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[JadedParticipant 27]

<cite>@mgtow.com said:</cite>
And it says something when a guy can be 20 years older and remember the EXACT specifics of something as stupid as a school dance or one girl he liked who stepped on him when he was 12. He can recall his feelings exactly. But when you run into the same girls later in life, they are totally BLANK about it. Complete amnesia.

Wow, this can not be more accurate. I remember like it was yesterday when I gathered all the courage I had to ask this girl to dance at our 8th grade school dance, and she told me she was sick and had to go to the bathroom, as she practically ran out of the room with her friends. I knew it was BS, and 2 minutes later she was back having a grand ole time. It crushed me and killed my confidence. Then years later, when we were both living in the city, around 22 years old, she was all over me one night. Complimenting me, telling me how great I was etc … And I told her the story of how she crushed me when I just asked her to dance with me one time. I wasn’t asking her to marry me. I was asking her to do the lame, fully arms extended, 12 year old dance. And she had absolutely no recollection of this, at all! A defining moment in my life, that has stuck with me forever, was absolutely meaningless to her. I had too much self respect to let her BS me, and started to ignore her after this. This made her only like me more, as she followed me into the men’s bathroom later that night! After making out with her a little bit, I just couldn’t stop thinking about 8th grade me, and just stopped and left her alone in the men’s room.

[jambearParticipant 282]

@KeyMaster

@Jaded

I do not think that they forget those things. I believe that they remember them and pretend to forget them when it is convenient to them. Jaded back then you were not good enough for her in her mind, but now years later the situation has changed and now feels you would be a beta provider for her. Woman use selective amnesia so they can write off a man until they have resources to exploit.

[нσтησσвParticipant 830]

@jambear, as @keymaster said, “Men actually learn, adapt and change from it.”

This sort of thing is what i used to struggle with, how women don’t learn from their mistakes.
Is it because they simply forget or is it because they lack logic and avoid taking responsibility at all costs?

Sometimes i wondered if it could be both, but one thing is absolutely certain, they may remember, but they sure as hell don’t learn or even give a s~~~ about it.

My sister recently got into a car accident, she was teaching her boyfriend how to drive – she is the last person anyone should be learning to drive from btw lol. Anywho, she & her boyfriend got t-boned by a soccer mom who quote, “was distracted by her children,” while he was driving. Didn’t even phase her one bit. Scared the hell out of her boyfriend, but not her.
She still drives like a reckless maniac and is usually quiet oblivious to her surroundings when she drives.

Albeit 100 times worse; my car also got totaled, but from the rear end, ended up with permanent damage to my neck, got royally screwed by the insurance companies, and i once woke up with a completely paralyzed hand… for weeks i had nightmares about waking up completely paralyzed.

Now, here is the scary thing, i was driving at 70KM/hr ( speed limit of 80KM/hr ), completely boxed in by the traffic, the person in front of me completely failing with merging and the car to my left letting them in. Then this car comes rushing in at only god knows what speed… I watched through the rear view mirror, unable to do anything to avoid it, cause i was f~~~ing boxed in… and SHE DIDN’T EVEN SEE MY CAR AT ALL! She drove into my car, WHILE ACCELERATING AT FULL BLAST!

So, i sat in my car, said, “F~~~,” thought, “why is my luck always this f~~~ing bad,” said, “F~~~” again, grabbed my phone, and headed out side. I started walking towards her car, which was completely f~~~ed up, and as i did so, i quickly debated in my head if i should check if she is alright, proceeded towards her car, shortly after she got out of the car, and i asked, “are you alright?”
from there, engaged in some useless small talk as to try calm and reassure her as i dial 911.
Police, fire, and ambulance show up.

Then, i went into shock, and you know what did it? The fact that both, Police, Fire, and the paramedics IMMEDIATELY ASSUMED THAT I WAS THE DRIVER OF THE CAR WHO REAR DID THE REAR ENDING JUST CAUSE I WAS A F~~~ING GUY!
Further, more, THEY THOUGHT I WAS THE ONE LYING IN THE POLICE REPORT!

Why? Because the c~~~ wrote that she was driving 80KM/hr… and my car had been TOTALED FROM THE REAR END, BY A FREAKING 2012 KIA OPTIMA! They didn’t even consider that she was lying; they kept trying to get me to admit that my car had been standing still. LIKE WHAT THE F~~~! WHO THE F~~~ PARKS THEIR CAR IN A MERGE LANE AND WHY DOES THAT EVEN MATTER?!

It gets better, this bitch’s, boyfriend or whatever, shows up to pick her up, and they head to her “double date.”
And as she was leaving, she ran back to her car shouting, “WAIT! I need to get my yoga mat.”
You know what is the scary thing?
She never said sorry, not even once.

How selfish do you have to be, to care so more about your $20 yoga mat and making it to your double date, than the person you just permanently injured and the cars you just totaled?
A f~~~ing 35 year old blonde bimbo possibly destroying the life of a f~~~ing 21 year old young adult, and she didn’t even give so much as a sorry.

This feministic society and education system is always screaming, “women are so compassionate and caring”, “women are so kind”, “women have so much more emotion than men…” and so forth… and then to think that they might as well be stone cold murderers is absolutely terrifying.

My Goal: To Leave Society.

[CrocodilemanParticipant 5]

Wow I’m surprised, I didn’t expect for there to be so many stories that were similar to mine. I feel a little at home.

@HotNoob

A lot of what you said is what I actually take as core beliefs and values. I decided that I really don’t care what anybody thought of me for my interests, even if they were “unrealistic” or “nerdy”. I’d just tell them to f~~~ off. And some of your tips I already do. I try to dress nice as much as I can, but college, being well college, I can’t do it all the time. And I told myself a LONGGGGGG time ago that I would not change myself in order for someone to like me. I look for real relationships, instead of a FWB relationship. I’m going to pursuit my dreams even if I’m single, I don’t give a s~~~. Also nice song choice, been a Green day fan since junior high.

