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  • #97182
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    Motiv
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    Hey all.

    Just a Hello from a new waker,

    Im still married but things went wrong after having a child,I started having an opinion about the up bringing,

    “I am an annoying over opinionated ass hole” haha..

    Im turning s~~~ around and staying at home until everything is sorted out to my liking before I leave..I want out but am I hell just walking away with nothing and leaving everything with her,including my kid, Im not willing to give her the power to order me out the home, I will leave when im ready to take on my new found freedom in my new red pill life.

    Great to be here

    Thanks for reading.

    Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

    #97185
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    ILiveAgain
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    Welcome and if you haven’t already done so …. go look over the archive.

    #97188
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    Motiv
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    Thank you for the welcome, I spent a few days reading and watching, The archive is great.

    Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

    #97193
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    ILiveAgain
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    There are a few guys here still married and doing as you are …. making exit plans.

    I thought I was done for when my ex had an affair …. but the thought of still being chained up …. pales my situation to nothing.

    #97205
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    RoyDal
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    Welcome! I wish you the best with your distressing situation.

    Society asks MGTOWs: Why are you not making more tax-slaves?

    #97675
    Motiv
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    Yes, almost 30 years. Typical hitting the wall. I am buying a rental house as my future mgtow pad. While I have a prenupt, the courts scare me. I do still like the wife as a person. But she cannot seriously think a man in a ten year sexless relationship will stick around. I have a mistress and she turns a blind eye as she knows I would walk out if pressed on it. The kid is entering college, so I will just work on my ventures while I let the wife kill debts with me, while hosing the mistress a few times a year. I have always been a player….so I am not pure MGTOW but not a Pua. Just in transition mode for a few years. Middle age is setting in…as I am tired of everyones s~~~ and like to be alone. The years ahead I will head into my bear cave and code on a web project for a few years, only coming out to work and visit the strip joint. The goal is full self employment and keep blasting at real estate. I will work my ass off the next five years… then see where I am at. The mistress is VERY pretty but comes with a f~~~ed up kid and a 20 something dolt from another sperm spin the wheel dad. But she does not give head. Hmmmm? The prior c~~~ rider was a 40 gallon sperm milking machine, but bratty. Too young. The next time you see a drunken chick having fun at a bar…keep in mind some guy is going to f~~~ her and run and we all get to pay for it via feminist socialism and taxes. So, married for decades, do not give a rats ass and planning my future MGTOW life. Killing all debts is key. Once done I can live very cheap. Women cannot do that with kids.

     

    This looks to much like a good list to not give my version along side so here I go.

    7 year cycle (second time round for me duh).

    shes is hitting the wall 38.

    Yes im looking for a pad and cant buy yet,she made bloody sure I had nothing, most likely to keep me weak in that way.

    Courts dont scare me in the UK I will work it to my benefit (male rights for those that demand it).

    I have disliked her for over 2 years (It grows every day s~~~ tests are still fun now i understand whats taking place).

    She cant expect 3 years of a sexless relationship to last, It just wasnt worth the BS and effort of earning vagina tokens.

    She knows nothing of my mistresses but did start asking after I gave up on her ‘earn it’ BS.

    She has choir of 2 teens that are not mine but I took on the role of supporter, I am free of debt so far. mistress hosting when it suits me.

    Never been a player, I see myself as a MGTOW in the mind 100%, in the living body less than 50% but it grows every day.

    Transition mode has been a few years already, finding Thinking-Ape and alike has just confirmed my way of understanding women as being right and not just me being a misfit which is how I was made to feel.

    Im not tired of s~~~ I just see it for what it is, I do enjoy alone time its so bloody underrated.

    Allways had a man cave as I enjoy my own company, coding is hard work but its cash to store for when the SHTF, Im out as much as I can possibly get out, I enjoy the outdoors and she hates it ‘bonus’

    Self employment is how I earn, free lance gives me more control over my own money and time.

    If I did work my ass off it would be because I have booked a break and or want/need something to improve ‘my life’.

