple other girl friends and a good job and she’ll be BEGGING at your feet. But F~~~ HER anyways. You’re selling yourself short dude. You are KING so start acting like it.
Bitches ain’t s~~~. They will only DRAIN you. YOU will add quality to life and give people strength. Women only take.
Seems to me sex can mean absolutely nothing to a woman, mostly a Tool of manipulation / control. She wants to keep us gagging for it, giving her the power. Some of them will go screw your Friends at the drop of a Hat just to p~~~ you off, perhaps if she’s p~~~ed off with you, but wants to keep you jumping through Hoops for it. Or if she wants to get pregnant. Respect seems fairly important, if she gets the impression she can walk all over you, she will. Need to set boundaries & stick by them.
They are worthless bots without a soul designed to make our lives harder
You dump her, and she will hound you to the ends of the earth.
She dumps you, and peace and quiet prevail. Solitude can be bliss.That there is some biblical wisdom, my friend. I always tried to make them think they broke up with me. If I had broken up with them (or if they had figured out that I did) they would still be telling the world what an asshole I am.
She: (In the middle of an emotion geyser) “If you’re not ready to take this relationship seriously, maybe we should just stop seeing each other!”
Me: (She said the magic words!) “I guess you’re right. I realize now that you need to get on with your life, and it wouldn’t be fair for me to hold you back. It’ll be tough, but I hope we can still be friends. I’ll drop off the clothes and s~~~ you’ve been secretly stashing in my place on my way to the drag races tomorrow.
Heck, some of them would even look me up much later for some no-pressure fooling around.That is pure GOLD.
This is exactly the way I always separated my bitchy gold diggers…
Take the shame on your side, so she does not get mad and cause any further damage.
And this way she does not cling to you, like the borderlines mostly do…
Very smart. And it works.
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I did not like the dog because it wasnt civilized – it was always barking and jumping when people come and i just hate it. She knew it. She threated that dog like a person – like a human being.. and it was more important then me. But thats normal if you asked her. Dog is like a baby to her, and its not even hers. When I called her out on her BS later, she said she did not want to stand between ME and her sister’s dog. Really? so me and the dog are about the same level?? No, the dog was actually more important. And mind you, that was after 6 weeks of ZERO sex and after I just made some effort for anniversary! I was so angry at her that i was punching the door after phone call ended. She rejected me twice after 6 weeks without sex and for what? To have a drink with a friend and for the dog. To feel like an even bigger fool, she ended conversation with the question if im gonna drop by to se her anyway. I said i ll see. After couple of hours i texted her – im going to have a beer with my friends, when you realize that you rather have a bf in your bed then a dog let me know…
I have been there. A woman having her dog in the bedroom all the time. He was watching us f~~~. I was always afraid of the beast going nuts and biting my dick off.
That’s how a woman turns a man into a “bad lover”. That was in 2004, today the last Red Pill has been resorbed so I wouldn’t even go to bed with her at all.
No, if she has a dog, then she “is taken”. Meaning she “has” a boyfriend. I wouldn’t even bother inviting or dating her. (Same goes of cat stink in her place.)
Her dog is almost always “her partner” and you are only her replaceable resource.
Most dog owner women will also sleep with “her partner” and smell like him…The biggest red flag is when she shows her dog more affection than you. She kisses and cuddles the dog while treating you bitchy and cold.
RUN!
Tell her up front, shake and rattle the car keys and drive off.
Use stated “exit line”: I don’t want to interfere with your beautiful relationship any longer… The two of you are meant for each other… Everyone can see that… Your dog gets more love then your boyfriend… I don’t want dog worms (parasites) from your kisses… Yugh.
And get out.
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