@duke

I can’t believe it took this long to realize how much of an idiot I was. Before this girl, I just kept to myself and did what I wanted to do. I never really chased girls, I honestly never gave a s~~~. Most I did was just check out, and after that I didn’t really have any drive to do anything else.

[JollyMisanthropeParticipant 3356]

Wow I’m surprised, I didn’t expect for there to be so many stories that were similar to mine. I feel a little at home.

Just the predictability of female behavior!

The Children of Doom... Doom's Children. They told my lord the way to the Mountain of Power. They told him to throw down his sword and return to the Earth... Ha! Time enough for the Earth in the grave.

[MobycoParticipant 39]

Welcome, in a few years things will change, you’ll be in a posission  to make money and bitches love money. It’s at that point you must be on guard. Guard your seed with your life my young brother! Learn the Tabasco trick and use it every time. Never ever let a woman have access to your gene pool. Don’t sweat it that this girl broke your heart. Go through a few divorces and you’ll know heartbreak. Save yourself the hell I’ve lived. Do yourself the favor of choosing to go your own way. And remember they will come around when you have money, remember that, and guard yourself well.

[CrocodilemanParticipant 5]

UPDATE: Well this girl is thankfully out of my life. I stood up to her when she came running back.

I went home for the weekend to watch my parents house because they were going with my sister to visit colleges. What happened was I was home alone, just me and my pets hanging out and just watching TV. Low and Behold, this girl texts me. The conversation went a little something like this….

Her: Yoooo

Me: No

Her: Alright bye

Her: Like I’m in your college town but whatever

Me: K

Her: F~~~ you I thought we were friends

Me: And I thought you weren’t a bitch

Me: Guess we were both wrong

Her: Haha I am a bitch that you wanted to f~~~, whatever I don’t care

Me: K

Her: lmfao

If she didn’t get the memo that I was p~~~ed at her, she does now. I just hope I never have to see that demon of a woman ever again. Thanks for the advice. It felt so damn good to type that.

[MrDanJD7192Participant 12]

Nice to meet you Crocodileman and welcome! I hear you man when it comes to girls tormenting you in that kind of way. I have a few female friends that have pulled that kind of stuff on me me. I have one friend who I practically knew all of my life and she is a very pretty girl and all that. I knew her since grade school and we never really talked a who lot but we still did and I enjoyed talking to her. High school came around and I hardly talked to her at all till about my junior year she reached out to me talking to me again and it was off and on for the most part. Once she graduated and was done with high school she went to college and she knew I had an xbox 360 so she hit me up one day asking about as she wanted to get one as well so I told her about it and she proceeded to get one and add me on there. I swear I think about almost every night we talked for hours and she really enjoyed talking me so I grew a pair and asked if she wanted to go out on a date sometime and of course I got the same thing about “I’m seeing someone…..” blah blah which of course sucked for me because I loved talking to her. Then it started to get annoying after awhile because she would talk about her boyfriend not giving her the attention she wanted and all of that bulls~~~ and I just got tired of it and said you should of picked me instead of him and she’s like yeah I probably should of and after that I haven’t really talked to her since then so I hear what you’re going through as my situation was kinda similar where she only wanted the attention and that was it and talk about her “sex things” she would attempt to do for her boyfriend and s~~~ like that. It’s very frustrating indeed but now that I’m done with the games so when I see that s~~~ start to happen I just end it there.

I have a girl at work starting to do the same s~~~ almost and I pretty much told her I don’t do games because if I get played, you’ll get played even worst as I don’t lose games. So she pretty much got the message there and hasn’t talked to me since then because I’m done with that bulls~~~.  It’s like what everyone says on here women lead you on and on till they’re done with you and throw you away like a used tampon so why even get involved with them in the first place?

Also the whole sex thing, I’m 22 years old and I never had sex a day in my life till I finally had my first relationship that I did a post on if you want to know that whole big waste of time went hahaha. I had sex with her but I wouldn’t even really count it as sex since it lasted like 5 mins but it was my first time ever so I didn’t “pace” myself but there is so many risks involved with it and plus for some reason after I did with my ex there she calls me up crying and saying how it “took a lot for me to do that and if you don’t like me anymore then we shouldn’t see each other.” I’ m sitting there like what the f~~~???? how did I go from having “fun” to this s~~~??? so maybe it was just that my ex was bat s~~~ cray but if anybody else experienced that kind of s~~~ please let me know so I know I’m not crazy or that is out of the ordinary hahaha.

Anyways Crocodileman, keep what you’re doing and if a don’t even bother with relationships as they’re more trouble then they’re worth. It’s a lot of bulls~~~ you have to put with and spend a lot of money just to get some of that “golden vagina” and at this day and age the cost/benefits are terrible for guys in relationships. Welcome again and good luck in your endeavors

Best Regards!

– Dan

 

[KeymasterKeymaster]

@crocodileman

That is a croc of EXCELLENT. Let’s translate “whatever I don’t care” and “LMFAO” from woman-speak into Manglish:

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See how fuming mad she is at the end? While SMILING? That’s what your text message did to her. Nicely done. She said “whatever” like it didn’t matter THREE TIMES and clearly it does matter. She may have typed “whatever”, but she’s a steaming pile of p~~~ed and crazy on the other end.

SO confident. “There’s no way Im not gonna get it”.
To be rejected is simply UNFATHOMABLE to her. She absolutely refuses to accept it.

Don’t try to f~~~ her and that’s how women react.
“LMFAO” is a put on like lipstick and mascara.

If you keep doing what you've always done... you're gonna keep getting what you always got.

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