    The mistress is just a dumping ground for me but single.

    N/A haha

    Every single hot chick I see drunk at the bar I think about the last chap that is free of her bulls~~~

    Second marriage only ever had 2 years living on my own free of women, it took way to long to listen to my own critical thinking, Im now no longer a slave to the vagina reward system of abuse = MGTOW in progress.

    Im debt Free due to giving her the power to pay it all.

    Once I have the right place and separation rules set and signed I can live free of womens s~~~..

    Thanks for that STEALTHY that was fun to follow up on and hope you didnt mind me using it as a template.

    (All the ‘shes’ refers to ‘the wife’)

     

     

     

     

     

    Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

    #97684
    Motiv
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    Welcome! I wish you the best with your distressing situation.

    Thank you RoyDal

    Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

    #97693
    Motiv
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    I want to say a Big Thank You to everyone involved in making and running this site along with all the members..This is a much needed area for men to come together and a God send for me.

    Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

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    Welcome Motiv, When you’re dragging anchor along the bottom you’re going to stir up allot of silt, once you cut your chain, like a tall ship, your speeds will increase by several knots in all conditions with only half the effort, and torn sails will be a thing of the past! Welcome the the anchor free vessel of MGTOW!

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    Gunslinger
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    Welcome to the league…I myself am still married and have put my exit plan in full force. Keep it up, it’ll all work out. And if you start to take a few steps backwards, just come here for some more red pills. Good luck and keep us posted.

    #98447
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    Motiv
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    Thanks Guys I Really appreciate the welcome and support..Still checking out the archives and all the paths of interest they open for me.

    Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

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    EscapedMentalPatient
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    Can’t believe I missed your introduction weeks back, brother.

    I’ve been enjoying your posts, and I hope you are benefiting from the wealth of knowledge at this site.

    There are some truly remarkable men here. Their stories, strategies and tactical prowess have helped me immensely since joining up back in January, and this continues on a daily basis.

    The archives and daily postings here can really be a lifeline for a married man who is planning their exit.

    Im turning s~~~ around and staying at home until everything is sorted out to my liking before I leave..I want out but am I hell just walking away with nothing and leaving everything with her,including my kid, Im not willing to give her the power to order me out the home, I will leave when im ready to take on my new found freedom in my new red pill life.

    This is excellent thinking. Patience and being stalwart to one’s future and destiny are paramount when leaving a marriage, especially in your case where a child is involved, Sir Knight.

    As satisfying as it can be to pack a bag, get in a car, and f~~~ off into the sunset in pursuit of one’s personal freedom and salvation, it can certainly be more complex than that, as we all know. It’s great that you are making this exit a reality through planning and research.

    I really wish you luck in the beginning of this challenging voyage.

    While you’ve boarded the ship to the new world, it’s still tied at the dock, right where it should be. Until you can fully load and stock her with the provisions you’ll need in the tempestuous departure ahead, that ship might feel a bit leaky.

    MGTOW.com and it’s philosophies can and will be the barrel of tar and pitch which you’ll need to seal these discontinuities prior to your departure.

    But once you set sail brother, and you leave that decrepit and dying harbour?

    Like Giovanni Caboto, you’ll sail into an unknown, but it will be a great unknown. (minus the Indians on the shore trying to f~~~ you up and send you home). Who knows, maybe you’ll just need guns, liquor, rats and pestilence; it seemed to work for our forefathers hahahahaha.

    Just kidding, and all kidding aside, there are some married men on this site who are also planning their exit, and some of them have great advice and practices.

    You are amongst brothers here, and we all wish for you to realize your freedom sir.

    Welcome to the Keep.

    #108224
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    Thank you EMP very much appreciate your welcome, everyone here has been very supportive and the info in the archives are life saving for my recoverer,
    Ive always been red pill deep down just went a bit nawalt for to long, Got my own place sorted and plans are fully under way now for a womens s~~~ free life…..Not that im going to be a farmer but..

    Cool story babe now go make me a sandwich

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