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    Anonymous
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    Hello Folks,

    I have been kinda half awake my whole life, which means I have for the most part not associated with ‘complete’ t~~~s. Therefor I have managed to avoid getting one large scale pivotal “I got f~~~ed over big time and woke up” story.

    As a result my introduction is a little broken ramble. Please bare with me.

    In my first year of school I noticed that boys got told off more than girls for the same things. In that year, our classroom shared a cloakroom and toilets with another classroom. One day the girls toilet had been flooded and teacher from the other class came into our room to to ask what boys had been in the girls toilet. Even at the age of four I worked out that we were to be considered second class citizens. I did not know then that it went beyond school.

    Raised by a mother who has been accused of being a male chauvinist. If asked she will tell you that being a mother is a full time carrier and surprise surprise she is still married my father.
    With this old fashioned upbringing I tended to avoid ‘new fashion’ women so only had to put up with bitches rather than c~~~s.
    Being a woman she ended up proving to be somewhat c~~~ like using female tactics, but this was just ‘s~~~ family’ stuff not political feminist s~~~.

    Every woman I have been with has cheated at some point (I certain the wife did in the early days) but hey that’s what they do and if we are all honest most of us have done so a little in the past
    Was with a woman for years before getting engaged and as luck would have it caught her cheating just before the wedding rather than just after so lucked out on not getting divorce raped. Traumatic and costly but not financially crippling and mercifully no kids. But only scared me off marriage for a few years.
    Also having been on the receiving end I will never mess with another mans woman again a feel bad for the times had done so in my younger days.

    Did the single ish thing for a while but because I was never conditioned to put up high levels of bitches bulls~~~ did not get caught up with a long term c~~~.

    Only got married after I was sure we understood we are going to be having a marriage not just a wedding day.
    After finding MGTOW I have become more “selfish” with how I conduct most aspects of my life and if anything I have found we are both more settled as a result (early days yet).
    One thing I have done recently is make it clear (and she knows me well enough to know I mean it) if we ever get divorced, I will see us both penniless before I let her f~~~ me over, so she best play it fair. Thanks to MGTOW for the increased size of my b~~~~.

    As said I have always thought society was a bit off, school then the workplace and by golly gosh the f~~~ing news, but figured it was just me and the small number of similar minded folk I know. Only recently realised otherwise when I read Atlas Shrugged. That lead me to Dr Helen Smiths book “Men on strike” then reading her column on PJ Media she did a positive article on MGTOW and here I am.

    To quote another member “I come here for my daily dose of red pill”
    I am p~~~ed off but not too damaged personally having been half awake.
    I am angry with all this s~~~,
    -Seeing where the wind is blowing
    -special treatment for women in the workplace
    -bitches tactics, either at your throat attacking or laying victim at your feet
    -witnessing too many blokes getting destroys by cheating c~~~s who have been advised the best way to f~~~ him over in a divorce.

    As I warned, a bit of a ramble and none of the texty speak the kids are doing these days so thanks for reading. There are lots more little details and anecdotes I could have put here to flesh out my whys and why nots but f~~~ it I’m not some bitch so it turns out its not all me me me and even I got bored with my s~~~.

    So Hi and thanks for having me.

    #462542
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    It'sallbs
    It’sallbs
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    School and the education system have a lot to answer for.

    http://www.leavemeansleave.eu

    #462545
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    Ogre
    Ogre
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    Welcome you don’t have to get blindsided and run through the wringer to see that being intermingled financially and legally with another person doesn’t provide much benefit and carries potentially great cost.

    Just remember that anything she acknowledged in calm times will be null and void when she’s listening to the hive and bringing the full weight of the family court to bear against you. It helps that you know you could start over from scratch and she will too. The problem is that she’ll see the damage she does to you as winning if the time comes.

    I failed to realize in my youth that I was the prize. I was going to work. I was going to earn. Little did I realize that due to feminism, that no longer meant I had to share. Road soon, Desert after.

    #462550
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    Anonymous
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    Just remember that anything she acknowledged in calm times will be null and void when she’s listening to the hive and bringing the full weight of the family court to bear against you. It helps that you know you could start over from scratch and she will too. The problem is that she’ll see the damage she does to you as winning if the time comes.

