Hi, everyone.

[IronVParticipant 77]

I am an angry young man, I don’t hide that. Why? Because I just had enough with women, I admit that I’ve failed coping with them and their stupid, unrealistic always changing “expectations” and egocentricity. At one point I felt really disappointed and even disgusted by their agressive, hypocritical and sluttish behaviour and all happened, they’ve lost me, no matter that they don’t care. Don’t understand me wrong, I don’t say I’m perfect, but I have the courage to admit it and to put some effort to change myself and I haven’t seen that in any girl. Without exception.

Now about me. I’m 22 years old man from Sofia, Bulgaria, good looking, intelligent and polite (according to people who know me). I study and work since I’m 17. Live alone since I graduated from high-school. I’m a Bulgarian philology student. Everything I have is due to my own efforts. Basically I cope well in life for now. But… I failed with women. I’ve had one relationship with girl in my life and that was long ago, in my teen years. She cheated on me and left me for the other. Nothing unusual. After that I really tried to find another girl, a girl that won’t be like that and guess what, after almost five f~~~ing years I realized that this is a futile exercise. They are almost all the same and I’ve seen a lot, because I’m always surrounded by females at the university and at my work place (I work in a big night club). Although these are very different social environments the female behaviour is very much alike. At one point I understood that I must stop expecting anything; and this I did.

Of course there is still sexual desire, so I visit prostitutes now. Simple and logical solution to the problem. Solution that I’ve been delaying for years.

The sad thing for me is that I feel like the only sincere relations between man and woman left, are those between a ‘john’ and a prostitute. I truly wish I’m wrong, but I just don’t feel it that way. Please, argue with me on this one!

Otherwise I’m trying to cope with my education, work-out, travel around from time-to-time, having good time with friends, reading books, writing etc. doing my stuff.

I’m glad that there are other men that see women the way I do. Almost everyone I’ve talked about my problem trusting women, having normal sincere relations with them, their hipocrisy, their f~~~ed up view on men, egocentricity, stupidity and moral bankruptcy have said to me: “Dude, you are to harsh on them, they are not all like that”.  Yeah… maybe, in another physical realm.

Thank you for the spared time and cheers!

[Anonymous 0]

Hi IronV,

welcome to the best place for men in this world.

It is your right being angry. It tells you that you are alive HAH!!!, but this is a place where you can calm down, relax and forget and get rid of all the crap which keeps you in chains. Put your energy into things supporting you, only YOU.

IronV wrote:

Dude, you are to harsh on them, they are not all like that”.

And this is the first crap to dump.

Once again, welcome.

[DilbertParticipant 281]

Welcome to MGTOW!  You are among brothers who have experienced and understand your struggles.  You are not crazy and here in these forums you will find more information that will help you on your journey.  And men to encourage you on your way.

And relax!  And enjoy life.  Think of all you have to be thankful for.  Put away the past, learn from it as you have, and see the many years you have to develop yourself and achieve your dreams.  Go for it!

It is for very good reasons the Devil chose to tempt Eve not Adam...

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Don’t feel bad I’m 46 and still can’t find a decent woman, and that’s only for relationship I never wanted to marry since 1986. Welcome home because this is your virtual home where you can express your thoughts and blow off steam without being told to man up and crap.

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[Anonymous 0]

Hi C.C.,

I am 47 now.

Crazy Canuck wrote:

I never wanted to marry since 1986

exactly the same here, pal…we must be soulmate…hehe.

[Crazy CanuckMember 4215]

Anonymous wrote:

Hi C.C.,

I am 47 now.

CrazyCanuck wrote:

I never wanted to marry since 1986

exactly the same here, pal…we must be soulmate…hehe.

 

I was a still a purple pill man closer to bluepill until 2002.

Wow that’s freaky! LOL

"If pussy was a stock it would be plummeting right now because you've flooded the market with it. You're giving it away too easy." - Dave Chapelle

[FrankyParticipant 2338]

IronV wrote:

from Sofia, Bulgaria,

WHAT??!I’M FROM SOFIA TOO!HOLLYS~~~ATGAS…ahem i mean i didn’t believe there are other mgtows in my own city, feel free to come hang out with us sometime!

[MOWsince95Participant 1446]

Welcome IronV.

Hey man, one thing.  You do NOT fail with women.  Women fail with you.  Remember that.  They fail with you because in their minds the only way they win is by abusing the s~~~ out of you and making your life miserable, and so by sidestepping them they have no chance at success.

As for prostitutes, the greatest thing about them is it is an honest transaction.  No games, just fixed expectations and delivery.  Like getting a hamburger at a Burger King – it may not be the best burger in the world, but it’s good enough, you know what you are getting, and you don’t have to wait long to get it.

Your friends with the braindead NAWALT mentality … well NAWALT is actually true, but “Not All” literally means there is maybe 1 woman per major city who is not like that.  The other 1 million women are.  So yeah, 99.9999%ofWALT.  Maybe that will make your friends feel like they’ve won.  Their odds of landing that chick are actually worse than their odds of getting a Royal Flush in poker.

If you are MGTOW when you are young you have no heart.
If you're not MGTOW when you are 20 you have no brain.

[FreeGhostSpectator 318]

You are doing well man . Live for yourself and your friends if they are cool.

[treelville..miamiParticipant 893]

Iron V, welcome. Anger is part of going your own way, after a spell it will transcend into a liberating indifference, during that time educate yourself through the archives it will help speed up the process. I must admit I’m still very much angry, in fact we probably all are but learning to manage our emotions is quite a skill. Remember that self improvement is making the most of ourselves. Welcome bro.

"The wounds of honor are self inflicted"

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