Hey Guys

[SturbexParticipant 3]

Well I’m here because I was told by a friend about MGTOW and that he could totally see me doing it, which I can understand due to my introversion and general disliking towards society.

As I was looking at some of the posts in this section, I noticed a comment about “being alone” and how great it was, which I totally get, I LOVE being alone and people really don’t understand that, especially women. My complete outlook on the “typical life” of someone my age (26) is so different to everyone else’s, I just don’t understand the fascination of being drunk 3 or 4 nights a week. Originally my idea was to find a girl who didn’t have that lifestyle, now I simply don’t care and would rather be completely single, live on my own and not be bothered by anyone but a few friends.

So I’m here to learn about MGTOW, take advice and see where it takes me (probably somewhere awesome)

[ElamshinParticipant 30]

Welcome fellow introvert! As it happens, we had a discussion about being comfortable within your own skin and the effect of personality in GYOW forums as well. Lots of INTJ personalities among MGTOWs.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

I LOVE being alone and people really don’t understand that, especially women

Here’s a thought that should blow your hair right back.

They don’t understand it……because they don’t like themselves.

( How do you like the taste of that one? )

Some of the most self-loathing people I know are women! They are the sex that hates themselves so much they buy fake body parts, cover up their appearance, work their asses off to misrepresent themselves, change their faces ( surgically) color they hair radically different colors, stick a finger down their throat to try and lose weight. This kind of creature is gonna HATE being alone just by default!

And the first thing they are going to do, is project that on to YOU.
• “You’re a loser who can’t get laid”
• “You probably don’t even have a girlfriend”
• “That’s why you’re probably gonna die alone.”

Those words have a whole new meaning now. Women will tell you that s~~~ because they don’t like themselves Nothing is more devastating to them than being alone or ignored. They can’t take it. They flip out. But a man THRIVES in this environment.

As soon as I figured this out, ho boy, being “alone” ranks right up there as one of the best places to be. Women can’t even wrap their heads around what I just said. Even when you’re with a woman and you don’t want her there for a few hours, if you tell her this, it is unfathomable to her. She doesn’t get it. Tell a woman to just “go away”, and she will look at you like you’re an alien. And, don’t forget Robbin Williams who said “I used to think being alone is the worst thing in the world. It’s not. The worst thing is being surrounded by people who make you FEEL alone.” Women will work REALLY hard to make you feel that way — JUST because they can’t stand to be alone.

It takes a while for that to sink in.
But when it does, they can’t touch you anymore.

It isn’t even really abut belong “alone”, because:

It is easy in the world to live after the world’s opinion. It is easy in solitude to live after our own. But the great man is he who in the midst of the crowd keeps with perfect sweetness the independence of solitude.
– Ralph Waldo Emerson
(/mgtow-is-men-going-the-right-way/)

Welcome Sturbex. Nice Avatar. It’s gotta vintage look a century old. Are you visiting from the early 1900s?
You could pass for Ryan Gosling.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[SturbexParticipant 3]

Thank you for the welcoming!

I completely agree on the statement about women hating themselves and how they cover themselves with make up and fake body parts, which I find rather disgusting. Nothing would be more disappointing than going out clubbing, picking up a girl because she’s “hot” and hoping to get a relationship out of it, then realising once the added body parts come off she’s not actually that attractive. But I’ve always said, if you’re picking girls up at a club in hopes of a relationship, it’s not going to work.

But it’s not even about women anymore, I can see through their bulls~~~ a mile off and I’ve said to some of them before “How can you be truly happy, if you can’t stand your own company?” I’m just more annoyed with society telling me how to live my life and how I should spend my money and tv adverts telling me which yoghurt to buy. I’m slowly drifting away from all this crap and I hope within a few years I can let go of the things that are holding me back.

[KeymasterKeymaster]

But it’s not even about women anymore, I can see through their bulls~~~ a mile off and I’ve said to some of them before “How can you be truly happy, if you can’t stand your own company?”

I could tell you already arrived at that place, but we also owe it to the lurkers (other readers who don’t get around to posting) to explain what we mean. That’s why I often respond with more than just a nod and a thumbs up.

You and I know what “How can you be truly happy, if you can’t stand your own company?” means…. but the majority of the world is utterly blind to this. You said it yourself: “I LOVE being alone and people really don’t understand that, especially women”. So I wrote it out, even though you knew at already. (It also helps me with articulating it and incorporating it into an article or video on the topic.)

So if my response came off as monologuing , you know why.

I’m just more annoyed with society telling me how to live my life and how I should spend my money and tv adverts telling me which yoghurt to buy. I’m slowly drifting away from all this crap and I hope within a few years I can let go of the things that are holding me back.

A nod and a thumbs up. Cheers! And enjoy your stay.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

[SturbexParticipant 3]

I very much enjoyed reading your reply, the more detail the better.

When I said that it’s not even about women, that was me just saying that women aren’t the only reason why I’m here.

But thank you, I look forward to my stay! 🙂

[KeymasterKeymaster]

And PS! You are “MGHOW of the day” on our homepage! Hope to hear more from you.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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