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    Cheers Ogre,

    I’m under no illusion on that one but Being in the UK the system is not anywhere as bad as the US. A willingness to fight and the mutually assured destruction of solicitors getting rich is the hope to keep it civil. Also plan A is to live happily ever after an all that and she does stand her round financially.

    #462593
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    Anonymous
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    After finding MGTOW I have become more “selfish” with how I conduct most aspects of my life and if anything I have found we are both more settled as a result (early days yet).

    It must suck to have to keep taming a woman all your life, like holding a magnet in place in a room full of spinning magnets! That alone is my definition of slavery, no woman, no distractions, no problems, and more freedom than any man around you for a mile (a mile cause that’s where my brother lives, he’s MGTOW too), other places I’m sure it’s hundreds of miles like Sweedistan.

    Another thing, Nosvic, putting happily and marriage in the same sentience around here should have gotten your ass beat to a pulp from hundreds of dudes coming out of the woodwork.

    Congratulations, that’s a first, only a pretty slick dude could pull that one off!

    Consider yourself busted.

    Welcome to MGTOW!

    #462594
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    K
    Hitman
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    welcome.
    i understand the mutually assured destruction(M.A.D.)..
    it might work,
    or you will be destroyed.
    when a marriage has the same rules as a military stand-off,
    you have to be very careful.
    i only wish you good luck,
    and hope you can be happy in this situation.
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    tough to be married.
    it just is.
    i will never do that again !
    but your’e in it,
    and we are here for you.

    #462649
    Rhino
    Rhino
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    It is never to late to be awake even while married you are now more able to defend yourself against the assault she will mount as the years go by. Let her know it is unacceptable to get fat an ugly and if she does so you will have other options. You have to take the bull by the horns and reign in her nature or she will step all over you.

    Eventually it may go to s~~~ depending on what she does but at least you can minimize the damage. If she ever threatens you leave and never look back.

    #462719

    Anonymous
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    Welcome, Brother.

    Yeah. A little bit harder for you because you’re in it. But don’t worry. You’re a man and you have your own truth about things. So make sure everything in the house is in your term. Enjoy and stay.

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    Anonymous
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    MHTOW has become my safety net. I now have a plan B. I have given myself permission to go solo if plan A goes south.

    My main worry is we went of birth control long before my full wake up. A split becomes a s~~~storm with kids involved and hitting the road ‘Reacher’ style or just moving away is knackered by the need to hand round for the every other weekend access.

    Also the idea of being a son into this world scare the s~~~ out of me. Raising a daughter not to be a c~~~ would put her on the back foot. So lose lose lose.
    Also as you can imagine getting back on the pill will cause all manor of grief. But then putting life on hold because c~~~s are calling the shots in society and f~~~ing it up, goes against my newish ‘do what I want’ attitude.

    First world problems and all that… maybe I should “man up”

    Either way MGTOW visits do be “me time” so once again thanks for being and for having me.

    #463137
    The Manipulated Man
    The Manipulated Man
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    Hello Nosvic,

    When you are ready to get off of the plantation, we are here for you.

    There are a lot of MGTOWs, who have found their way to freedom, many from the UK.

    Some are still married too, but planning their escape.

    On the MGTOW road up until you are divorced, you are in a position to examine a Woman’s methods of manipulation and your own reactions in real time.

    Perhaps you can post field reports in the Forums as you gain your freedom?

    The following are some YouTube posts of interest to assist with your research from behind enemy lines.

    Turd flinging monkey:

    The fable of the frog and the scorpion:

    Male vs. female brain development and evolution. The title of video is “She will never love you:”

    Feminism LOL:
    The speaker is an attorney who uses a recording of the techniques of a low class woman caught in the act of committing a crime. Her crude use of emotional hijacking and mind control of her man is a fine example. The speaker’s evaluation of the manipulation techniques used is excellent. The title of the video is “Exposing how women manipulate men:”

    What happens when a man finally comprehends the cold and calculating thoughts that are going through a woman's mind, while her eyes are brimming with tears?

    #463140
    MACHO
    MACHO
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    Welcome Nosvic, looking forward to reading your postings

    You must own a better Crystal ball than I
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    Anonymous
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    I subscribed to feminism LOL

    #463244
    Atton
    Atton
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    School and the education system have a lot to answer for.

    They have little to do with challenging or understanding concepts and more about regurgitation.

    A MGTOW is a man who is not a woman's bitch!

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